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I had it drilled into me that because I'd never felt comfortable being a boy or a man and I felt like my body was wrong (sex characteristics, shape of my body and face, always had a lot of sadness over being unable to get pregnant.) that I must be a trans woman. I still have all those feelings but I don't particularly want to be a woman. I just want to be comfortable. Getting that way now even if there's still a bunch of stuff I can never change at least I can stop feeling like I have to conform to some specific identity.

Garioshi posted...

Good on you for figuring that out and I hope you're treated well.

Thanks :)

Medussa posted...

I'm 99% sure i'm "classically trans", but i have some major swings in how dysphoric i feel, so i'm not completely ruling out the possibility of some sort of fluidity.

That sounds sensible, I guess things can change. I know my partner lived as a man for almost a decade, now they identify as genderfluid.