Current Events > Anyone feel like Al Bundy where your woman wants it more than you do?

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My fiance wants sex alot more than me, and it's making my sex drive even lower. It's actually becoming a problem tbh.
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I'll bang her for you

Milkman5 posted...

I'll bang her for you

No
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Do you sit around the couch with your hand in your pants, drinking beer?
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Kisai posted...

Do you sit around the couch with your hand in your pants, drinking beer?

Not really, I don't like beer and I never really understood why he just sticks his hand in his pants like that tbh.
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I have **Tos Trigger Word** Delayed Ejaculation, so I know the trouble. Not like any women shows interest in me at all anyways, so it's not a big deal because I'm not having sex anyways.
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I'm not in a relationship, so no.
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Spooking posted...

The problem with Peggy is that I don't think they intended for her to be hot, they intended for her to be a nagging, fat housewife that the husband no longer wants to deal with. The casting was wrong - at least for the looks part - for Peggy. As Katy Sagal is hot.

Always lol when everybody think peggy is hot and Al whopped their ass.
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It's not that Al didn't want it, he just didn't want it from Peg.
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Spooking posted...

Peggy

my first boner

mustachedmystic posted...

It's not that Al didn't want it, he just didn't want it from Peg.

This. Al was always perving on younger mid-life crisis dating material.
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l-8hl0KZQJw

Nope
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Spooking posted...

The problem with Peggy is that I don't think they intended for her to be hot, they intended for her to be a nagging, fat housewife that the husband no longer wants to deal with. The casting was wrong - at least for the looks part - for Peggy. As Katy Sagal is hot.

Not entirely true. She's hot, but Al's been with her so long he doesn't care. Think about how many pictures on your walls that you walk past without noticing anymore. It's like that. Plus, there was the episode where she bought lingere and Al still didn't care, then come to them taking it back and he's ogling someone else's wife wearing it, while that woman's wife is disinterested in her and imagining Peg in it.
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Hmm, it's working the opposite for me. I mean, just last night I was basically taken advantage of. But damn was it nice.

It's gonna be weird as shit if you bring it up to her so I'd try and find something that works. Deed more. Deed less. Don't deed at all. Whatever works.
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"No matter how hot a girl is some guy is sick of putting up with her shit" - said mi hermano Roberto years ago

We aren't robot right.....TC
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Spooking posted...

The problem with Peggy is that I don't think they intended for her to be hot, they intended for her to be a nagging, fat housewife that the husband no longer wants to deal with. The casting was wrong - at least for the looks part - for Peggy. As Katy Sagal is hot.

So why not cast an ugly woman. Oh I forgot, we can't have that in Hollywood. Reminds me of she's all that when Rachel Leigh Cooke was supposed to be ugly and unattractive
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Behaviorism posted...

So why not cast an ugly woman. Oh I forgot, we can't have that in Hollywood

One of the most successful sitcoms ever was Roseanne....
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Behaviorism posted...

Spooking posted...

The problem with Peggy is that I don't think they intended for her to be hot, they intended for her to be a nagging, fat housewife that the husband no longer wants to deal with. The casting was wrong - at least for the looks part - for Peggy. As Katy Sagal is hot.

So why not cast an ugly woman. Oh I forgot, we can't have that in Hollywood. Reminds me of she's all that when Rachel Leigh Cooke was supposed to be ugly and unattractive

Don't come at Peg son that shit just aint cool

Santorin posted...

"No matter how hot a girl is some guy is sick of putting up with her shit" - said mi hermano Roberto years ago

This is kind of how it is I think. But not really. I'm not tired of her and I do like having sex with her still, but she wants it literally everyday and I just don't. I can't really keep up with it anymore. We've talked about it already and she just started blowing me more often to help which is a benefit.
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Howl posted...

Santorin posted...

"No matter how hot a girl is some guy is sick of putting up with her shit" - said mi hermano Roberto years ago

This is kind of how it is I think. But not really. I'm not tired of her and I do like having sex with her still, but she wants it literally everyday and I just don't. I can't really keep up with it anymore. We've talked about it already and she just started blowing me more often to help which is a benefit.

I've had two older coworkers in long term relationships say to enjoy it while you can. Neither one of them is getting any.
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Howl posted...

Santorin posted...

"No matter how hot a girl is some guy is sick of putting up with her shit" - said mi hermano Roberto years ago

This is kind of how it is I think. But not really. I'm not tired of her and I do like having sex with her still, but she wants it literally everyday and I just don't. I can't really keep up with it anymore. We've talked about it already and she just started blowing me more often to help which is a benefit.

Man, how do you go on living with such adversity?
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I will tell you right now from experience TC, you'd better get this straightened out or it will eventually ruin your marriage.

I have a much higher libido than my wife does. I want it every day, she can go weeks without it. She's like a sexual camel. What ends up happening to me is the longer it goes, the more I think about it, and it ends up consuming my thoughts pretty much all day.

We've talked about it a lot, and I told her it's not that I'm a typical "guy who just wants sex" but rather I really enjoy that intimacy with my wife.

There's that book called the five love languages, forget who wrote it. I'd recommend both of you reading it. There's basically five different ways people show love. One is gift giving, one is favors, one is physical touch, etc. Sounds like your fiance is physical touch.

I'm just saying it will drive a wedge in your relationship at some point, it's best to be open about it and try to make both parties happy.

Marriage is work.
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no
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Leight_Weight posted...

I'm just saying it will drive a wedge in your relationship at some point, it's best to be open about it and try to make both parties happy.

This is my fear of the situation tbh. I don't want her thinking for months on end that she's just not satisfied and then use that as an excuse to cheat on me later down the line. I don't think she will but that would just really suck. Maybe it is just a T level problem. I'll look into it.
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I think a lot of people think once your married you will definitely get it when and how often you want when often times one wants it way more than the other. Youll compromise or divorce.
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Howl posted...

Santorin posted...

"No matter how hot a girl is some guy is sick of putting up with her shit" - said mi hermano Roberto years ago

This is kind of how it is I think. But not really. I'm not tired of her and I do like having sex with her still, but she wants it literally everyday and I just don't. I can't really keep up with it anymore. We've talked about it already and she just started blowing me more often to help which is a benefit.

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not wanting sex everyday? Does not compute
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This is why people should live together for the better part of a year or so, you should never be with someone you're sexually incomparable with as despite what people tell you, Sex is alot more than just two or three or four body parts slamming into each other for a couple of minutes. TC, have you considered viagra?
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