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Bass_X0
07/20/18 1:16:21 PM
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Someone says they have a phobia of spiders, water, heights or whatever - everyone just accepts it and makes allowances because its not something they can have control over; its just a fact of their lives they have to live with.

But the same is not true for transphobia and homophobia. I dont think either of those should be described as phobias at all.
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BlueJester007
07/20/18 1:16:56 PM
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No.
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eston
07/20/18 1:18:09 PM
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No, calling them phobias is a bit of a misnomer

Although I guess it could have been more applicable back when people coined those terms
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Megaman50100
07/20/18 1:21:06 PM
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I agree they shouldn't be labeled phobias and that Homophobia should be fear of things that are like you.
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EbonTitanium
07/20/18 1:21:33 PM
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Yes and no.
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TheVipaGTS
07/20/18 1:23:43 PM
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No because they don't fear them. they hate them.
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EbonTitanium
07/20/18 1:25:19 PM
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TheVipaGTS posted...
No because they don't fear them. they hate them.

Some people do believe that you can "catch the gay" by being around gay people.
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Amazon_Shampoo
07/20/18 1:26:54 PM
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It's more "fear" in the sense that most often fear is derived from a lack of understanding.

In a more literal sense it more means a lack of empathy, compassion for another human because they happen to have been born in one of those situations, a lack of acceptance that these are just people trying to find the same happiness your looking for as well.

Although it can sometimes go to describe outright hate or prejudice as well. As far as no longer seeing them as humans who are also entitled to happiness.

It totally is an outdated word, should be something more akin to hate or wanting people to not have rights. I'm not sure what would be an acceptable word for that.
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On_The_Edge
07/20/18 1:28:48 PM
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TheVipaGTS posted...
No because they don't fear them. they hate them.

Yet most of what people call homophobia or transphobia doesn't reflect hatred at all, just a difference in world view
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hyperpsycho
07/20/18 1:34:09 PM
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On_The_Edge posted...
TheVipaGTS posted...
No because they don't fear them. they hate them.

Yet most of what people call homophobia or transphobia doesn't reflect hatred at all, just a difference in world view

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vocedelmorte
07/20/18 1:34:38 PM
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EbonTitanium posted...
TheVipaGTS posted...
No because they don't fear them. they hate them.

Some people do believe that you can "catch the gay" by being around gay people.

Or more like they scared of their true supressed self will be revealed around gay people
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NibeIungsnarf
07/20/18 1:35:35 PM
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No, sometimes the same word is used differently, but homophobes should just go right ahead and keep crying about how they're not afraid of homosexuals, they just hate their guts.I'm surely convinced they're not turd humans then.
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MrPeppers
07/20/18 1:39:12 PM
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NibeIungsnarf posted...
No, sometimes the same word is used differently, but homophobes should just go right ahead and keep crying about how they're not afraid of homosexuals, they just hate their guts.I'm surely convinced they're not turd humans then.


What part of you thinks that people being technical about the terminology is being used as a mechanism to excuse or lessen the impact of the behavior?
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Megaman50100
07/20/18 1:41:00 PM
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I have arachnophobia, I'm not afraid of spiders, I just don't think they should get married.
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hockeybub89
07/20/18 1:41:40 PM
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People could probably get over a lot of phobias with some therapy and time. And I think a lot of homophobic fuckers are definitely scared of gay people.
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Genocet_10-325
07/20/18 1:41:46 PM
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The definition of phobia is either a strong fear or strong aversion. Transphobia and homophobia fall in to the latter.
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MrPeppers
07/20/18 1:44:14 PM
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Genocet_10-325 posted...
The definition of phobia is either a strong fear or strong aversion. Transphobia and homophobia fall in to the latter.


Is that the DSM 5 definition?
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darkjedilink
07/20/18 1:44:21 PM
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Considering the fact that the lefties on this board think not dating a transgendered person is all that's required to call you transphobic, I'd say this hoard is the last place to get honest discussion on the subject.
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NibeIungsnarf
07/20/18 1:45:09 PM
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MrPeppers posted...
NibeIungsnarf posted...
No, sometimes the same word is used differently, but homophobes should just go right ahead and keep crying about how they're not afraid of homosexuals, they just hate their guts.I'm surely convinced they're not turd humans then.


What part of you thinks that people being technical about the terminology is being used as a mechanism to excuse or lessen the impact of the behavior?

I have no issue treating that kind of word sticklers the same as actual homophobes.
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Lordgold666
07/20/18 1:46:19 PM
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Megaman50100 posted...
I have arachnophobia, I'm not afraid of spiders, I just don't think they should get married.

lol
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creativerealms
07/20/18 1:48:05 PM
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Irrational fears key word irrational. Yes I believe they are the same as other phobiasm

Now hate and fear are related. When you hate something it's easy to fear it and so on.
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Genocet_10-325
07/20/18 1:48:13 PM
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MrPeppers posted...
Genocet_10-325 posted...
The definition of phobia is either a strong fear or strong aversion. Transphobia and homophobia fall in to the latter.


Is that the DSM 5 definition?

Dictionary definition
phobia
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noun
an extreme or irrational fear of or aversion to something.
"he had a phobia about being under water"
synonyms:fear, irrational fear, obsessive fear, dread, horror, terror, hatred, loathing, detestation, aversion, antipathy, revulsion;
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MrPeppers
07/20/18 1:49:57 PM
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Genocet_10-325 posted...
MrPeppers posted...
Genocet_10-325 posted...
The definition of phobia is either a strong fear or strong aversion. Transphobia and homophobia fall in to the latter.


Is that the DSM 5 definition?

Dictionary definition
phobia
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noun
an extreme or irrational fear of or aversion to something.
"he had a phobia about being under water"
synonyms:fear, irrational fear, obsessive fear, dread, horror, terror, hatred, loathing, detestation, aversion, antipathy, revulsion;


Again, what is the DSM 5 definition? The diagnostic manual used for making a clinical diagnosis of phobias.
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Authentic_fan
07/20/18 1:51:20 PM
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EbonTitanium posted...
TheVipaGTS posted...
No because they don't fear them. they hate them.

Some people do believe that you can "catch the gay" by being around gay people.


That depends on how fabulous they are. I'd get gay for redux
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DezDroppedFreak
07/20/18 1:52:27 PM
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On_The_Edge posted...
TheVipaGTS posted...
No because they don't fear them. they hate them.

Yet most of what people call homophobia or transphobia doesn't reflect hatred at all, just a difference in world view

Then thats just fucking stupid
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NibeIungsnarf
07/20/18 1:53:01 PM
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DezDroppedFreak posted...
On_The_Edge posted...
TheVipaGTS posted...
No because they don't fear them. they hate them.

Yet most of what people call homophobia or transphobia doesn't reflect hatred at all, just a difference in world view

Then thats just fucking stupid

It's also a propaganda lie
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Genocet_10-325
07/20/18 1:54:06 PM
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NibeIungsnarf posted...
DezDroppedFreak posted...
On_The_Edge posted...
TheVipaGTS posted...
No because they don't fear them. they hate them.

Yet most of what people call homophobia or transphobia doesn't reflect hatred at all, just a difference in world view

Then thats just fucking stupid

It's also a propaganda lie

Exactly. Your personal worldview shouldn't be allowed to affect others lives. No one cares if your worldview disapproves of them
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hyperpsycho
07/20/18 1:55:24 PM
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NibeIungsnarf posted...
MrPeppers posted...
NibeIungsnarf posted...
No, sometimes the same word is used differently, but homophobes should just go right ahead and keep crying about how they're not afraid of homosexuals, they just hate their guts.I'm surely convinced they're not turd humans then.


What part of you thinks that people being technical about the terminology is being used as a mechanism to excuse or lessen the impact of the behavior?

I have no issue treating that kind of word sticklers the same as actual homophobes.

I'm with you. "Don't call it homophobia!" was a homophobic dog whistle.
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MrPeppers
07/20/18 1:57:07 PM
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I didnt personally state not to call it homophobia. I was merely pointing out, much like estons comment, that its a bit of a misnomer.
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NibeIungsnarf
07/20/18 1:59:00 PM
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I wasn't making a misnormer.
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hyperpsycho
07/20/18 1:59:57 PM
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MrPeppers posted...
I didnt personally state not to call it homophobia. I was merely pointing out, much like estons comment, that its a bit of a misnomer.

I wasn't talking about you.
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darkjedilink
07/20/18 2:03:26 PM
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Genocet_10-325 posted...
NibeIungsnarf posted...
DezDroppedFreak posted...
On_The_Edge posted...
TheVipaGTS posted...
No because they don't fear them. they hate them.

Yet most of what people call homophobia or transphobia doesn't reflect hatred at all, just a difference in world view

Then thats just fucking stupid

It's also a propaganda lie

Exactly. Your personal worldview shouldn't be allowed to affect others lives. No one cares if your worldview disapproves of them

Is that why choosing not to date transgendered people gets you labeled a bigot?
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NibeIungsnarf
07/20/18 2:05:40 PM
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darkjedilink posted...
Is that why choosing not to date transgendered people gets you labeled a bigot?

You say stupid shit all the time so should we label all people who follow your pretend ideology as troll accounts?
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ImTheMacheteGuy
07/20/18 2:06:07 PM
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eston posted...
No, calling them phobias is a bit of a misnomer

Although I guess it could have been more applicable back when people coined those terms

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refmon
07/20/18 2:06:33 PM
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ImTheMacheteGuy posted...
No, calling them phobias is a bit of a misnomer

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darkjedilink
07/20/18 2:10:20 PM
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NibeIungsnarf posted...
darkjedilink posted...
Is that why choosing not to date transgendered people gets you labeled a bigot?

You say stupid shit all the time so should we label all people who follow your pretend ideology as troll accounts?

Ad hominem.
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creativerealms
07/20/18 2:18:11 PM
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I'm sorry but thinking same sex couples marrying will destroy marriage is irrational, believing gays being allowed to adopt is evil is also irrational. Those are just two irrational fears some people have about homosexuals. Yes calling it a phobia is fair.
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TheCurseX2
07/20/18 2:20:12 PM
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If they were legitimate phobias then there would be no reason to shame people for having something that is irrational, right?
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ClockworkHare
07/20/18 2:28:14 PM
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TheVipaGTS posted...
No because they don't fear them. they hate them.

It's both.

Bigots fear their families and peers being infiltrated by the abnormal and lash out in self-righteous anger to reject it. Many people who adamantly hate queer culture are scared shitless one of their children will grow up to be a part of it. It can throw a giant monkey wrench into their typical heteronormative timeline of goals (ie: career, dating, settling down, produce grandkids, passing the torch, etc). And that paranoia can spark rage within cultural purists bent on punishing those who don't conform, including their own children.

It's especially funny when someone claims to be progressive and empathetic towards LGBT issues, yet desperately panics when it's revealed their child might be queer. Remember, folks: it's not just the extreme conservatives afraid their kids might grow up to be gay or trans. Almost anyone prone to desiring the white picket fenced priority of having grandchildren is just as susceptible of being a hater of queer culture. Political leaning often has very little impact on that.

Because it's easy for people to say they're supportive of LGBT rights when it's a mainstream trend that attracts a pat on the back for doing the least possible. But it's a whole different ballgame for them when those issues enter their home...then you get to see their real colors.
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Amazon_Shampoo
07/20/18 2:38:10 PM
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darkjedilink posted...
Genocet_10-325 posted...
NibeIungsnarf posted...
DezDroppedFreak posted...
On_The_Edge posted...
TheVipaGTS posted...
No because they don't fear them. they hate them.

Yet most of what people call homophobia or transphobia doesn't reflect hatred at all, just a difference in world view

Then thats just fucking stupid

It's also a propaganda lie

Exactly. Your personal worldview shouldn't be allowed to affect others lives. No one cares if your worldview disapproves of them

Is that why choosing not to date transgendered people gets you labeled a bigot?

It shouldn't, no one had the right to force their world view on your personal life. Same as I am sure you wouldn't ever disrespect a trans person right? It's just common sense. You will always find people on either side of things that are just rude and not great people, ignore them and just continue to respect the people you meet and in time you will see that it really is a both ways thing.
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NonDairyMiltank
07/20/18 5:04:11 PM
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darkjedilink posted...
Is that why choosing not to date transgendered people gets you labeled a bigot?

you're not a bigot if you decide you don't want to date or fuck a trans person
no one is entitled to sex, relationships, or even a conversation with you
if someone's butthurt demanding you support trans rights, you're already doing that by leaving them the fuck alone
that's your contribution, if someone doesn't think that's enough, tough shit

just remember there's a big difference between saying "all trans folk are unattractive" and "i haven't found a trans person i felt was attractive enough to date"

if someone is dumb enough to try and call you out for saying the latter, remind their stupid ass that they don't have the right to dictate what you're supposed to think is attractive, only you determine that

and its entirely possible to do all that above without being a complete jackass towards trans folk
you don't like getting slaughtered by a savage rejection? hey guess what: neither do trans people
let them down easy like you would want done with you...
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averagejoel
07/20/18 5:08:34 PM
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NonDairyMiltank posted...
darkjedilink posted...
Is that why choosing not to date transgendered people gets you labeled a bigot?

you're not a bigot if you decide you don't want to date or fuck a trans person
no one is entitled to sex, relationships, or even a conversation with you
if someone's butthurt demanding you support trans rights, you're already doing that by leaving them the fuck alone
that's your contribution, if someone doesn't think that's enough, tough shit

just remember there's a big difference between saying "all trans folk are unattractive" and "i haven't found a trans person i felt was attractive enough to date"

if someone is dumb enough to try and call you out for saying the latter, remind their stupid ass that they don't have the right to dictate what you're supposed to think is attractive, only you determine that

and its entirely possible to do all that above without being a complete jackass towards trans folk
you don't like getting slaughtered by a savage rejection? hey guess what: neither do trans people
let them down easy like you would want done with you...

but also:
people's preferences are heavily informed by society

society is transphobic

so it's perfectly reasonable to assume that some of this societal transphobia would find its way into someone's preferences
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