Current Events > I'm 31 years old and still a virgin

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You could try lowering your standards TC. Boost morale, raise confidence, pick up some social skills along the way. I mean, there's your pride and ego and principle and waiting for the right one and some shit like that but in my humble opinion those should probably the last factors to consider at this stage.
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RiKuToTheMiGhtY posted...

Just be smart and hire someone topic creator, treat yourself to a fun night.

potential legal liability, STD risk, gross factor... I can see why TC wouldn't want it

MarshallStack posted...

Dawkins has had sex.

There's hope for you TC.

People as messed up as dawkins have sex and even reproduce, yet people like TC don't. What does that tell you about some people's judgment (in this case, women's, but I am not complaining about women specifically)?

liquid_shokan posted...

in all that time not one woman has wanted to get with him

if he somehow got lucky and found one he wouldn't be able to keep her due to him immense inexperience

oh shit.

Maybe there is no hope for people like TC... the inexperience factor will turn off any girl at that stage. I am not talking about sex, just how to deal with women, what to do on a date, etc etc.

I guess I'll die a virgin

Well we have given you options here, good luck with whatever choice you decide to make.
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GateOfDoom posted...

I guess I'll die a virgin

prostitutes exist so you can't remain a virgin if you don't want to

however what i think you'd want is what everyone else wants

mutual attraction and love

its also a great feeling to conquer a woman all on your own and get it for free

why pay for what other people get for free? ya know?

i'll tell you that i'm in my mid 20s and also a virgin but i understand that its my own doing

i'm mostly ok with it but betas piss me off when they try to promote further beta behavior

no

there's a reason you're still a virgin and if you want to change that you have to fix it, not stay as you are and be told lies to give you false hope

take a good look at yourself and improve your appearance

no one is perfect at conversation so improve your skills, you may think you're good at it but you're not

git gud

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liquid_shokan posted...

i'll tell you that i'm in my mid 20s and also a virgin

lol

its a religious choice

liquid_shokan posted...

prostitutes exist so you can't remain a virgin if you don't want to

yeah and risking jail or AIDS lol, don't suggest that to TC

AwesomeOSauce posted...

Sex is meaningless love is more important.
If you have loved or been loved that is all that matters. Sex is overrated man if you haven't had it you probably put it on some pedestal.

yeah love is great
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I might go for a prostitute simply to get that initial awkwardness out of the way. Germany apparently has a fantastic red light district.

Mind you, I dont think you being a virgin at 31 is problematic unless its something you despise about yourself and definitely want to change. In that case, then virginity isnt normal and youre probably dealing with a host of hangups you should see a counselor to work through. Sex is amazing, but its also only one part of sharing a relationship, which is far more rewarding
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Hawaiian_punch posted...

liquid_shokan posted...

prostitutes exist so you can't remain a virgin if you don't want to

yeah and risking jail or AIDS lol, don't suggest that to TC

whatever it takes

So am I, but I have too much self respect to pay for sex.
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What if you're a virgin and you couldn't have sex with a hooker if you wanted to, because you would freeze up and not be able to move, or even be able to talk to her to set it up in the first place.
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@Big_Nabendu posted...

I lost my virginity the day before my 26th birthday and now I'm hooking up with a hot chick pretty frequently (I turn 27 in a month)
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I'm the last one. Getting closer to the end.
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MrNintendo1213 posted...

What if you're a virgin and you couldn't have sex with a hooker if you wanted to, because you would freeze up and not be able to move, or even be able to talk to her to set it up in the first place.

Well then you'd be advised to seek behavioral therapy for your phobia of interaction. No point letting something like that rob you of so much of life's pleasures.

Another thing holding me back is my penis isn't very big and I'm afraid of being laughed at

This thing is still going ?, wow.
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Just how small are we talking about? Slightly below average isnt all that bad
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RiKuToTheMiGhtY posted...

This thing is still going ?, wow.

virgins like to whine about being virgins
non-virgins like to poke fun at virgins

it's got something for everybody
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Eh, I guess the issue is the guy is still a virgin cause he refuses to go outside his comfort zone to have a fun time. Seems really sad when he could solve his problem today with little trouble, seems like he just enjoys complaining about his virginity.
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DavidWong posted...

RiKuToTheMiGhtY posted...

@KlRBEH

If you want sloppy 5ths that is your choice, and no only a beta male provider cuck accepts a used up whore as their girlfriend or wife.

Men who refuse to hire a professional should wise up cause renting a Barbie is a lot more cost effective and intelligent then dating or marrying the used up cum dumps who will almost always cheat and/or divorce screw you so they can take half your shit and still be "on the market" for another sucker.

Who hurt you? Seriously, in my marriage topics you're always posting this shit. You've got the makings of a domestic abuser.

Scary stuff
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And yes TC, get yourself a hooker and get it over with.
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It really doesn't matter. Sex will not change your life at all whether you do or don't do it.
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ShotOJameson posted...

It really doesn't matter. Sex will not change your life at all whether you do or don't do it.

then he shouldn't get a hooker obvi
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It's time to change your mindset, TC. I'm guessing you beat yourself up a lot and don't have inner confidence. Work on building your inner confidence. It's useful for more than just pulling chicks. It makes your whole life better. Once you have confidence in yourself, you won't crumple like a house of cards each time a girl rejects you. You won't care much and will move on to the next one. Socialize with women, but don't try overly hard. If she seems disinterested, don't waste your time with her. Find a different woman to talk to.
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GateOfDoom posted...

Another thing holding me back is my penis isn't very big and I'm afraid of being laughed at

Having 4 cups of water daily might help with that. Have as many things to talk about as possible. Talk about the weather, movies, music, tv shows, anime, food or whatever else you can think of. Make jokes, they like it. Women like it when you listen to them. You got skills? Show women your skills. Ask women questions. Get to know them better. Learn as much as you can about them. Be confident, women like it.
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GameboyTroy posted...

GateOfDoom posted...

Another thing holding me back is my penis isn't very big and I'm afraid of being laughed at

Having 4 cups of water daily might help with that. Have as many things to talk about as possible. Talk about the weather, movies, music, tv shows, anime, food or whatever else you can think of. Make jokes, they like it. Women like it when you listen to them. You got skills? Show women your skills. Ask women questions. Get to know them better. Ask them how is their day like. Learn as much as you can about them. Be confident, women like it. If a woman rejects you just laugh it off and move on.

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I think no matter what these people are saying its as simple as asking yourself, "am I happy". If the answer is yes you're in the clear.

If the answer is not seriously ask yourself the follow up question, "Is it maybe due to the fact I haven't been intimate or shared my life with someone?"

My sister in law is approaching 25 and recently admitted that she is relatively unhappy quite possibly stemming from the absence of a meaningful romantic relationship.
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