Poll of the Day > A few years ago I bought a bra.

(+) Yeah! (+)

Just for fun and crossdressing purposes.

I was going through my old clothes and found that the bra I bought to crossdress and feel good now fits me after 18 months on hrt.

I'm probably more excited about this than I should be, but oh well.

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Keep in shape I see.

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I dont understand garments at all

theres too many

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UnMead posted...

I dont understand garments at all

theres too many

There's not enough.

wwinterj25 posted...

Keep in shape I see.

Not as much as I would like to be, but I'm doing ok.

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congrats! i love that kinda feeling. i remember when i saw my reflection in the window and thought for a second "oh my god some woman climbed onto my balcony?!"

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UnMead posted...

I dont understand garments at all

theres too many

"Dear Mr. President,

There are too many garments today, please eliminate three.

I am a crackpot."

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The_tall_midget posted...

"Dear Mr. President,

There are too many garments today, please eliminate three.

I am a crackpot."

Gorgets, codpieces, and hmm... maybe a cravat.

chelsea_wtf posted...

congrats! i love that kinda feeling. i remember when i saw my reflection in the window and thought for a second "oh my god some woman climbed onto my balcony?!"

Thank you! I still dress more masculine to unisex most days so I have not been lucky enough to experience that. But I hope to someday.

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congrats on 18 months!!

what has it been like going through so much change? I've subbed to and have been watching a youtuber who went on that journey as well, and she looks stunning!! walking the same path has been on my mind for quite a while, and I know full well it's not an easy one to walk. but with my age and body type, it might be too late, but still might say something to my Dr. next time I see him

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Pikazard1 posted...

congrats on 18 months!!

what has it been like going through so much change? I've subbed to and have been watching a youtuber who went on that journey as well, and she looks stunning!! walking the same path has been on my mind for quite a while, and I know full well it's not an easy one to walk. but with my age and body type, it might be too late, but still might say something to my Dr. next time I see him

Honestly I felt the same before I started. It wasnt the first time I thought of doing it, but the old requirements to be in therapy and live as your new gender for a year before even starting hrt was a battle I didn't think I could win. So, I kept putting it off, telling myself I could be happy as a guy who just crossdresses for fun. Then I learned about an informed consent clinic near me, I was in a job I was making enough money that I could comfortably start it. All the stars just seemed to line up so ai went for it.

The process itself has had its ups and downs. But overall I feel so much better than I have ever done in the past. Not much about my life has changed. Everything just clicks better now. I still wear pants over skirts or dresses most days, but all my pants come from the women's department. I still have a lot of men's shirts and hoodies. I am not buying new ones, just not dumping my old stuff. I have skirts, dresses, low cut tops, and blouses for when I want to feel pretty, and a few women's t-shirts. All of my over coats are women's. I have so many shoes. I tried not to be a stereotype, but I have like 15 pairs of shoes and I still feel like I need another 15 at least.

I still need to work on make up and my voice. I HATE my voice. And make up is expensive. Actually the interesting part is that I decided when I started I was doing this for me. Fuck everyone else, so I didn't make a big deal out of it. I wasn't hiding it, but I wasn't advertising either. After 6 months the only people who noticed and asked about it were my two best friends. People have made comments about my getting my beard lasered off or a few compliments about my appearence, but so far the only two who have acknowledged my transition are my two best friends. Which plus side my family doesn't seem to care, but down side they don't use my preferred name or pronouns.

For pride month this year, I figured no one has made a big deal over it and I was safe to show a bit more pride without stepping on toes and I got some trans pride stuff and wear it around sometimes. Most commonly a blue and pink bike chain bracelet. Even though I have painted my nails with my mom, have had my hair braided by her, celebrated pride month, worn full fem clothes around her, and have actual breasts, I get the feeling she just thinks I'm gay instead of trans.

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