Poll of the Day > The truth is that my wife left me

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And nobody can blame her

but yes, its having an effect on me

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Get therapy. Seriously. This is not the place for you to receive help. Nothing here will help you.

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Kimbos_Egg posted...

Get therapy. Seriously. This is not the place for you to receive help. Nothing here will help you.

my dude Im in therapy

if I want to socialize here then I am free to do. If I want to talk about things with people here, then thats my fucking choice.

step the fuck off

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i'm genuinely sorry to hear that.. i can only imagine what losing someone like that must feel like, and i imagine it is quite dreadful

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That can be very challenging.

You dont need me to tell you that this could be a make or break moment in your life. You have my support.

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Yeah its a lot, cant feel sorry for myself though

gotta wake up everyday and try to do better

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Sometimes I feel this way about a particular relationship:
https://youtu.be/J1Y9vJcWW_M

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sorry that happened, and you have my support as well.

dont know a thing about having a wife, but Im always around if you need to talk/vent

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but yeah I'm sorry to hear. a huge life change like that can be completely mindbending. you'll heal. it will take time but you know that. holler if you ever want to chat.

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UnMead posted...

Yeah its a lot, cant feel sorry for myself though

gotta wake up everyday and try to do better

I know being in a gym is the last thing you want to do. Fuck, perhaps even the mere feat of putting on some sweats and workout gear might seem too great but if you do it I promise you youll feel better.

Furthermore, in the solo time youll spent on the treadmill youll be able to think clearly and formulate a plan to achieve the goals I know you have.

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Exercise actually sounds great right now. Part of me wants to go to the beach and just fucking run

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Exercise can do wonders for mental health.

Sorry you're going through a rough patch dude keep your head up

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Sorry to hear that? Do you have any close friends or family members around who can be by your side for a little on som days. That could help
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VioletMassacre posted...

That sucks. What's the reason, if you don't mind telling?

she loves someone else now

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I'm sorry that happened, I know we disagree on most things but I really hope things get better for you

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Is this like the time I "left my husband for my lesbian boss"? Because it wasnt funny when he did it either.

If not then really it is not at all surprising that someone with actual aspirations in their life wanted something better than someone with literally nothing going for them other than their enabling friends on potd.

Like I said several times: no woman wants that, and now I totally get why it hit so hard.

Im not hanging around with this omicron shit, so we are off for a shitty kiwis summer instead so whatever. I'm on my way out anyways. I'll take another slap on the wrist. Hell, I'd take a ban. Theres nothing that worthwhile here aside from shitting on sad pathetic manchildren, and that does eventually get old.

To quote the illustrious TLC, and summarize your lifestyle

A scrub is a guy that thinks he's fly
And is also known as a buster
Always talking 'bout what he wants
And just sits on his broke ass

Get a fuckin job, and get a fuckin life

Spent an hour talking to someone on the ol national hotline. That actually helped quite a bit and they made me realize that I havent eaten anything in about a day and a half.

so Im gonna eat some pizza

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UnMead posted...

so Im gonna eat some pizza

Pizza is definitely rely a good choice. I love pizza!
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LinkPizza posted...

Pizza is definitely rely a good choice. I love pizza!

Would never have guessed

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UnMead posted...

my dude Im in therapy

if I want to socialize here then I am free to do. If I want to talk about things with people here, then thats my fucking choice.

step the fuck off

Funny thing is I think kimbo was actually trying to be helpful and not snarky at all lol

but yeah therapy should help in the long run along with exercising and talking to people

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FatalAccident posted...

Funny thing is I think kimbo was actually trying to be helpful and not snarky at all lol

possibly, I cant tell

I criticized him at one point and then I blocked him cause he said something about trans people that pissed me off. Hes been acting pretty hostile to me lately so I figured thats where his post was coming from.

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finally ate some pizza, lol

now to get back to my existential dread

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Have you been sleeping?

Does schmen ever shut the fuck up

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UnMead posted...

I criticized him at one point and then I blocked him cause he said something about trans people that pissed me off

That's an outright fucking lie but okay.

And no I wasnt being sarcastic.

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hockey7318 posted...

Have you been sleeping?

yep, a normal amount

Kimbos_Egg posted...

That's an outright fucking lie but okay.

And no I wasnt being sarcastic.

nope thats two things that happened. You were probably making a joke but I dont care. If you wanna hold a grudge about it then thats your thing, I dont really care

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I know that feel. The feeling of betrayal from the person you trusted the most.

How is her attitude towards you now?
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UnMead posted...

Spent an hour talking to someone on the ol national hotline. That actually helped quite a bit and they made me realize that I havent eaten anything in about a day and a half.

so Im gonna eat some pizza

I use their text chat semi-recently. They really are quite helpful.

UnMead posted...

nope thats two things that happened. You were probably making a joke but I dont care. If you wanna hold a grudge about it then thats your thing, I dont really care

My dude, it is clear that it is you that is holding the grudge here

Lynyrd_Skynyrd posted...

My dude, it is clear that it is you that is holding the grudge here

oh well, Im not concerned

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LeetCheet posted...

I know that feel. The feeling of betrayal from the person you trusted the most.

How is her attitude towards you now?

i dont know, trying to get comfortable with the idea of not caring about that so much

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UnMead posted...

nope thats two things that happened. You were probably making a joke but I dont care. If you wanna hold a grudge about it then thats your thing, I dont really care

Yeah i'm sure the version of me that exists in your head totally said that, but reality says other wise.

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Kimbos_Egg posted...

Yeah i'm sure the version of me that exists in your head totally said that, but reality says other wise.

okay

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This must be a difficult thing, but remember you're not alone.

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I am confused about which account are/are not schmen and what is schmen/not schmens preferred gender pronouns because they keep mentioning that and I dont understand what they are talking about

The schmen I remember made funny alts like Troll Police and seemed ok, but then its like their funny died and now its just angerness squirting out of a small tube

Its not my business but I imagine theres a story

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notschmendrake is a schmen alt, or someone pretending to be schmen, but they're trying to convince everyone they're posting as schmen's wife but no one buys it

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Also I have it on good authority that analogizing schmen with a small tube is accurate lmao

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it could be though maybe

or what if they are both schmen and he became two of himself and one is a girl versions. It happens I dont judge

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Based on Schmen's comments about his wife, I could believe that notschmen is her. By the sounds of things, he basically married a female version of himself and is really glad that he was able to find such a person because he's too misanthropic to stand being around anyone else. This would explain the clear similarities, despite the occasional stylistic difference.

But then it could also just be somebody pretending. Who knows? It doesn't really matter. Alt-hunting has never really made much sense to me; there's no reason we can't just take accounts at face value and react to them according to the behaviour they directly display, rather than trying to ferret out some secret identity that can form the basis for further judgement than that.

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UnMead posted...

The schmen I remember made funny alts like Troll Police and seemed ok, but then its like their funny died and now its just angerness squirting out of a small tube

I think they're pretending to be schmen like Arv is pretending to be the original arv. It's probably ziggi's new thing or something.

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Sure but we need to know what is canon when we sell the potd movie rights

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I just block everyone who does that shit, I ain't got time for people doing the silly alt thing/constant lying

And sorry to hear that Mead. I hope this can be an opportunity and will eventually turn into a good thing for you

UnMead posted...

Sure but we need to know what is canon when we sell the potd movie rights

lmao

Alt-hunting has never really made much sense to me; there's no reason we can't just take accounts at face value and react to them according to the behaviour they directly display, rather than trying to ferret out some secret identity that can form the basis for further judgement than that.

Agreed. I assume it's schmen based on how he posts but I don't really care to prove it one way or another. Just chalk up his posts as the same miserable, dumb bullshit

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I assume any of the alts that are like that are either Ziggi, Duke or Schmen, and between the three it doesn't really matter to me who, because they've been coordinating together like that for like a decade. I'd say it's pretty sad but just being here at all is pretty pathetic and I still am, so I'm not really one to talk. And I do like trolling sometimes myself, but it's mostly like posting dumb copypastas, not mean-spirited stuff