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UnfairRepresent
11/30/17 6:28:39 PM
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The children were removed from their home, and put up for adoption. A couple is having their three young children taken away from them because of their open relationship.

A family court judge ruled that the parents dysfunctional relationship had contributed to their neglect of their kids, who are all under the age of five. The children will all now be placed for adoption.

According to The Guardian, social workers from Sandwell borough council in the West Midlands applied to take the children out of the parents care in August. Their order was granted in October. Officials described the couples relationship as open, but the parents denied this characterisation of their relationship.

In her judgment, Judge Elizabeth Williscroft said that the father would go clubbing and meet other women, while the mother dated men she met online. The father had his own lifestyle outside the family home, which plainly included going clubbing until the early hours as well as being involved with other people, she said.'

In respect of both parents, the court is not concerned about their private lives and how they will conduct them unless it impacts on the care of the children which at this time was neglectful.

She added: It is plain some complete strangers have visited her house while the children were there to have sex with her.

The father reportedly didnt see what was worrying about strangers coming to the house to meet the mother for sex.

All of this must have been confusing for the children, she added.


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Humans are weird. Depending on who you believe over half of couples cheat on each other. But then everyone loses their mind if a couple goes "I love you but I have sexual urges so let's have casual sex with others while still being together" as being immoral or evil.

However lying to the girl's face then screwing behind her back is nice and dandy so long as we don't sing and dance about it.
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Callixtus
11/30/17 6:29:50 PM
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Nice link
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eston
11/30/17 6:31:39 PM
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The real problem appears to be that they were neglecting the children
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UnfairRepresent
11/30/17 6:32:26 PM
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Kaname_Madoka
11/30/17 6:33:03 PM
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Callixtus posted...
Nice link

Italics make it true
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masticatingman
11/30/17 6:41:03 PM
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I see less of a problem relative to the kids with the father than the mother. Yeah, you shouldn't just be having other dudes come over to your family house explicitly to fuck around lol - the kids are right there and can probably hear/know what's going on. It would obviously cost more but she should've just gotten a babysitter and gone to a motel. Dad sounds like he was trying to be like the dudes in 'Mad Men' - alright but it's not like the kids would have really known better if their mom/caretaker had been attentive.
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A_Good_Boy
11/30/17 7:00:30 PM
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eston posted...
The real problem appears to be that they were neglecting the children

It doesn't elaborate on how.
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Hexenherz
11/30/17 7:04:38 PM
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A_Good_Boy posted...
eston posted...
The real problem appears to be that they were neglecting the children

It doesn't elaborate on how.


In her judgment, Judge Elizabeth Williscroft said that the father would go clubbing and meet other women, while the mother dated men she met online. The father had his own lifestyle outside the family home, which plainly included going clubbing until the early hours as well as being involved with other people, she said.'

Uh...
They were spending more time away from home than with their own family? Seems kinda clear to me...
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Dash_Harber
11/30/17 7:06:17 PM
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Are we all just ignoring the Angelina Jolie's corpse photobomb?
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AlternativeFAQS
11/30/17 7:16:36 PM
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shockthemonkey posted...
Dash_Harber posted...
Are we all just ignoring the Angelina Jolie's corpse photobomb?

No one wants to engage UR to argue about his random ass picture for 200 posts.


This. I used to comment on it to try and derail the topic but I got warned
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UnfairRepresent
12/02/17 6:12:43 PM
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masticatingman posted...
I see less of a problem relative to the kids with the father than the mother. Yeah, you shouldn't just be having other dudes come over to your family house explicitly to fuck around lol - the kids are right there and can probably hear/know what's going on. It would obviously cost more but she should've just gotten a babysitter and gone to a motel. Dad sounds like he was trying to be like the dudes in 'Mad Men' - alright but it's not like the kids would have really known better if their mom/caretaker had been attentive.

Why does it harm the kids if someone comes over to fuck?

Unless they're fucking right in front of the kids, this is no different than friends coming over to dinner
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Yaridovich
12/02/17 6:14:28 PM
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UnfairRepresent posted...
masticatingman posted...
I see less of a problem relative to the kids with the father than the mother. Yeah, you shouldn't just be having other dudes come over to your family house explicitly to fuck around lol - the kids are right there and can probably hear/know what's going on. It would obviously cost more but she should've just gotten a babysitter and gone to a motel. Dad sounds like he was trying to be like the dudes in 'Mad Men' - alright but it's not like the kids would have really known better if their mom/caretaker had been attentive.

Why does it harm the kids if someone comes over to fuck?

Unless they're fucking right in front of the kids, this is no different than friends coming over to dinner


Kids are wa~ay more receptive than you give them credit for.
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UnfairRepresent
12/02/17 6:16:40 PM
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Yaridovich posted...
UnfairRepresent posted...
masticatingman posted...
I see less of a problem relative to the kids with the father than the mother. Yeah, you shouldn't just be having other dudes come over to your family house explicitly to fuck around lol - the kids are right there and can probably hear/know what's going on. It would obviously cost more but she should've just gotten a babysitter and gone to a motel. Dad sounds like he was trying to be like the dudes in 'Mad Men' - alright but it's not like the kids would have really known better if their mom/caretaker had been attentive.

Why does it harm the kids if someone comes over to fuck?

Unless they're fucking right in front of the kids, this is no different than friends coming over to dinner


Kids are wa~ay more receptive than you give them credit for.

You didn't answer the question.
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Yaridovich
12/02/17 6:19:50 PM
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UnfairRepresent posted...
Yaridovich posted...
UnfairRepresent posted...
masticatingman posted...
I see less of a problem relative to the kids with the father than the mother. Yeah, you shouldn't just be having other dudes come over to your family house explicitly to fuck around lol - the kids are right there and can probably hear/know what's going on. It would obviously cost more but she should've just gotten a babysitter and gone to a motel. Dad sounds like he was trying to be like the dudes in 'Mad Men' - alright but it's not like the kids would have really known better if their mom/caretaker had been attentive.

Why does it harm the kids if someone comes over to fuck?

Unless they're fucking right in front of the kids, this is no different than friends coming over to dinner


Kids are wa~ay more receptive than you give them credit for.

You didn't answer the question.


Because it's emotional neglect. My mom dated all the time when I was that young and I was left at the wayside because of it. Kids don't just think "this is a friend over here" they know that this person is somebody who'll take more of their parent's attention from them.

Especially in this situation where both parents were essentially trading their children for their social lives.
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UnfairRepresent
12/03/17 7:34:27 PM
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How is that any different?

By your logic anyone coming over means neglect because they 'take attention'
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Funkydog
12/03/17 7:39:25 PM
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Starting to think would be better to debate over URs random picture usage at this point
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Offworlder1
12/03/17 7:42:43 PM
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Fair next, if you want to bang other people do it before you have kids, or have a closed multipartner relationship. The children should always come first something that they obviously forgot being so busy fucking other people.
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UnfairRepresent
12/05/17 3:56:07 PM
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And he was never seen again
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philsov
12/05/17 4:02:30 PM
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Yeah. If the father is out clubbing and the mother has some strange over and no one is watching the kids that's certainly neglect.
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_Rinku_
12/05/17 4:08:21 PM
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Personally, I'm of the opinion that it's trashy to have sex when anyone other than you and your partner are in the house.
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philsov
12/05/17 4:24:49 PM
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_Rinku_ posted...
Personally, I'm of the opinion that it's trashy to have sex when anyone other than you and your partner are in the house.


This'll change if you ever have kids. You can't punt them over to the neighbors/grandparents every time y'all wanna bang.

Besides, there's all sorts of technology available nowadays with video/sound monitoring that one could park their kid in front on Moana and have a quicky before they even realize what's going on, and the parents can ensure the kid is indeed in front of Moana the whole time.
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Twin3Turbo
12/05/17 4:33:37 PM
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philsov posted...
Besides, there's all sorts of technology available nowadays with video/sound monitoring that one could park their kid in front on Moana and have a quicky before they even realize what's going on, and the parents can ensure the kid is indeed in front of Moana the whole time


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philsov
12/05/17 4:45:38 PM
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What can I say except you're welcome
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LittleRoyal
12/05/17 4:48:04 PM
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eston posted...
The real problem appears to be that they were neglecting the children

This.

Also, open realistionship is fine for you and all but not when youre literally bringing strange men who you dont even know to your houses with your little kids to have sex. The kids will get hurt like that.
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LittleRoyal
12/05/17 4:49:27 PM
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philsov posted...
_Rinku_ posted...
Personally, I'm of the opinion that it's trashy to have sex when anyone other than you and your partner are in the house.


This'll change if you ever have kids. You can't punt them over to the neighbors/grandparents every time y'all wanna bang.

Besides, there's all sorts of technology available nowadays with video/sound monitoring that one could park their kid in front on Moana and have a quicky before they even realize what's going on, and the parents can ensure the kid is indeed in front of Moana the whole time.

Eww at the concept of sound monitoring your kid while having sex
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Darmik
12/05/17 4:54:39 PM
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UnfairRepresent posted...
In respect of both parents, the court is not concerned about their private lives and how they will conduct them unless it impacts on the care of the children which at this time was neglectful.


*shrugs*

Okay. I'm never gonna know the full story from a small article like this. But if they were neglecting their kids the open relationship part of the story isn't really relevant and just seems like an easy headline.
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masticatingman
12/05/17 5:00:40 PM
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UnfairRepresent posted...
masticatingman posted...
I see less of a problem relative to the kids with the father than the mother. Yeah, you shouldn't just be having other dudes come over to your family house explicitly to fuck around lol - the kids are right there and can probably hear/know what's going on. It would obviously cost more but she should've just gotten a babysitter and gone to a motel. Dad sounds like he was trying to be like the dudes in 'Mad Men' - alright but it's not like the kids would have really known better if their mom/caretaker had been attentive.

Why does it harm the kids if someone comes over to fuck?

Unless they're fucking right in front of the kids, this is no different than friends coming over to dinner


Are you seriously acting like kids wouldnt care/notice that their Mother Is getting plowed by a rotating carousel of dudes? This wouldnt be going on in a multilevel mansion dude. I think youre trying to apply adult roommate logic onto children - child protective services are around for a reason.
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UnfairRepresent
12/05/17 5:02:52 PM
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masticatingman posted...

Are you seriously acting like kids wouldnt care/notice that their Mother Is getting plowed by a rotating carousel of dudes?


That's true of plenty of moms ignoring open relationships.

Jesus if every kid who had a mom who slept around was taken away, then there would be more foster parents than Jews in the US
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masticatingman
12/05/17 5:03:44 PM
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UnfairRepresent posted...
masticatingman posted...

Are you seriously acting like kids wouldnt care/notice that their Mother Is getting plowed by a rotating carousel of dudes?


That's true of plenty of moms ignoring open relationships.

Jesus if every kid who had a mom who slept around was taken away, then there would be more foster parents than Jews in the US


Cite? Lol
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_Rinku_
12/05/17 5:24:18 PM
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philsov posted...
_Rinku_ posted...
Personally, I'm of the opinion that it's trashy to have sex when anyone other than you and your partner are in the house.


This'll change if you ever have kids. You can't punt them over to the neighbors/grandparents every time y'all wanna bang.

Besides, there's all sorts of technology available nowadays with video/sound monitoring that one could park their kid in front on Moana and have a quicky before they even realize what's going on, and the parents can ensure the kid is indeed in front of Moana the whole time.

Nah. It's trashy. You wouldn't fuck if you had guests over.
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