Current Events > i think i slowly have happiness figured out

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Life is the pursuit of happiness, and i think happiness is like a fingerprint, everybody have their own unique pattern and pre-conditioned.

Like fingerprints, some pattern repeats in alot of people, but the whole exact and detailed whole are unique to the person, so it is not a wise thing to base your prerequisite for happiness from other person. The hardest part is figure out what makes you happy. Like some people is happy when they have a stable life and family, some are happy when they go parachuting, maybe in some bizzare case you get happiness from other people's suffering.

The next thing is work towards it WHILE enjoying the moment you live in. It is useless to put your whole life into something, especially a big long term thing that makes you focus your whole life. Your life is fragile, and everything you built can fall apart in seconds. Savor every moment and feel the micro ebb and flow. Nothing in life is a constant incline nor decline. Savor the nice coffee you have had this morning, endure the traffic to work even if it frutrastes you.

The third at least for me is the phrase i invented "apathy is bliss"

I dont like the term Ignorance is bliss. How can it be bliss when you know nothing? Because the truth, no matter how you escape from it or other people hide it from you, it still have a chance to catch up and break your Windows, it will break you too probably.

The key is KNOWING and NOT CARING to a CERTAIN DEGREE. As someone who struggled with nihilism, it turned out to be the best thing that happened to me. When you realize a glass is empty, you will probably be disappointed, but when you realize with an empty glass, you can fill it with anything you want thats within your reach it is an epiphany that i am finally the captain of my soul.

And finally, people change. The universe change, nothing last forever. All the previous paragraph is written because it is how i am, it is because my upbringing, my views and philosophy of life, but the most certain thing in this post is nothing is forever. Prepare to lose everything or gain everything. In a day, month, years all i said might be worthless because something happened to me and i changed my mind and views and i am readying myself for it.

So far this way of life works for me. I am more content to be alive as ever. I am working on a goal, but i dont make that goal my whole life. I try to enjoy every bit of leisure i have, while try to endure all hardship.

I dont fucking care what people say about me, how i live not up to people's expectation or how i think i am not being a part in society's standards. I live my way and i wont interfere with yours, i am a selfish bastard and a happy one. I hold my own steer even if it means slamming into a wall at 200mph.
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Shut the fuck up
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REMercsChamp posted...

Shut the fuck up

idgaf lol
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apolloooo posted...

a big long term

Giggity.

This is a good post TC.
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