Current Events > I have a crush on a semi-autistic antisocial chick

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On_The_Edge
06/28/18 2:20:35 PM
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Not using autistic as an insult, mods

She barely texts, has no presence on social media, takes days to respond.

It's annoying >_>
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Genocet_10-325
06/28/18 2:20:53 PM
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Pics
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Veggeta X
06/28/18 2:21:18 PM
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Nope not touching this topic
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bobtuse
06/28/18 2:21:41 PM
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Genocet_10-325 posted...
Pics

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SpinKirby
06/28/18 2:21:50 PM
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Why do you have a crush?
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On_The_Edge
06/28/18 2:22:20 PM
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Uh I don't have pics as she has no social media presence lol

SpinKirby posted...
Why do you have a crush?

Idk she's cute and pleasant and we have a lot of similar interests
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Tappor
06/28/18 2:24:37 PM
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bloodydeath0
06/28/18 2:25:17 PM
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are you dating her
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Genocet_10-325
06/28/18 2:25:41 PM
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What makes you think she's autistic? Could just be social anxiety
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SpinKirby
06/28/18 2:27:02 PM
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On_The_Edge posted...
Idk she's cute and pleasant and we have a lot of similar interests


I didn't know lack of communication was a similar interest.

I'm not trying to be rude, but I had a good friend follow this route and get destroyed after a year in what he thought was a solid relationship.
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treewojima
06/28/18 2:27:32 PM
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Treat them like a normal human being? Try talking to her.
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Genocet_10-325
06/28/18 2:27:44 PM
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SpinKirby posted...
On_The_Edge posted...
Idk she's cute and pleasant and we have a lot of similar interests


I didn't know lack of communication was a similar interest.

I'm not trying to be rude, but I had a good friend follow this route and get destroyed after a year in what he thought was a solid relationship.

What happened?
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eston
06/28/18 2:28:36 PM
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On_The_Edge
06/28/18 2:28:56 PM
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bloodydeath0 posted...
are you dating her

No I want to I'll probably ask her out next time
Genocet_10-325 posted...
What makes you think she's autistic? Could just be social anxiety

That's why I said semi. I don't know for sure. But doesn't seem so good at human relationships.
SpinKirby posted...
On_The_Edge posted...
Idk she's cute and pleasant and we have a lot of similar interests


I didn't know lack of communication was a similar interest.

I'm not trying to be rude, but I had a good friend follow this route and get destroyed after a year in what he thought was a solid relationship.

I'm not a dummy I'll ask her out and if she rejects me I'll move on. She's good at conversation in person, but through text it takes days.
treewojima posted...
Treat them like a normal human being? Try talking to her.

Wym I do talk to her, lol
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treewojima
06/28/18 2:33:06 PM
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Ask her out! If you like someone, go with it. If it's too much for you then back off.
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SpinKirby
06/28/18 2:33:08 PM
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Genocet_10-325 posted...
SpinKirby posted...
On_The_Edge posted...
Idk she's cute and pleasant and we have a lot of similar interests


I didn't know lack of communication was a similar interest.

I'm not trying to be rude, but I had a good friend follow this route and get destroyed after a year in what he thought was a solid relationship.

What happened?


It was a long distance relationship, but it was ok because they met up and talked often on Skype.
They even banged too.

Then one day she decided to delete the concept of love from her life and abruptly told him she felt nothing.

And that was it.

He fuckin died (metaphorically).

On_The_Edge posted...
That's why I said semi. I don't know for sure. But doesn't seem so good at human relationships.


Also, wtf bro.
You sure don't respect someone much if you call them autistic on a whim.
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Lorthremar
06/28/18 2:34:20 PM
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why would you just assume someone has autism, what the fuck
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thronedfire2
06/28/18 2:35:52 PM
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On_The_Edge posted...
That's why I said semi. I don't know for sure. But doesn't seem so good at human relationships.

and there it is
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treewojima
06/28/18 2:35:56 PM
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Lorthremar posted...
why would you just assume someone has autism, what the fuck


also this. why do you think she's autistic?
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On_The_Edge
06/28/18 2:35:59 PM
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lmao geez it's not an insult
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SpinKirby
06/28/18 2:37:00 PM
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Axiom
06/28/18 2:37:11 PM
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On_The_Edge posted...
Not using autistic as an insult, mods

She barely texts, has no presence on social media, takes days to respond.

So are you calling her autistic based off this cause if you are that is definitely using it as an insult
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On_The_Edge
06/28/18 2:37:39 PM
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SpinKirby posted...
lmao geez

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On_The_Edge
06/28/18 2:38:11 PM
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Axiom posted...
On_The_Edge posted...
Not using autistic as an insult, mods

She barely texts, has no presence on social media, takes days to respond.

So are you calling her autistic based off this cause if you are that is definitely using it as an insult

No I have other reasons that I suspect she might be slightly on the spectrum
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Zikten
06/28/18 2:39:07 PM
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I tried to be with a girl like this for over 5 years and it didn't work out. we were both autistic and it just was too hard
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SpinKirby
06/28/18 2:39:47 PM
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Why are we, as humans, capable of such animosity?

Who built us like this? What's the end game here?

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On_The_Edge
06/28/18 2:40:06 PM
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SpinKirby posted...
Why are we, as humans, capable of such animosity?

Who built us like this? What's the end game here?

What are you talking about
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SpinKirby
06/28/18 2:42:04 PM
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On_The_Edge posted...
SpinKirby posted...
Why are we, as humans, capable of such animosity?

Who built us like this? What's the end game here?

What are you talking about


You have a crush on someone, but you just labeled her negatively without really knowing her.
What's the point then?
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juicebox4
06/28/18 2:42:52 PM
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On_The_Edge posted...
Axiom posted...
On_The_Edge posted...
Not using autistic as an insult, mods

She barely texts, has no presence on social media, takes days to respond.

So are you calling her autistic based off this cause if you are that is definitely using it as an insult

No I have other reasons that I suspect she might be slightly on the spectrum

sure ya do bud
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On_The_Edge
06/28/18 2:43:18 PM
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SpinKirby posted...
On_The_Edge posted...
SpinKirby posted...
Why are we, as humans, capable of such animosity?

Who built us like this? What's the end game here?

What are you talking about


You have a crush on someone, but you just labeled her negatively without really knowing her.
What's the point then?

How is that a negative label? I don't consider it in any way negative...

I suspect she might be on the spectrum, why does that imply animosity?
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SpinKirby
06/28/18 2:45:44 PM
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On_The_Edge posted...
SpinKirby posted...
On_The_Edge posted...
SpinKirby posted...
Why are we, as humans, capable of such animosity?

Who built us like this? What's the end game here?

What are you talking about


You have a crush on someone, but you just labeled her negatively without really knowing her.
What's the point then?

How is that a negative label? I don't consider it in any way negative...

I suspect she might be on the spectrum, why does that imply animosity?


So it's easier for you to call someone autistic instead of shy/introverted?

Hell. Just call them weird before 'diagnosing' them with a medical disorder.

Or perhaps you have frequent experience with autistic individuals?
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On_The_Edge
06/28/18 2:46:40 PM
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SpinKirby posted...
On_The_Edge posted...
SpinKirby posted...
On_The_Edge posted...
SpinKirby posted...
Why are we, as humans, capable of such animosity?

Who built us like this? What's the end game here?

What are you talking about


You have a crush on someone, but you just labeled her negatively without really knowing her.
What's the point then?

How is that a negative label? I don't consider it in any way negative...

I suspect she might be on the spectrum, why does that imply animosity?


So it's easier for you to call someone autistic instead of shy/introverted?

Hell. Just call them weird before diagnosing them with a medical disorder.

Ok point taken but I have no animosity towards it either way

What do you want me to do delete the topic and make a new one with the word weird?
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SpinKirby
06/28/18 2:46:50 PM
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Describing ******* in any non-clinical manner is usually a bad idea. Make sure you are not using it as an insult in any way.

I understand and want to post this message anyway

I hate this so much. lmao.
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On_The_Edge
06/28/18 2:46:58 PM
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Or perhaps you have frequent experience with autistic individuals?


I work with one so yes...
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treewojima
06/28/18 2:47:43 PM
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On_The_Edge posted...
SpinKirby posted...
On_The_Edge posted...
SpinKirby posted...
Why are we, as humans, capable of such animosity?

Who built us like this? What's the end game here?

What are you talking about


You have a crush on someone, but you just labeled her negatively without really knowing her.
What's the point then?

How is that a negative label? I don't consider it in any way negative...

I suspect she might be on the spectrum, why does that imply animosity?


you say she's semi-autistic, which is a very specific adjective. why do you assume that she's on the spectrum?
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SpinKirby
06/28/18 2:48:56 PM
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On_The_Edge posted...
SpinKirby posted...
On_The_Edge posted...
SpinKirby posted...
On_The_Edge posted...
SpinKirby posted...
Why are we, as humans, capable of such animosity?

Who built us like this? What's the end game here?

What are you talking about


You have a crush on someone, but you just labeled her negatively without really knowing her.
What's the point then?

How is that a negative label? I don't consider it in any way negative...

I suspect she might be on the spectrum, why does that imply animosity?


So it's easier for you to call someone autistic instead of shy/introverted?

Hell. Just call them weird before diagnosing them with a medical disorder.

Ok point taken but I have no animosity towards it either way

What do you want me to do delete the topic and make a new one with the word weird?


That isn't going to change shit about what you think, so that's not worth arguing about.

Anyway, if ask to meet up ~ hang out somehow.
If she doesn't have any negative interest in you, and isn't super introverted, then it should go ok.
After that, it's up to you to gauge if she's interested or not! :D
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On_The_Edge
06/28/18 2:50:35 PM
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Idk I'm open to changing my mind. I could have used a better word. But I do have suspicions based on some things, it really doesn't matter. I don't care if she is or isn't on the spectrum. At the very least she's quite odd. We've hung out twice this month but I want to ask her on a date, but she's taking forever to respond via text, as always.
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On_The_Edge
06/28/18 2:59:49 PM
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Typically I would say she doesn't like me but she always gets back to me eventually with proposals to hang out. She is just not a social media/texting person tbh. She may not like me but the texting is incidental I think
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SpinKirby
06/28/18 3:01:58 PM
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On_The_Edge posted...
Typically I would say she doesn't like me but she always gets back to me eventually with proposals to hang out. She is just not a social media/texting person tbh. She may not like me but the texting is incidental I think


Do you know if she has m/any other friends?
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On_The_Edge
06/28/18 3:03:09 PM
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SpinKirby posted...
On_The_Edge posted...
Typically I would say she doesn't like me but she always gets back to me eventually with proposals to hang out. She is just not a social media/texting person tbh. She may not like me but the texting is incidental I think


Do you know if she has m/any other friends?

I don't think she has any or many friends at all. She mentioned her best friend but she doesn't seem to know her that well... she told me she's never even been over her best friend's house
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SpinKirby
06/28/18 3:03:39 PM
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On_The_Edge posted...
SpinKirby posted...
On_The_Edge posted...
Typically I would say she doesn't like me but she always gets back to me eventually with proposals to hang out. She is just not a social media/texting person tbh. She may not like me but the texting is incidental I think


Do you know if she has m/any other friends?

I don't think she has any or many friends at all. She mentioned her best friend but she doesn't seem to know her that well... she told me she's never even been over her best friend's house


Time to move in for the kill.
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sktgamer_13dude
06/28/18 3:05:06 PM
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Dont ask her out over text. Do it face to face tbh.
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On_The_Edge
06/28/18 3:05:13 PM
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I am trying to make a move but she's very closed off and like I said she takes days to respond to text. It could be social anxiety. We said we'd go to the aviary next but she's yet to tell me a day that works for her. We have a good time together in person but over text is like pulling teeth with her. But eventually she always responds and tells me when a good day is
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treewojima
06/28/18 3:05:15 PM
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Jesus Christ, just ask her out already.
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On_The_Edge
06/28/18 3:05:57 PM
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sktgamer_13dude posted...
Dont ask her out over text. Do it face to face tbh.

Yea I'm going to. What would be a good way to broach the subject?
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06/28/18 3:06:05 PM
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