Current Events > Real talk: I am in the closet and don't know if I'll come out

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hockeybub89 12/28/19 5:40:24 PM #1:	I don't really have any desire for sex and I'm destructively self-conscious of what people might think, so I don't even know if I should tell them I am attracted to men. --- http://card.psnprofiles.com/1/NIR_Hockey.png http://www.last.fm/user/hockeybub89/ <cite>hockeybub89 posted [p:932167949] in Real talk:... [t:78288839]...</cite> <quote>I don't really have any desire for sex and I'm destructively self-conscious of what people might think, so I don't even know if I should tell them I am attracted to men. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
The Trent 12/28/19 5:40:49 PM #2:	Listen to your heart bro --- i swear to God most of y'all cats just don't know The Trent you barely know yourself so i guess most of y'all should be offended <cite>The Trent posted [p:932167961] in Real talk:... [t:78288839]...</cite> <quote>Listen to your heart bro </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Keith_Valentine 12/28/19 5:49:18 PM #3:	Not surprised tbh. <cite>Keith_Valentine posted [p:932168259] in Real talk:... [t:78288839]...</cite> <quote>Not surprised tbh. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Jagr_68 12/28/19 6:07:07 PM #4:	Tell a close friend who isn't a relative and also that you trust and go from there. --- New York Rangers [2004-2008] https://media.giphy.com/media/WvQHBYW0q4TuxdAg61/giphy.gif https://psnprofiles.com/Jaromiroquai68 <cite>Jagr_68 posted [p:932168929] in Real talk:... [t:78288839]...</cite> <quote>Tell a close friend who isn't a relative and also that you trust and go from there. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
PleaseClap 12/28/19 6:30:50 PM #5:	You gotta follow your dreams --- she/her https://imgur.com/AmWcJjM <cite>PleaseClap posted [p:932169811] in Real talk:... [t:78288839]...</cite> <quote>You gotta follow your dreams</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
MonkeyBones23 12/28/19 6:43:36 PM #6:	Do you really not want sex, or have you just closed your mind to the idea because your fear of coming out/opening yourself up? --- We're a forest of lives, but we grow tall and wide. We'll never be cut down. <cite>MonkeyBones23 posted [p:932170288] in Real talk:... [t:78288839]...</cite> <quote>Do you really not want sex, or have you just closed your mind to the idea because your fear of coming out/opening yourself up? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
SauI_Goodman 12/28/19 6:45:25 PM #7:	Just go to a gay bar in the next town over where nobody knows you. <cite>SauI_Goodman posted [p:932170361] in Real talk:... [t:78288839]...</cite> <quote>Just go to a gay bar in the next town over where nobody knows you. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Gakk86 12/28/19 7:18:55 PM #8:	Seriously, don't worry about the sex and just go and find somebody you want to spend time with. If your personalities are compatible the sex will happen unless you actively resist it. --- All generalizations are false, including this one. <cite>Gakk86 posted [p:932171689] in Real talk:... [t:78288839]...</cite> <quote>Seriously, don't worry about the sex and just go and find somebody you want to spend time with. If your personalities are compatible the sex will happen unless you actively resist it. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Blue_Dream87 12/28/19 7:22:44 PM #9:	I'd confide in at least one person, someone you really trust. My bff came out to me and like a year later came out entirely. Seems like having that support really helped his esteem. You already got so much shit to deal with, your sexuality is meant to be a pleasure. Coming to peace with that will lead to an entirely new and exciting world --- <cite>Blue_Dream87 posted [p:932171829] in Real talk:... [t:78288839]...</cite> <quote>I'd confide in at least one person, someone you really trust. My bff came out to me and like a year later came out entirely. Seems like having that support really helped his esteem. You already got so much shit to deal with, your sexuality is meant to be a pleasure. Coming to peace with that will lead to an entirely new and exciting world </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
hockeybub89 12/28/19 7:46:54 PM #10:	MonkeyBones23 posted... Do you really not want sex, or have you just closed your mind to the idea because your fear of coming out/opening yourself up? I mean, I don't feel like I've ever really had a real urge tbh, but I'm not big on touching at all, so who knows what is really affecting what. I just know that I've always seen some guys and felt more than my typical anxiety; a bit of heart fluttering something more. That sounds so cheesy and clinical. My whole life has been a long buildup of courage to do things I should have addressed years earlier and this has been weighing on me now. I'm 30 years into my life and have never had any sort of romantic relationship. I need to at least test my limits. --- http://card.psnprofiles.com/1/NIR_Hockey.png http://www.last.fm/user/hockeybub89/ <cite>hockeybub89 posted [p:932172694] in Real talk:... [t:78288839]...</cite> <quote>MonkeyBones23 posted... </cite> <quote>Do you really not want sex, or have you just closed your mind to the idea because your fear of coming out/opening yourself up?</quote>I mean, I don't feel like I've ever really had a real urge tbh, but I'm not big on touching at all, so who knows what is really affecting what. I just know that I've always seen some guys and felt more than my typical anxiety; a bit of heart fluttering something more. That sounds so cheesy and clinical. My whole life has been a long buildup of courage to do things I should have addressed years earlier and this has been weighing on me now. I'm 30 years into my life and have never had any sort of romantic relationship. I need to at least test my limits. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Wii_Shaker 12/28/19 7:48:01 PM #11:	Jagr_68 posted... Tell a close friend who isn't a relative and also that you trust and go from there. This. You don't need to be "out" to enjoy your life but you shouldn't be living a secret life either. --- "He busted in, blessed be the Lord Who believe any mess they read up on a message board" -MF DOOM <cite>Wii_Shaker posted [p:932172740] in Real talk:... [t:78288839]...</cite> <quote>Jagr_68 posted... </cite> <quote>Tell a close friend who isn't a relative and also that you trust and go from there.</quote>This. You don't need to be "out" to enjoy your life but you shouldn't be living a secret life either. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
hockeybub89 12/28/19 7:49:59 PM #12:	Gakk86 posted... Seriously, don't worry about the sex and just go and find somebody you want to spend time with. If your personalities are compatible the sex will happen unless you actively resist it. Yeah I'm not really stressing over that part. It's that whole companionship thing that's been pressing on me. --- http://card.psnprofiles.com/1/NIR_Hockey.png http://www.last.fm/user/hockeybub89/ <cite>hockeybub89 posted [p:932172820] in Real talk:... [t:78288839]...</cite> <quote>Gakk86 posted... </cite> <quote>Seriously, don't worry about the sex and just go and find somebody you want to spend time with. If your personalities are compatible the sex will happen unless you actively resist it.</quote>Yeah I'm not really stressing over that part. It's that whole companionship thing that's been pressing on me. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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