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AmericaTheBrave 07/18/20 2:10:49 PM #1:	What do you tell him? "HELL YEAH!' and give him a high five No. Absolutely not. (Discussion ends there) No. You are to remain a virgin until marriage. Say you'd rather he didn't but if he's going to, use protection Tell him yes and stress the importance of safe sex Have a talk on how it's not a good idea, he has his whole life ahead him, but still make sure he has protection because you're realistic Other (say in comments) What do you tell him? - Results (20 votes) "HELL YEAH!' and give him a high five 25% (5 votes) 5 No. Absolutely not. (Discussion ends there) 0% (0 votes) 0 No. You are to remain a virgin until marriage. 5% (1 vote) 1 Say you'd rather he didn't but if he's going to, use protection 10% (2 votes) 2 Tell him yes and stress the importance of safe sex 30% (6 votes) 6 Have a talk on how it's not a good idea, he has his whole life ahead him, but still make sure he has protection because you're realistic 25% (5 votes) 5 Other (say in comments) 5% (1 vote) 1 What do you tell your son? --- https://imgur.com/Asq1ds6 <cite>AmericaTheBrave posted [p:942273899] in Your 16-ye... [t:78855291]...</cite> <quote> What do you tell him? "HELL YEAH!' and give him a high five No. Absolutely not. (Discussion ends there) No. You are to remain a virgin until marriage. Say you'd rather he didn't but if he's going to, use protection Tell him yes and stress the importance of safe sex Have a talk on how it's not a good idea, he has his whole life ahead him, but still make sure he has protection because you're realistic Other (say in comments) Vote View Results What do you tell him? - Results (20 votes) "HELL YEAH!' and give him a high five 25% (5 votes) 5 No. Absolutely not. (Discussion ends there) 0% (0 votes) 0 No. You are to remain a virgin until marriage. 5% (1 vote) 1 Say you'd rather he didn't but if he's going to, use protection 10% (2 votes) 2 Tell him yes and stress the importance of safe sex 30% (6 votes) 6 Have a talk on how it's not a good idea, he has his whole life ahead him, but still make sure he has protection because you're realistic 25% (5 votes) 5 Other (say in comments) 5% (1 vote) 1 Show Voting Form What do you tell your son? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Lost_All_Senses 07/18/20 2:12:16 PM #2:	Id ask him what made him think asking me was the proper move. Then Id give him a wedgie and call him a daddy's boy. --- Name checks out "Stupidity is a spectrum, and we're all on it" - OfDustandBone <cite>Lost_All_Senses posted [p:942273951] in Your 16-ye... [t:78855291]...</cite> <quote>Id ask him what made him think asking me was the proper move. Then Id give him a wedgie and call him a daddy's boy. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
R1masher 07/18/20 2:13:10 PM #3:	As a father of three girls, I would tell him no --- R1R1R1R1R1R1 <cite>R1masher posted [p:942273982] in Your 16-ye... [t:78855291]...</cite> <quote>As a father of three girls, I would tell him no </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
AmericaTheBrave 07/18/20 2:15:45 PM #4:	Lost_All_Senses posted... Id ask him what made him think asking me was the proper move. Then Id give him a wedgie and call him a daddy's boy. Because you're a good dad with a great relationship with your son. --- https://imgur.com/Asq1ds6 <cite>AmericaTheBrave posted [p:942274084] in Your 16-ye... [t:78855291]...</cite> <quote>Lost_All_Senses posted... </cite> <quote>Id ask him what made him think asking me was the proper move. Then Id give him a wedgie and call him a daddy's boy.</quote> Because you're a good dad with a great relationship with your son. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Lost_All_Senses 07/18/20 2:16:53 PM #5:	AmericaTheBrave posted... Because you're a good dad with a great relationship with your son. He sounds like a loser. I didn't have a close connection with my dad and I turned out fine. But yeah, Id probably punch him in his left eye. --- Name checks out "Stupidity is a spectrum, and we're all on it" - OfDustandBone <cite>Lost_All_Senses posted [p:942274126] in Your 16-ye... [t:78855291]...</cite> <quote>AmericaTheBrave posted... </cite> <quote>Because you're a good dad with a great relationship with your son.</quote> He sounds like a loser. I didn't have a close connection with my dad and I turned out fine. But yeah, Id probably punch him in his left eye. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
nativengine 07/18/20 2:17:14 PM #6:	Only if you can beat me in a fight son --- Jive Turkey <cite>nativengine posted [p:942274139] in Your 16-ye... [t:78855291]...</cite> <quote>Only if you can beat me in a fight son </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
AmericaTheBrave 07/18/20 2:21:29 PM #7:	Lost_All_Senses posted... He sounds like a loser. I didn't have a close connection with my dad and I turned out fine. But yeah, Id probably punch him in his left eye. Maybe you'd like to be a better dad than your own? --- https://imgur.com/Asq1ds6 <cite>AmericaTheBrave posted [p:942274274] in Your 16-ye... [t:78855291]...</cite> <quote>Lost_All_Senses posted... </cite> <quote>He sounds like a loser. I didn't have a close connection with my dad and I turned out fine. But yeah, Id probably punch him in his left eye.</quote> Maybe you'd like to be a better dad than your own? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
bladegash 07/18/20 2:22:22 PM #8:	Rawdog or you were never my son --- Snappin necks & Cashin checks <cite>bladegash posted [p:942274304] in Your 16-ye... [t:78855291]...</cite> <quote>Rawdog or you were never my son </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Lost_All_Senses 07/18/20 2:22:51 PM #9:	AmericaTheBrave posted... Maybe you'd like to be a better dad than your own? Yeah, Im jk. I don't do these questions seriously tho. I work with the nuances of each situation. It would completely be dependent on how those first 16 years went. Id be involved --- Name checks out "Stupidity is a spectrum, and we're all on it" - OfDustandBone <cite>Lost_All_Senses posted [p:942274329] in Your 16-ye... [t:78855291]...</cite> <quote>AmericaTheBrave posted... </cite> <quote>Maybe you'd like to be a better dad than your own?</quote> Yeah, Im jk. I don't do these questions seriously tho. I work with the nuances of each situation. It would completely be dependent on how those first 16 years went. Id be involved </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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One_Day_Remains 07/18/20 4:18:41 PM #11:	Why are almost all of these answers so cringeworthy <cite>One_Day_Remains posted [p:942276800] in Your 16-ye... [t:78855291]...</cite> <quote>Why are almost all of these answers so cringeworthy</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
VTBM 07/18/20 4:22:09 PM #12:	"The fuck you asking me for?" --- https://imgur.com/e7sCCSb <cite>VTBM posted [p:942276942] in Your 16-ye... [t:78855291]...</cite> <quote>"The fuck you asking me for?" </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Sariana21 07/18/20 4:42:57 PM #13:	OMG, you have a friend?! I actually have a son who just turned 16. He is autistic and claims to hate all people. He has no friends and no social life. So this conversation would not be happening anytime soon. --- ___ Sari, Mom to DS (07/04) and DD (01/08); Pronouns: she/her/hers <cite>Sariana21 posted [p:942277717] in Your 16-ye... [t:78855291]...</cite> <quote>OMG, you have a friend?! I actually have a son who just turned 16. He is autistic and claims to hate all people. He has no friends and no social life. So this conversation would not be happening anytime soon. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Perascamin 07/18/20 4:46:40 PM #14:	RedWhiteBlue posted... Hope his gf knows which birth control works for her, cuz condoms are so bad that it's better to be a virgin for life. People need to stop thinking this way. Its selfish as fuck for men to improve their pleasure by a very small amount and women are supposed to just suffer the physical and mental side effects of birth control. Most women shouldn't even be using birth control with how much it messes up their bodies. If you're a man who makes his girl get on BC because "I dont like condoms lol" you're a piece of shit with a micro penis --- I've grown. <cite>Perascamin posted [p:942277862] in Your 16-ye... [t:78855291]...</cite> <quote>RedWhiteBlue posted... </cite> <quote>Hope his gf knows which birth control works for her, cuz condoms are so bad that it's better to be a virgin for life.</quote>People need to stop thinking this way. Its selfish as fuck for men to improve their pleasure by a very small amount and women are supposed to just suffer the physical and mental side effects of birth control. Most women shouldn't even be using birth control with how much it messes up their bodies. If you're a man who makes his girl get on BC because "I dont like condoms lol" you're a piece of shit with a micro penis </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
averagejoel 07/18/20 4:49:15 PM #15:	"you should be asking her, not me. it's completely fine as long as you both genuinely want to do it." I would also make sure he knows where the condoms are --- peanut butter and dick <cite>averagejoel posted [p:942277950] in Your 16-ye... [t:78855291]...</cite> <quote>"you should be asking her, not me. it's completely fine as long as you both genuinely want to do it." I would also make sure he knows where the condoms are </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Perascamin 07/18/20 5:22:30 PM #17:	RedWhiteBlue posted... You're assuming it's a guarantee that every method of birth control available to women will give them problems. You're wrong about the small bit of pleasure loss from condoms. You can see it even here on CE, most guys would rather pass. Condoms also affect how it feels for women, Mr.White Knight. No guy should force a woman to do something she doesn't want, but she should definitely figure out her options. A guy's only options are a condom or vasectomy, one of which doesn't prevent various STDs on a one night stand. Yeah, wearing a condom makes it slightly less pleasurable while having sex, but in all honestly it's not that big of a deal. Me and my girl have been having sex for 5 years, 3-4 times a week. Was it slightly better when she used birth control and I used nothing? Sure, it was a little better for me. But it was horrible for her. We've been using condoms for 4 1/2 years. You can see this trend with most women who use BC in long term relationships rather than her man just wearing a rubber. --- I've grown. <cite>Perascamin posted [p:942279078] in Your 16-ye... [t:78855291]...</cite> <quote>RedWhiteBlue posted... </cite> <quote>You're assuming it's a guarantee that every method of birth control available to women will give them problems. You're wrong about the small bit of pleasure loss from condoms. You can see it even here on CE, most guys would rather pass. Condoms also affect how it feels for women, Mr.White Knight. No guy should force a woman to do something she doesn't want, but she should definitely figure out her options. A guy's only options are a condom or vasectomy, one of which doesn't prevent various STDs on a one night stand.</quote>Yeah, wearing a condom makes it slightly less pleasurable while having sex, but in all honestly it's not that big of a deal. Me and my girl have been having sex for 5 years, 3-4 times a week. Was it slightly better when she used birth control and I used nothing? Sure, it was a little better for me. But it was horrible for her. We've been using condoms for 4 1/2 years. You can see this trend with most women who use BC in long term relationships rather than her man just wearing a rubber. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
SpaghettiCookie 07/18/20 5:26:32 PM #18:	Why tf is he asking me permission, this should be between them to I am not involved here. Fucking pansy son --- https://imgur.com/a/UEjz4hP Brave Chrom CYL 6 or Duo Chrom? <cite>SpaghettiCookie posted [p:942279200] in Your 16-ye... [t:78855291]...</cite> <quote>Why tf is he asking me permission, this should be between them to I am not involved here. Fucking pansy son </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
pfh1001 07/18/20 5:29:13 PM #19:	You know, they've supposedly been working on a male birth control pill for 25+ years. Get that shit done already. <cite>pfh1001 posted [p:942279272] in Your 16-ye... [t:78855291]...</cite> <quote>You know, they've supposedly been working on a male birth control pill for 25+ years. Get that shit done already.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Returning_CEmen 07/18/20 5:37:20 PM #20:	Tbh he should bang as many chicks as he can just use a condom <cite>Returning_CEmen posted [p:942279535] in Your 16-ye... [t:78855291]...</cite> <quote>Tbh he should bang as many chicks as he can just use a condom </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
IloveJesus 07/18/20 5:41:49 PM #21:	Perascamin posted... People need to stop thinking this way. Its selfish as fuck for men to improve their pleasure by a very small amount and women are supposed to just suffer the physical and mental side effects of birth control. Most women shouldn't even be using birth control with how much it messes up their bodies. If you're a man who makes his girl get on BC because "I dont like condoms lol" you're a piece of shit with a micro penis 1. It's not just the man's pleasure that is affected. 2. Plenty of women use birth control without any problems. 3. You have absolutely no fucking right to tell people that they should be willing to have sex that they don't want to have. --- Jesus loves us. It only seems fair to love him back. <cite>IloveJesus posted [p:942279681] in Your 16-ye... [t:78855291]...</cite> <quote>Perascamin posted... </cite> <quote>People need to stop thinking this way. Its selfish as fuck for men to improve their pleasure by a very small amount and women are supposed to just suffer the physical and mental side effects of birth control. Most women shouldn't even be using birth control with how much it messes up their bodies. If you're a man who makes his girl get on BC because "I dont like condoms lol" you're a piece of shit with a micro penis</quote> 1. It's not just the man's pleasure that is affected. 2. Plenty of women use birth control without any problems. 3. You have absolutely no fucking right to tell people that they should be willing to have sex that they don't want to have. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ThePrinceFish 07/18/20 5:42:21 PM #22:	"I don't know, CAN you?!" --- Then shall the righteous shine forth as the sun in the kingdom of their Father. Who hath ears to hear, let him hear. <cite>ThePrinceFish posted [p:942279709] in Your 16-ye... [t:78855291]...</cite> <quote>"I don't know, CAN you?!" </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Perascamin 07/18/20 5:45:16 PM #23:	IloveJesus posted... 1. It's not just the man's pleasure that is affected. 2. Plenty of women use birth control without any problems. 3. You have absolutely no fucking right to tell people that they should be willing to have sex that they don't want to have. More women suffer intensely as a result of BC. This is not a discussion. --- I've grown. <cite>Perascamin posted [p:942279828] in Your 16-ye... [t:78855291]...</cite> <quote>IloveJesus posted... </cite> <quote>1. It's not just the man's pleasure that is affected. 2. Plenty of women use birth control without any problems. 3. You have absolutely no fucking right to tell people that they should be willing to have sex that they don't want to have.</quote>More women suffer intensely as a result of BC. This is not a discussion. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
IloveJesus 07/19/20 1:58:18 AM #24:	Perascamin posted... More women suffer intensely as a result of BC. This is not a discussion. Firstly, you have only answered one of my points. Secondly, it absolutely should be a discussion. A discussion between the people that are actually having sex with each other. --- Jesus loves us. It only seems fair to love him back. <cite>IloveJesus posted [p:942294568] in Your 16-ye... [t:78855291]...</cite> <quote>Perascamin posted... </cite> <quote>More women suffer intensely as a result of BC. This is not a discussion.</quote> Firstly, you have only answered one of my points. Secondly, it absolutely should be a discussion. A discussion between the people that are actually having sex with each other. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
YugiNoob 07/19/20 2:04:54 AM #25:	Reminds me of this https://youtu.be/O_OE5DjKuRk?t=143 --- Bun bun :3 <cite>YugiNoob posted [p:942294694] in Your 16-ye... [t:78855291]...</cite> <quote>Reminds me of this https://youtu.be/O_OE5DjKuRk?t=143 </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
joe40001 07/19/20 2:46:10 AM #26:	Way too young --- "joe is attractive and quite the brilliant poster" - Seiichi Omori https://imgur.com/TheGsZ9 <cite>joe40001 posted [p:942295439] in Your 16-ye... [t:78855291]...</cite> <quote>Way too young </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
KStateKing17 07/19/20 2:54:48 AM #27:	Somewhere between the 4th and 5th option. I'm not going to be all "yeah, go fuck that pussy up", but by 16 we would have already discussed safe sex and the consequences that can come with sex in general. --- The 17th King of the State of K <cite>KStateKing17 posted [p:942295573] in Your 16-ye... [t:78855291]...</cite> <quote>Somewhere between the 4th and 5th option. I'm not going to be all "yeah, go fuck that pussy up", but by 16 we would have already discussed safe sex and the consequences that can come with sex in general. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Solid Snake07 07/19/20 2:55:48 AM #28:	"If you've got to ask the answer is no" Words to live by --- "People incapable of guilt usually do have a good time" -Detective Rust Cohle <cite>Solid Snake07 posted [p:942295595] in Your 16-ye... [t:78855291]...</cite> <quote>"If you've got to ask the answer is no" Words to live by </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
UnfairRepresent 07/20/20 12:03:37 PM #30:	Solid Snake07 posted... "If you've got to ask the answer is no" Words to live by "I feel this urge to kill them but because of morality, should I let the hostages go?" --- ^ Hey now that's completely unfair! https://imgur.com/yPw05Ob <cite>UnfairRepresent posted [p:942349756] in Your 16-ye... [t:78855291]...</cite> <quote>Solid Snake07 posted...</cite> <quote>"If you've got to ask the answer is no" Words to live by </quote> "I feel this urge to kill them but because of morality, should I let the hostages go?"</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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