Current Events > The divorce rate is kind of cringey

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On_The_Edge
02/19/21 5:27:39 PM
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Why pretend that it's till death do you part, through better or worse, sickness and health, etc... if it's not?

Unless there's infidelity or abuse divorce is cringe.
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CanuckCowboy
02/19/21 5:30:51 PM
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Bad take.

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Lorenzo_2003
02/19/21 5:32:48 PM
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Not sure what youre getting at here. Lots of people dont divorce, even if there is infidelity or abuse. There is no pretending. For them, it really is till death do us part.

Whether or not that is good or bad would depend on individual views, but either way it does exist.


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Tsukasa1891
02/19/21 5:39:02 PM
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It should be changed to til one of you don't feel like it anymore just to be honest.
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DeadBankerDream
02/19/21 5:39:56 PM
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On_The_Edge posted...
Why pretend that it's till death do you part,

People don't pretend that.

You can close this topic now.
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Giant_Aspirin
02/19/21 5:40:55 PM
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On_The_Edge posted...
Unless there's infidelity or abuse divorce is cringe.

so if people are unhappily married they should just suck it up and stay miserable for the rest of their lives? have you ever in your life made a decision that you now regret, or realize wasn't the greatest idea, especially a decision you made 10 or 20 years ago?

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SSJCAT
02/19/21 5:41:12 PM
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Divorce is cringey marriages that are unhappy should just stay together forever

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Anteaterking
02/19/21 5:45:43 PM
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The Trent
02/19/21 5:46:27 PM
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what if your wife is like really into hgtv is that decent grounds

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Hop103
02/19/21 5:46:52 PM
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That's a terrible take, there's nothing wrong with having a divorce if the flames of love runs out.
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RetsuZaiZen
02/19/21 5:47:34 PM
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It's just words man. Vows aren't meant to be taken literally.

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The Trent
02/19/21 5:47:58 PM
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RetsuZaiZen posted...
It's just words man. Vows aren't meant to be taken literally.

especially if you hold your hand behind your back and cross your fingers

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ColdOne666
02/19/21 5:49:05 PM
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TC is right though, way to many stupid people get married and divorced as if it's some type of contest.

The words are basically meaningless now.

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DeadBankerDream
02/19/21 5:49:46 PM
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ColdOne666 posted...
TC is right though, way to many stupid people get married and divorced as if it's some type of contest.

The words are basically meaningless now.

Okay.

So?
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The Trent
02/19/21 5:50:07 PM
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nobody:
CE: everything is a farce and a meaningless lie except for progressive politics

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Frizzurd
02/19/21 7:05:32 PM
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Giant_Aspirin posted...
so if people are unhappily married they should just suck it up and stay miserable for the rest of their lives? have you ever in your life made a decision that you now regret, or realize wasn't the greatest idea, especially a decision you made 10 or 20 years ago?

Like going to college?

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DarthAragorn
02/19/21 7:10:09 PM
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Can't get divorced if you'll never get married
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Payzmaykr
02/19/21 7:13:15 PM
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I honestly cant think of more than two people I went to school with who are happily married with kids. People dont want the commitment and they cant afford it.

Men are flighty in regards to commitment because of the sexism in the divorce courts. This is a simple fact. Men have to fight to get even partial custody and they are ordered by default to pay child support. Its the age old scenario of paying to have some other guy raise your kids.

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Lost_All_Senses
02/19/21 7:14:44 PM
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50% of people staying married is the more insane part.

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TheMikh
02/19/21 7:14:53 PM
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vows mean nothing in societies with no fear of god

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Lost_All_Senses
02/19/21 7:16:06 PM
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PrideOfLion posted...
Divorce rate being high is not a bad thing, plenty of people in the past did not have the option of leaving bad marriages

Back in my day, we stayed in loveless marriages until we died. We were honorable

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Panthera
02/19/21 7:21:20 PM
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People turn out to not be able to perfectly predict exactly how both they and another person will feel decades later. Shocking

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Sada_Pop
02/19/21 8:19:47 PM
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Panthera posted...
People turn out to not be able to perfectly predict exactly how both they and another person will feel decades later. Shocking

Almost as if marriage ain't the best idea.

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Unsugarized_Foo
02/19/21 8:21:07 PM
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Marriage is a contract that protects the dependants

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berlyman101
02/19/21 8:22:34 PM
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I think it should last as long as a driver's license. Renew it every 7-8 years with the commitment from both parties or let it expire.

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Lorenzo_2003
02/19/21 8:26:23 PM
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Sada_Pop posted...
Almost as if marriage ain't the best idea.

Almost as if marriage simply has high standards that most people can not or refuse to meet, either because they chose the wrong potential spouse or they, themselves, have flaws that make it hard to work through. Its one or the other, maybe both. Thats on the players, not the game.

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Prismsblade
02/19/21 8:27:47 PM
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Marriage is a just a bad deal. That can take a turn for the worst overnight and then just like that, years, possibly decades of your life committed to a spouse has went down the drain.

Along with decades even of your acquired wealth and assets upon worst cases.

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Alteres
02/19/21 8:29:39 PM
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The Trent wins.

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Prestoff
02/19/21 8:32:17 PM
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Divorce rate is at its lowest right now because not many people are getting married to begin with. Most are waiting at a later age, which is a good thing in my opinion because I personally do believe many people divorce way too easily because they get married too quickly. Divorce is a necessary evil, but I fucking hate it when children are involved because it really fucks them up.

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jon1012
02/20/21 12:14:43 AM
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Prestoff posted...
Divorce rate is at its lowest right now..

Since when? Proof

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VigorouslySwish
02/20/21 12:15:55 AM
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On_The_Edge posted...
Why pretend that it's till death do you part, through better or worse, sickness and health, etc... if it's not?

Unless there's infidelity or abuse divorce is cringe.

Because I have no skills and Im losing my looks so I have to marry a man to take half his shit in three years just to survive

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pogo_rabid
02/20/21 12:18:54 AM
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The 50% divorce rate is a myth
https://www.insider.com/what-is-the-divorce-rate-2017-2

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Prestoff
02/20/21 12:32:48 AM
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jon1012 posted...
Since when? Proof

https://www.goldbergjones-or.com/divorce/divorce-by-generation/

Well it's more like Millenials having the lowest divorce rates while Baby Boomers have the highest.

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Middle hope
02/20/21 12:33:02 AM
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Whats even sadder is dum dumb who get married multiple times.

"Yeah I'm on my 5th divorce but I'm sure this is the one!"

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Naysaspace
02/20/21 12:33:56 AM
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You vastly underestimate the amount of people who get married for reasons other than love.

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Solid Snake07
02/20/21 12:36:13 AM
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People change and make decisions they regret later

Staying in failed marriage is way more cringe for you and everyone around you

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CanuckCowboy
02/20/21 12:44:22 AM
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Prestoff posted...
https://www.goldbergjones-or.com/divorce/divorce-by-generation/

Well it's more like Millenials having the lowest divorce rates while Baby Boomers have the highest.

I'm too lazy to read this right now but there are so many factors that play into that its meaningless unless it was under very specific conditions.

The obvious one which I just assume they woulda accounted for being time.

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Prestoff
02/20/21 12:46:13 AM
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CanuckCowboy posted...
I'm too lazy to read this right now but there are so many factors that play into that its meaningless unless it was under very specific conditions.

The obvious one which I just assume they woulda accounted for being time.

It is meaningless, but most of it points to socio-economic reasons for why divorce rates are down.

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Frizzurd
02/21/21 3:35:26 AM
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It was cringey when used to deny gay marriage on the basis of marriage being sacred.

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NonDairyMiltank
02/21/21 3:55:54 AM
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just stop treating marriage like an ideal
it never was

plenty of people in the west want to have a marriage crossed off their bucket list
but very few of them are legit marriage material that could last more than a few years
they wanna be married for the status, but have zero intention of being a committed husband or wife
they don't know how to treat a good partner besides taking them for granted...

don't worry about marriage rates, let it die, life aint Disney
its what the people have been pushing for whether they admit it or not
too many people rather be married to their phones, its how theyre being raised now

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Arcanine2009
02/21/21 4:06:02 AM
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Marriage like any relationship... is like a job.. needs constant effort. If the expectations are high from the get go especially, and you get too comfortable and put significantly less effort and and fix the problems, it's doomed.

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cellus523
02/21/21 2:39:55 PM
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If you adjust for the people who have only been divorced once instead of counting that guy/lady whose on their 4+ marriage the rates won't look so bad

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RiKuToTheMiGhtY
02/21/21 2:42:22 PM
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What a shitty topic.

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Doom_Art
02/21/21 2:43:47 PM
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The word "cringe" is really misused lol

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