Current Events > Anyone else here been in a long term relationship (5+ years) and live separate?

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My and my bf met 7 years ago. But it took few years before we could say its a romantic relationship as well. But yeh we never lived together. Kinda feel that kinda has helped us grow closer even if its doing it slowly. We still have fun together and excitement.

Just wondering how things worked out for you?

We might some day live together but well see.

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I'm poly and have been with one girl since early/ mid 2015 and another since around this time 2016. So yes?

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Crono99 posted...

I been with my gf for 10 years. We lived separately between 2013 and 2018 because she went to college in the states

It's manageable but the problem is that it delays finding out certain things about the other person that you can only truly figure out once you've actually lived together for some time

I see, Im sure there would be new challanges and benifts living together, but we know eachother very deep so I cant see any surprises.

For both of us own space and time is very important.

This is my first and only real relationship like this, just wondering how others feel with not living together. Just feels like its something you have to do if you are a couple, then again we are not a normal couple.

gunplagirl posted...

I'm poly and have been with one girl since early/ mid 2015 and another since around this time 2016. So yes?

Ah ok, how has that been for you, challenges and benifits?

Dont think me or bf can do poly, we are open tho like if there would be an oppertunity for fun times, but neither have done that in years except I had some light stuff this summer. But we dont go out looking for sex.

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That's weird tc

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