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hockeybub89
07/02/23 2:56:53 PM
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I haven't spoken to him in almost a decade, except the time he showed up at my job unannounced. He walked out on my mom, made sure she got nothing from the sale of the house, and completely fucked up the lives of me, my siblings, and my mom for YEARS.

He's texted me a few times, but I never respond. Now he texts me that my last living grandparent is in hospice and goes "Shall I assume you don't care? You're better than that."

Screw this guy, man.

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Humble_Novice
07/02/23 2:59:44 PM
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Is this perhaps the only time you and your mom can come to an agreement? What does he think about you being... you know.

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ViewtifulJoe
07/02/23 2:59:56 PM
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Says more about him jumping to conclusions and assuming the worst than it says about you, doesn't it?

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drclaeys
07/02/23 3:01:15 PM
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Friends,

But do you "know" this grandparent???? it sounds like you do not.

So no big deal. I Think you should leave a message, tell him how you feel,
and that you are still bitter. then block that number. and TELL him your blocking it.


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Rise_Makaveli
07/02/23 3:02:24 PM
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Go see your grandma anyway unless you got beef with her too. Just dont tell him.

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hockeybub89
07/02/23 3:04:30 PM
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I have no animosity towards my grandmother, but I know I'm going to get jumped by my father if I show up at hospice or the funeral. And I don't think I can take reopening the wound in one of those places.

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hockeybub89
07/02/23 3:24:36 PM
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So... my grandma is essentially going to pass any day now. Sounds like she's barely sentient. And dear old dad responds to me saying I care with "I was hoping to get a reaction. You've been ignoring my texts, remember?"

I can't do this! I'm too nice!

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Unknown5uspect
07/02/23 3:26:53 PM
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Fuck that. If you tell him anything tell him to eat a dick with that manipulative bullshit.

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YourBestFrenemy
07/02/23 3:28:55 PM
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Tell your estranged dad to piss off, and stay fucking stranged.

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hockeybub89
07/02/23 3:29:46 PM
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I may just tell him *blocks number*

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Tyranthraxus
07/02/23 3:31:21 PM
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Say something like "my grandmother may die tomorrow but my father died 10 years ago"

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Bandit_Keith
07/02/23 3:32:00 PM
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hockeybub89 posted...
And dear old dad responds to me saying I care with "I was hoping to get a reaction. You've been ignoring my texts, remember?"
Disgusting. Straight up admitting that he is using his dying mother to harass and manipulate you.

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