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Jen0125
04/05/17 1:18:40 PM
#103:


quigonzel posted...

Well, sorry you think that. I'm not sure where you got the idea that I was turned down for promotion when I was already a store leader and there's nowhere to really go from there. I already hit that dead-end so I was in a rut.


you were trying to become a district manager or something and that chick got promoted over you. you tried to make it seem like it was due to sexist favoritism when in reality it was likely due to poor performance based on the reason you got fired.

quigonzel posted...
I freely owned up to being late for work but that isn't indicative of My overall performance or my stores overall performance. All I know is I worked my ass off in that store for seven years all the way from being a holiday hire to running the store. I'm not even bitter from being fired because I knew it was my fault but that doesn't take away from my accomplishments or how well my store was doing at the time of my termination or leading up to it.

I think it's interesting that one event in your eyes throws my entire tenure at GameStop into question like it was some kind of long con lie to the message board here.


my point is that you made it seem like you were a perfect model employee until you copped up to getting fire for poor performance. being late consistently is poor performance. then you made it seem like oh you know iwas only late because i can open the store faster so i just did that. i just feel like you really misrepresented yourself and your professionalism. as such i just don't know how much i actually believe about what you say for your store metrics.

that's just me though and i'm one person so it doesn't really matter.
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nurlen
04/05/17 1:27:36 PM
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One problem, red, is she won't know who he is. He could slip his hs picture in with the note to make it extra creepy I guess.
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DarkProto05
04/05/17 1:46:16 PM
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ftatman posted...
Funny line! But in reality you should be down to earth, strike up a conversation about anything at all (how her day is going or something basic) then after you've chatted for a few mins and you're both feeling comfortable, ask if she wants to go to X venue at X time cos you're going and maybe she'd like to come along. If she's interested, she'll say yes or give you an alternative time/date if she's busy; if she's not interested, no harm done and you go about your day. If she says no, don't take it to heart, the chances are low so no big deal; if she says yes, see it as a bonus. Be cool.

Before you do, think to yourself "am i the type of person who would be worth her time and would I bring something to the relationship that she would benefit from" cos she'd be asking herself the same thing. You've got that initial moment and those couple of mins of chatting to convince her to take a punt. If you don't honestly believe you've got something she'd be interested in or would be worth her time, don't go for it.

And for those asking 'you'll never get anywhere if you never take a chance', i say this: you should be stacking the odds in your favour. Go to the gym, get a cool job, get a cool hobby, etc. You don't get anything in this life handed to you. Make yourself an attractive proposition to the best extent you can, then take gambles on the opportunities you think you stand of chance of actually winning.

Do all of that stuff to attract a cashier? Can she benefit him in a relationship?
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RedPixel
04/05/17 1:49:21 PM
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bernieflanders posted...
RedPixel posted...
"[Her name here],

I'm not sure how to say this without it sounding weird, so I thought the least I can do to save face is to acknowledge that it is weird and to keep it discreet. I think you're a really nice girl and I would like to know if you would like to hang out sometime.

I apologize if this makes you feel uncomfortable in any way, and I will drop it completely if I don't hear back from you. I just happened to think that you seemed cool and funny, and had no way of reaching out to a stranger while she was at work.

My name is [your first name]. My number is [...] and again, I'm sorry if this in any way offended or embarrassed you. Those were not my intentions.

Have a great day and I hope to hear back from you. If not, this never happened :)"

this is ultra-pathetic and would not do the job in the vast majority of cases

Acknowledging it's creepy might help your case.

this is never true

In hindsight of making this suggestion, I'd have to agree. There's no way to ask Gamestop Girl out without sounding creepy, then.

You could always ask how much she'd pay for your Nintendo "Wii-ner." [Insert bad laughtrack here]
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JixHedgehog
04/06/17 3:12:51 AM
#108:


Bump
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itsyourlife
04/06/17 4:56:08 AM
#109:


shadowsword87 posted...
Lightning Bolt posted...
Why come?
I wouldn't mind whatsoever getting asked out where I work. Hell, if they have reason to be in the lab in the first place they're probably good people.


Because:
1. They can't leave the situation if they say, "no" and it gets awkward AF.
2. If they say "no", you still have to do business with you, and it's awkward AF.
3. They're f***ing working and are being paid to not treat you like garbage so you have literally no idea what they're like outside of work (I know I act differently at work).
4. It's the most awkward f***ing thing ever, no stop, don't ever do that.

3 of these points don't count, because if you're working at gamestop, you already feel awkward as fuck.
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DeathMagnetic80
04/06/17 12:29:40 PM
#110:


Don't ask a woman out when she's at work, seriously. Time and place, guys.
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dedbus
04/06/17 6:01:35 PM
#111:


I too feel in love with a beautiful GameStop girl. After much deliberation I gave up on my feelings. They don't want to be hit on by hideous beasts such as myself. Well next thing you know I was picking up an old tales game. This time there would be a guest ahead of me hitting on her. I thought how obnoxious, this would never work, but at least he had a chip on his shoulder and the balls to throw everything into the pot, even if it would be a miss. To my surprise she saw the inner kindness and said yes.
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Ogurisama
04/06/17 6:09:19 PM
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This awkward guy came in just the other where i work (not Gamestop) and started hitting on one of my coworks. She wasnt intrested at all, but was trying to be nice. Once he left we made fun of him.
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Jen0125
04/06/17 6:09:35 PM
#113:


dedbus posted...
I too feel in love with a beautiful GameStop girl. After much deliberation I gave up on my feelings. They don't want to be hit on by hideous beasts such as myself. Well next thing you know I was picking up an old tales game. This time there would be a guest ahead of me hitting on her. I thought how obnoxious, this would never work, but at least he had a chip on his shoulder and the balls to throw everything into the pot, even if it would be a miss. To my surprise she saw the inner kindness and said yes.


oh you liar
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bernieflanders
04/06/17 6:13:28 PM
#114:


Ogurisama posted...
This awkward guy came in just the other where i work (not Gamestop) and started hitting on one of my coworks. She wasnt intrested at all, but was trying to be nice. Once he left we made fun of him.

next time don't even wait until he leaves
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Lobomoon
04/06/17 6:21:11 PM
#115:


JixHedgehog posted...
Bump


Why?!
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TheCyborgNinja
04/06/17 6:29:01 PM
#116:


RedPixel posted...
bernieflanders posted...
RedPixel posted...
"[Her name here],

I'm not sure how to say this without it sounding weird, so I thought the least I can do to save face is to acknowledge that it is weird and to keep it discreet. I think you're a really nice girl and I would like to know if you would like to hang out sometime.

I apologize if this makes you feel uncomfortable in any way, and I will drop it completely if I don't hear back from you. I just happened to think that you seemed cool and funny, and had no way of reaching out to a stranger while she was at work.

My name is [your first name]. My number is [...] and again, I'm sorry if this in any way offended or embarrassed you. Those were not my intentions.

Have a great day and I hope to hear back from you. If not, this never happened :)"

this is ultra-pathetic and would not do the job in the vast majority of cases

Acknowledging it's creepy might help your case.

this is never true

In hindsight of making this suggestion, I'd have to agree. There's no way to ask Gamestop Girl out without sounding creepy, then.

You could always ask how much she'd pay for your Nintendo "Wii-ner." [Insert bad laughtrack here]

Being charismatic and handsome almost always works, but not everyone is dealt that hand to play. As long as she's interested, nothing reasonable will seem creepy. Conversely, if she isn't interested, almost anything will look creepy.
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JixHedgehog
04/06/17 6:39:02 PM
#117:


Lobomoon posted...
JixHedgehog posted...
Bump


Why?!


Hoping to hear from TC on how its going
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gravy
04/06/17 6:43:36 PM
#118:


Try making some small talk with her. Most of the guys that go in there aren't exactly the most sociable so you're already ahead of the curve.

Try making her laugh a little bit. If it's at something stupid, then you're golden.

Then, all you do is say "you seem like a nice person, want to get dinner on friday?"

have a day in mind that you know you're free. Saying "some time" makes you come off as flaky. Saying "friday" makes you come off as determined and with a plan. Apparently girls pay attention to that stuff. The girl I'm interested in said that me being flaky was a turn off for her.
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thecolorgreen
04/06/17 10:37:58 PM
#119:


JixHedgehog posted...
Lobomoon posted...
JixHedgehog posted...
Bump


Why?!


Hoping to hear from TC on how its going


I decided i dont like bloodborne and will go trade it in for something else
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Lobomoon
04/06/17 10:40:49 PM
#120:


thecolorgreen posted...
JixHedgehog posted...
Lobomoon posted...
JixHedgehog posted...
Bump


Why?!


Hoping to hear from TC on how its going


I decided i dont like bloodborne and will go trade it in for something else


For love?

<3
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Unbridled9
04/06/17 10:45:22 PM
#121:


Don't ask her while she's working and ESPECIALLY not if there are other people in the store (doubly-so for the line) as that's almost certain to elicit a company policy 'no'. You need to work to get it up there. Find a shared interest and see if you can do it with her then, slowly, once you've got a stable relationship, then ask if she'd like to go out. Otherwise, if you're lucky, you'll just get a 'no' and posting on 'Not Always Right' as opposed to kicked out of the store.
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Zeus
04/06/17 11:23:24 PM
#122:


RedPixel posted...
To be honest, I wouldn't ask out a girl who's on the job.

As cute, cool, funny as she might be, she's working and it might make her feel uncomfortable.

Having said that, if you're incredibly determined, what you could do is slip a note inside a video game box that says something along the lines of this:

"[Her name here],

I'm not sure how to say this without it sounding weird, so I thought the least I can do to save face is to acknowledge that it is weird and to keep it discreet. I think you're a really nice girl and I would like to know if you would like to hang out sometime.

I apologize if this makes you feel uncomfortable in any way, and I will drop it completely if I don't hear back from you. I just happened to think that you seemed cool and funny, and had no way of reaching out to a stranger while she was at work.

My name is [your first name]. My number is [...] and again, I'm sorry if this in any way offended or embarrassed you. Those were not my intentions.

Have a great day and I hope to hear back from you. If not, this never happened :)"

I still wouldn't advise this, though.

Acknowledging it's creepy might help your case.


Notes actually make it a lot creepier and more cringeworthy. I worked with a photo tech who used to slip notes in when he was attracted to a girl who dropped off the photos. Not only did it not get him a relationship, but it led him to be written up several times. Honestly, I'm just surprised he's not a sex offender now.
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wwinterj25
04/06/17 11:28:18 PM
#123:


So did anything actually happen or not?
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thecolorgreen
04/06/17 11:36:56 PM
#124:


wwinterj25 posted...
So did anything actually happen or not?


I will try next week
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Lobomoon
04/06/17 11:45:55 PM
#125:


thecolorgreen posted...
wwinterj25 posted...
So did anything actually happen or not?


I will try next week


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bernieflanders
04/07/17 12:07:12 AM
#126:


thecolorgreen posted...
wwinterj25 posted...
So did anything actually happen or not?


I will try next week

how about don't
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Zeus
04/07/17 1:16:08 AM
#127:


wwinterj25 posted...
So did anything actually happen or not?


idk, I thought the whole thing was a joke.

Personally, there was one cute chick who was working at one of my local Gamestops some years ago who I was tempted to ask out and I kinda feel like I dodged a bullet because I ran into her years later and she's just working at another Gamestop. Call me a feminist, but I like women who have actual careers (no disrespect to anybody working at a Gamestop but c'mon, you know you could do better than working at a Gamestop... and deep down in your heart you probably know it)
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TheCyborgNinja
04/07/17 3:20:09 AM
#128:


Lobomoon posted...
thecolorgreen posted...
JixHedgehog posted...
Lobomoon posted...
JixHedgehog posted...
Bump


Why?!


Hoping to hear from TC on how its going


I decided i dont like bloodborne and will go trade it in for something else


For love?

<3

Apparently not, unless love is followed by pillow and preceded by Japanese ;P

Seriously though, this is kind of a lose-lose. I wasn't confident with women because I spent grades 6-9 as a total dork, then a couple more as a partial one... All my problems were me not being confident enough to acknowledge when anyone liked me combined with assuming I'd be rejected if I said anything. Asking for advice is basically giving up because there are too many variables for anyone to accurately solve this. The objective "don't do it" response seems like the wisest one at the end of the day. Simply hanging out and making conversation is the furthest I'd take it unless it became obvious she was into me.

I worked at GS for about 9 years total (ugh... I quit in 2012) and in my time there we all laughed about dudes that would creep on the women that worked there (even I had a guy stalking me until he "coincidentally" ran into me elsewhere and I threatened to beat him up - by that point it was justified, trust me when I say there was a lot to this story).

It was never even close in terms physical appearance between the GS women and their "suitors". The dudes were T-ball players up against MLB all-stars. Half the female employees I've seen are hot... Twice there were girls that went out with customers that seemed okay, but both times ended in failure anyway. I dunno what the first story is, but the second was some mama's boy who just found his first girlfriend and he got all clingy.
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jayj350
04/07/17 4:45:56 AM
#129:


This is just the saddest thing I have seen. Sad.
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jayj350
04/07/17 4:48:11 AM
#130:


Zangulus posted...
Seriously? Do you not think she has sweaty, foul smelling idiots asking her out nearly constantly? Why the hell would you ask such a thing.

Become her friend. Hang out. Beat the shit out of her in Smash Bros, and she will succumb to your power.

Or she'll be the shit out of you and peg your bitch ass.

Either way, sex.

Lol @ thinking she wants to play video games with you. Sad.
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TheCyborgNinja
04/07/17 5:00:09 AM
#131:


jayj350 posted...
This is just the saddest thing I have seen. Sad.

Yeah, it kind of is. I tried to offer my insight, but it really is a case of this topic being vagina repellent.
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Renraku_San
04/07/17 12:39:56 PM
#132:


Don't let the haters deter you TC, keep your chin up and get it done! Keep us posted with updates and good luck man.
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bernieflanders
04/07/17 12:42:02 PM
#133:


Renraku_San posted...
Don't let the haters deter you TC, keep your chin up and get it done! Keep us posted with updates and good luck man.

yeah don't let people tell you that you're being creepy and causing an uncomfortable and inescapable situation for someone while they're on the clock. people who consider other people's feelings are just haters. good luck in creeping on girls while they're stuck at work and have no choice but to put up with your bullshit
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nurlen
04/07/17 12:46:32 PM
#134:


bernieflanders posted...
Renraku_San posted...
Don't let the haters deter you TC, keep your chin up and get it done! Keep us posted with updates and good luck man.

yeah don't let people tell you that you're being creepy and causing an uncomfortable and inescapable situation for someone while they're on the clock. people who consider other people's feelings are just haters. good luck in creeping on girls while they're stuck at work and have no choice but to put up with your bullshit

Would you prefer he wait around back for her to get off and leave the building?

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Renraku_San
04/07/17 12:48:38 PM
#135:


bernieflanders posted...
Renraku_San posted...
Don't let the haters deter you TC, keep your chin up and get it done! Keep us posted with updates and good luck man.

yeah don't let people tell you that you're being creepy and causing an uncomfortable and inescapable situation for someone while they're on the clock. people who consider other people's feelings are just haters. good luck in creeping on girls while they're stuck at work and have no choice but to put up with your bullshit


Does gamestop chain them to the floor?

Haters gonna be triggered.
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bernieflanders
04/07/17 12:50:54 PM
#136:


creepers gonna deny reality
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Renraku_San
04/07/17 12:51:45 PM
#137:


bernieflanders posted...
creepers gonna deny reality


If creepin=getting laid, then yeah bruh, I'm a creeper.
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bernieflanders
04/07/17 12:52:09 PM
#138:


hahahahaha spoken like a true permavirgin
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Renraku_San
04/07/17 1:39:38 PM
#139:


bernieflanders posted...
hahahahaha spoken like a true permavirgin


Hey, not saying I get laid as frequently as Larry...
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thecolorgreen
04/10/17 8:32:18 AM
#140:


guys, I'm actually liking bloodborne now so I dont really have reason to go to gamestop and get something else
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-Komaiko54-
04/10/17 9:04:55 AM
#141:


TC pls post pics so we can know if you're ugly or noooooot~

thecolorgreen posted...
guys, I'm actually liking bloodborne now so I dont really have reason to go to gamestop and get something else


http://www.gamestop.com/preowned
start shoppin'
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nurlen
04/10/17 9:33:33 AM
#142:


thecolorgreen posted...
guys, I'm actually liking bloodborne now so I dont really have reason to go to gamestop and get something else

So...you're a pussywimp. Okay.
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