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gamepimp12
04/14/17 7:22:57 PM
#1:


Dating this girl

Asked to see her this week for our third date but she said she was busy all week (2nd to last week of class totally understand).

Been snapping herself a couple times eatting around campus with friends(including a guy who's no wherer near as good looking as me)

Then today she snapped eatting at a fairly expensive restaurant at lunch (she goes there frequently) and her walking around the lake front that's right at the restaurant.

Ion know I'm just annoyed she was saying how busy she was and is on snap having a blast.
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awesome999
04/14/17 7:25:51 PM
#2:


You have to ask the internet how pissed you should be? You should be able to form your own feelings, unless this is a stealth brag topic

gamepimp12 posted...
who's no wherer near as good looking as me)

Pics
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Payzmaykr
04/14/17 7:28:15 PM
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Don't call or text her until she contacts you. It's the way gongs go. Maybe she's got something she wants to wrap up before moving on? People are who they are and trying to change somebody could backfire.
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Turbam
04/14/17 7:28:58 PM
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gamepimp12 posted...
including a guy who's no wherer near as good looking as me)

LMFAO
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gamepimp12
04/14/17 7:49:44 PM
#5:


awesome999 posted...
You have to ask the internet how pissed you should be? You should be able to form your own feelings, unless this is a stealth brag topic

gamepimp12 posted...
who's no wherer near as good looking as me)

Pics


I'm not pissed at all im just annoyed and im asking how annoyed CE would be in that situation
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ChrisHanson24
04/14/17 7:57:30 PM
#6:


what does snapped eatting mean?
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TheDarkCircle
04/14/17 7:59:43 PM
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gamepimp12 posted...
on snap having a blast.


Cause she got away from you, REKT.

In all seriousness if this aint a joke topic, don't text her and see if she reaches out. If this is a joke topic, don't post anymore in this topic, then create a follow up topic in 3-5 business days to keep your gimmick going.
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Leanaunfurled
04/14/17 8:00:10 PM
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She's blowing you off. I'd be annoyed at the fact that she can't be straight with you but then stop and remember that kind of person is better off not in your life.
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gamepimp12
04/14/17 8:33:10 PM
#9:


Leanaunfurled posted...
She's blowing you off. I'd be annoyed at the fact that she can't be straight with you but then stop and remember that kind of person is better off not in your life.


Because it's week before finals and I know she really is busy for the most part Ima just take a mental note of it and keep going.

I'll bring the situation up to her if it happens again.
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Leanaunfurled
04/14/17 8:42:00 PM
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I'm sure she's busy but she isn't that busy. She's capable of making time for you, she just doesn't want to.
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gamepimp12
04/15/17 2:03:29 PM
#11:


Apparently going gokarting today.

Yeahhhhhhhh.

We gonna have to talk about this.
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Boge
04/15/17 2:06:58 PM
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Forget about her. She's crap if she's doing that.
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krazychao5
04/15/17 2:08:32 PM
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gamepimp12
04/15/17 2:09:42 PM
#15:


Boge posted...
Forget about her. She's crap if she's doing that.


Because I asked her last Monday I'm gonna just assume this was all stuff planned prior, she had to cancel plans last time we hung out.

But I am gonna clear the air Monday when I see her.
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gamepimp12
04/15/17 2:10:11 PM
#16:


krazychao5 posted...
Sounds like you her side piece.


Which would be cool, I'd just like to know
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Boge
04/15/17 2:23:44 PM
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gamepimp12 posted...
Boge posted...
Forget about her. She's crap if she's doing that.


Because I asked her last Monday I'm gonna just assume this was all stuff planned prior, she had to cancel plans last time we hung out.

But I am gonna clear the air Monday when I see her.


Then why did you make the post if you've already decided what's going on and what you're going to do about it?
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Marklar
04/15/17 2:25:08 PM
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Leanaunfurled posted...
She's blowing you off. I'd be annoyed at the fact that she can't be straight with you but then stop and remember that kind of person is better off not in your life.

What she said.
Honestly, there's no reason in getting annyoed with the girl. If she can't act like an adult and explain she's not interested in seeing you for whatever reason, do you really want someone like that in your future who most likely will repeat the passive aggressive actions?
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StarReaper13
04/15/17 2:27:08 PM
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gamepimp12 posted...
Leanaunfurled posted...
She's blowing you off. I'd be annoyed at the fact that she can't be straight with you but then stop and remember that kind of person is better off not in your life.


Because it's week before finals and I know she really is busy for the most part Ima just take a mental note of it and keep going.

I'll bring the situation up to her if it happens again.

If she is able to take pictures with another guy and frequently go to restaurants, she isn't too busy for a 3rd date.
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SicSlayer
04/15/17 2:31:39 PM
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gamepimp12 posted...
Apparently going gokarting today.

Yeahhhhhhhh.

We gonna have to talk about this.


Don't bother man, if she can't be straight with you then she's not worth your time.
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gamepimp12
04/15/17 2:33:40 PM
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StarReaper13 posted...
gamepimp12 posted...
Leanaunfurled posted...
She's blowing you off. I'd be annoyed at the fact that she can't be straight with you but then stop and remember that kind of person is better off not in your life.


Because it's week before finals and I know she really is busy for the most part Ima just take a mental note of it and keep going.

I'll bring the situation up to her if it happens again.

If she is able to take pictures with another guy and frequently go to restaurants, she isn't too busy for a 3rd date.


She's at the very least not too busy cause of school.

Boge posted...
gamepimp12 posted...
Boge posted...
Forget about her. She's crap if she's doing that.


Because I asked her last Monday I'm gonna just assume this was all stuff planned prior, she had to cancel plans last time we hung out.

But I am gonna clear the air Monday when I see her.


Then why did you make the post if you've already decided what's going on and what you're going to do about it?


I mean I never once asked you guys for advice, just a venting mechanism.

And it's no point in not talking to her about it when I have to see her Monday.
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Boge
04/15/17 2:37:32 PM
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gamepimp12 posted...
I mean I never once asked you guys for advice, just a venting mechanism.

And it's no point in not talking to her about it when I have to see her Monday.


Pardon me.

If it was me, I'd be 8/10 annoyed by her. I can't tell you how annoyed you should be though.
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Marklar
04/15/17 2:41:41 PM
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I say a 10, then.
Solely enough so that you cut her off.
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gamepimp12
04/15/17 2:47:32 PM
#24:


Marklar posted...
I say a 10, then.
Solely enough so that you cut her off.


It's a possibility.

I mean I don't mind women being busy or having their own lives I prefer it and being with a free chick isn't gonna keep her from cheating.

What I don't really like is the half lies especially since she doesn't owe me shit
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rh314501
04/15/17 2:48:35 PM
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I wouldn't bring shit up yet. It's too early. You need to be super cool about everything until you've got her hooked, then you can manipulate her to suit you better. But the key part is making her have feelings for you, & fighting w/ her about nonsense wont help this early.
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Marklar
04/15/17 2:51:13 PM
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gamepimp12 posted...


What I don't really like is the half lies especially since she doesn't owe me shit

Think of it like this: you don't know this girl too well. She's alreadly doing something you dislike. Now, if you want to bring it up to her, do so. But in either case, it's a red flag simply because it's a problem to you.
If you bring it up to her and she explains things and you understand, great. If you just consider it a major red flag and don't want to see anymore and will explain why (that part is important otherwise you're doing what she is doing) then also great.
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gamepimp12
04/15/17 2:52:48 PM
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rh314501 posted...
I wouldn't bring shit up yet. It's too early. You need to be super cool about everything until you've got her hooked, then you can manipulate her to suit you better. But the key part is making her have feelings for you, & fighting w/ her about nonsense wont help this early.


I'm not gonna be like " you lied to me blah blah blah blah blah"

Ima go along the lines of how I really don't have a read on her what so ever and see where this is going.
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pinky0926
04/15/17 2:54:45 PM
#28:


Either she's blowing you off or she genuinely had plans booked and you're just seeing her carrying out the plans. Having free time doesn't mean she's necessarily free to see you.

So either way, the solution is to leave off and see what she does.
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gamepimp12
04/15/17 2:56:05 PM
#29:


Marklar posted...
gamepimp12 posted...


What I don't really like is the half lies especially since she doesn't owe me shit

Think of it like this: you don't know this girl too well. She's alreadly doing something you dislike. Now, if you want to bring it up to her, do so. But in either case, it's a red flag simply because it's a problem to you.
If you bring it up to her and she explains things and you understand, great. If you just consider it a major red flag and don't want to see anymore and will explain why (that part is important otherwise you're doing what she is doing) then also great.


Basically, id just like to get the bottom of the situation either ways.

It's too many things that could of happened (like finishing everything early, etc etc) so I'd like to narrow down what happened a bit before I condemn her ya know.
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pinky0926
04/15/17 2:57:16 PM
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gamepimp12 posted...
Marklar posted...
gamepimp12 posted...


What I don't really like is the half lies especially since she doesn't owe me shit

Think of it like this: you don't know this girl too well. She's alreadly doing something you dislike. Now, if you want to bring it up to her, do so. But in either case, it's a red flag simply because it's a problem to you.
If you bring it up to her and she explains things and you understand, great. If you just consider it a major red flag and don't want to see anymore and will explain why (that part is important otherwise you're doing what she is doing) then also great.


Basically, id just like to get the bottom of the situation either ways.

It's too many things that could of happened (like finishing everything early, etc etc) so I'd like to narrow down what happened a bit before I condemn her ya know.


What you're maybe not appreciating is how "getting to the bottom" of things might come across, assuming for arguments sake that things are still good.

Like if I was dating someone and they went all detective sherlock holmes on me because I was doing other things I'd be very put off by that.
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TheCurseX2
04/15/17 2:58:27 PM
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Go to where she's going today and be like, "Oh didn't expect to see you here. Damn, sorry about this."

And she'll be all, "Why sorry?"

And you bring out a fucking BLAZING escort you covertly hired to front as your new dating toy. If she doesn't put on 20 lbs in 2 months I'll close my account.
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Marklar
04/15/17 3:02:15 PM
#32:


pinky0926 posted...

What you're maybe not appreciating is how "getting to the bottom" of things might come across, assuming for arguments sake that things are still good.

Like if I was dating someone and they went all detective sherlock holmes on me because I was doing other things I'd be very put off by that.

This too.
Like you can ask how come she was busy or whatever and was hanging out but if you come across as accussing of or something then yeah, you're gonna mess it up
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Leanaunfurled
04/15/17 3:03:24 PM
#33:


never mind the fact that they're not even in a relationship and there's nothing to "talk about" or "get to the bottom of." Stop being unnecessarily glued to her and let crap be, otherwise it's just weird as hell.
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gamepimp12
04/15/17 3:03:43 PM
#34:


Maybe getting down to the bottom of things is poor word choice.

My read on us obviously has to be a little off.

Knowing more clearly where we stand will basically answer this question without having to ask it.

(Basically it'll either be she wants to move on, it was unintentional or she's seeing multiple people)
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Marklar
04/15/17 3:06:58 PM
#35:


Man, you're assuming way, way too much.
Maybe she already had plans?
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DarkChozoGhost
04/15/17 3:08:02 PM
#36:


Maybe she has plans with those other friends? Maybe she doesn't want to spend ALL of her free time with one guy she's just started dating? Maybe she doesn't want to get burned out on you?
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evil_zombie11
04/15/17 3:12:03 PM
#37:


gamepimp12 posted...
Apparently going gokarting today.

Yeahhhhhhhh.

We gonna have to talk about this.


I'm curious to see a picture of you since you're so quick to put down another guy so fast, Adonis.
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gamepimp12
04/15/17 3:12:47 PM
#38:


DarkChozoGhost posted...
Maybe she has plans with those other friends? Maybe she doesn't want to spend ALL of her free time with one guy she's just started dating? Maybe she doesn't want to get burned out on you?


That's all fine.

I don't care we didn't hang out

I care that I wasn't told the truth bout it

And it's not that big of a deal.
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rh314501
04/15/17 3:41:06 PM
#39:


pinky0926 posted...

What you're maybe not appreciating is how "getting to the bottom" of things might come across, assuming for arguments sake that things are still good.


Exactly this. The only way you can do it safely is to be extremely casual about it. I'd just mention I saw 1 of the things & ask her about it. Like, "how's the food there?" or something else totally nonchalant. If you keep things open ended you'll likely get what you want w/out appearing to pry.
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gamepimp12
04/16/17 2:39:42 AM
#40:


Figured it out her ex bf was in town.
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Touya999
04/16/17 3:07:08 AM
#41:


TheDarkCircle posted...
gamepimp12 posted...
on snap having a blast.


Cause she got away from you, REKT.

In all seriousness if this aint a joke topic, don't text her and see if she reaches out. If this is a joke topic, don't post anymore in this topic, then create a follow up topic in 3-5 business days to keep your gimmick going.


@TheDarkCircle

Nice work.
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Ilishe
04/16/17 3:10:09 AM
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Look, her life obviously doesn't revolve around you and neither should yours around her.

Do your own thing, have fun, ignore her until she contacts you. If she takes too long forget about her.

Life goes on.
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Tombawocxer
04/16/17 3:14:01 AM
#43:


have you even banged this girl yet?
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gamepimp12
04/16/17 4:19:12 AM
#44:


Tombawocxer posted...
have you even banged this girl yet?


Nope
Ilishe posted...
Look, her life obviously doesn't revolve around you and neither should yours around her.

Do your own thing, have fun, ignore her until she contacts you. If she takes too long forget about her.

Life goes on.


I keep feeling like you guys think I'm jealous she hung out with other guys or mad she didn't want to hang with me or whatever.

Don't give a fuck about any of that

My only concern was the fact she lied bout some unnecessary and unimportant shit.

That's a bit of a red flag which is why I'm so annoyed with it.
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TheDarkCircle
04/16/17 11:12:00 AM
#45:


Touya999 posted...
TheDarkCircle posted...
gamepimp12 posted...
on snap having a blast.


Cause she got away from you, REKT.

In all seriousness if this aint a joke topic, don't text her and see if she reaches out. If this is a joke topic, don't post anymore in this topic, then create a follow up topic in 3-5 business days to keep your gimmick going.


@TheDarkCircle

Nice work.


Thank ya kindly
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