Current Events > 'Every time I tell a guy I'm a virgin, that's when the relationship ends.'

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I hear this a lot. This doesn't happen, though.
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If you replace the word "guy" with "girl" it would be likely though. I had to lie to lose my virginity.
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Idk about gay guys, but if a girl is saying that she's full of shit.
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how old is the girl?
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guys actually put virgin girl on pedestal
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This is only true for men, women don't want to deal with a male virgin, men love having the chance of getting a woman who is still a virgin.

This girl is lying or just full of shit telling you this.
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Offworlder1 posted...

This is only true for men, women don't want to deal with a male virgin, men love having the chance of getting a woman who is still a virgin.

This girl is lying or just full of shit telling you this.

It's a guy saying that though
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darkphoenix181 posted...

guys actually put virgin girl on pedestal

Only once, they tend to get clingy.
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voldothegr8 posted...

darkphoenix181 posted...

guys actually put virgin girl on pedestal

Only once, they tend to get clingy.

Do you not know how to make them serve your every whim ?, that usually stops them from being clingy.
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@completeboy
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tbh I've never seen this happen

what kind of guy wouldn't prefer a virgin chick to wife up?
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Monday posted...

Idk about gay guys, but if a girl is saying that she's full of shit.

or you need to avoid her crazy ass
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Offworlder1 posted...

This is only true for men, women don't want to deal with a male virgin

I never understood this. If both parties click, shouldn't the girl be willing to overlook his virginity if there's a potential for something? How does being a virgin even become a deal breaker?

Is it because you'll obviously have no idea how to please a woman?
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Monday posted...

if a girl is saying that she's full of shit.

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Akagami_Shanks posted...

what kind of guy wouldn't prefer a virgin chick to wife up?

i'd rather fuck a girl who knew what she wanted and what to do with a dick than having to go through something they should've figured out years ago
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Volkswagen_Bros posted...

Is it because you'll obviously have no idea how to please a woman?

Theres your answer right there, and not to mention women expect a man to last and virgins have no stamina. The other thing is women hate teaching men due to them being lazy yet they love to complain when "your not doing it right" and expect you to know how to please them specifically.

My girlfriend also claims a lot of women see male virgins as someone who can't get laid due to them being undesirable in some way or there is something wrong with them if they remain a virgin past certain ages. Some women will not care but they are not common, my woman knew I was a virgin but did not care as I put forth the effort to learn what made her feel good and was not selfish.
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Offworlder1 posted...

My girlfriend also claims a lot of women see male virgins as someone who can't get laid due to them being undesirable in some way or there is something wrong with them if they remain a virgin past certain ages

So if these women aren't willing to take these men's virginities, then who is? Plus being a virgin pass a certain age likely has to do with personal choice, not because of undesirability. If the guy's attractive enough, and has a charming personality, obviously there's nothing 'crazy' about him.

It's a double standard because, virgin women are seen as modest and pure, whereas virgin guys are often the subject of mockery and ridicule and are seen as losers who can't interact with the opposite sex.

Jesus, as long as he gets it in, that's all that should matter. Right?
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It's always been a double standard for virgins, for a woman it's "she is pure and saving herself", for a man it is "what the hell is wrong with this loser ?", this is not anything new nor will it be changing any time soon.
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Offworlder1 posted...

This is only true for men, women don't want to deal with a male virgin.

What? that's not true at all. I've told girls I was a virgin to get with them, they think its cute lol.
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ShotOJameson posted...

Offworlder1 posted...

This is only true for men, women don't want to deal with a male virgin.

What? that's not true at all. I've told girls I was a virgin to get with them, they think its cute lol.

I was not born yesterday, sling that bs elsewhere.
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Offworlder1 posted...

ShotOJameson posted...

Offworlder1 posted...

This is only true for men, women don't want to deal with a male virgin.

What? that's not true at all. I've told girls I was a virgin to get with them, they think its cute lol.

I was not born yesterday, sling that bs elsewhere.

He's not wrong. When I told girls I'd been involved with I was a virgin, they were actually kind've turned on.

It's only a bad thing if you're ugly, unkempt, awkward, or a combination of the three.
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Yeah ok you two keep believing that, BTW I have a bridge I'd like to sell you.
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Why are you trying to say inexperience is a total turn off? lol like sex is hard or something, you just go with the flow, its fun. You just gotta be responsive to her needs and its all good. If you meet the 'right' girl though it can be amazing.
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I was dating a girl at my workplace and she told me the same thing and I eventually stopped talking to her.

She was 21 and before she told me we fooled around in the back seat of her car the night before and she was half naked and wouldn't go all the way. She explained herself the next day and I didn't want to be her first. Not fat or ugly she was nice but I wasn't interested in that drama she had alot of friends at work.
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To whoever said virgins have no stamina: I know I didn't shoot at all my first time - virgins often last LONGER because they're not used to something other than their hand making them ejaculate.
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