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A few times in middle school
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Thrice.
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Oh god yes. She was 350 pounds with a nice mustache.

This was before i joined the military so I was really skinny like 118 lbs so she would have crushed me.
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DaemMkIV7 posted...

Yes, for being a known backstabber that has no long-lasting friends or relationships. Good looking though.

ETA: Almost gave in to the temptation because of my dry spell. Glad I saved myself a headache.

Rhylos posted...

She would've been a 9/10 if she wasn't a giant pot head. She was always high and couldn't go very long without a puff. Any time we were outside she'd have to pull out her little electronic cig and stuff it with fresh weed. This is CO btw.

Fucking them and not dating them would have solved any problem that could've arised from these situations.

But prob CE being CE. Some chick is willing to be seen in public with them and they assume she wants it.
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Eh, I'd rather not risk stuff by getting involved with her

My pessimism also tells me that I wouldn't even be able to screw her
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Yeah in 10th grade, in hindsight it wasn't that long ago. Nothing was wrong with her but I didn't even know her as she randomly asks me out in gym class. Of course that'd make a guy pretty nervous and I have a feeling she might have been toying with me, although I never talked to her after that.
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Yeah. I had a girlfriend when I went off to college. Some girl from down the hall in my dorm gave me a valentine and then a friend of mine caught feelings for me.

At the time, I was really wishing I didn't have a gf cause I was horny as fuck, but after being with her for three years now I don't regret a thing.
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Yes, multiple times for various reasons. Not so much in recent years as I dont socialize much anymore.
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she was so fat i was worried she'd crush me to death if she got on top
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Yes

Because I have crippling low self-esteem that stops me from doing things like in fear that things will fail.

I think to myself why in the hell would she be talking to me be, this must be a con, this must be wrong, this is a joke.
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I did back in high school. I had known her since middle school and she was a grade under me. We were kinda close but she was essentially a younger sister to me so things got very awkward between us for awhile. It all worked out in the end, we're still good friends.
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cjsdowg posted...

Yes

Because I have crippling low self-esteem that stops me from doing things like in fear that things will fail.

I think to myself why in the hell would she be talking to me be, this must be a con, this must be wrong, this is a joke.

But you would have nothing to lose.
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all the time
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Yep. Didn't know her much and I knew she just wanted to fuck like she does with every new guy she meets. Kinda regret not fucking her since I knew she was clean despite all her sleeping around.
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For the most part no. If someone asks me out I will almost always say yes to at least a first date whether I find them attractive or think it'll be fun.

Takes courage to ask someone out and one night doesn't hurt and could be fun.

Only time I've ever turned down a date was with a friend who we have lots of mutual friends with. I was drunk and we kissed one night and then I just decided it wouldn't work out and would make things awkward.

For sex like a one night stand from the bar yea for a plethora of reasons.

You've slept with half the bar.
Had work in the morning.
Said my husbands out of town let's go to my place for a drink.
Didnt find them attractive.

Even on those cases the reason i always have was work in the morning because I didn't want to hurt anyone's feelings.
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Many
Reason: Don't want a relationship now.
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in high school i turned down a girl. she made it very clear that she was into me. and frankly, i liked her. she dressed well (pretty conservatively), had a nice voice, looked good. we sat near each other in a study hall, and would always dress up well. then she would look over at me and stare and smile. one of those times she stared at me for about 8 seconds, but i didn't look back at her. something in the back of my head was telling me that she wouldn't be a good choice.

i walked by her in the hallway, and she really turned towards me and smiled and stared. i just kept on walking. when i walked past her, i could feel her get really, really angry because i didnt look back. i didn't see her in the study hall for a while.

a few weeks i saw her walking in the hallway. she got a short haircut and dyed her hair black. she dressed like a hipster and got some ray-bans. then later in the year she decided to become genderfluid or whatever. guess the back of my head was right about her.

YoshitoKikuchi posted...

But you would have nothing to lose.

My issues are more then if she says yes. I don't like getting close to people because I am scared of a having another bad relationship.
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Plenty of times. Primary reason is because I'm already committed to someone.

I've had everyone from random bar/club patrons to coworkers try to hit me up.
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Yes. Nothing wrong with her, it was just bad timing: I was in a committed relationship at that point.
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