Poll of the Day > If you are in a relationship, is it cheating to talk to camgirls/guys?

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CountessRolab
05/20/17 11:26:42 PM
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If you are in a relationship, is it cheating to talk to camgirls/guys?


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yutterh
05/20/17 11:32:11 PM
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Nah, its basically interactive porn. My jealousy would still get the better of me though.
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adjl
05/20/17 11:41:28 PM
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There's no universal definition for "cheating," except the very broad one of "romantic/sexual activity outside of your relationship without your partner's consent." If you're asking yourself if something's cheating, stop asking yourself and ask your partner instead, because they're the only one that has to make that call. If you feel you can't ask your partner about it, do it anyway, because you need to be able to communicate better than that if you want a good relationship.

Personally, I would say that interacting with cammers is distinct from normal porn, though that does depend on the nature of the interaction. If you're chatting casually about recent movie releases while the girl just happens to be naked, that is pretty much normal porn with an ordinary conversation on the side. If you're tipping them and encouraging them to do certain sexual things, that's arguably getting into the realm of cybersex, which is another matter entirely. If you're getting a private show, there's really no room to call it anything other than cybersex.
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Kungfu Kenobi
05/20/17 11:43:59 PM
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It could be an Emotional Affair, which is arguably worse.
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CountessRolab
05/20/17 11:46:33 PM
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adjl posted...
There's no universal definition for "cheating," except the very broad one of "romantic/sexual activity outside of your relationship without your partner's consent." If you're asking yourself if something's cheating, stop asking yourself and ask your partner instead, because they're the only one that has to make that call. If you feel you can't ask your partner about it, do it anyway, because you need to be able to communicate better than that if you want a good relationship.


Oh, im not in a relationship, just curious what the prevailing opinion is.
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TheCyborgNinja
05/20/17 11:48:02 PM
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Emotional cheating (on that level, cam stuff, at least) is the same as sexual cheating. The only real test to know for sure? Ask your partner if it's okay. If they say no, then you're a cheater for doing it. Anyone who keeps it a secret knows it's wrong already.
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adjl
05/20/17 11:48:51 PM
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CountessRolab posted...
Oh, im not in a relationship


Yeah, I'm using "you" in a general, hypothetical sense. I realized that my opinion was kind of personally directed, but I hoped that'd slip under the radar. Guess not. Whoops.
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CountessRolab
05/20/17 11:50:39 PM
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TheCyborgNinja posted...
Emotional cheating (on that level, cam stuff, at least) is the same as sexual cheating.


Are the cam girls/guys cheating then by talking to their clients?
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adjl
05/20/17 11:55:48 PM
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CountessRolab posted...
TheCyborgNinja posted...
Emotional cheating (on that level, cam stuff, at least) is the same as sexual cheating.


Are the cam girls/guys cheating then by talking to their clients?


If their partner doesn't want them doing so? Yes, absolutely.
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FinalXemnas
05/20/17 11:56:05 PM
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CountessRolab posted...
TheCyborgNinja posted...
Emotional cheating (on that level, cam stuff, at least) is the same as sexual cheating.


Are the cam girls/guys cheating then by talking to their clients?


With that question, you make it sound like prostitution.
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wwinterj25
05/21/17 12:14:15 AM
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Not in my eyes no as it's just porn. It only crosses into cheating territory if I started showing my junk to random gals online or whatever.
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CountessRolab
05/21/17 12:21:24 AM
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FinalXemnas posted...
CountessRolab posted...
TheCyborgNinja posted...
Emotional cheating (on that level, cam stuff, at least) is the same as sexual cheating.


Are the cam girls/guys cheating then by talking to their clients?


With that question, you make it sound like prostitution.


Its not much different, really. And that raises the question: are prostitutes cheating on their partners by being prostitutes?
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Zeus
05/21/17 12:22:17 AM
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Given that it's more interactive than a stripper, yes.
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Zeus
05/21/17 12:31:47 AM
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CountessRolab posted...
FinalXemnas posted...
CountessRolab posted...
TheCyborgNinja posted...
Emotional cheating (on that level, cam stuff, at least) is the same as sexual cheating.


Are the cam girls/guys cheating then by talking to their clients?


With that question, you make it sound like prostitution.


Its not much different, really. And that raises the question: are prostitutes cheating on their partners by being prostitutes?


If the partner doesn't know about it or objects to it, yes. And prostitution is obviously worse than camwhoring.
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Syntheticon
05/21/17 1:05:11 AM
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CountessRolab posted...
nt

Camwhores, no. Dating site, yes.
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TheCyborgNinja
05/21/17 1:06:24 AM
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CountessRolab posted...
TheCyborgNinja posted...
Emotional cheating (on that level, cam stuff, at least) is the same as sexual cheating.


Are the cam girls/guys cheating then by talking to their clients?

The fuck are you smoking?! Obviously not, as it's their business and, as you already pointed out, have clients and don't have actual relationships with those people. If they have a partner who doesn't know, then they're cheating on that one person.
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Mead
05/21/17 1:07:30 AM
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If your SO doesn't know about it then yeah it is cheating.
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CountessRolab
05/21/17 1:14:49 AM
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TheCyborgNinja posted...
CountessRolab posted...
TheCyborgNinja posted...
Emotional cheating (on that level, cam stuff, at least) is the same as sexual cheating.


Are the cam girls/guys cheating then by talking to their clients?


If they have a partner


Thats what I meant
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HainoRocks
05/21/17 1:37:24 AM
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"Consent" is the key answer to any question pertaining to relationships. What's so difficult to understand about that?
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CountessRolab
05/21/17 1:48:23 PM
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RoboT_Ripper
05/21/17 3:44:04 PM
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CountessRolab posted...
TheCyborgNinja posted...
Emotional cheating (on that level, cam stuff, at least) is the same as sexual cheating.


Are the cam girls/guys cheating then by talking to their clients?


Like others have said, there's no general rule here, it's up to each couple to decide where the boundaries are. I dated a girl for a while that was a cam girl. She told me up front about it on our first date and she asked if it was something I was okay with. I was cool with it, it didn't bother me at all really. Although it wasn't a serious relationship, but it's not like I would have been okay with her physically being with someone else. I also wouldn't have been okay if she was the one paying to have cyber sex. But since she was the one making money, I didn't think it was bad.
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CountessRolab
05/21/17 3:52:45 PM
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RoboT_Ripper posted...
CountessRolab posted...
TheCyborgNinja posted...
Emotional cheating (on that level, cam stuff, at least) is the same as sexual cheating.


Are the cam girls/guys cheating then by talking to their clients?


Like others have said, there's no general rule here, it's up to each couple to decide where the boundaries are. I dated a girl for a while that was a cam girl. She told me up front about it on our first date and she asked if it was something I was okay with. I was cool with it, it didn't bother me at all really. Although it wasn't a serious relationship, but it's not like I would have been okay with her physically being with someone else. I also wouldn't have been okay if she was the one paying to have cyber sex. But since she was the one making money, I didn't think it was bad.


Just curious, would you be ok with dating a prostitute (like the ones who work in Nevada)?
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Tails 64
05/21/17 6:31:20 PM
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Personally, I don't think you should be watching porn if you're in a relationship, but I know that's an unpopular opinion: most couples are okay with it. So, I guess a person wondering about this question should ask their significant other what they think.
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myghostisdead
05/21/17 6:38:51 PM
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Why do you feel the need to talk to them?
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yutterh
05/21/17 6:42:07 PM
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Tails 64 posted...
Personally, I don't think you should be watching porn if you're in a relationship, but I know that's an unpopular opinion: most couples are okay with it. So, I guess a person wondering about this question should ask their significant other what they think.


Well people can't do everything they do in porn. Either the woman is willing to try different things. The guy could also deny this as well of course. So both may look at porn for whatever fetish they have. If one doesn't need it, they should be okay with the other partners right. Logically speaking but feeling such as jealousy do a rise and they can be hard to control. Some think they can handle it but find out they can't. If your partner is uncomfortable with you doing it, then yes i feel you need to stop. Things of non sexual behavior such as hobbies. Hobbies for both parties should be respected no matter what. You just can't tell someone to stop doing something they are enjoying because your not interested in the hobby. As long as it isn't something a keen to over spending. Hobbies shouldn't put you in debt.
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RoboT_Ripper
05/21/17 7:03:03 PM
#26:


CountessRolab posted...
RoboT_Ripper posted...
CountessRolab posted...
TheCyborgNinja posted...
Emotional cheating (on that level, cam stuff, at least) is the same as sexual cheating.


Are the cam girls/guys cheating then by talking to their clients?


Like others have said, there's no general rule here, it's up to each couple to decide where the boundaries are. I dated a girl for a while that was a cam girl. She told me up front about it on our first date and she asked if it was something I was okay with. I was cool with it, it didn't bother me at all really. Although it wasn't a serious relationship, but it's not like I would have been okay with her physically being with someone else. I also wouldn't have been okay if she was the one paying to have cyber sex. But since she was the one making money, I didn't think it was bad.


Just curious, would you be ok with dating a prostitute (like the ones who work in Nevada)?



No, I wouldn't.
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CountessRolab
05/23/17 1:37:41 AM
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RoboT_Ripper posted...
CountessRolab posted...
RoboT_Ripper posted...
CountessRolab posted...
TheCyborgNinja posted...
Emotional cheating (on that level, cam stuff, at least) is the same as sexual cheating.


Are the cam girls/guys cheating then by talking to their clients?


Like others have said, there's no general rule here, it's up to each couple to decide where the boundaries are. I dated a girl for a while that was a cam girl. She told me up front about it on our first date and she asked if it was something I was okay with. I was cool with it, it didn't bother me at all really. Although it wasn't a serious relationship, but it's not like I would have been okay with her physically being with someone else. I also wouldn't have been okay if she was the one paying to have cyber sex. But since she was the one making money, I didn't think it was bad.


Just curious, would you be ok with dating a prostitute (like the ones who work in Nevada)?



No, I wouldn't.


Would you be ok with dating a woman who fell in love with another man and got pregnant with his child while simultaneously tricking you into thinking you were the father?
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Maximothelad
05/23/17 2:14:07 AM
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WHAT'S THSI GOT DO DO WITH VIDJA GMAES!?

Dude ZELAD OOT is better than BREAhe of the Skyrim.

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CountessRolab
05/23/17 2:15:10 AM
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Maximothelad posted...
WHAT'S THSI GOT DO DO WITH VIDJA GMAES!?

Dude ZELAD OOT is better than BREAhe of the Skyrim.

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EightySeven
05/23/17 2:16:12 AM
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Talk to your SO. If they're ok with it then it's not cheating.
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spooky96
05/23/17 2:20:04 AM
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I tore apart a bubblegum with my penis, asked my partner if I cheated. She said yeah.
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