Current Events > I feel hostility coming from my mother

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And grandma they don't respect me and would love nothing more than to see my brother assault me. Who's locked up right now. As my grandma put it someone needs to put you in your place. When I help all day long whatever she needs there just using me and disrespecting as man when I'm 36 the first chance I get I'm out of here and won't contact them
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But are they hot?
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I try to talk to my mom and she just isn't having it when I try to have a serious conversation with her. She just treats me like I'm 5 years old and doesn't take me serious just likes to order me around or complain
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It sucks to be in a severely dysfunctional family
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When my brother assaulted me in 2008 she did nothing didn't even talk to him. He blamed me it affected me physically and emotionally even my brother won't talk to me he just gets angry and threats me with physical violence
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I'm sorry. I hope you get some help
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This is the same brother that burned my mother's house to the ground. They respect him more that says it all.
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This sounds like a really fucked up situation. You want to explain more? If not its cool
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This is similar to my situation, so I look forward to answers.
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KlRBEH posted...

This sounds like a really fucked up situation. You want to explain more? If not its cool

My brother has done tons of shit since he was 21 he's 33 now

All I do is help my grandmother 24/7 but it seems they don't respect me or appreciate anything and my mother is constantly complaining or ordering me around
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MarkIngramTD posted...

the first chance I get I'm out of here and won't contact them

Are you doing anything to work towards leaving? Money probably won't just fall into your lap.
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I don't even feel comfortable living here. I would get treated by people better just walking into my local walmart then even try to live with her.

everything with her so rough I try and be loving and caring and understanding and I'll I get is being ordered around a complaint or she says something to trigger me and get me angry

I can't live like this anymore I just wanna stay far and away from her as much as I can

I don't wanna talk to her

I don't wanna be around her

I just want to be far away from her and my brother.

I understand my grandmother isnt like that but anytime I try to say anything to my grandmother my mother buts in.

if it wasn't for my brother my mother would have her house and I wouldn't have to deal with her I always knew she was unbearable early on in my life I tried to stay away from her she'll keep me fed and take me to get cared for but other than that Don't bank on it.

Just this evening after I talked to you guys I was cooking a microwavable meal and guess what she does she was sleeping wakes up and plops her ass on the couch in the living room watching tv when I'm gonna eat

I say go to your room and she just acts dumb and calls my request ridiculous I just don't feel comfortable eating with her who knows what she'll do or talk about just to get a reaction.

when I'm trying to eat my food in peace and not be bugged by her.

It's unbearable I dont even know if I"ll get a good night sleep if she's up and awake she doesn't care about no one else but her self.
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