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Funcoot 08/14/17 5:32:02 AM #1:	Let me preface this by saying what I did wasn't right, but it's too late to undo it now. Anyway, I snuck a peek at my GF's (of three years) Facebook messages. There was a thread with a male coworker of hers and while there's nothing outright incriminating, some of the stuff said is giving me cause for alarm. Him asking her "Make it safe? Still no regrets?" (which, by the way, I didn't even know she (presumably) went to hang out with him while I was working the other night), her saying yes she made it safe, no, no regrets. Then him saying he just has to ask, where's the line, saying he just doesn't want to impose or be where he's not wanted, wondering what's ok, what's not. Those last messages were this afternoon and she never responded to him, but they work again tomorrow. I don't know how I can bring up my worries to her without coming off really badly for invading her privacy and making things worse, but I'm just sick to my stomach about the possibilities right now. --- Check your lease, man, 'cause you're living in ** City! PSN: Wolften91** <cite>Funcoot posted [p:884742891] in Relationsh... [t:75669019]...</cite> <quote>Let me preface this by saying what I did wasn't right, but it's too late to undo it now. Anyway, I snuck a peek at my GF's (of three years) Facebook messages. There was a thread with a male coworker of hers and while there's nothing outright incriminating, some of the stuff said is giving me cause for alarm. Him asking her "Make it safe? Still no regrets?" (which, by the way, I didn't even know she (presumably) went to hang out with him while I was working the other night), her saying yes she made it safe, no, no regrets. Then him saying he just has to ask, where's the line, saying he just doesn't want to impose or be where he's not wanted, wondering what's ok, what's not. Those last messages were this afternoon and she never responded to him, but they work again tomorrow. I don't know how I can bring up my worries to her without coming off really badly for invading her privacy and making things worse, but I'm just sick to my stomach about the possibilities right now.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
SkittyOnWailord 08/14/17 5:38:46 AM #2:	How long have you been together? And how much do you trust her? --- I'm here! I'm furry! I'll try not to shed! =^_^= i7 5820K\|Rampage V Extreme\|32GB DDR4 Ripjaws 4\|2xSLI GTX 980ti Lightning LE\|HAF 932\|Samsung 50inch 4K\|HTC Vive <cite>SkittyOnWailord posted [p:884743008] in Relationsh... [t:75669019]...</cite> <quote>How long have you been together? And how much do you trust her?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Dash_Harber 08/14/17 5:38:48 AM #3:	Look man, it's a shit situation. She's most likely cheating on you. The only good solution is to lay your cards on the table and be honest. If she did wrong, she will likely try to deflect with your bad choices. It's okay to apologize and awcknowledge what you did was wrong, but you have to point out that there is no going back from it now and both of your trusts have been broken and may never mend. There really is no other suitable choice but to just be painfully blunt. <cite>Dash_Harber posted [p:884743009] in Relationsh... [t:75669019]...</cite> <quote>Look man, it's a shit situation. She's most likely cheating on you. The only good solution is to lay your cards on the table and be honest. If she did wrong, she will likely try to deflect with your bad choices. It's okay to apologize and awcknowledge what you did was wrong, but you have to point out that there is no going back from it now and both of your trusts have been broken and may never mend. There really is no other suitable choice but to just be painfully blunt.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Eevee-Trainer 08/14/17 3:55:03 PM #4:	Dash_Harber posted... Look man, it's a shit situation. She's most likely cheating on you. The only good solution is to lay your cards on the table and be honest. If she did wrong, she will likely try to deflect with your bad choices. It's okay to apologize and awcknowledge what you did was wrong, but you have to point out that there is no going back from it now and both of your trusts have been broken and may never mend. There really is no other suitable choice but to just be painfully blunt. --- Maybe I'll put something here one day. <cite>Eevee-Trainer posted [p:884767747] in Relationsh... [t:75669019]...</cite> <quote><cite>Dash_Harber posted...</cite> <quote>Look man, it's a shit situation. She's most likely cheating on you. The only good solution is to lay your cards on the table and be honest. If she did wrong, she will likely try to deflect with your bad choices. It's okay to apologize and awcknowledge what you did was wrong, but you have to point out that there is no going back from it now and both of your trusts have been broken and may never mend. There really is no other suitable choice but to just be painfully blunt.</quote></quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Ilishe 08/14/17 3:56:17 PM #5:	Sorry dude. :( She is cheating on you. --- ~Phoenix Nine~ ~Victory needs no explanation; defeat allows none.~ <cite>Ilishe posted [p:884767810] in Relationsh... [t:75669019]...</cite> <quote>Sorry dude. :( She is cheating on you.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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