Current Events > If you found out your partner was a transgender, what would you do?

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OEIO999
09/04/17 10:42:57 PM
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Would it matter if it was after a certain period of time dating? On your first time being intimate? if you found out without them telling you?

I know I'd dump my partner if they didn't tell me from the get go. Just because I accept transgenders doing what they want, doesn't mean I have to associate with them. I'd be even more pissed if I found out involuntarily.
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refmon
09/04/17 10:43:55 PM
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dump them
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SlashmanSG
09/04/17 10:44:15 PM
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Medussa
09/04/17 10:44:20 PM
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her?
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FightingGames
09/04/17 10:44:38 PM
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Kaname_Madoka
09/04/17 10:44:51 PM
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K181
09/04/17 10:46:23 PM
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Wonder how she gave birth to four kids.
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OEIO999
09/04/17 10:47:32 PM
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Kanaya413
09/04/17 10:47:49 PM
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Him
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Dyinglegacy
09/04/17 10:49:02 PM
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Found out in what sense? Would it be from a big ol' pre op dick slapping me across my face as we were going at in the bed? Or would it be her telling me after we had already hit it off?
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LittleRoyal
09/04/17 10:49:56 PM
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Honestly that would be a deal breaker for me in a romantic relationship! Sorry tbh though. That stuff, he should have been up front about it.
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OEIO999
09/04/17 10:50:05 PM
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Dyinglegacy posted...
Found out in what sense? Would it be from a big ol' pre op dick slapping me across my face as we were going at in the bed? Or would it be her telling me after we had already hit it off?


Both.
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Dyinglegacy
09/04/17 10:54:15 PM
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OEIO999 posted...
Dyinglegacy posted...
Found out in what sense? Would it be from a big ol' pre op dick slapping me across my face as we were going at in the bed? Or would it be her telling me after we had already hit it off?


Both.


The first scenario, I would probably run away, while feeling violated. The second scenario, it would totally depend.

How long did she wait to tell me?

What was the reason she chose not to tell me until now?

Were we already in love by the time she told me?

Too many aspects to consider, so it totally depends. Any way you look at it, it would be difficult to trust her again. If i did decide to stick around, It would take time to build that trust.
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YookaLaylee
09/04/17 10:56:59 PM
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09/04/17 10:59:20 PM
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Sayoria
09/04/17 11:00:36 PM
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I dunno honestly. I'd be hella pissed that they were hiding it on me, especially since I would tell them day one.
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Offworlder1
09/04/17 11:04:13 PM
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The relationship would be over, trust, honestly, and loyalty are things I value, not being honest and upfront after the second date means the person is with holding important information. Once I find out later not by them or in a way I am not happy with and the trust is gone completely, being transgender is not something you hide from your partner.
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Knowledge_King
09/05/17 10:54:14 AM
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Dump them after throwing hands (depending on how far we got). Then self reflect as to how I got tricked and getting my eyes fixed.
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OpheliaAdenade
09/05/17 10:56:07 AM
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transgender dudes still have vaginas so I think I would have noticed. :U
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Eevee-Trainer
09/05/17 10:57:29 AM
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I wouldn't mind. I'd be supportive of them as I would have been up until that point. I would wish they had confided in me earlier but I can totally see why they would be hesitant to do so.
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Link HT
09/05/17 10:58:36 AM
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Be mind-blown by the amazing job whatever surgeon did the operation, mostly.
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Dustin1280
09/05/17 10:59:18 AM
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If they actively tried to hide it from me, I would probably immediately end the relationship.

That said if I found out shortly after being into someone, they would have to be 100% post op...
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The Admiral
09/05/17 11:01:08 AM
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I've never met a transwoman where it wasn't immediately obvious, so this would be unlikely. Regardless, even if it wasn't, the relationship would be over as soon as I found out.
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OpheliaAdenade
09/05/17 11:06:10 AM
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The Admiral posted...
I've never met a transwoman where it wasn't immediately obvious, so this would be unlikely. Regardless, even if it wasn't, the relationship would be over as soon as I found out.


Well, Addy, that only makes sense. You aren't going to notice the ones that aren't immediately obvious. :u The ones who are passable don't stand out.
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ClockworkHare
09/05/17 11:16:15 AM
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If you found out your partner was a transgender, what would you do?

Complicated question.

If we were still dating, we would not have reached a stage where I would consider them my "partner". That comes later. That means the revelation would have happened while we were settled down with each other. And that would be quite a secret to keep from me that long as a fit able-bodied gay man who expects sex regularly.

The only way "he" would be able to pull it off is straight up deception. At that point it would be a question of either being justifiably upset enough to break up over the lies or to consider continuing the relationship. I don't like being deceived, but I'm not opposed to staying with a transgender partner provided they were still satisfying to be with.

I once had a certain trans woman manage to keep my interest because she used to be a man I found very attractive.
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averagejoel
09/05/17 11:34:39 AM
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a transgender what?
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thelovefist
09/05/17 11:35:29 AM
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I don't see how one could enter into a relationship without knowing.
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