Current Events > Is it possible to convert someone to be kinky over time?

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Or will they pretty much remain vanilla their entire lives??

Like, if you're kinky, do you think a willing partner would eventually get into their own fetish stuff too, or are they destined to stay that way and just be along for the ride while youre at the reigns?
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I certainly hope so.
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People adverse to kinks will likely stay that way forever. You can push them closer, but there's going to be a hard line somewhere.

You can't pressure people into liking things. They have to experiment and come around to liking things on their own time.
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Why not?

If you have an open and honest relationship it should be easy to discuss and experiment.

Most importantly, she just needs to be "into you". That attraction and comfort level is key.
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im not necessarily taking about forcing anyone to do anything... I mean more being in a LTR that's happy, but your partner is completely vanilla, while youre into kinks and fetish stuff.

If theyre open to participating, thats fine but like, its not as fun as if theyre getting off to it too.. so I wonder if anyone here had experience with this. Is it something hard wired in their brains that they can never have new turn ons or acquire fetishes? Or does an individual's sexuality have the ability to change over time?
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Bump
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if you move slowly you can get people into all kinds of stuff

but if they are totally vanilla and you're a kinky freak dont expect them to ever be in-line with you tbh
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Yeah, you can turn a lesbian straight too.

People are into what their into. It's possible she's never tried and is against the idea of it and you might be able to change that. But if she's tried and doesn't like it that is how preferences work.
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why's everyone keep saying "she" is the vanilla one? ;)
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