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Muffinz0rz
09/25/17 11:39:03 AM
#51:


HaVeNII7 posted...
Bullet_Wing posted...
HaVeNII7 posted...
Bullet_Wing posted...
HaVeNII7 posted...
Seriously though, if you have to think this hard about it you're having doubts, and feeling guilt. That guilt WILL skyrocket once you go through with it.

It would be different if you weren't feeling much right now while thinking about it. Then I'd seriously recommend you do whatever you want.

However, from the way you're posting, I'm guessing it's gonna eat at you. So you probably shouldn't do it. Is it worth feeling like that just to get laid? Let me give you some advice.

Go j*** off, then think about it. I'm serious. You'll have your answer within the hour.

This. You feeling guilty even thinking about it makes you a good person. Good people can't cheat, it'll fuck you up emotionally and slowly erode your relationship.

I wouldn't say it makes you a bad person at all.

Actually cheating on someone you love and who loves you? You're not a good person if you do that. I'm not sure if you misunderstood me though, I was saying TC IS a good person for feeling guilty about even the thought.

No, I know what you meant. I just don't think it's that black and white. Shit happens, and I wouldn't automatically say TC is a bad person if he did this. One bad decision doesn't make someone a bad person.

TIL: Cheating doesn't make you a bad person
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HaVeNII7
09/25/17 11:41:13 AM
#52:


Muffinz0rz posted...
HaVeNII7 posted...
Bullet_Wing posted...
HaVeNII7 posted...
Bullet_Wing posted...
HaVeNII7 posted...
Seriously though, if you have to think this hard about it you're having doubts, and feeling guilt. That guilt WILL skyrocket once you go through with it.

It would be different if you weren't feeling much right now while thinking about it. Then I'd seriously recommend you do whatever you want.

However, from the way you're posting, I'm guessing it's gonna eat at you. So you probably shouldn't do it. Is it worth feeling like that just to get laid? Let me give you some advice.

Go j*** off, then think about it. I'm serious. You'll have your answer within the hour.

This. You feeling guilty even thinking about it makes you a good person. Good people can't cheat, it'll fuck you up emotionally and slowly erode your relationship.

I wouldn't say it makes you a bad person at all.

Actually cheating on someone you love and who loves you? You're not a good person if you do that. I'm not sure if you misunderstood me though, I was saying TC IS a good person for feeling guilty about even the thought.

No, I know what you meant. I just don't think it's that black and white. Shit happens, and I wouldn't automatically say TC is a bad person if he did this. One bad decision doesn't make someone a bad person.

TIL: Cheating doesn't make you a bad person

I mean, if that's what you want to take away from it then you do you.
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Mark_DeRosa
09/25/17 11:43:47 AM
#53:


https://imgur.com/a/SDI5i


Chick in question
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Muffinz0rz
09/25/17 11:44:05 AM
#54:


HaVeNII7 posted...
Muffinz0rz posted...
HaVeNII7 posted...
Bullet_Wing posted...
HaVeNII7 posted...
Bullet_Wing posted...
HaVeNII7 posted...
Seriously though, if you have to think this hard about it you're having doubts, and feeling guilt. That guilt WILL skyrocket once you go through with it.

It would be different if you weren't feeling much right now while thinking about it. Then I'd seriously recommend you do whatever you want.

However, from the way you're posting, I'm guessing it's gonna eat at you. So you probably shouldn't do it. Is it worth feeling like that just to get laid? Let me give you some advice.

Go j*** off, then think about it. I'm serious. You'll have your answer within the hour.

This. You feeling guilty even thinking about it makes you a good person. Good people can't cheat, it'll fuck you up emotionally and slowly erode your relationship.

I wouldn't say it makes you a bad person at all.

Actually cheating on someone you love and who loves you? You're not a good person if you do that. I'm not sure if you misunderstood me though, I was saying TC IS a good person for feeling guilty about even the thought.

No, I know what you meant. I just don't think it's that black and white. Shit happens, and I wouldn't automatically say TC is a bad person if he did this. One bad decision doesn't make someone a bad person.

TIL: Cheating doesn't make you a bad person

I mean, if that's what you want to take away from it then you do you.

Does cheating make you a bad person?
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Darklit_Minuet
09/25/17 11:44:06 AM
#55:


Mark_DeRosa posted...
https://imgur.com/a/SDI5i


Chick in question

Holy shit, plow her
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emblem boy
09/25/17 11:46:21 AM
#57:


Has TC hasn't answered the question of his long term plans with his current girlfriend yet?
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awesome999
09/25/17 11:48:00 AM
#58:


Don't ruin a good thing you have with your girl for short term gain TC
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Darklit_Minuet
09/25/17 11:49:46 AM
#59:


awesome999 posted...
Don't ruin a good thing you have with your girl for short term gain TC

But on the other hand it's only ruined if she finds out. If there's no chance of her finding out, go for it
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HaVeNII7
09/25/17 11:59:15 AM
#60:


@Muffinz0rz

No, it doesn't make you a bad person inherently. It isn't that simple. You can't really believe it's like some sort of switch that's flipped one way or the other can you? It's far more complicated than that.

Just a random example. Let's assume throughout your life you make innumerable people more happy. You put them first, and Hell, you even donate to charity fairly often. You cheat once. Does that just erase all the good you've done beforehand and make you a bad person? Fuck no. If you actually believe that you aren't thinking very hard about it.
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Mark_DeRosa
09/25/17 11:59:38 AM
#61:


Yeah I probably ain't gonna plow boys. I'm gonna feel like doodoo
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awesome999
09/25/17 12:00:37 PM
#62:


Darklit_Minuet posted...
awesome999 posted...
Don't ruin a good thing you have with your girl for short term gain TC

But on the other hand it's only ruined if she finds out. If there's no chance of her finding out, go for it

If you're the kind who cheats, you don't deserve a loyal girl (or guy)
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Muffinz0rz
09/25/17 12:11:58 PM
#63:


Muffinz0rz posted...
Does cheating make you a bad person?

HaVeNII7 posted...
No, it doesn't make you a bad person inherently

It is that simple. It's a yes or no question and you got it wrong.
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HaVeNII7
09/25/17 12:41:50 PM
#65:


Muffinz0rz posted...
Muffinz0rz posted...
Does cheating make you a bad person?

HaVeNII7 posted...
No, it doesn't make you a bad person inherently

It is that simple. It's a yes or no question and you got it wrong.

No, you're the one who has it wrong. You're putting zero thought into context, which will always be incredibly important.

So have fun not thinking into things I guess. Keeps things simpler I suppose.
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Muffinz0rz
09/25/17 12:43:43 PM
#66:


HaVeNII7 posted...
Muffinz0rz posted...
Muffinz0rz posted...
Does cheating make you a bad person?

HaVeNII7 posted...
No, it doesn't make you a bad person inherently

It is that simple. It's a yes or no question and you got it wrong.

No, you're the one who has it wrong. You're putting zero thought into context, which will always be incredibly important.

So have fun not thinking into things I guess. Keeps things simpler I suppose.

Context is irrelevant.

You cheat on your SO, you're a bad person. End of topic.

You can cure cancer and donate millions of dollars to third-world countries, but that part of you will remain forever bad.
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HaVeNII7
09/25/17 12:52:18 PM
#67:


Muffinz0rz posted...
HaVeNII7 posted...
Muffinz0rz posted...
Muffinz0rz posted...
Does cheating make you a bad person?

HaVeNII7 posted...
No, it doesn't make you a bad person inherently

It is that simple. It's a yes or no question and you got it wrong.

No, you're the one who has it wrong. You're putting zero thought into context, which will always be incredibly important.

So have fun not thinking into things I guess. Keeps things simpler I suppose.

Context is irrelevant.

You cheat on your SO, you're a bad person. End of topic.

You can cure cancer and donate millions of dollars to third-world countries, but that part of you will remain forever bad.

TIL: Cheating on somebody who beats you daily means you're a bad person.
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Mark_DeRosa
09/25/17 1:01:12 PM
#69:


Well I'm not really going into this but my girlfriend is a severe alcoholic who spends all day screaming and yelling if nothing goes her way. I've had the cops multiple times come to our place to ask me if I'm okay because my girlfriends yells so loud. My girlfriend hasn't worked a job since the first month I met her and I pay all our bills. If I go out with a friend(dude) she will call me nonstop and text me non stop how much of a POS I am because I'm going out

I'm not allowed to talk to girls and the ones I'm friends with before I even met her I had to block. She goes through my phones while I'm sleeping and every time she does she has a week long meltdown because something someone of the opposite sex might have said to me.

So I'm not justifying or approving anything but it also isn't a perfect relationship. Don't even let me get started on her family
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HaVeNII7
09/25/17 1:01:18 PM
#70:


Bullet_Wing posted...
HaVeNII7 posted...
Muffinz0rz posted...
HaVeNII7 posted...
Muffinz0rz posted...
Muffinz0rz posted...
Does cheating make you a bad person?

HaVeNII7 posted...
No, it doesn't make you a bad person inherently

It is that simple. It's a yes or no question and you got it wrong.

No, you're the one who has it wrong. You're putting zero thought into context, which will always be incredibly important.

So have fun not thinking into things I guess. Keeps things simpler I suppose.

Context is irrelevant.

You cheat on your SO, you're a bad person. End of topic.

You can cure cancer and donate millions of dollars to third-world countries, but that part of you will remain forever bad.

TIL: Cheating on somebody who beats you daily means you're a bad person.

How about an SO that loves and respects you, and you feel the same about? That sounds more like the situation TC is in, not an abusive one.

Either one. After all, context is apparently irrelevant.
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emblem boy
09/25/17 1:02:24 PM
#71:


Mark_DeRosa posted...
Well I'm not really going into this but my girlfriend is a severe alcoholic who spends all day screaming and yelling if nothing goes her way. I've had the cops multiple times come to our place to ask me if I'm okay because my girlfriends yells so loud. My girlfriend has worked a job since the first month I met her and I pay all our bills. If I go out with a friend(dude) she will call me nonstop and text me non stop how much of a POS I am because I'm going out

I'm not allowed to talk to girls and the ones I'm friends with before I even met her I had to block. She goes through my phones while I'm sleeping and every time she does she has a week long meltdown because something someone of the opposite sex might have said to me.

So I'm not justifying or approving anything but it also isn't a perfect relationship. Don't even let me get started on her family


Why the fuck are you with her
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Darklit_Minuet
09/25/17 1:02:38 PM
#72:


Mark_DeRosa posted...
Well I'm not really going into this but my girlfriend is a severe alcoholic who spends all day screaming and yelling if nothing goes her way. I've had the cops multiple times come to our place to ask me if I'm okay because my girlfriends yells so loud. My girlfriend hasn't worked a job since the first month I met her and I pay all our bills. If I go out with a friend(dude) she will call me nonstop and text me non stop how much of a POS I am because I'm going out

I'm not allowed to talk to girls and the ones I'm friends with before I even met her I had to block. She goes through my phones while I'm sleeping and every time she does she has a week long meltdown because something someone of the opposite sex might have said to me.

So I'm not justifying or approving anything but it also isn't a perfect relationship. Don't even let me get started on her family

So why not dump her and sleep with the hot girl? Then you aren't cheating, and you aren't getting yelled at. Seems like a win win to me
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Mark_DeRosa
09/25/17 1:04:30 PM
#73:


Because if I cheat right now or dump its just idk bad juju man. We're 4 days from leaving and her family is purposely going on vacation tomorrow so they don't have to say goodbye to her. She will had nowhere to stay and I just think it's shitty if I left her right before. We got animals too and shit. It's just going to be a big ordeal. In Vegas everything will probably work itself out
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Muffinz0rz
09/25/17 1:04:34 PM
#74:


HaVeNII7 posted...
Either one. After all, context is apparently irrelevant.

Yes. It doesn't matter. You should break up with her anyways if she's literally beating you, but that's another topic.

Darklit_Minuet posted...
So why not dump her and sleep with the hot girl?

This is the best scenario.
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Muffinz0rz
09/25/17 1:05:22 PM
#75:


Mark_DeRosa posted...
Because if I cheat right now or dump its just idk bad juju man. We're 4 days from leaving and her family is purposely going on vacation tomorrow so they don't have to say goodbye to her. She will had nowhere to stay and I just think it's shitty if I left her right before. We got animals too and shit. It's just going to be a big ordeal. In Vegas everything will probably work itself out

Does the hot chick move before GF's family gets back? I'd say break up with current GF once her family gets back, then go nail hot chick.
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emblem boy
09/25/17 1:05:31 PM
#77:


Mark_DeRosa posted...
Because if I cheat right now or dump its just idk bad juju man. We're 4 days from leaving and her family is purposely going on vacation tomorrow so they don't have to say goodbye to her. She will had nowhere to stay and I just think it's shitty if I left her right before. We got animals too and shit. It's just going to be a big ordeal. In Vegas everything will probably work itself out


Lol. Ya, it will be easier to break up with her when she has moved across the country with you and away from her family.
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Mark_DeRosa
09/25/17 1:06:57 PM
#78:


Oh she's not beating me. She's just a little cuckoo and 100 percent her mom made her that way. Her mom is literally a psychopath that takes over 20 prescribed medications a day. She's literally the worst, manipulative, insane, backstabbing person you will ever meet. She drives my girlfriend crazy and did a lot of fucked up shit to her and that's how she ended up like that
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Mark_DeRosa
09/25/17 1:07:25 PM
#79:


Muffinz0rz posted...
Mark_DeRosa posted...
Because if I cheat right now or dump its just idk bad juju man. We're 4 days from leaving and her family is purposely going on vacation tomorrow so they don't have to say goodbye to her. She will had nowhere to stay and I just think it's shitty if I left her right before. We got animals too and shit. It's just going to be a big ordeal. In Vegas everything will probably work itself out

Does the hot chick move before GF's family gets back? I'd say break up with current GF once her family gets back, then go nail hot chick.

I'm moving not her
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Muffinz0rz
09/25/17 1:08:22 PM
#80:


Mark_DeRosa posted...
Muffinz0rz posted...
Mark_DeRosa posted...
Because if I cheat right now or dump its just idk bad juju man. We're 4 days from leaving and her family is purposely going on vacation tomorrow so they don't have to say goodbye to her. She will had nowhere to stay and I just think it's shitty if I left her right before. We got animals too and shit. It's just going to be a big ordeal. In Vegas everything will probably work itself out

Does the hot chick move before GF's family gets back? I'd say break up with current GF once her family gets back, then go nail hot chick.

I'm moving not her

The questions remains then - do you move before GF's family gets back?
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Mark_DeRosa
09/25/17 1:08:34 PM
#81:


No
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Muffinz0rz
09/25/17 1:09:04 PM
#82:


Mark_DeRosa posted...
No

Then dump your girlfriend when her family gets back and go nail the hot chick.
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HaVeNII7
09/25/17 1:09:28 PM
#83:


Muffinz0rz posted...
HaVeNII7 posted...
Either one. After all, context is apparently irrelevant.

Yes. It doesn't matter. You should break up with her anyways if she's literally beating you, but that's another topic.

Darklit_Minuet posted...
So why not dump her and sleep with the hot girl?

This is the best scenario.

Because getting away from an aggressor is always that easy.

Jesus Christ, you seem ignorant as all fuck. The world will never be as black and white as you obviously wish it was. I'm out. Later.
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Darklit_Minuet
09/25/17 1:10:51 PM
#84:


HaVeNII7 posted...
Because getting away from an aggressor is always that easy.

I mean, in this case it literally is. He's moving across the country, all he has to do is leave the aggressor and go without her.
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Muffinz0rz
09/25/17 1:11:44 PM
#85:


HaVeNII7 posted...
Muffinz0rz posted...
HaVeNII7 posted...
Either one. After all, context is apparently irrelevant.

Yes. It doesn't matter. You should break up with her anyways if she's literally beating you, but that's another topic.

Darklit_Minuet posted...
So why not dump her and sleep with the hot girl?

This is the best scenario.

Because getting away from an aggressor is always that easy.

Jesus Christ, you seem ignorant as all fuck. The world will never be as black and white as you obviously wish it was. I'm out. Later.

Call 911. Call friends. Call a taxi and just go literally anywhere.

I'm not saying getting away from an aggressor is easy. It's not. But it's not impossible.
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Turbam
09/25/17 1:11:46 PM
#86:


Don't cheat, try to work things out with the gf.
If they don't work then break it off.
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Mark_DeRosa
09/25/17 1:48:32 PM
#87:


Turbam posted...
Don't cheat, try to work things out with the gf.
If they don't work then break it off.

True
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