Current Events > married women who report they've been unfaithful has increased by 40 percent

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The changing reasons why women cheat on their husbands - CNN
https://apple.news/AO9JydUJNTGmVGevgnO6t6g

Something for the cucks
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why marriage isn't worth it.

run for the hills boys.

I hear indian men are the new bulls
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I mean, as interesting as some of the reasoning in that article is; at the end of the day, they're cheating on their husbands.

That's a shitty move.
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Dragonblade01 posted...

I mean, as interesting as some of the reasoning in that article is; at the end of the day, they're cheating on their husbands.

That's a shitty move.

Yea but da patriarchy
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Not long after, another told me that while she'd never had sex with another man, she'd had so many emotional affairs and inappropriate email correspondences over the years that she'd had to buy a separate hard drive to store them all.

Something about emotionally cheating on someone just sounds funny.

"The fact is," one of these friends told me, "I'm nicer to my husband when I have something special going on that's just for me." She found that she was kinder, more patient, less resentful, "less of a bitch."

I don't think cheating on someone suddenly makes you less of a bitch.

These women were turning to infidelity not as a way to explode a marriage, but as a way to stay in it.

Or you know, just break up. If you have to cheat in order to keep a relationship working, it's not a very good relationship.
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It's called female hypergamy they always think they can do better.

And ya marriage as it stand now really isn't worth it for men.

This doesn't surprise me in the slightest.
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why is red pill so bad again?

So...they cheat to save the marriage? Am I reading this article correct?
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courier_nv posted...

why is red pill so bad again?

Because a blanket hate towards woman due to bitterness of unable to get a date is a terrible mindset.
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Guys still cheat more. :v Girls are just paying them back.
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OpheliaAdenade posted...

Guys still cheat more. :v Girls are just paying them back.

Two wrongs don't make a right.
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Tmaster148 posted...

courier_nv posted...

why is red pill so bad again?

Because a blanket hate towards woman due to bitterness of unable to get a date is a terrible mindset.

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And to think, there's *still* people out there who think any guy who doesn't want to get married is "missing out".

Missing *what* exactly? The downsides continue to grow and the upsides are virtually non-existent at this point.
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courier_nv posted...

why is red pill so bad again?

Don't ask stupid questions
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OpheliaAdenade posted...

Guys still cheat more. :v Girls are just paying them back.

Most recent studies show women cheat far more than men and a disturbing % of children born in wedlock aren't actually the children of the unwitting husband.

Marriage has become a dated institution that only benefits women. I feel bad for male millennials that get married these days.
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Blue_Inigo posted...

courier_nv posted...

why is red pill so bad again?

Don't ask stupid questions

ok i was joking. sorry.

Newhopes posted...

OpheliaAdenade posted...

Guys still cheat more. :v Girls are just paying them back.

Most recent studies show women cheat far more than men and a disturbing % of children born in wedlock aren't actually the children of the unwitting husband.

bs
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OpheliaAdenade posted...

Newhopes posted...

OpheliaAdenade posted...

Guys still cheat more. :v Girls are just paying them back.

Most recent studies show women cheat far more than men and a disturbing % of children born in wedlock aren't actually the children of the unwitting husband.

bs

Not really. Women cheat more simply because they have far, far more opportunities to cheat than your average man. Most men won't cheat because they're lucky if they can even get sex from one woman, lol. The types of men that could wouldn't be interested in marriage or even relationships really.
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Romulox28 posted...

I hear indian men are the new bulls

>this is what indians actually believe
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I'd like to get married. I actually have faith in my girlfriend and am not bitter towards woman.
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voldothegr8 posted...

So...they cheat to save the marriage? Am I reading this article correct?

Female logic.

OpheliaAdenade posted...

bs

It's completely true.

https://hellobeautiful.com/2670954/study-shows-women-cheat-more-than-men/

https://www.elitedaily.com/women/are-women-likely-to-cheat/1057815

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-1211104/Think-men-unfaithful-sex-A-study-shows-WOMEN-biggest-cheats--theyre-just-better-lying-it.html

http://www.yourtango.com/201172881/women-more-likely-cheat-men-heres-why
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AcFan87 posted...

voldothegr8 posted...

So...they cheat to save the marriage? Am I reading this article correct?

Female logic.

I'm guessing the reasoning is, if it is a sexual affair, that they are not getting what they want from their husband sexually, so seek it out from some man that can, but still want the safety that their husband provides in other aspects, like finance or emotional support.

Treat your wife like you did when you dated or were newlyweds and if this happens, you can be sure that it wasn't you. It might not make it easier to take, but if you take care of your wife's needs she won't seek them out somewhere else unless she is just a bad person.
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Most men won't cheat because they're lucky if they can even get sex from one woman, lol.

LMAO woooooowww
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FrisbeeDude posted...

Most men won't cheat because they're lucky if they can even get sex from one woman, lol.

LMAO woooooowww

This is true though. Women can get laid a hell of a lot easier than men can.
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Tadamoto22 posted...

OpheliaAdenade posted...

bs

It's completely true.

https://hellobeautiful.com/2670954/study-shows-women-cheat-more-than-men/

https://www.elitedaily.com/women/are-women-likely-to-cheat/1057815

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-1211104/Think-men-unfaithful-sex-A-study-shows-WOMEN-biggest-cheats--theyre-just-better-lying-it.html

http://www.yourtango.com/201172881/women-more-likely-cheat-men-heres-why

Daaaam
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Tadamoto22 posted...

FrisbeeDude posted...

Most men won't cheat because they're lucky if they can even get sex from one woman, lol.

LMAO woooooowww

This is true though. Women can get laid a hell of a lot easier than men can.

Newsflash: there's a huge middle between "chads" and "foreveralones" and it's filled with men who do just fine with women. Don't try and justify your own failures by trying to attribute them to the general population
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AcFan87 posted...

voldothegr8 posted...

So...they cheat to save the marriage? Am I reading this article correct?

Female logic.

Nope. No guy has ever said this when caught cheating. Never
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I would agree with the idea that women are more likely to cheat. I would also agree with the idea that women consider more things to be "cheating" than men generally do.
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Women are all for being dirty two timing hoores

More at 11
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you know, I wanted to give the article and the reasoning they give a chance

so I read it all, and now I don't want to get married
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Interesting. I skimmed through it because its pretty much the story about "my needs and my wants." Theres no way to find what works for these respective marriages. No specific advice to save it. However if you treat the marriage like your life depended on it then maybe theres this general advice you can apply.

Relationships take time and effort. Couples should remind each other of that and make it work. Anything of value is worth doing yet these marriages simply dont make the time and effort For each other. So, the spouse looks towards someone else to give them that attention. have people become so busy that their marriage takes a back seat?

Marriage priority is low in some cases. Spouses often feel one sided in the relationship and its that neglect that devalues them as a couple. They lived with each other for years yet they feel like strangers at times. Its torment to feel and not be able to tell the one you love, or like enough to build a life around as that article put it. Simply these couples expect their intimacy to carry the marriage and quite frankly, thats never enough.

We all arent mind readers. We need to communicate with words and actually listen attentively to one another to come to a mutual understanding. It seems the infidelity is one way. I wonder if this was the result of a mutual understanding or just a spouse going maverick.

most of us will act on impulse Given the right situations. Spouses excuse and bury their feelings at times. they keep doing that and they become burdened with it. That one day of impulse becomes so great that the excuses stop and that spouse just wants to feel desired again.
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Ppl dont want to work on marriage

We are lazy
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I wont feel sorry for those women if their husbands have a violent reaction when they find out.
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idk if I had a wife and she cheated on me to fix a problem instead of talking to me about it, I'd be pretty devastated
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I think we treat the idea of marriage to much like we treat the idea of college. It's something that you must do, regardless of whether its appropriate for you or not. And because you have to do it, you feel trapped. But because each person is different, they struggle in their own particular areas and have to find their own unique ways of dealing with it. Which means there's no universal patch to fix the issue for everyone having difficulties.

People have to really want to get married and be willing to work at it. They have to prepare for it and recognize that it isn't some happily ever after scenario like we're told it is. If you want to diminish these sorts of scenarios from being commonplace, you can't make marriage a goal that people feel obligated to achieve in order to be "proper members of society."

But again, if you cheat on your significant other, that's a mistake on your part. It doesn't matter if the system encourages it or not.
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What an incredibly depressing article.
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ThyCorndog posted...

idk if I had a wife and she cheated on me to fix a problem instead of talking to me about it, I'd be pretty devastated

It's not really a fix.

It's those women being increasingly selfish and thinking they should get everything they want.

I can assure you those husbands aren't getting everything they want, but we don't typically get to hear their side of it. We generally don't care if the men in relationships aren't feeling totally satisfied.
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Esrac posted...

ThyCorndog posted...

idk if I had a wife and she cheated on me to fix a problem instead of talking to me about it, I'd be pretty devastated

It's not really a fix.

It's those women being increasingly selfish and thinking they should get everything they want.

I can assure you those husbands aren't getting everything they want, but we don't typically get to hear their side of it. We generally don't care if the men in relationships aren't feeling totally satisfied.

This is another issue that needs to get brought up more. It's a two-pronged issue.

Going to an office, doing the same menial tasks day in and day out, going home for the latter part of the day, and having all or most of your social interactions revolve around those two places isn't exactly an ideal situation for most guys (or really anyone, for that matter).
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ThyCorndog posted...

idk if I had a wife and she cheated on me to fix a problem instead of talking to me about it, I'd be pretty devastated

I would say this is a step in the right direction to finding out their (or anyone's) motivations for such actions. I know in the years I've been married there has been some low points where I started to think things. So I just was up front and confronted my wife and asked her and told her my concerns and why. And she laid them to rest enough that I was confident I got the truth and was just being human. Talking to your spouse about your concerns, needs, feelings, etc is important to circumventing something like infidelity happening in your marriage/relationship.
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Dragonblade01 posted...

Esrac posted...

ThyCorndog posted...

idk if I had a wife and she cheated on me to fix a problem instead of talking to me about it, I'd be pretty devastated

It's not really a fix.

It's those women being increasingly selfish and thinking they should get everything they want.

I can assure you those husbands aren't getting everything they want, but we don't typically get to hear their side of it. We generally don't care if the men in relationships aren't feeling totally satisfied.

This is another issue that needs to get brought up more. It's a two-pronged issue.

Going to an office, doing the same menial tasks day in and day out, going home for the latter part of the day, and having all or most of your social interactions revolve around those two places isn't exactly an ideal situation for most guys (or really anyone, for that matter).

I mean, lately, we hear a lot about the "invisible, emotional labor" that women do and, in this case, how it makes them resent their husbands and they use it as an excuse to cheat. But how often do we ask men about what "invisible labor" they do and how it makes them feel about their wives and their marriages?

No one gives a shit about that. Hell, I'm griping about it right now in this post and I recognize that it's a disparity in our collective concern as a society about the issues men and women face, but even I can't be bothered to care if Joe Blow is feeling dissatisfied with his marriage.
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voldothegr8 posted...

So...they cheat to save the marriage? Am I reading this article correct?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2HFEcZwHCuY
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That's something we've always had a problem with when it comes to understanding gender disparity. Even if men as a whole may be considered the "privileged gender," that tells us nothing about the struggle of any individual man in society. More importantly, it fails to recognize that even the gender in the dominate role still requires the individuals to bear all the responsibilities of that role. And those responsibilities can be extremely stressful and not especially satisfying.
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Dragonblade01 posted...

That's something we've always had a problem with when it comes to understanding gender disparity. Even if men as a whole may be considered the "privileged gender," that tells us nothing about the struggle of any individual man in society. More importantly, it fails to recognize that even the gender in the dominate role still requires the individuals to bear all the responsibilities of that role. And those responsibilities can be extremely stressful and not especially satisfying.

True
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It's foolish to think one person can satisfy you forever.
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