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Genocet_10-325
10/17/17 12:51:21 PM
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LJRENEGADE posted...
I think a big problem with ones who do try to take advice and change is that they'll get rejected once or twice, then give up and ignore any more advice because they feel it doesn't work, thinking that since they were rejected, they'll always be rejected and whatever they tried isn't worth keeping up.

Others just refuse to change or admit that there's anything wrong with them and think that its not their fault if people don't like them. I've seen people brush aside good advice because they think they understand everything better than the people telling them otherwise.

I think I've even seen someone on CE say that they wanted a hot girlfriend and wouldn't settle for someone ugly while not wanting to make any self improvement and asking why they should change or something along those lines.


The person you're describing deserves to be alone. Beggars can't be choosers
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Zodd3224
10/17/17 12:56:46 PM
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Incels should be shamed and laughed at
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Genocet_10-325
10/17/17 1:00:11 PM
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Zodd3224 posted...
Incels should be shamed and laughed at


I'm on the fence. Some of them really could get their shit together and get a girl. Hardcore incels should be shamed and laughed at.
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Darkman124
10/17/17 1:04:51 PM
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Genocet_10-325 posted...
why do they spend all their time


i expect they do not spend 'all their time' on any one thing.
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Genocet_10-325
10/17/17 1:27:41 PM
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Darkman124 posted...
Genocet_10-325 posted...
why do they spend all their time


i expect they do not spend 'all their time' on any one thing.


What did you hope to accomplish by pointing this out? Pretty sure no one actually thought I meant that literally, unless there's children under 5 reading this topic.
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Darkman124
10/17/17 1:34:13 PM
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Genocet_10-325 posted...
What did you hope to accomplish by pointing this out? Pretty sure no one actually thought I meant that literally, unless there's children under 5 reading this topic.


because in creating this topic you were asking why a bunch of socially isolated people sought a forum for communication with other socially isolated people, then cast that interaction as 'the only thing they do' and identified it as something holding them back

when really for them, as their only social contact it's probably a crutch that keeps them from killing themselves

they need psychological help, and such communities tend to radicalize these easily manipulated people and pose risk to society

but their little insane community isn't the cause of their problems, it's a symptom of them

what holds them back is a total lack of meaningful social contact, lack of communication skills to make opportunities turn into friendships, and lack of the willing peers who could help them become normal people.

also, probably to some degree (variable) willingness in that regard.
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cjsdowg
10/17/17 2:00:16 PM
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Once more I don't not this group so I am just speaking in genral terms .

Some people just will not find love. They could be ugly,they could have something wrong with them up stairs are whatever. While at the same time literally people in prison can get people. So these guys might be thinking what the fuck. I pay my taxes and do everything right but this guy who killed someone is getting some.
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The Admiral
10/17/17 2:41:01 PM
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cjsdowg posted...
Once more I don't not this group so I am just speaking in genral terms .

Some people just will not find love. They could be ugly,they could have something wrong with them up stairs are whatever. While at the same time literally people in prison can get people. So these guys might be thinking what the fuck. I pay my taxes and do everything right but this guy who killed someone is getting some.


You just need to watch an episode of Jerry Springer to see that ugly people can still get women quite easily. Every other episode is about some toothless redneck cheating on multiple women in his trailer park. Those guys are for sure uglier, poorer, and stupider than almost everyone here, and even they can find multiple women to sleep with them.

The issues preventing these incel guys from getting laid are almost never the ones they think they are.
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Zikten
10/17/17 2:43:45 PM
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they aren't all like that. I'm not mad, just depressed. I blame nobody but myself
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mario2000
10/17/17 2:45:00 PM
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you want an explanation just look at the alt right
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KogaSteelfang
10/17/17 4:52:50 PM
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Zodd3224 posted...
Incels should be shamed and laughed at


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Zodd3224
10/17/17 5:04:33 PM
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KogaSteelfang posted...
Zodd3224 posted...
Incels should be shamed and laughed at



You dont strike me as an incel. You seem like a genuinely nice guy.
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donkeyjack
10/17/17 5:08:28 PM
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Who came up with these terms?
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Prestoff
10/17/17 6:29:29 PM
#66:


Zodd3224 posted...
KogaSteelfang posted...
Zodd3224 posted...
Incels should be shamed and laughed at



You dont strike me as an incel. You seem like a genuinely nice guy.


Incels also see themselves as nice guys...
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MoreRpgs
10/17/17 6:32:20 PM
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That's just sad
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Zodd3224
10/17/17 6:36:30 PM
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Prestoff posted...
Zodd3224 posted...
KogaSteelfang posted...
Zodd3224 posted...
Incels should be shamed and laughed at



You dont strike me as an incel. You seem like a genuinely nice guy.


Incels also see themselves as nice guys...


Yes but they blame women for their own failings. Ive never seen him blame women for his personal issues.
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Prestoff
10/17/17 6:48:44 PM
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Zodd3224 posted...
Prestoff posted...
Zodd3224 posted...
KogaSteelfang posted...
Zodd3224 posted...
Incels should be shamed and laughed at



You dont strike me as an incel. You seem like a genuinely nice guy.


Incels also see themselves as nice guys...


Yes but they blame women for their own failings. Ive never seen him blame women for his personal issues.


Yeah I know, I was just screwing around with ya lol
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Zodd3224
10/17/17 6:51:41 PM
#71:


Prestoff posted...
Zodd3224 posted...
Prestoff posted...
Zodd3224 posted...
KogaSteelfang posted...
Zodd3224 posted...
Incels should be shamed and laughed at



You dont strike me as an incel. You seem like a genuinely nice guy.


Incels also see themselves as nice guys...


Yes but they blame women for their own failings. Ive never seen him blame women for his personal issues.


Yeah I know, I was just screwing around with ya lol


Dont play with my emotions boi
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snakes_righteye
10/17/17 6:52:50 PM
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KogaSteelfang posted...
Zodd3224 posted...
Incels should be shamed and laughed at



I don't think you are an incel. One defining characteristic of incels, is arrogance. They feel like they deserve attention just for being nice. That is as arrogant as you get, and they are delusional about it.

You don't seem that way to me. You really do seem like a nice guy.
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cjsdowg
10/17/17 7:01:51 PM
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Sometimes people can not change what is wrong with them. I never had a girl until I got out into college. The issue that some girls had with me. Literally said I acted too white.(Ironic right) There is not much I could do to change that.

And once more I don't want to seem like I am copping for the this group since I don't know about them. I just know how some people can feel like there is nothing that could do.
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Pepys Monster
10/17/17 7:27:03 PM
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Zodd3224 posted...
Incels should be shamed and laughed at

No, they shouldn't. They should be rehabilitated so they can have happy relationships instead of being bullied on forums by people like you.
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Zodd3224
10/17/17 7:29:16 PM
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Pepys Monster posted...
Zodd3224 posted...
Incels should be shamed and laughed at

No, they shouldn't. They should be rehabilitated so they can have happy relationships instead of being bullied on forums by people like you.


Found the incel
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Genocet_10-325
10/17/17 9:23:56 PM
#76:


The Admiral posted...
cjsdowg posted...
Once more I don't not this group so I am just speaking in genral terms .

Some people just will not find love. They could be ugly,they could have something wrong with them up stairs are whatever. While at the same time literally people in prison can get people. So these guys might be thinking what the fuck. I pay my taxes and do everything right but this guy who killed someone is getting some.


You just need to watch an episode of Jerry Springer to see that ugly people can still get women quite easily. Every other episode is about some toothless redneck cheating on multiple women in his trailer park. Those guys are for sure uglier, poorer, and stupider than almost everyone here, and even they can find multiple women to sleep with them.

The issues preventing these incel guys from getting laid are almost never the ones they think they are.


You just described my confusion about incels more perfectly than I ever could. If those inbred hicks can get laid anyone can. Some of the trailer trash girls aren't even that hideous. Either they need to lower their fucking standards a little or try a little harder instead of giving up after one rejection.
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Behaviorism
10/17/17 9:47:51 PM
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Intel? Do people have to come up with names and memes for everything?
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Genocet_10-325
10/17/17 9:49:45 PM
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Behaviorism posted...
Intel? Do people have to come up with names and memes for everything?


That's what they call themselves.
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ExtremeLuchador
10/17/17 9:53:11 PM
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Jerry Springer was as scripted as Pro Wrestling is. Sometimes Springer even had indy pro wrestlers playing roles on his shows.
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LinkAndEpona
10/17/17 10:16:25 PM
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RedWhiteBlue posted...
So many people shit on incels. There are more good ones than the vocal shitbags, ya know. And it comes down to a number of factors, like being hideous, not having opportunities, no money, and no social skills.


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snakes_righteye
10/17/17 10:23:00 PM
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These people piss me off. Bad. They are involuntarily celibate and they only reason that they can come up with to explain that is because girls are shallow and only care about looks and money

It couldn't possibly be they are involuntarily celibate because they are voluntarily creepy arrogant narcissistic assholes.
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RNGenie
10/18/17 1:32:39 AM
#83:


I'm not an Incel, but I've learned that the problem stems from isolating myself socially. I'm now realizing that the problem is me not putting myself out there enough. I've recently been rejected by a woman that I was interested in. It sucks and is discouraging, but I'm slowly but surely taking a step back, analyzing what I can do in order to attract someone. It takes time of course, but you just have to take it one day at a time and you'll be on top in no time.
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