Poll of the Day > My friend of 13 years who has terminal cancer

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usui88 10/29/17 5:04:57 PM #1:	is talking about killing himself Life is so terrible sometimes Fuck --- Living like this is a full-time business. <cite>usui88 posted [p:889380346] in My friend ... [t:75933497]...</cite> <quote>is talking about killing himself Life is so terrible sometimes Fuck</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
aHappySacka 10/29/17 5:12:50 PM #2:	Is it terminal 7? otherwise there's no meme potential. --- You are now blinking and breathing manually. http://i.imgur.com/91NC0Cb.gifv <cite>aHappySacka posted [p:889380801] in My friend ... [t:75933497]...</cite> <quote>Is it terminal 7? otherwise there's no meme potential.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
mastermix3000 10/29/17 5:21:36 PM #3:	aHappySacka posted... Is it terminal 7? otherwise there's no meme potential. Really? OP that really fuckin sucks, make their last days count Depending on how open minded they are you can point them towards spirituality --- RIP in peace Junpei 6/1/17 :( <cite>mastermix3000 posted [p:889381362] in My friend ... [t:75933497]...</cite> <quote><cite>aHappySacka posted...</cite> <quote>Is it terminal 7? otherwise there's no meme potential.</quote> Really? OP that really fuckin sucks, make their last days count Depending on how open minded they are you can point them towards spirituality</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
usui88 10/29/17 5:48:09 PM #4:	He was diagnosed three years ago Like theres nothing the doctors can do --- Living like this is a full-time business. <cite>usui88 posted [p:889382893] in My friend ... [t:75933497]...</cite> <quote>He was diagnosed three years ago Like theres nothing the doctors can do</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
usui88 10/29/17 5:50:34 PM #5:	aHappySacka posted... Is it terminal 7? otherwise there's no meme potential. Also thats such a shitty thing to say --- Living like this is a full-time business. <cite>usui88 posted [p:889383035] in My friend ... [t:75933497]...</cite> <quote><cite>aHappySacka posted...</cite> <quote>Is it terminal 7? otherwise there's no meme potential.</quote> Also thats such a shitty thing to say</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
aHappySacka 10/29/17 6:01:22 PM #6:	https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FivJ2YdHO-E --- You are now blinking and breathing manually. http://i.imgur.com/91NC0Cb.gifv <cite>aHappySacka posted [p:889383652] in My friend ... [t:75933497]...</cite> <quote> https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FivJ2YdHO-E</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
SusanGreenEyes 10/30/17 12:03:53 AM #7:	I'm sorry about your friend. That's very sad. --- Been a murder, over in Riften. Some old lady who runs an orphanage. Those poor children must be heartbroken. <cite>SusanGreenEyes posted [p:889404187] in My friend ... [t:75933497]...</cite> <quote>I'm sorry about your friend. That's very sad.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
SushiSquid 10/30/17 12:07:29 AM #8:	I don't understand the dedication to trolling that one ass hole is exhibiting in this topic. It's just shameful and wrong. I'm really sorry to hear about your friend. For what it's worth, I know how hard it is to lose a close friend. Spend what time you've got left with him and make it good. It'll make his last days much better for him, and those memories will be what keeps you going when he's gone. <cite>SushiSquid posted [p:889404380] in My friend ... [t:75933497]...</cite> <quote>I don't understand the dedication to trolling that one ass hole is exhibiting in this topic. It's just shameful and wrong. I'm really sorry to hear about your friend. For what it's worth, I know how hard it is to lose a close friend. Spend what time you've got left with him and make it good. It'll make his last days much better for him, and those memories will be what keeps you going when he's gone.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
LeetCheet 10/30/17 12:44:26 AM #9:	That sucks big time. Fucking cancer always ruining it for everyone. It wasn't already terminal when he was diagnosed three year ago, was it? --- https://i.imgur.com/eQrRxik.jpg <cite>LeetCheet posted [p:889406218] in My friend ... [t:75933497]...</cite> <quote>That sucks big time. Fucking cancer always ruining it for everyone. It wasn't already terminal when he was diagnosed three year ago, was it?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
usui88 10/30/17 12:06:38 PM #10:	mastermix3000 posted... aHappySacka posted... Is it terminal 7? otherwise there's no meme potential. Really? OP that really fuckin sucks, make their last days count Depending on how open minded they are you can point them towards spirituality Hes just so beyond that point now idk how much good that would do He almost got pissed at me for caring, if that makes sense SusanGreenEyes posted... I'm sorry about your friend. That's very sad. Thank you SushiSquid posted... I don't understand the dedication to trolling that one ass hole is exhibiting in this topic. It's just shameful and wrong. I'm really sorry to hear about your friend. For what it's worth, I know how hard it is to lose a close friend. Spend what time you've got left with him and make it good. It'll make his last days much better for him, and those memories will be what keeps you going when he's gone. Thanks, and Im used to dickholes like that so Im not too bothered LeetCheet posted... That sucks big time. Fucking cancer always ruining it for everyone. It wasn't already terminal when he was diagnosed three year ago, was it? No it was diagnosed at stage 3. Its weird to say but the doctors didnt think hed lived as long as he had aHappySacka posted... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FivJ2YdHO-E Did you really delete your post and go with this instead like it would be better Fuck off asshole --- Living like this is a full-time business. <cite>usui88 posted [p:889428363] in My friend ... [t:75933497]...</cite> <quote><cite>mastermix3000 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>aHappySacka posted...</cite> <quote>Is it terminal 7? otherwise there's no meme potential.</quote> Really? OP that really fuckin sucks, make their last days count Depending on how open minded they are you can point them towards spirituality</quote> Hes just so beyond that point now idk how much good that would do He almost got pissed at me for caring, if that makes sense <cite>SusanGreenEyes posted...</cite> <quote>I'm sorry about your friend. That's very sad.</quote> Thank you <cite>SushiSquid posted...</cite> <quote>I don't understand the dedication to trolling that one ass hole is exhibiting in this topic. It's just shameful and wrong. I'm really sorry to hear about your friend. For what it's worth, I know how hard it is to lose a close friend. Spend what time you've got left with him and make it good. It'll make his last days much better for him, and those memories will be what keeps you going when he's gone.</quote> Thanks, and Im used to dickholes like that so Im not too bothered <cite>LeetCheet posted...</cite> <quote>That sucks big time. Fucking cancer always ruining it for everyone. It wasn't already terminal when he was diagnosed three year ago, was it?</quote> No it was diagnosed at stage 3. Its weird to say but the doctors didnt think hed lived as long as he had <cite>aHappySacka posted...</cite> <quote> https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FivJ2YdHO-E</quote> Did you really delete your post and go with this instead like it would be better Fuck off asshole</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
NightShift 10/30/17 12:38:11 PM #11:	sorry op. cancer sucks and id never wish it on even the worst people. i honestly can understand where your friend is coming from. he probably wants to go out on his/her terms and with dignity and not suffer and rot in a hospital bed. i would try and live as long as i could with it untill it became too much. then ride at 170mph off a cliff side at the dragons tail. --- #BikeLife <cite>NightShift posted [p:889430361] in My friend ... [t:75933497]...</cite> <quote>sorry op. cancer sucks and id never wish it on even the worst people. i honestly can understand where your friend is coming from. he probably wants to go out on his/her terms and with dignity and not suffer and rot in a hospital bed. i would try and live as long as i could with it untill it became too much. then ride at 170mph off a cliff side at the dragons tail.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ssj4supervegeta 10/30/17 12:38:41 PM #12:	i mean. i'd say just try some non-standard medicines in the vain hope it might work. better than nothing at least. --- LoL summoner: Vejitables Wanna know why me rogers so jolly? hehe <cite>ssj4supervegeta posted [p:889430396] in My friend ... [t:75933497]...</cite> <quote>i mean. i'd say just try some non-standard medicines in the vain hope it might work. better than nothing at least.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
usui88 10/30/17 12:43:16 PM #13:	NightShift posted... sorry op. cancer sucks and id never wish it on even the worst people. i honestly can understand where your friend is coming from. he probably wants to go out on his/her terms and with dignity and not suffer and rot in a hospital bed. i would try and live as long as i could with it untill it became too much. then ride at 170mph off a cliff side at the dragons tail. Hes been hospitalized during every Christmas and birthday since he was diagnosed We live in different states now and I was supposed to go see him last winter break but I couldnt bc of that I really do understand it and I probably would do the same I just hate knowing the last time I saw him, before he was diagnosed, might be the last time ssj4supervegeta posted... i mean. i'd say just try some non-standard medicines in the vain hope it might work. better than nothing at least. Hes tried everything. Hes got some serious money so hes been able to afford it all and nothing has helped. A big deal recently was when he was able to hit 90 lbs --- Living like this is a full-time business. <cite>usui88 posted [p:889430678] in My friend ... [t:75933497]...</cite> <quote><cite>NightShift posted...</cite> <quote>sorry op. cancer sucks and id never wish it on even the worst people. i honestly can understand where your friend is coming from. he probably wants to go out on his/her terms and with dignity and not suffer and rot in a hospital bed. i would try and live as long as i could with it untill it became too much. then ride at 170mph off a cliff side at the dragons tail.</quote> Hes been hospitalized during every Christmas and birthday since he was diagnosed We live in different states now and I was supposed to go see him last winter break but I couldnt bc of that I really do understand it and I probably would do the same I just hate knowing the last time I saw him, before he was diagnosed, might be the last time <cite>ssj4supervegeta posted...</cite> <quote>i mean. i'd say just try some non-standard medicines in the vain hope it might work. better than nothing at least.</quote> Hes tried everything. Hes got some serious money so hes been able to afford it all and nothing has helped. A big deal recently was when he was able to hit 90 lbs</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Moonjay 10/30/17 1:54:21 PM #14:	From my experience, the best thing you can do for him is just keep in contact with him in the same way that you would stay in contact with any healthy friend. Talk to him just like a healthy friend as much as possible. Being treated differently and avoided by most people when you're dying can be one of the worst things about it. --- `Twas brillig, and the slithy toves did gyre and gimble in the wabe; All mimsy were the borogoves, and the mome raths outgrabe. <cite>Moonjay posted [p:889435531] in My friend ... [t:75933497]...</cite> <quote>From my experience, the best thing you can do for him is just keep in contact with him in the same way that you would stay in contact with any healthy friend. Talk to him just like a healthy friend as much as possible. Being treated differently and avoided by most people when you're dying can be one of the worst things about it.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
SushiSquid 10/30/17 2:20:12 PM #15:	usui88 posted... Did you really delete your post and go with this instead like it would be better He didn't delete that first post. A moderator did. <cite>SushiSquid posted [p:889437168] in My friend ... [t:75933497]...</cite> <quote><cite>usui88 posted...</cite> <quote>Did you really delete your post and go with this instead like it would be better</quote> He didn't delete that first post. A moderator did.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
usui88 10/30/17 2:24:48 PM #16:	SushiSquid posted... usui88 posted... Did you really delete your post and go with this instead like it would be better He didn't delete that first post. A moderator did. Lmao good I never mark ppl so aces to whoever did --- Living like this is a full-time business. <cite>usui88 posted [p:889437480] in My friend ... [t:75933497]...</cite> <quote><cite>SushiSquid posted...</cite> <quote><cite>usui88 posted...</cite> <quote>Did you really delete your post and go with this instead like it would be better</quote> He didn't delete that first post. A moderator did.</quote> Lmao good I never mark ppl so aces to whoever did</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Alexandra_Trent 10/30/17 3:25:57 PM #17:	I'm sorry to hear that. No matter what happens try your best to be there for him even though he might tell you otherwise. He gets angry because of his helplessness and the fear of what's to come. You as well as his other loved ones must be there for him as these last days are when he'll need you the most. Be strong; both for yourself and for him. hugs --- "Ladies don't start fights, but they can finish them." -Marie, Aristocats <cite>Alexandra_Trent posted [p:889441496] in My friend ... [t:75933497]...</cite> <quote>I'm sorry to hear that. No matter what happens try your best to be there for him even though he might tell you otherwise. He gets angry because of his helplessness and the fear of what's to come. You as well as his other loved ones must be there for him as these last days are when he'll need you the most. Be strong; both for yourself and for him. hugs </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
usui88 10/30/17 5:03:02 PM #18:	Alexandra_Trent posted... I'm sorry to hear that. No matter what happens try your best to be there for him even though he might tell you otherwise. He gets angry because of his helplessness and the fear of what's to come. You as well as his other loved ones must be there for him as these last days are when he'll need you the most. Be strong; both for yourself and for him. hugs Thanks hun. Its just hard feeling so helpless I just dont know what more I can do than this and it feels like so little --- Living like this is a full-time business. <cite>usui88 posted [p:889447748] in My friend ... [t:75933497]...</cite> <quote><cite>Alexandra_Trent posted...</cite> <quote>I'm sorry to hear that. No matter what happens try your best to be there for him even though he might tell you otherwise. He gets angry because of his helplessness and the fear of what's to come. You as well as his other loved ones must be there for him as these last days are when he'll need you the most. Be strong; both for yourself and for him. hugs </quote> Thanks hun. Its just hard feeling so helpless I just dont know what more I can do than this and it feels like so little</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Moonjay 10/30/17 5:12:17 PM #19:	Pretty damn cold to call their feelings nonsense. --- `Twas brillig, and the slithy toves did gyre and gimble in the wabe; All mimsy were the borogoves, and the mome raths outgrabe. <cite>Moonjay posted [p:889448328] in My friend ... [t:75933497]...</cite> <quote>Pretty damn cold to call their feelings nonsense.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
usui88 10/30/17 5:18:37 PM #20:	Moonjay posted... Pretty damn cold to call their feelings nonsense. Thats just the way I phrase things. He knows the way I mean it --- Living like this is a full-time business. <cite>usui88 posted [p:889448736] in My friend ... [t:75933497]...</cite> <quote><cite>Moonjay posted...</cite> <quote>Pretty damn cold to call their feelings nonsense.</quote> Thats just the way I phrase things. He knows the way I mean it</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
usui88 10/30/17 8:20:56 PM #21:	He just told me that a pastor and notary just came up to his hospital room to fill out his final wishes and power of attorney for when he passes Goddamnit --- Living like this is a full-time business. <cite>usui88 posted [p:889459141] in My friend ... [t:75933497]...</cite> <quote>He just told me that a pastor and notary just came up to his hospital room to fill out his final wishes and power of attorney for when he passes Goddamnit</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
usui88 10/30/17 8:22:50 PM #22:	Like I dont even know what to say FaceTime me before you go? Like I honestly want opinions of how I should deal with this --- Living like this is a full-time business. <cite>usui88 posted [p:889459273] in My friend ... [t:75933497]...</cite> <quote>Like I dont even know what to say FaceTime me before you go? Like I honestly want opinions of how I should deal with this</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
SushiSquid 10/30/17 9:11:36 PM #23:	This is really, really hard. On the one hand, I understand his point. He doesn't want to suffer and extend his death, and I think it's everyone's own business how they die. But you don't really have the time right now to visit him, do you? It's really important to you to see him one last time, and I imagine it's important to him too. <cite>SushiSquid posted [p:889462665] in My friend ... [t:75933497]...</cite> <quote>This is really, really hard. On the one hand, I understand his point. He doesn't want to suffer and extend his death, and I think it's everyone's own business how they die. But you don't really have the time right now to visit him, do you? It's really important to you to see him one last time, and I imagine it's important to him too.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
JTekashiro 10/31/17 2:23:25 PM #24:	usui88 posted... Like I dont even know what to say FaceTime me before you go? Like I honestly want opinions of how I should deal with this Your friend is going to die and you actually think FaceTime is a sufficient way to see each other? You must not be a very good friend. Oh, by the way, your friend has enough stuff going on in his life that he has decided the best option for him is to end his life. Stop thinking about yourself and support your friend.Your friend is not doing this out of anger and the decision was not made hastily. This is going to be the hardest time of his life and you are being a selfish jerk about it. <cite>JTekashiro posted [p:889502572] in My friend ... [t:75933497]...</cite> <quote><cite>usui88 posted...</cite> <quote>Like I dont even know what to say FaceTime me before you go? Like I honestly want opinions of how I should deal with this</quote> Your friend is going to die and you actually think FaceTime is a sufficient way to see each other? You must not be a very good friend. Oh, by the way, your friend has enough stuff going on in his life that he has decided the best option for him is to end his life. Stop thinking about yourself and support your friend.Your friend is not doing this out of anger and the decision was not made hastily. This is going to be the hardest time of his life and you are being a selfish jerk about it.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
RoboXgp89 10/31/17 2:43:01 PM #25:	just try not to say anything contreversal or offensive before he goes, people tend to take stuff way too personal around death --- Bloodborne's Themes Explored https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Tv2-IxQ8VTQ <cite>RoboXgp89 posted [p:889503707] in My friend ... [t:75933497]...</cite> <quote>just try not to say anything contreversal or offensive before he goes, people tend to take stuff way too personal around death</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
usui88 11/01/17 12:27:37 AM #26:	JTekashiro posted... usui88 posted... Like I dont even know what to say FaceTime me before you go? Like I honestly want opinions of how I should deal with this Your friend is going to die and you actually think FaceTime is a sufficient way to see each other? You must not be a very good friend. I was being glib because thats how I deal with shit, and if I cant make it there what alternative would you offer? Please Oh, by the way, your friend has enough stuff going on in his life that he has decided the best option for him is to end his life. Stop thinking about yourself and support your friend.Your friend is not doing this out of anger and the decision was not made hastily. This is going to be the hardest time of his life and you are being a selfish jerk about it. I didnt think I was. I cant not voice my feelings though and he just brought all this out. Gonna need a min to understand it and be okay in the way I need to be to be there for him And I dont appreciate the implication that I dont care. Unfortunate as it is I have things Im having to deal with myself right now that keep me from being able to, even for one day, fly across the country He knows my situation in the same way Im understanding his and he doesnt begrudge me this RoboXgp89 posted... just try not to say anything contreversal or offensive before he goes, people tend to take stuff way too personal around death Actually that would absolutely be the most appropriate way to say goodbye. Our entire friendship was built on that very foundation --- Living like this is a full-time business. <cite>usui88 posted [p:889536011] in My friend ... [t:75933497]...</cite> <quote><cite>JTekashiro posted...</cite> <quote><cite>usui88 posted...</cite> <quote>Like I dont even know what to say FaceTime me before you go? Like I honestly want opinions of how I should deal with this</quote> Your friend is going to die and you actually think FaceTime is a sufficient way to see each other? You must not be a very good friend.</quote> I was being glib because thats how I deal with shit, and if I cant make it there what alternative would you offer? Please <quote>Oh, by the way, your friend has enough stuff going on in his life that he has decided the best option for him is to end his life. Stop thinking about yourself and support your friend.Your friend is not doing this out of anger and the decision was not made hastily. This is going to be the hardest time of his life and you are being a selfish jerk about it.</quote> I didnt think I was. I cant not voice my feelings though and he just brought all this out. Gonna need a min to understand it and be okay in the way I need to be to be there for him And I dont appreciate the implication that I dont care. Unfortunate as it is I have things Im having to deal with myself right now that keep me from being able to, even for one day, fly across the country He knows my situation in the same way Im understanding his and he doesnt begrudge me this <cite>RoboXgp89 posted...</cite> <quote>just try not to say anything contreversal or offensive before he goes, people tend to take stuff way too personal around death</quote> Actually that would absolutely be the most appropriate way to say goodbye. Our entire friendship was built on that very foundation</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
JTekashiro 11/01/17 1:04:10 PM #27:	usui88 posted... JTekashiro posted... usui88 posted... Like I dont even know what to say FaceTime me before you go? Like I honestly want opinions of how I should deal with this Your friend is going to die and you actually think FaceTime is a sufficient way to see each other? You must not be a very good friend. I was being glib because thats how I deal with shit, and if I cant make it there what alternative would you offer? Please Oh, by the way, your friend has enough stuff going on in his life that he has decided the best option for him is to end his life. Stop thinking about yourself and support your friend.Your friend is not doing this out of anger and the decision was not made hastily. This is going to be the hardest time of his life and you are being a selfish jerk about it. I didnt think I was. I cant not voice my feelings though and he just brought all this out. Gonna need a min to understand it and be okay in the way I need to be to be there for him And I dont appreciate the implication that I dont care. Unfortunate as it is I have things Im having to deal with myself right now that keep me from being able to, even for one day, fly across the country He knows my situation in the same way Im understanding his and he doesnt begrudge me this RoboXgp89 posted... just try not to say anything contreversal or offensive before he goes, people tend to take stuff way too personal around death Actually that would absolutely be the most appropriate way to say goodbye. Our entire friendship was built on that very foundation Do you honestly not see how self-centered your response is? Your friend is dying and it is all about you. When my friend got terminal cancer I spent as much time with him as I could. I was there when he was going through his five steps. I was there when he had to sign over custody of his daughter. I was there when the cancer began to metastasize to his brain, impacting his perception of reality. I was there at his funeral. Do you not think I had things going on in my own life during this time? I saw lots of "friends" like you around my friend during his time of need too. People who are too self-involved to take a minute and dedicate some time to a friend in need. Sure you say you want to support him but you want to do it on your terms and your timeline. That is not supportive nor is it a sign of a good friend. I honestly hope you are trolling with this. <cite>JTekashiro posted [p:889559753] in My friend ... [t:75933497]...</cite> <quote><cite>usui88 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>JTekashiro posted...</cite> <quote><cite>usui88 posted...</cite> <quote>Like I dont even know what to say FaceTime me before you go? Like I honestly want opinions of how I should deal with this</quote> Your friend is going to die and you actually think FaceTime is a sufficient way to see each other? You must not be a very good friend.</quote> I was being glib because thats how I deal with shit, and if I cant make it there what alternative would you offer? Please <quote>Oh, by the way, your friend has enough stuff going on in his life that he has decided the best option for him is to end his life. Stop thinking about yourself and support your friend.Your friend is not doing this out of anger and the decision was not made hastily. This is going to be the hardest time of his life and you are being a selfish jerk about it.</quote> I didnt think I was. I cant not voice my feelings though and he just brought all this out. Gonna need a min to understand it and be okay in the way I need to be to be there for him And I dont appreciate the implication that I dont care. Unfortunate as it is I have things Im having to deal with myself right now that keep me from being able to, even for one day, fly across the country He knows my situation in the same way Im understanding his and he doesnt begrudge me this <cite>RoboXgp89 posted...</cite> <quote>just try not to say anything contreversal or offensive before he goes, people tend to take stuff way too personal around death</quote> Actually that would absolutely be the most appropriate way to say goodbye. Our entire friendship was built on that very foundation</quote> Do you honestly not see how self-centered your response is? Your friend is dying and it is all about you. When my friend got terminal cancer I spent as much time with him as I could. I was there when he was going through his five steps. I was there when he had to sign over custody of his daughter. I was there when the cancer began to metastasize to his brain, impacting his perception of reality. I was there at his funeral. Do you not think I had things going on in my own life during this time? I saw lots of "friends" like you around my friend during his time of need too. People who are too self-involved to take a minute and dedicate some time to a friend in need. Sure you say you want to support him but you want to do it on your terms and your timeline. That is not supportive nor is it a sign of a good friend. I honestly hope you are trolling with this.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
mastermix3000 11/01/17 1:14:21 PM #28:	JTek is spot on This is a moment in your life that may mean a lot or nothing to you Truthfully, it doesnt matter whether you go or not. But Id definitely be the friend that would go out of my way to see a good friends last days Of course this is probably glossing over which issue you may have going on in your life. I dont know how close your relationship was but you should probably put some of your challenges behind first. Remember, you will never see him again and Im certain he would really appreciate you going to him in person and being a dick rather than you face timing and doing the same Again, I have no idea of your situation and it might be incredibly difficult to visit him. I just personally think any close friend should visit their dying friend, no question Like I said though, it doesnt matter what you do. Thats the beauty/sad thing about life --- RIP in peace Junpei 6/1/17 :( <cite>mastermix3000 posted [p:889560368] in My friend ... [t:75933497]...</cite> <quote>JTek is spot on This is a moment in your life that may mean a lot or nothing to you Truthfully, it doesnt matter whether you go or not. But Id definitely be the friend that would go out of my way to see a good friends last days Of course this is probably glossing over which issue you may have going on in your life. I dont know how close your relationship was but you should probably put some of your challenges behind first. Remember, you will never see him again and Im certain he would really appreciate you going to him in person and being a dick rather than you face timing and doing the same Again, I have no idea of your situation and it might be incredibly difficult to visit him. I just personally think any close friend should visit their dying friend, no question Like I said though, it doesnt matter what you do. Thats the beauty/sad thing about life</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
gguirao 11/02/17 2:06:17 PM #29:	Sorry to hear that. I've lost a couple of relatives to cancer. --- Donald J. Trump--proof against government intelligence. <cite>gguirao posted [p:889628076] in My friend ... [t:75933497]...</cite> <quote>Sorry to hear that. I've lost a couple of relatives to cancer.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
usui88 11/03/17 12:47:28 AM #30:	Dont feel like quoting specific things This topic was more about how to personally feel about what hes been dealing with. Ive had years to come to terms with it since he was diagnosed terminal years ago. Much as this is exactly the decision I would make if I were in his situation I still dont know how I am supposed to deal with this both with myself and how that would help me to be there for him because I have one shot at this. It just suddenly came out of nowhere because this is the first time hes ever said anything about it. And as Ive mentioned I dont know how to deal with these sorts of emotions and I dont want to fuck this up Maybe it came off as more the former but thats because thats the one I need to work out before the latter. Please believe my thoughts are first and foremost with him this is just such a strange thing to deal with. Ive had friends die, die unexpectedly. die of cancer, commit suicide. Ive just never known ahead of time. I dont even know when hes going to go through with it and theres so much guilt over potentially not being able to be there for him that I honestly dont know that even if I could I could do much more than the second best, talking over video to say goodbye I cant or dont want to get into the details too much but theres so much in the rest of my life going on I cant avoid that keeps me from making that trip right now especially on such potentially short notice that no matter how much I want to be there I might not be able to Its a shitty situation that is affecting me more than I am comfortable discussing so please dont try and minimize what Im feeling about the inevitable death, regardless of circumstance, of one of my oldest friends gguirao posted... Sorry to hear that. I've lost a couple of relatives to cancer. Thank you --- Living like this is a full-time business. <cite>usui88 posted [p:889663287] in My friend ... [t:75933497]...</cite> <quote>Dont feel like quoting specific things This topic was more about how to personally feel about what hes been dealing with. Ive had years to come to terms with it since he was diagnosed terminal years ago. Much as this is exactly the decision I would make if I were in his situation I still dont know how I am supposed to deal with this both with myself and how that would help me to be there for him because I have one shot at this. It just suddenly came out of nowhere because this is the first time hes ever said anything about it. And as Ive mentioned I dont know how to deal with these sorts of emotions and I dont want to fuck this up Maybe it came off as more the former but thats because thats the one I need to work out before the latter. Please believe my thoughts are first and foremost with him this is just such a strange thing to deal with. Ive had friends die, die unexpectedly. die of cancer, commit suicide. Ive just never known ahead of time. I dont even know when hes going to go through with it and theres so much guilt over potentially not being able to be there for him that I honestly dont know that even if I could I could do much more than the second best, talking over video to say goodbye I cant or dont want to get into the details too much but theres so much in the rest of my life going on I cant avoid that keeps me from making that trip right now especially on such potentially short notice that no matter how much I want to be there I might not be able to Its a shitty situation that is affecting me more than I am comfortable discussing so please dont try and minimize what Im feeling about the inevitable death, regardless of circumstance, of one of my oldest friends <cite>gguirao posted...</cite> <quote>Sorry to hear that. I've lost a couple of relatives to cancer.</quote> Thank you</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
usui88 11/03/17 12:51:47 AM #31:	Also you dont know the more personal conversations weve had over this time This really isnt the whole story --- Living like this is a full-time business. <cite>usui88 posted [p:889663459] in My friend ... [t:75933497]...</cite> <quote>Also you dont know the more personal conversations weve had over this time This really isnt the whole story</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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