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Patty_Fleur 10/31/17 4:47:39 AM #1: |
The good ones already found a man. The single ones are either fat, a single mom, or have no education.
Because of that, I don't mind going out with a girl who is only 20 years old. --- Three can keep a secret, if two of them are dead. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Chicken 10/31/17 4:55:12 AM #2: |
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Patty_Fleur 10/31/17 4:56:32 AM #3: |
Chicken posted...
Youd go out with a 12 year old if it were legal. No I wouldn't. What the fuck is wrong with you? --- Three can keep a secret, if two of them are dead. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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thelovefist 10/31/17 4:57:22 AM #4: |
Chicken posted...
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Ouned 10/31/17 4:58:04 AM #5: |
Chicken posted...
Youd go out with a 12 year old if it were legal. Nah at a certain point it's just weird. --- 1337 ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Chicken 10/31/17 4:58:23 AM #6: |
Patty_Fleur posted...
Chicken posted...Youd go out with a 12 year old if it were legal. Whats wrong with you? Im not the one with the hardon for younger girls. I know your type. --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Patty_Fleur 10/31/17 4:59:46 AM #8: |
Chicken posted...
Patty_Fleur posted...Chicken posted...Youd go out with a 12 year old if it were legal. There's a difference between college age girls and girls who are 12. I don't want to be around girls under 20. --- Three can keep a secret, if two of them are dead. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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thelovefist 10/31/17 5:00:34 AM #9: |
A word of advice Chicken. There may be many pedophiles, but you're not allowed to call them pedophiles here.
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Chicken 10/31/17 5:12:36 AM #10: |
thelovefist posted...
A word of advice Chicken. There may be many pedophiles, but you're not allowed to call them pedophiles here. Oh I know. Ive lost plenty of karma doing so but I dont mind. Its the same deal with the circle of posters who have sexually abused animals. They cant be touched. --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Veggeta X 10/31/17 5:31:59 AM #11: |
TC what's up babe?
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Kolibri X 10/31/17 6:07:39 AM #12: |
Just wait until you start dating in your 30s.
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scar the 1 10/31/17 6:13:57 AM #13: |
The aversion this board has to single moms is amazing. Then again, this board has a very narrow-minded idea of what women are in the first place so idk
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_Goggalor_ 10/31/17 6:18:21 AM #14: |
scar the 1 posted...
The aversion this board has to single moms is amazing. Then again, this board has a very narrow-minded idea of what women are in the first place so idk There's a very good reason to not date single moms: they have kids so your hand is forced in that regard. Not everyone wants kids. --- Now playing: Cuphead, South Park: The Fractured but Whole ... Copied to Clipboard!
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scar the 1 10/31/17 6:20:35 AM #15: |
_Goggalor_ posted...
scar the 1 posted...The aversion this board has to single moms is amazing. Then again, this board has a very narrow-minded idea of what women are in the first place so idk And not everyone wants a long-term relationship just because they're dating. --- Everything has an end, except for the sausage. It has two. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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_Goggalor_ 10/31/17 6:20:59 AM #16: |
And yeah, tc, it sucks. 27 as well and everyone's either married, engaged, or a fucking trainwreck.
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_Goggalor_ 10/31/17 6:21:58 AM #17: |
scar the 1 posted...
_Goggalor_ posted...scar the 1 posted...The aversion this board has to single moms is amazing. Then again, this board has a very narrow-minded idea of what women are in the first place so idk So you're saying I could date a single mom and not have to deal with her kids at all? Because that sounds unrealistic. --- Now playing: Cuphead, South Park: The Fractured but Whole ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Ouned 10/31/17 6:23:22 AM #18: |
scar the 1 posted...
The aversion this board has to single moms is amazing. Then again, this board has a very narrow-minded idea of what women are in the first place so idk CEmen are typically not very developed. Most of us have no business dating moms lmao. --- 1337 ... Copied to Clipboard!
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scar the 1 10/31/17 6:29:39 AM #19: |
_Goggalor_ posted...
scar the 1 posted..._Goggalor_ posted...scar the 1 posted...The aversion this board has to single moms is amazing. Then again, this board has a very narrow-minded idea of what women are in the first place so idk I don't see what's unrealistic about it. A lot of single parents are very careful not to introduce their kids to people they date unless it gets really serious. At which point you'll either 1. Not be dating her anymore, or 2. Be kind of fine with having her kid in your life because she's worth it. --- Everything has an end, except for the sausage. It has two. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Kolibri X 10/31/17 6:30:41 AM #20: |
scar the 1 posted...
The aversion this board has to single moms is amazing. Then again, this board has a very narrow-minded idea of what women are in the first place so idk I don't get why single men would not want that baggage either. Immaturity, probably. --- Platinum GameFAQs Member http://i.imgur.com/VgwI8qO.gif ... Copied to Clipboard!
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_Goggalor_ 10/31/17 6:31:00 AM #21: |
scar the 1 posted...
_Goggalor_ posted...scar the 1 posted..._Goggalor_ posted...scar the 1 posted...The aversion this board has to single moms is amazing. Then again, this board has a very narrow-minded idea of what women are in the first place so idk Huh. Seems like I'd have to get involved with the kid and she would be taking time to spend with the kid as well. Good to know it's not like that. --- Now playing: Cuphead, South Park: The Fractured but Whole ... Copied to Clipboard!
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scar the 1 10/31/17 6:32:20 AM #22: |
_Goggalor_ posted...
scar the 1 posted..._Goggalor_ posted...scar the 1 posted..._Goggalor_ posted...scar the 1 posted...The aversion this board has to single moms is amazing. Then again, this board has a very narrow-minded idea of what women are in the first place so idk I can't speak for everyone, of course. There are irresponsible people. But it's generally quite well-understood that you shouldn't introduce your kids to the people you date unless you plan for them to stick around. --- Everything has an end, except for the sausage. It has two. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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_Goggalor_ 10/31/17 6:33:38 AM #23: |
scar the 1 posted...
_Goggalor_ posted...scar the 1 posted..._Goggalor_ posted...scar the 1 posted..._Goggalor_ posted...scar the 1 posted...The aversion this board has to single moms is amazing. Then again, this board has a very narrow-minded idea of what women are in the first place so idk What if I want to stick around for her and not the kid? Seems like inevitably it's a package deal. --- Now playing: Cuphead, South Park: The Fractured but Whole ... Copied to Clipboard!
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ClockworkHare 10/31/17 6:33:55 AM #24: |
Men preferring to avoid dating a single mom is fine.
It falls in line with women preferring to avoid dating a man who's making less $$$ than them. --- Bite me like one of your French rolls. http://www.imageupload.co.uk/images/2017/06/05/flcnpawn.png http://www.imageupload.co.uk/images/2017/06/05/84543589.gif ... Copied to Clipboard!
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scar the 1 10/31/17 6:41:55 AM #25: |
_Goggalor_ posted...
What if I want to stick around for her and not the kid? Seems like inevitably it's a package deal. Then refer to the first option: scar the 1 posted... 1. Not be dating her anymore, or --- Everything has an end, except for the sausage. It has two. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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_Goggalor_ 10/31/17 6:43:26 AM #26: |
scar the 1 posted...
_Goggalor_ posted...What if I want to stick around for her and not the kid? Seems like inevitably it's a package deal. So then it's pointless to date her in the first place. --- Now playing: Cuphead, South Park: The Fractured but Whole ... Copied to Clipboard!
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scar the 1 10/31/17 6:49:23 AM #27: |
_Goggalor_ posted...
scar the 1 posted..._Goggalor_ posted...What if I want to stick around for her and not the kid? Seems like inevitably it's a package deal. Refer to my previous comment: scar the 1 posted... And not everyone wants a long-term relationship just because they're dating. --- Everything has an end, except for the sausage. It has two. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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_Goggalor_ 10/31/17 6:53:46 AM #28: |
scar the 1 posted...
_Goggalor_ posted...scar the 1 posted..._Goggalor_ posted...What if I want to stick around for her and not the kid? Seems like inevitably it's a package deal. You're not getting it, but I didn't figure you would. Eventually you're going to have to get involved with the kid if you like the mom enough to stick around for a while. And no, most normal people don't begin dating with plans to end it soon or a specific window of time you want the relationship to last. So dating a single mom forces you to either stop dating someone you like or eventually deal with her kids. Either way It's not worth it. --- Now playing: Cuphead, South Park: The Fractured but Whole ... Copied to Clipboard!
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scar the 1 10/31/17 6:57:29 AM #29: |
_Goggalor_ posted...
You're not getting it, but I didn't figure you would. "Most normal people" is a sentiment pulled out of your ass. A very good amount of normal people is doing a lot of casual dating with no long-term goal. What you're talking about is the context of someone looking for a serious thing. If you're looking for a serious thing and you hate kids, that of course rules out single moms, but it also rules out women who would want kids. --- Everything has an end, except for the sausage. It has two. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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_Goggalor_ 10/31/17 7:01:31 AM #30: |
scar the 1 posted...
_Goggalor_ posted...You're not getting it, but I didn't figure you would. Or a casual thing without the impending threat of children if you decide you want to be serious. Not a difficult concept to grasp. --- Now playing: Cuphead, South Park: The Fractured but Whole ... Copied to Clipboard!
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ExtremeLuchador 10/31/17 7:04:26 AM #31: |
Half the single-moms I know just have FWB's that see every once in awhile.
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Pastryarchy 10/31/17 7:07:00 AM #32: |
If what he's hung up on is dating a woman who already has "another man's kid", he can still date women who eventually want to have kids just fine.
Many men who are detoured away from dating single moms are only opposed to it because of the prospect of dealing with another man's offspring. Trying to edge into such an arrangement can be potentially agonizing for the new man due to factors like the child rebelling against the new union and the mother not granting the new man any authority over the troublesome child. A typical part of a father's duties is keeping the kids in line. If he's not enabled to do that, he's not really the father in the household. He's just a placeholder who brings a second income... --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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scar the 1 10/31/17 7:08:53 AM #33: |
_Goggalor_ posted...
scar the 1 posted..._Goggalor_ posted...You're not getting it, but I didn't figure you would. Like the post below yours indicates, there's also tons of people who are looking for something long-term but casual. So yeah sure, if you really, really hate kids, of course don't date single moms. But then also be up-front about that when you're dating in general, since it's not rare for people to want kids. --- Everything has an end, except for the sausage. It has two. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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SavenForever 10/31/17 7:09:27 AM #34: |
I know how it feels TC.
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_Goggalor_ 10/31/17 7:10:50 AM #35: |
scar the 1 posted...
_Goggalor_ posted...scar the 1 posted..._Goggalor_ posted...You're not getting it, but I didn't figure you would. Ok? Never said I wasn't up front about that. I just think you're downplaying how a child, even one you're not expected to play dad to, can affect a relationship both in the long and short term. --- Now playing: Cuphead, South Park: The Fractured but Whole ... Copied to Clipboard!
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scar the 1 10/31/17 7:13:35 AM #36: |
_Goggalor_ posted...
Ok? Never said I wasn't up front about that. I just think you're downplaying how a child, even one you're not expected to play dad to, can affect a relationship both in the long and short term. I'm not downplaying that at all. It can and probably will definitely affect a relationship, much like any other kind of "baggage" will. --- Everything has an end, except for the sausage. It has two. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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_Goggalor_ 10/31/17 7:15:21 AM #37: |
scar the 1 posted...
_Goggalor_ posted...Ok? Never said I wasn't up front about that. I just think you're downplaying how a child, even one you're not expected to play dad to, can affect a relationship both in the long and short term. Exactly. And some people don't want to deal with that baggage at all. --- Now playing: Cuphead, South Park: The Fractured but Whole ... Copied to Clipboard!
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NonDairyMiltank 10/31/17 7:17:59 AM #38: |
not wanting to date a single parent is fair
it's not like they're forced to date you either --- le Moo ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Ouned 10/31/17 7:21:32 AM #39: |
The kid themselves aside, the simple fact that the woman has a kid at all makes her come off as older and less available.
Some dudes want to feel young. Child raising comes off as a middle-age activity. A woman with a child is more likely to be looking towards things like marriage that are too much pressure for some dudes to think about at all. And dudes like to chill and have fun. A mother is stuck with responsibilities that hurt one's ability to do that. Her schedule won't be as free. You can't be the only person in her life if she has a kid, meaning you miss out on a common stage of dating (the portion of the relationship where it's just you two, and everyone else is secondary). So basically the kid is a problem even if you never run into him/her yourself. --- 1337 ... Copied to Clipboard!
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_Goggalor_ 10/31/17 7:33:02 AM #40: |
Ouned posted...
The kid themselves aside, the simple fact that the woman has a kid at all makes her come off as older and less available. This guy said I was trying to say, but better. A kid will affect you whether the mom wants you to be in their life or not. --- Now playing: Cuphead, South Park: The Fractured but Whole ... Copied to Clipboard!
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thelovefist 10/31/17 7:36:10 AM #41: |
ITT virgins give advice to other virgins on dating.
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_Goggalor_ 10/31/17 7:37:02 AM #42: |
thelovefist posted...
ITT virgins give advice to other virgins on dating. Says the virgin. --- Now playing: Cuphead, South Park: The Fractured but Whole ... Copied to Clipboard!
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scar the 1 10/31/17 7:41:46 AM #43: |
_Goggalor_ posted...
Ouned posted...The kid themselves aside, the simple fact that the woman has a kid at all makes her come off as older and less available. Ohh, so it's actually that you don't want to be in an adult relationship, you want her to be the adult in the relationship, and another child there is competition for the attention you want. (I know that's not what you said, but that's what it sounds like) --- Everything has an end, except for the sausage. It has two. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Jiggy101011 10/31/17 7:45:36 AM #44: |
ExtremeLuchador posted...
Half the single-moms I know just have FWB's that see every once in awhile. This. I work with someone who is early 30s has 2 kids, and just wants someone to fuck on the weekends with no attachments. It's pretty common too. --- Gamertag: F1RE v2 PSN ID: F1REx Man got me a 9 and she sexy. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Kolibri X 10/31/17 8:33:13 AM #45: |
scar the 1 posted...
_Goggalor_ posted...Ouned posted...The kid themselves aside, the simple fact that the woman has a kid at all makes her come off as older and less available. Sounds more like he doesn't want play daddy to a kid that isn't his but then get emotionally attached. You can actually find an adult relationship without dealing with single moms. --- Platinum GameFAQs Member http://i.imgur.com/VgwI8qO.gif ... Copied to Clipboard!
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50Blessings 10/31/17 8:36:42 AM #46: |
Start going to church.
You'll find a young, good girl. She won't let you stick it in her butt, though. --- America is a tune. It must be sung together. --50 Blessings https://i.imgur.com/cKxoAhi.png ... Copied to Clipboard!
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The Top Crusader 10/31/17 8:37:35 AM #47: |
Jiggy101011 posted...
ExtremeLuchador posted...Half the single-moms I know just have FWB's that see every once in awhile. Yep, we know the same people. But yeah TC, I'm fortunately happily married, but have single friends my age (35ish) and it does get tough. Of course they are all divorced and most with kids as well so they can't have too high hopes for something with no baggage when they have their own. --- -- - ... Copied to Clipboard!
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creativeme 10/31/17 8:51:52 AM #48: |
i'm 29 and have the same problem. but i'm willing to date a single mom. even 2 kids. but if it's 3 or more than no. very rare to find a girl that doesn't have a kid but i've dated a couple. they all end up crazy or have some kind of baggage to make me not stick around. i've dated young 20s and they're all immature as hell. 30 year old girls are immature enough already. i can't deal with all that anymore.
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The Catgirl Fondler 10/31/17 9:07:16 AM #49: |
Eh, I don't even want kids of my own, like bloody hell I want to deal with someone else's.
Admittedly, I'm not looking to date in the first place and I wouldn't consider myself desirable anyway, but if I ever had a lapse of judgement and threw myself out there, I already know to avoid my age bracket like the plague. (I'm 34.) --- N/A ... Copied to Clipboard!
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NonDairyMiltank 10/31/17 9:28:27 AM #50: |
scar the 1 posted...
_Goggalor_ posted...Ouned posted...The kid themselves aside, the simple fact that the woman has a kid at all makes her come off as older and less available. that's not what he said and now you're sounding like the child being a single parent does not automatically equal being a mature adult a fuck ton of the babies born every day are because of immature impulse decisions and a bunch of single parents end up that way because they chose a fucked up partner to reproduce with so don't go implying that he's automatically dodging a potentially more mature partner just because he don't wanna deal with the baggage of another careless ho got knocked up by a poor choice there's mature adult reasons to accept dating a single parent there's plenty of mature adult reasons not to simply not wanting to is one of them deal with it --- le Moo ... Copied to Clipboard!
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