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Duncanwii
11/23/17 10:01:59 AM
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How do you you explain my relationship?
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averagejoel
11/23/17 10:03:05 AM
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why don't you explain your relationship first so we can try
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Duncanwii
11/23/17 10:04:55 AM
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averagejoel posted...
why don't you explain your relationship first so we can try

Met my fiancee at the mall one day completely at random 2 years ago. Asked her out, now we're (eventually) getting married.
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rhklce
11/23/17 10:05:30 AM
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Cool
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CruorComa
11/23/17 10:05:58 AM
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Congratulations. I hope to meet mine some day :)
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averagejoel
11/23/17 10:06:38 AM
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Duncanwii posted...
averagejoel posted...
why don't you explain your relationship first so we can try

Met my fiancee at the mall one day completely at random 2 years ago. Asked her out, now we're (eventually) getting married.

that doesn't even necessitate the existence of soul mates
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Funkydog
11/23/17 10:06:53 AM
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Clearly god intervened this one time to bring you together, as it was infinitely more important than any other matter going on in the world.
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Iwin2013
11/23/17 10:06:55 AM
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Duncanwii posted...
How do you you explain my relationship?


Or mine? Met at work; Still together when everyone was telling us that "Relationships developed through jobs don't stay together".
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Duncanwii
11/23/17 10:09:42 AM
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averagejoel posted...
Duncanwii posted...
averagejoel posted...
why don't you explain your relationship first so we can try

Met my fiancee at the mall one day completely at random 2 years ago. Asked her out, now we're (eventually) getting married.

that doesn't even necessitate the existence of soul mates

I'm just saying to people bitter that they aren't in a relationship that you never know what mat happen one day and to never give up hope.
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3khc
11/23/17 10:12:25 AM
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Who even says that, TC? I thought't most people (pre social media) meet their significant other randomly.

Well, I guess maybe colleagues has a high find rate.
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Squall28
11/23/17 10:13:16 AM
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Duncanwii posted...
random 2 years ago.


Lmao. Who wants to take bets on the marriage?
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averagejoel
11/23/17 10:18:46 AM
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Duncanwii posted...
averagejoel posted...
Duncanwii posted...
averagejoel posted...
why don't you explain your relationship first so we can try

Met my fiancee at the mall one day completely at random 2 years ago. Asked her out, now we're (eventually) getting married.

that doesn't even necessitate the existence of soul mates

I'm just saying to people bitter that they aren't in a relationship that you never know what mat happen one day and to never give up hope.

this is completely different from the original topic
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weapon_d00d816
11/23/17 10:21:04 AM
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Duncanwii posted...
averagejoel posted...
why don't you explain your relationship first so we can try

Met my fiancee at the mall one day completely at random 2 years ago. Asked her out, now we're (eventually) getting married.

*bump*
"YOU WANNA GO OUT WITH ME?"
"YEH"
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DevsBro
11/23/17 10:21:55 AM
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I think it's hilarious when people go to bars to find someone.

Not that it can't or hasn't worked out and turned into a great relationship but just the whole concept of it gives me the giggles. A place dedicated to alcohol and tobacco, lol.
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rhklce
11/23/17 10:22:06 AM
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weapon_d00d816 posted...
Duncanwii posted...
averagejoel posted...
why don't you explain your relationship first so we can try

Met my fiancee at the mall one day completely at random 2 years ago. Asked her out, now we're (eventually) getting married.

*bump*
"YOU WANNA GO OUT WITH ME?"
"YEH"


DIS IS TRU LUV
YUP
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Iwin2013
11/23/17 10:23:53 AM
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DevsBro posted...
I think it's hilarious when people go to bars to find someone.

Not that it can't or hasn't worked out and turned into a great relationship but just the whole concept of it gives me the giggles. A place dedicated to alcohol and tobacco, lol.


I agree. Never understood it.
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3khc
11/23/17 10:25:26 AM
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JustMyOpinion posted...
Duncanwii posted...
How do you you explain my relationship?


Didn't you nearly end the whole relationship by unfairly lashing out at her during a depressive bout? If someone acted like that towards me I probably wouldn't be thinking they're my soulmate.

TBH, I've done that as well. The fact that we survived it is the reason I believe she could be my soul mate. Just my opinion.

weapon_d00d816 posted...
Duncanwii posted...
averagejoel posted...
why don't you explain your relationship first so we can try

Met my fiancee at the mall one day completely at random 2 years ago. Asked her out, now we're (eventually) getting married.

*bump*
"YOU WANNA GO OUT WITH ME?"
"YEH"

Are you implying that this is a bad thing.
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Duncanwii
11/23/17 10:26:47 AM
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People on here don't like my relationship because they're shallow and think just because my fiancee isn't good looking in the traditional sense that she isn't worth dating. It makes me upset because she has a ton of positive points that makes for a great relationship you know?
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Link HT
11/23/17 10:26:53 AM
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Your story doesn't prove anything.

There are plenty of people who marry their first girlfriends, for example. Some might say they got lucky and met their soulmate on their first try whereas I think that's ridiculously unlikely and it's a lot more probable that they were both just okay enough to settle with each other to avoid having to go out into the dating world. The lower your standards the easier it is to meet your "soulmate".

Same with your story, maybe you met your soulmate at random, maybe it could have been someone else and you would have married her anyway.
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Duncanwii
11/23/17 10:40:57 AM
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We haven't had sex yet though...
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apolloooo
11/23/17 11:01:02 AM
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The universe is for the most part are random. You and me existing is because chances, so why put ourselves above this law?
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Slip-N-Slide
11/23/17 11:05:32 AM
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Bruh you ain't even married yet. You don't even know if you're going to make it the normal 2-4 years where most divorces occur. And most of those people felt the same way you two do right now when they got married.
It's a little too soon to be saying you have your soul mate.
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fire_bolt
11/23/17 11:10:13 AM
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Duncanwii posted...
We haven't had sex yet though...


Two years and no sex? Lol, that's not a relationship it's the friendzone, bud
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Iwin2013
11/23/17 1:44:32 PM
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fire_bolt posted...
Duncanwii posted...
We haven't had sex yet though...


Two years and no sex? Lol, that's not a relationship it's the friendzone, bud


Agreed. No sex at all, she doing someone else or she has issues, and get out soon.
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Duncanwii
11/23/17 1:48:06 PM
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Iwin2013 posted...
fire_bolt posted...
Duncanwii posted...
We haven't had sex yet though...


Two years and no sex? Lol, that's not a relationship it's the friendzone, bud


Agreed. No sex at all, she doing someone else or she has issues, and get out soon.

Her only issue is overprotective parents insisting she get birth control before initiating intercourse. I trust my girl100% to be faithful.
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refmon
11/23/17 1:49:25 PM
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Iwin2013 posted...
Two years and no sex? Lol, that's not a relationship it's the friendzone, bud

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KogaSteelfang
11/23/17 1:50:01 PM
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Duncanwii posted...
I'm just saying to people bitter that they aren't in a relationship that you never know what mat happen one day and to never give up hope.

My hope died long ago.
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treewojima
11/23/17 1:54:58 PM
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I may be a complete troll to you at times, and I'm genuinely sorry about being an asshole. To be 100% honest, it sounds like you two have some real intimacy issues. Those absolutely have to be addressed before you do anything as big as getting married. If sex isn't your thing, that's all well and good, but think long and hard about your sexual compatibility with a person before dedicating the rest of your life to them. If you don't, either you or her will end up in an unsatisfying marriage.
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YuriSakazaki0
11/23/17 1:56:33 PM
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i didn't know you could marry your right hand now
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JosephWilliam
11/23/17 1:56:44 PM
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Im happy you have a great relationship. Good for you. Theres no such thing as a soulmate tho. There are other good people for you too. But thats irrelevant if this one sustains.
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Duncanwii
11/23/17 2:01:41 PM
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treewojima posted...
I may be a complete troll to you at times, and I'm genuinely sorry about being an asshole. To be 100% honest, it sounds like you two have some real intimacy issues. Those absolutely have to be addressed before you do anything as big as getting married. If sex isn't your thing, that's all well and good, but think long and hard about your sexual compatibility with a person before dedicating the rest of your life to them. If you don't, either you or her will end up in an unsatisfying marriage.

It's hard for me to talk about it with her. I know she has a low sex drive and I honestly don't believe she'd be interested in it if I didn't want it. I do find it incredibly sweet of her to go out of her way to go on birth control so I will be happy. Honestly I don't really care about sex if we got to be naked together every so often I'd be happy even if it didn't lead to intercourse.
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RebelElite791
11/23/17 2:04:21 PM
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Iwin2013 posted...
fire_bolt posted...
Duncanwii posted...
We haven't had sex yet though...


Two years and no sex? Lol, that's not a relationship it's the friendzone, bud


Agreed. No sex at all, she doing someone else or she has issues, and get out soon.

They both have "issues." Probably moddable to say even if it's something he talks about. But yeah, dating two years, "fiancee" never wants to hang out with him, won't fuck him. Definitely soulmates! lol
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JosephWilliam
11/23/17 2:04:29 PM
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Whatever works works. It seems like both of you might need soMe therapy tho. Ive seen a skrink for years and it helps.
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SamuelHayden
11/23/17 2:04:59 PM
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Duncanwii posted...
averagejoel posted...
why don't you explain your relationship first so we can try

Met my fiancee at the mall one day completely at random 2 years ago. Asked her out, now we're (eventually) getting married.


So you literally walked into her by accident and then asked her out?
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JosephWilliam
11/23/17 2:06:10 PM
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SamuelHayden posted...
Duncanwii posted...
averagejoel posted...
why don't you explain your relationship first so we can try

Met my fiancee at the mall one day completely at random 2 years ago. Asked her out, now we're (eventually) getting married.


So you literally walked into her by accident and then asked her out?


Thats not that crazy. Some people in life take risks and dont spend all day on CE
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TheVipaGTS
11/23/17 2:07:05 PM
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it wasn't random. you think it was just a coincidence you two happened to be at the same mall at the same time?
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RebelElite791
11/23/17 2:08:32 PM
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TheVipaGTS posted...
it wasn't random. you think it was just a coincidence you two happened to be at the same mall at the same time?

Congrats you have out-stupided TC's post.
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AbstraktProfSC2
11/23/17 2:09:09 PM
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TheVipaGTS posted...
it wasn't random. you think it was just a coincidence you two happened to be at the same mall at the same time?

thats GOD at work my son.
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Duncanwii
11/23/17 2:09:32 PM
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RebelElite791 posted...
Iwin2013 posted...
fire_bolt posted...
Duncanwii posted...
We haven't had sex yet though...


Two years and no sex? Lol, that's not a relationship it's the friendzone, bud


Agreed. No sex at all, she doing someone else or she has issues, and get out soon.

They both have "issues." Probably moddable to say even if it's something he talks about. But yeah, dating two years, "fiancee" never wants to hang out with him, won't fuck him. Definitely soulmates! lol

So we're both autistic, what of it? Yeah it's been hard but we make it work. Neither of us drive and rely on other people and to Be honest it's been rough because of that. We're never alone, and she's uncomfortable doing real lovey stuff with other people around. And you know what? I let her take her time because waiting two years is better than pushing the issue and ruining the relationship. I swear you people make sex out to be the most important thing in a relationship but there's more to think about.
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MacDaMurderer
11/23/17 2:12:23 PM
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"Soulmate" lmao
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TheVipaGTS
11/23/17 2:12:57 PM
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AbstraktProfSC2 posted...
TheVipaGTS posted...
it wasn't random. you think it was just a coincidence you two happened to be at the same mall at the same time?

thats GOD at work my son.

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treewojima
11/23/17 2:15:30 PM
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A low sex drive isn't a bad thing. It's not for me, but as long as you two have an understanding then roll with it. The key thing is COMMUNICATION. Talk about it. Understand why things are the way they are, then decide for yourself if that's okay. It's possible that you just don't arouse her, which would be unfortunate but unchangeable. Another issue could be that she does want sex, but is uncomfortable discussing it for whatever reason. These are important issues that absolutely must be brought up at some point. If not, you're going to be stuck in an unfulfilling relationship that formed out of loneliness and desperation.
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The Catgirl Fondler
11/23/17 2:43:19 PM
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DevsBro posted...
I think it's hilarious when people go to bars to find someone.


Eh, I've been hearing for years about how you should never approach a woman outside of "acceptable" social settings, which usually means bars or clubs, anywhere else is off-limits unless you want to get labeled as some creep/stalker.
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Lonestar2000
11/23/17 2:49:13 PM
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Duncanwii posted...
We haven't had sex yet though...

LMFAO, sexual compatibility is pretty fucking important for your "soulmate."
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Iwin2013
11/23/17 4:28:58 PM
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Duncanwii posted...
RebelElite791 posted...
Iwin2013 posted...
fire_bolt posted...
Duncanwii posted...
We haven't had sex yet though...


Two years and no sex? Lol, that's not a relationship it's the friendzone, bud


Agreed. No sex at all, she doing someone else or she has issues, and get out soon.

They both have "issues." Probably moddable to say even if it's something he talks about. But yeah, dating two years, "fiancee" never wants to hang out with him, won't fuck him. Definitely soulmates! lol

So we're both autistic, what of it? Yeah it's been hard but we make it work. Neither of us drive and rely on other people and to Be honest it's been rough because of that. We're never alone, and she's uncomfortable doing real lovey stuff with other people around. And you know what? I let her take her time because waiting two years is better than pushing the issue and ruining the relationship. I swear you people make sex out to be the most important thing in a relationship but there's more to think about.


Its not but its not the least important. Sex is natural, and its the determining factor if two people love eachother and are attracted to one another. Otherwise, your relationship is basically a friendship cause youre not kissing or getting any action. Last time, I had sex was in June, but Im pretty sure its coming up as my GF told me that she has a surprise for me next week after our dinner. An early Xmas gift.
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Dash_Harber
11/23/17 4:29:23 PM
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I've never heard anyone say that.
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KogaSteelfang
11/23/17 4:35:02 PM
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Iwin2013 posted...
Its not but its not the least important. Sex is natural, and its the determining factor if two people love eachother and are attracted to one another. Otherwise, your relationship is basically a friendship cause youre not kissing or getting any action. Last time, I had sex was in June, but Im pretty sure its coming up as my GF told me that she has a surprise for me next week after our dinner. An early Xmas gift.

Well, congrats on that if it turns out to be that.
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Iwin2013
11/23/17 4:37:32 PM
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KogaSteelfang posted...
Iwin2013 posted...
Its not but its not the least important. Sex is natural, and its the determining factor if two people love eachother and are attracted to one another. Otherwise, your relationship is basically a friendship cause youre not kissing or getting any action. Last time, I had sex was in June, but Im pretty sure its coming up as my GF told me that she has a surprise for me next week after our dinner. An early Xmas gift.

Well, congrats on that if it turns out to be that.


Im pretty sure, since shes been more flirty lately and sent me a pic of her in new bra and panties.
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