Current Events > Taking wife to emergency room in an hour... possible miscarriage

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Zanzenburger
12/08/17 5:11:35 PM
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Won't bore you with the details (they're pretty gross), but my wife believes she's having a miscarriage at work and is under lots of pain. She's leaving work right now (works an hour away) and I'm taking her to the emergency room to find out what's going on. Based on the research she's done, she thinks it may be signs of a miscarriage.

I'm hoping she's just got a case of "WebMD-itus" and it's not as bad as she thinks but I guess we'll see. Kinda scary since we only found out about the pregnancy 5 days ago.
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NathanX95
12/08/17 5:12:29 PM
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Ah man, that's terrible. Wish you guys the best.
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Blue_Inigo
12/08/17 5:13:42 PM
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Damn man. Hope its not the case. You two really wanted your own kid. Good luck to you two
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Zanzenburger
12/09/17 4:11:44 AM
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Well damn, pregnancy over. The fetus was stuck to the felopian tube so they had to abort it. It didn't make it to the uterus.

Been a rough 10 hours.
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im not 13
12/09/17 4:12:37 AM
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HitTheGroundWal
12/09/17 4:14:14 AM
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*hugs*

IIRC from prior topics you've been wanting kids for a while... this must really suck...

*more hugs*
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kingdrake2
12/09/17 4:15:03 AM
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im not 13 posted...
Sorry dude :(


it's worse for Mrs. Zanzenburger i bet that is the toughest thing to deal with :(.
condolences for the TC for what he has to deal with too.
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Shotgunnova
12/09/17 4:15:59 AM
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Damn sorry to hear, man.
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nevershine
12/09/17 4:17:07 AM
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I'm really sorry to hear that. My condolences.
My ex had a miscarriage and then about a year later my little girl was born.
I hope it works out for you.
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Newhopes
12/09/17 4:18:14 AM
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Been though it once myself not a very pleasant experience, hope she gets better soon.
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apolloooo
12/09/17 4:18:15 AM
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my condolences man :(
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12/09/17 4:20:01 AM
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Bad_Mojo
12/09/17 4:20:02 AM
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Zanzenburger posted...
Well damn, pregnancy over. The fetus was stuck to the felopian tube so they had to abort it. It didn't make it to the uterus.

Been a rough 10 hours.


This is what happened with my mom and step dad. I feel for you, buddy.
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nevershine
12/09/17 4:22:58 AM
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Bad_Mojo posted...
Zanzenburger posted...
Well damn, pregnancy over. The fetus was stuck to the felopian tube so they had to abort it. It didn't make it to the uterus.

Been a rough 10 hours.


This is what happened with my mom and step dad. I feel for you, buddy.


Yeah it happened with my parents, too. I was supposed to have two older brothers, but my mom had two miscarriages. Again, I'm really sorry TC.
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BalanceLost
12/09/17 4:23:57 AM
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weekoldhotdog
12/09/17 4:28:08 AM
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True story: Once your woman gets pregnant once (even with a miscarriage), she is even MORE likely to become pregnant in the future.

Once the body accepts the first seed, she becomes a baby making machine.

When the time is right, try again :)
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TheCyborgNinja
12/09/17 4:33:11 AM
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Brutal. I hope it goes as well as it can, under the circumstances. My cousin and one of my wife's friends and been through miscarriages... it sucks but things worked out for them in the end in the baby department.
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Cleo_II
12/09/17 4:40:55 AM
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Awww Im so sorry TC. If its any consolation, the same thing happened to my mom. They had to remove the entire Fallopian tube. She was already having an extremely diifdicult time conceiving. She ended up having 3 kids after that.

Im sure you and your wife are absolutely devastated. Sending you both well wishes.
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The-19th-Sparta
12/09/17 4:43:57 AM
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Damn man....so sorry to hear.
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Gamer99z
12/09/17 4:44:35 AM
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Really sorry to hear that. I had to deal with a miscarriage once, don't want to go into much details but it sucked.
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Ilishe
12/09/17 4:45:22 AM
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Zanzenburger posted...
Well damn, pregnancy over. The fetus was stuck to the felopian tube so they had to abort it. It didn't make it to the uterus.

Been a rough 10 hours.


Happened to my wife once, too. Had to remove the whole tube and related ovary.

Thankfully we're about to get our baby now. One more month. :)
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Parappa09
12/09/17 4:51:49 AM
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Ilishe posted...
Zanzenburger posted...
Well damn, pregnancy over. The fetus was stuck to the felopian tube so they had to abort it. It didn't make it to the uterus.

Been a rough 10 hours.


Happened to my wife once, too. Had to remove the whole tube and related ovary.

Thankfully we're about to get our baby now. One more month. :)

this is some positive news

but damn TC, im so sorry to hear about that. i wish you and your wife all the best
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Cheater87
12/09/17 4:59:55 AM
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HBOSS
12/09/17 5:02:22 AM
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Keep trying when youre ready. My brother had lost 4 before they got their kids. Our family was devastated. The walls of the womb were too thin and didnt get past 18 weeks. She didnt tell the family about the last 2 miscarriages.

My cousin had 1 miscarriage and his wife never wants to experience that kind of loss again. They've been married for over a decade. They stopped trying.
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King Rial
12/09/17 5:11:09 AM
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Awful to hear. Such a sad occurrence.

My grandmother lost I think three before having my mom. And my mother lost one as well, but gave birth to six of us.

I believe next time will be all well. If anyone on here deserves a little one, it's you. You two take care of each other for now, in the mean time.
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Kanaya413
12/09/17 6:58:11 AM
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Holy fuck I'm so sorry ):
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Vengeance29
12/09/17 7:03:35 AM
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Sorry man. No doubt it's rough now, but I wish you guys all the happiness in the world down the track.
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Foppe
12/09/17 7:12:17 AM
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Sorry to hear that.
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Gimmick
12/09/17 7:12:41 AM
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Now is the time to be spending time with Mrs. Zanzeburger. Let her know that you love her, try to comfort her. You'll both feel better.
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Kineth
12/09/17 7:22:59 AM
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Zanzenburger posted...
Well damn, pregnancy over. The fetus was stuck to the felopian tube so they had to abort it. It didn't make it to the uterus.


Respect on your skeeting range and/or volume. Sorry to hear things turned out this way though.

Gimmick posted...
Now is the time to be spending time with Mrs. Zanzeburger. Let her know that you love her, try to comfort her. You'll both feel better.


Also this. Her hormone levels are obviously gonna be haywire for a slight bit of time, but her oxytocin levels need to be elevated to make the hormonal transition easier... and also to stave off possible depression. Extended physical contact, elevates oxytocin levels just as an fyi.
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DocileOrangeCup
12/09/17 7:26:58 AM
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mipond
12/09/17 7:55:00 AM
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I'm so so very sorry.
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pres_madagascar
12/09/17 8:03:12 AM
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My best friend had an ectopic miscarriage. That wasn't fun.
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Cookie Bag
12/09/17 8:14:14 AM
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Man that sucks, i'm so sorry.
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Error1355
12/09/17 8:31:58 AM
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Shit man, Sorry.
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chrono625
12/09/17 8:34:56 AM
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Sorry TC. As someone who's wife is also pregnant I'm terribly upset for you.

But the truth is that her body did the right thing, because that's a fatal condition for a woman if left alone. It's a good thing your wife reacted the way she did.
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SonicZack
12/09/17 8:38:46 AM
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I am sorry. My wife had two miscarriages over the previous summer. The second one was two days before my birthday, and she had been pregnant for about a month at that point.
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fan357
12/09/17 8:43:05 AM
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Sorry bro
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SSMajinVegeta2
12/09/17 8:56:57 AM
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Thats a really rough situation to go through. Please be very aware of how you show your emotions w your wife. Shes needs you now more than ever and you need her too. @Zanzenburger
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ToonLinkWithGun
12/09/17 9:00:46 AM
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Been there. It is a sad thing. Sorry about the your loss TC.
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Funkydog
12/09/17 9:06:44 AM
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Oh shit. Sorry to hear that. Hope your wife will pull through
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Wolf_J_Flywheel
12/09/17 9:11:14 AM
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Sorry man, hate it for you both. Went through a loss at 36 weeks. Be supportive and try again. Just had a son born at 36 weeks, the hurt can be healed.
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Drpooplol
12/09/17 9:11:29 AM
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I'm so sorry for you and your wife. There are no words I have to try and make this better. I'll keep you both in my prayers.
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misterbum
12/09/17 9:16:08 AM
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Sorry to hear.. :(

Although we have our baby now, my wife had a miscarriage at about 2 months before this one was successful. So its rough, but totally possible that it happens once and the next time it all works out. We didnt even think it would happen after that experience, and were quite surprised when we found out she was pregnant again.
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KogaSteelfang
12/09/17 9:32:37 AM
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Sorry for your loss.
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giantblimpN7
12/09/17 9:38:41 AM
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Sorry to to hear that. That's awful. Condolences to you and your wife.
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Juhanor
12/09/17 9:42:05 AM
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Man...I don't think any of us have the right words for this.

I hope you can hold her close and draw strength from each other.

It's not much consolation but we're all sending love and good will your way.
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Zanzenburger
12/09/17 2:54:44 PM
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Thanks everyone.

It was an ectopic miscarriage. They used medication to eliminate the pregnancy. We didn't leave the hospital til 5am.

She has been sleeping all day as she is worn out from being up all night and all the blood drawn. I have been taking care of our foster kids while she sleeps and recovers. I am currently at the park with them. They are none the wiser what happened.

I appreciate all your stories. It is encouraging to know normal pregnancies can still happen after a miscarriage.
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Zikten
12/09/17 3:06:03 PM
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my mom had my brother, and then a series of miscarriages before she had me and then my sister. so she had 2 succesful pregnancies after a bunch of miscarriages
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