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Im not sure but im pretty sure my friend has a crush on me. I stayed over last night and he asked me if he could hold me, I said yeah why not (I kinda like him) and we totally nailed it without sex or kissing.

Im not sure what to think.
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That sounds like a positive night.
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topic sounds fake
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Assuming you're a girl and you cuddled with a guy.... and you're wondering if he's into you?

Was there something poking into your buttocks or back? If yes, he's into you.
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Cuddling with my hot lesbian friend is awesome.
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NES4EVER posted...

Assuming you're a girl and you cuddled with a guy.... and you're wondering if he's into you?

Was there something poking into your buttocks or back? If yes, he's into you.

Man i dont know! Once i was drunk and tried to **** him but he said he was scared of his ex reaction( she was mu roomate at the time).

After that we always joke about it but he keeps calling me dude. I really dont know what he wants.
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KainWind posted...

That sounds like a positive night.

Hahaha it was.
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Get tested for STD's. Pronto.
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So TC is a girl?

Doctor_Dementia posted...

NES4EVER posted...

Assuming you're a girl and you cuddled with a guy.... and you're wondering if he's into you?

Was there something poking into your buttocks or back? If yes, he's into you.

Man i dont know! Once i was drunk and tried to **** him but he said he was scared of his ex reaction( she was mu roomate at the time).

After that we always joke about it but he keeps calling me dude. I really dont know what he wants.

If he's got a stiffy then he wants to fuck you. I fall for it all the time. She wants to cuddle ans she snuggles in and I get a boner and there's only one way to deal with that.
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NES4EVER posted...

Doctor_Dementia posted...

NES4EVER posted...

Assuming you're a girl and you cuddled with a guy.... and you're wondering if he's into you?

Was there something poking into your buttocks or back? If yes, he's into you.

Man i dont know! Once i was drunk and tried to **** him but he said he was scared of his ex reaction( she was mu roomate at the time).

After that we always joke about it but he keeps calling me dude. I really dont know what he wants.

If he's got a stiffy then he wants to fuck you. I fall for it all the time. She wants to cuddle ans she snuggles in and I get a boner and there's only one way to deal with that.

Haha I didnt touch his D.
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bump
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Too old to be cuddling >_>
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JuanCarlos1 posted...

Too old to be cuddling >_>

I know right! thats why im super confused.
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Almost any normal guy who was into you would have taken you up in one of these opportunities.

If I ever spent the night cuddling with a female friend who was open to fooling around and didnt make a move, it would mean I had zero interest/attraction.
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Awesome posted...

topic sounds fake

A lot of these topics usually are, but sometimes you just have to take their word for it,but maaaaaaan.
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I think he would bone you TC.
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ImAMarvel posted...

The Admiral posted...

Almost any normal guy who was into you would have taken you up in one of these opportunities.

If I ever spent the night cuddling with a female friend who was open to fooling around and didnt make a move, it would mean I had zero interest/attraction.

He could also just be super beta.

This actually exists. Some dudes are so beta they won't do anything even when the opportunity screams "do something!"
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Winnsock posted...

ImAMarvel posted...

The Admiral posted...

Almost any normal guy who was into you would have taken you up in one of these opportunities.

If I ever spent the night cuddling with a female friend who was open to fooling around and didnt make a move, it would mean I had zero interest/attraction.

He could also just be super beta.

This actually exists. Some dudes are so beta they won't do anything even when the opportunity screams "do something!"

Ok maybe I forgot to mention that A) He has told me before he values our friendship too much to ****.

B) his friend was sleeping like just ln the other side of the room.

But i dont know. We are studying abroad and we will only be here for 6 more months. I think we should just do it. A few months before I threw myself at him ( but i was super wasted) and he rejected me because he was too scared of his ex reaction, who was my roomie at the time.

After that he totally frienzoned me but always says that he would totally F me. Im super confused.
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Doctor_Dementia posted...

Im super confused.

Just ... I don't know. Ask him how he feels.
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SwitchAlarm posted...

So TC is a girl?

Yes.

She made a signed pic for someone before.
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If you want him, just tell him you wanna blow him. There's no way to say no to that.
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the hell does totally NAILING it mean without having sex or kissing.
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ImNotAnIdiot posted...

SwitchAlarm posted...

So TC is a girl?

Yes.

She made a signed pic for someone before.

I did?? What was your username then? I haven't been here in ages.

Eevee-Trainer posted...

Doctor_Dementia posted...

Im super confused.

Just ... I don't know. Ask him how he feels.

I don't think I wanna do that.

OpShaft posted...

If you want him, just tell him you wanna blow him. There's no way to say no to that.

He always makes jokes about it. Like
him: I need to show you something
me: what?
him: My dick HAHA-

or when I asked him to put eyes drops once; he said, Finally im going to put something inside you.

jokes like that.
orcus_snake posted...

the hell does totally NAILING it mean without having sex or kissing.

hahaha, friendship wise.
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Doctor_Dementia posted...

I did?? What was your username then? I haven't been here in ages.

Just google "Doctor_Dementia" and go to images. It's the third image. You have their username written on your fingers.

Also I think those other pics are you too. Google remembers everything.
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its hard to tell when they just wanna cuddle

they will initiate it if they want to fuck most of the time

just take the dirty route and make up a chick and make her jealous
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Sounds like he is beta, gay, or friend zoned you for a hotter chick.
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oh tc is a girl

did you try to put your face up against his? like brush it across. because if you did and he didnt kiss you he's probably either really scared or gay or something.
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You could also shove his face in your boobs and see how he reacts.
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ImNotAnIdiot posted...

Doctor_Dementia posted...

I did?? What was your username then? I haven't been here in ages.

Just google "Doctor_Dementia" and go to images. It's the third image. You have their username written on your fingers.

Also I think those other pics are you too. Google remembers everything.

haha oh maaan! so oooold!!! I have improved so much :p
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Offworlder1 posted...

Sounds like he is beta, gay, or friend zoned you for a hotter chick.

idk, i think he friendzoned me for 0 chicks. We are Friends so we talk about our sex life quite often, hes always having trouble with females. And one time when he was drunk he told me that he had been rejected to many times its very difficult for him to make a move, but some other two Friends of ours throw themselves at him and he doesn't want to **** them because he says they're classmates and too crazy.
He's a beta dude with girls throwing themselves at him. Also his ex gf was my roomate, the girl is crazy and mean, i think she would have told me if he was gay but she never mentioned it. Actually she told me he was pretty good at eating P.
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yemmy posted...

oh tc is a girl

did you try to put your face up against his? like brush it across. because if you did and he didnt kiss you he's probably either really scared or gay or something.

no I actually avoided it for some reason. He had rejected me before so I didnt want to make any moves.

Offworlder1 posted...

You could also shove his face in your boobs and see how he reacts.

he put his own face ahahaha but not underneath the shirt.
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I mean in your boobs not clothed, pull your top down and shove his face in.

My girlfriends do this to me when I am too engaged in a game late at night and they want me to come to bed never fails to work.
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Wow. I honestly never cuddle guys as a rule of thumb but that is a hard situation

To me it seems if hes brave enough to cuddle you, he would not mind asking you out

Perhaps though, hes testing the waters thinking he lost his chances by rejecting you? Or maybe he just wants sex not reallly to date you so its hard to bring it up?
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LittleRoyal posted...

Wow. I honestly never cuddle guys as a rule of thumb but that is a hard situation

To me it seems if hes brave enough to cuddle you, he would not mind asking you out

Perhaps though, hes testing the waters thinking he lost his chances by rejecting you? Or maybe he just wants sex not reallly to date you so its hard to bring it up?

I think so yes. That was a test and I really think he knows there's too much at stake if we do it because we are Friends and he doesn't want a serious relationship.

I think he just wants to have sex with me and he's comfortable enough with me but just for being Friends so he's hessitating. Anyway, he should just **** the other girls that he actually gives 0 ****s about. If he doesn't have any sex (it's been four months) its not because he can't get it, its because he doesnt want to .
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I mean messing with your boobs seems like a big tell.

If you want it I say go for it
If not let him keep teasing or tell him

But I dont think its good for you to keep letting him tease you and string you along without getting anything if youre into him. Id say to stop with the dick jokes and boob stuff
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LittleRoyal posted...

I mean messing with your boobs seems like a big tell.

If you want it I say go for it
If not let him keep teasing or tell him

But I dont think its good for you to keep letting him tease you and string you along without getting anything if youre into him. Id say to stop with the dick jokes and boob stuff

Damn. This is more tough than what I thought it would be. I don't think I can have sex with him and then look at him the same way. It has happened to me before. It never Works, im too possesive.
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TC is always getting cucked, she is attractive from what I remember but she's always The Other Woman
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Sounds like she is always the other woman but not getting sex or a relationship.
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Go for the kiss missie
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Next time you cuddle like this, make a bit of a move.
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BignutzisBack posted...

TC is always getting cucked, she is attractive from what I remember but she's always The Other Woman

I know right?! Im not ugly!!! I don't know why im always the second choice or no option at all.

Offworlder1 posted...

Sounds like she is always the other woman but not getting sex or a relationship.

Kind of.

josifrees posted...

Go for the kiss missie

I dont know maybe I will work on it but It will be weird, he's my closest friend here abroad. Maybe that's why he is also pondering so much.
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How old are you? Also post pics so we can better assess the situation.
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stoltenberg11 posted...

How old are you? Also post pics so we can better assess the situation.

Im 27 he's 28. I know im too old to be asking this but Im super beta.
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Eevee-Trainer posted...

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I sound a lot like the guy tbh, I have a female best friend Im like that with. I find her attractive, but anytime I have sex with a girl it change the relationship dynamic, and I dont want to do that with her. Im the same with co-workers, classmates etc... just picky who I get into a sexual relationship with, so if it heads south I wouldnt have to face any awkwardness or ruin my friendship
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Doctor_Dementia posted...

LittleRoyal posted...

I mean messing with your boobs seems like a big tell.

If you want it I say go for it
If not let him keep teasing or tell him

But I dont think its good for you to keep letting him tease you and string you along without getting anything if youre into him. Id say to stop with the dick jokes and boob stuff

Damn. This is more tough than what I thought it would be. I don't think I can have sex with him and then look at him the same way. It has happened to me before. It never Works, im too possesive.

Maybe Im wrong but I felt like it wouldnt be good to keep letting him tease and toy around
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Kazi1212 posted...

I sound a lot like the guy tbh, I have a female best friend Im like that with. I find her attractive, but anytime I have sex with a girl it change the relationship dynamic, and I dont want to do that with her. Im the same with co-workers, classmates etc... just picky who I get into a sexual relationship with, so if it heads south I wouldnt have to face any awkwardness or ruin my friendship

Yeah thats him. But what I have learned that you should go with the flow because as it could be bad it could be really awesome. Specially if you know you will only hang out with this person form6 more months ans after everyone will go back to their countries.
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