Current Events > I went on a date with Aziz Ansari. It turned into the worst night of my life

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hortanz
01/14/18 12:55:57 AM
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A woman, named Grace in the Babe.net article, has come forward with details of sexual assault regarding Aziz Ansari.

Grace and Ansari met at the 2017 Emmy Awards after-party in September. They connected about the 80s cameras they both brought to the event.

They took pictures of each other and Grace gave Ansari her number before leaving. The next day, he messaged her and they planned a date for Monday, September 25.

The date didnt go as planned. The night would end with Grace in an Uber home, in tears, messaging her friends about how Ansari behaved.

After dinner, they went back to Ansari's apartment. Grace says Ansari was quick to undress her and then himself. She said he repeatedly pulled her hand towards his privates multiple times throughout the night and "kept doing it after I moved it away.

She says she used verbal and non-verbal cues to indicate how uncomfortable and distressed she was. Most of my discomfort was expressed in me pulling away and mumbling. I know that my hand stopped moving at some points.

The next day Grace messaged Ansari telling him how uncomfortable he made her feel, saying he "ignored clear verbal clues" and "kept going with advances. She explains: I want to make sure youre aware so maybe the next girl doesnt have to cry on the ride home.

The next time Grace saw Ansari was when she watched him at the Golden Globes, where he declared his support for the fight against sexual assault and harassment by wearing a Times Up pin on the red carpet.


https://babe.net/2018/01/13/aziz-ansari-28355
damn this is incredibly awkward considering that (pretty well done) subplot in master of none s2
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TommyG663513
01/14/18 12:59:12 AM
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RIP Aziz
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refmon
01/14/18 12:59:19 AM
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where he declared his support for the fight against sexual assault and harassment by wearing a Times Up pin on the red carpet.


The loudest naysayers are usually the guilty ones
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KingCrabCake
01/14/18 12:59:30 AM
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Dont believe a word she said
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SK8T3R215
01/14/18 1:00:13 AM
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I hear Indians are the new bulls.
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EnterTheTekken
01/14/18 1:00:47 AM
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This is some next level promotion for the new season of Master Of None.
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Ushiromiya
01/14/18 1:00:54 AM
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hortanz
01/14/18 1:00:59 AM
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SK8T3R215 posted...
I hear Indians are the new bulls.

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DarkChozoGhost
01/14/18 1:01:23 AM
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I'm skeptical only because this happened in September. I don't think too many people would be stupid enough to do this during this climate
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Mal_Fet
01/14/18 1:03:21 AM
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hortanz posted...
Most of my discomfort was expressed in me pulling away and mumbling.

Not to blame the victim here, but surely a "back off, asshole" was in order...
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Gamer99z
01/14/18 1:03:34 AM
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DarkChozoGhost posted...
I'm skeptical only because this happened in September. I don't think too many people would be stupid enough to do this during this climate

The people that would do things like this generally see themselves as above things like that and would likely have convinced themselves they wouldn't get caught. Not saying that makes it true or not, just that trying to assign logical thinking with scumbags that actually do things like this is kind of pointless.
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SK8T3R215
01/14/18 1:04:08 AM
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Also I don't get her being like "I didn't want to fuck him, and he kept making advances, but I didn't leave and sucked his dick twice instead."
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obeseexplosive
01/14/18 1:04:59 AM
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hortanz posted...
They connected about the 80s cameras they both brought to the event.

Where did they keep them all?
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IslamMD
01/14/18 1:05:17 AM
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She says she used verbal and non-verbal cues to indicate how uncomfortable and distressed she was. The next day Grace messaged Ansari telling him how uncomfortable he made her feel, saying he "ignored clear verbal clues" and "kept going with advances. She explains: I want to make sure youre aware so maybe the next girl doesnt have to cry on the ride home.

If real he is done. My gut says this seems like a staged PSA.
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hortanz
01/14/18 1:06:42 AM
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obeseexplosive posted...
hortanz posted...
They connected about the 80s cameras they both brought to the event.

Where did they keep them all?


XD
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MedeaLysistrata
01/14/18 1:08:29 AM
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didn't Aziz get married like in 2016 or something? what happened to that?
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KhanJonson
01/14/18 1:08:43 AM
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his career = done
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Jetblackmoon
01/14/18 1:10:30 AM
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I dont buy this one at all. Not saying its impossible (I was really let down when I heard about Kevin Spacey) but my gut just tells me this one isnt true.
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Ushiromiya
01/14/18 1:16:18 AM
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Jetblackmoon posted...
my gut

IslamMD posted...
My gut

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KingCrabCake
01/14/18 1:20:01 AM
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Sucked his dick twice and let him go down on her....

Come on
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CruelBuffalo
01/14/18 1:23:29 AM
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KingCrabCake posted...
Sucked his dick twice and let him go down on her....

Come on


Why didnt she...just leave? Is she not an adult?
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KingCrabCake
01/14/18 1:25:01 AM
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CruelBuffalo posted...
KingCrabCake posted...
Sucked his dick twice and let him go down on her....

Come on


Why didnt she...just leave? Is she not an adult?


Or bite it off...or not suck it the second time...or not you know come out with this when it happened
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TommyG663513
01/14/18 1:32:35 AM
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CruelBuffalo posted...
KingCrabCake posted...
Sucked his dick twice and let him go down on her....

Come on


Why didnt she...just leave? Is she not an adult?


That would make her less of a victim and not able to get 15 minutes
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Letron_James
01/14/18 1:35:38 AM
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If you give head to someone two times you are consenting to sexual activities...

Unless he forced her to perform.oral, but that's not generally the best idea since she could just rip his dick off and incapacitate him.

Smells like bs tbh
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Volkswagen_Bros
01/14/18 1:35:59 AM
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Misleading topic title.
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Coolppl Owns
01/14/18 1:42:38 AM
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victim blaming everywhere why am I not surprised
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F1areaGaman
01/14/18 1:56:12 AM
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show me the texts
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BlackHorse6969
01/14/18 1:57:18 AM
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What if he used one of those hentai mind control devices and she couldn't control herself?
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Lordgold666
01/14/18 1:58:32 AM
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Imagine anyone going on a date w aziz

Gross
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Bio1590
01/14/18 2:01:07 AM
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She explains: I want to make sure youre aware so maybe the next girl doesnt have to cry on the ride home.


All I can think of is that scene at the end of one episode of Season 2 where he's taking the taxi home and it's just one long 5+ minute shot of him getting sadder and sadder. Shit broke my heart.
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EnterTheTekken
01/14/18 2:01:55 AM
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This will be interesting as he's been actually anointed by the Fem Establishment (the article quotes him as a "certified woke bae").

He shoulda just taken her to the SnakeHole Lounge.
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Darkninja42
01/14/18 2:02:03 AM
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F1areaGaman posted...
show me the texts

They're actually in the article.
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masticatingman
01/14/18 2:02:07 AM
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Honestly I kinda just black out these stories once the woman says they were totally cool with going to the guys apartment after being out on a date. Earth to women - we dont wanna just chat at that point. Not absolving Aziz, just saying I dont understand what she expected at that point tbh. Tea and scones?
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MuayThai85
01/14/18 2:03:48 AM
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This sounds like total horseshit.
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GreatEvilEmpire
01/14/18 2:09:25 AM
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If you don't want to do anything, say 'no' or leave. Aziz is a small guy, it's not like he's going to physically force you to stay. It sounds like the women regretted the encounter and try to put the blame on someone else.
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KingCrabCake
01/14/18 2:10:57 AM
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Darkninja42 posted...
F1areaGaman posted...
show me the texts

They're actually in the article.

Screenshots of the texts?
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Funbazooka
01/14/18 2:16:18 AM
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hortanz posted...
After dinner, they went back to Ansari's apartment. Grace says Ansari was quick to undress her and then himself. She said he repeatedly pulled her hand towards his privates multiple times throughout the night and "kept doing it after I moved it away.

She says she used verbal and non-verbal cues to indicate how uncomfortable and distressed she was. Most of my discomfort was expressed in me pulling away and mumbling. I know that my hand stopped moving at some points.

Honestly, what this describes is a woman to demure (or chicken-shit) to take a stand and tell a guy she wants none of what he is attempting to do.

In fact, many women act demure even if they approve of what's going on. This is one of the differences between men and women. No one is a mind-reader.

I've literally been on dates where my sexual drive and persistance was met with reward and pleasure to both parties.

"Oh it's too soon"

"Oh I don't do that on the first date"

What do you think happens when I'm not a beta male and both of us are horny as fuck?
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Raikuro
01/14/18 2:20:34 AM
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yeah the whole "acting uninterested" and "tee hee I don't usually do this" schtick is what women are basically trained to do even if they 100% consent and do want it. If "non-verbal queues" aren't working you really should be moving on to clear verbal ones, not mumbling with a dick in your mouth.
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ThanksUglyGod
01/14/18 2:22:04 AM
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Big if true
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countzander
01/14/18 2:24:05 AM
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She used verbal and non-verbal cues to indicate how uncomfortable and distressed she was.

Going to a dude's apartment after a date is also a non-verbal cue.
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lilORANG
01/14/18 2:26:05 AM
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she sucked his d twice and had him go down on her.
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Funbazooka
01/14/18 2:26:18 AM
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countzander posted...
She used verbal and non-verbal cues to indicate how uncomfortable and distressed she was.

Going to a dude's apartment after a date is also a non-verbal cue.

*gasp*

How dare you say such a thing

Modern adult women are surely chaste and pure of heart!
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Duwstai
01/14/18 4:08:28 AM
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Raikuro posted...
yeah the whole "acting uninterested" and "tee hee I don't usually do this" schtick is what women are basically trained to do even if they 100% consent and do want it. If "non-verbal queues" aren't working you really should be moving on to clear verbal ones, not mumbling with a dick in your mouth.

Lmao
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I4NRulez
01/14/18 4:20:29 AM
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Sounds like a bad sexual encounter that she's putting on blast. He was aggressive but doesnt seem like he did anything that wouldnt normally happen when you go back to someones place after a date.

Honestly, i dont get how some people think sexual encounters should happen. "May i kiss you now and insert my penis into your vagina. Only if i have your permission and its ok"
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ImNotAnIdiot
01/14/18 4:36:32 AM
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Is it just me or does it seem like something is off with the way the article was written?
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Esrac
01/14/18 4:52:08 AM
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twitterfriends
01/14/18 4:54:48 AM
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Now they're trying to get Aziz? I'm just reading the story and I'm really confused how this story is a big news headline... that kind of sucks if you're famous and the girl doesn't get 100% she wants it comes out like this.
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Funbazooka
01/14/18 4:58:58 AM
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Nowadays if you've achieved notable success career-wise you can't pursue women since you're in a position of power, whatever that means... It's bad though! Really really bad. For shame.
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frozenshock
01/14/18 5:34:59 AM
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When Ansari told her he was going to grab a condom within minutes of their first kiss, Grace voiced her hesitation explicitly. I said something like, Whoa, lets relax for a sec, lets chill. She says he then resumed kissing her, briefly performed oral sex on her, and asked her to do the same thing to him. She did, but not for long. It was really quick. Everything was pretty much touched and done within ten minutes of hooking up, except for actual sex.


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I guess it's hard to judge the situation without having actually seen what happened. But we really have to agree on how much no actually means no.
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