Current Events > I know a lot of guys complain about being friendzoned, but... (rant)

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don't some of y'all do the exact same thing to girls, once you get what you want?

Last few guys I had the displeasure of dealing with were kinda vague with what they wanted, others bordered on dishonesty (even when asked to clarify). So... once they hooked up with me, they'd go back to telling me how much they missed their exes or whatever or flat out ghost me. Others would just say (after the fact, conveniently) that they were just looking for something casual in the first place.

One even has the nerve to publicly say they want a long term thing and is still texting me about hooking up. If that's not audacious I don't know what is.

Moral of the story: people play games to get what they want regardless of gender. "Dating" in this day and age suuuuuucks.

welp, time to start my crazy cat lady collection!
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The average man is unfuckable
The average women gets blasted with limitless chad dick
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Muffinz0rz posted...

The average man is unfuckable
The average women gets blasted with limitless chad dick

Not that you're being serious, but there wasn't anything even remotely chad about the last few guys I've hooked up with lmfao
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you hooked up with a couple incels didnt you
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Vulgorn posted...

you hooked up with a couple incels didnt you

no, just liars and fuckboys
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I don't think guys that have had girlfriends complain about the friendzone.
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KainWind posted...

I don't think guys that have had girlfriends complain about the friendzone.

Probably not.
I don't think I'm entitled to jack shit either, but it's just kinda frustrating to be led on, y'know?
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joestarrr posted...

Moral of the story: people play games to get what they want regardless of gender. "Dating" in this day and age suuuuuucks.

I agree.
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PGpgdQc4e0c
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I had to try and friend zone a woman from okcupid, but in my defense she had already told me that I wasn't good enough for her, and that she wasn't interested in anything beyond a friendship. That changed when she learned I wanted kids and was still a virgin, I think she thought I'd be easy to trap into having a baby with her.

That's the extent of my dating experience in my 34 years of life. I can't play games like that, because I'm not even in the game to begin with.
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KogaSteelfang posted...

I had to try and friend zone a woman from okcupid, but in my defense she had already told me that I wasn't good enough for her, and that she wasn't interested in anything beyond a friendship. That changed when she learned I wanted kids and was still a virgin, I think she thought I'd be easy to trap into having a baby with her.

That's the extent of my dating experience in my 34 years of life. I can't play games like that, because I'm not even in the game to begin with.

Yeah, that's really shitty of her.
Sorry to hear that. :/
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Difference is people in friendzone don't get sex
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If MTV2 has taught me anything - it's that the friendzone applies to people of every gender.
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V-E-G-Y- posted...

Difference is people in friendzone don't get sex

Sex isn't everything, though. If it was, I would've cut contact with the aforementioned people because they royally sucked at it.
I actually wanted to date, they just wanted a warm body for a few minutes. I think you can "friendzone" and still hook up because of FWB type arrangements. Just my opinion, though.
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It isn't everything, but its something. And people in friendzone usually think they get nothing
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V-E-G-Y- posted...

It isn't everything, but its something. And people in friendzone usually think they get nothing

I guess our priorities and definitions are different, then.
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joestarrr posted...

Vulgorn posted...

you hooked up with a couple incels didnt you

no, just liars and fuckboys

I like you
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joestarrr posted...

Yeah, that's really shitty of her.
Sorry to hear that. :/

It's ok, I wasn't attracted to her, she just seemed really approachable on her profile and it said she was looking for friends. I needed the practice and wanted friends, so I messaged her. She quickly became creepy and controlling, still staying I had no shot with her. Things took a sudden turn when we discussed wanting kids, suddenly at that point we were getting married and having kids. She was just all over the place.

I was tempted a couple of times to see if I could lose my v card, but it felt unfair to use her like that, and I knew it'd just lead to even more problems. So I decided against even trying with her, and waved good bye to the only sexual opportunity I've ever had.
Ugh, I hate myself lol.
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