Current Events > I always have the anxiety of my gf eventually cheating on me

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I think it's reading so much mgtow after my first breakup with my ex. I went into a phase of dating one after the other for a year. I eventually met my gf and we eventually became exclusive after I decided to quit dating others.

My gf is very traditional and independent. She doesn't wear make up, normal girly things, have girl's night, etc... In facr she was a virgin before she met me and very family oriented. She actually has perfect motherly qualities. Her parents are stable and her idol was her grandmother who was a home maker.

However, I've read so much stories of cheating and see how 90%+ of women are on dating sites. I met a lot of these.

Dump her if you don't trust her
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Insecure lil <This message is deleted by a Gfaqs Moderator>
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I go through the same thing. You just have to breathe and take it day by day.

I also recommend NOT becoming possessive and jealous.
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wesastro911 posted...

However, I've read so much stories of cheating and see how 90%+ of women are on dating sites. I met a lot of these.

What?
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ssj3vegeta_ posted...

Dump her if you don't trust her

It's not that I don't trust her. I just don't trust women in general now.

i never have this anxiety

i know if my wife cheats i will divorce her

i know she contributes almost the same amount as me to our networth so i don't worry about her 'stealing my stuff' if that happens

i also know that i'm not emotionally dependent on her so the idea of being without her is not scary
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Worrying about your spouse cheating on you generally indicates your own proclivity to cheating on her.
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Well I don't toss and turn at night with anxiety. This isn't a major issue. I'm independent and confident I would be able to easily get another gf.

It's just something in the back of my head because of my general anxiety and imagination.

wesastro911 posted...

It's just something in the back of my head because of my general anxiety and imagination.

This is inception, my dear boy.
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Darkman124 posted...

i never have this anxiety

i know if my wife cheats i will divorce her

i know she contributes almost the same amount as me to our networth so i don't worry about her 'stealing my stuff' if that happens

i also know that i'm not emotionally dependent on her so the idea of being without her is not scary

This except with my fiance
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Yeah, I know what you mean, TC. I just kind of get the feeling that Ann is cheating on you. Also, you better duck out early this Friday. I think Lumberg is going to ask you to come into work this Saturday.
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Need them TPS reports from ye
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wesastro911 posted...

I think it's reading so much mgtow after my first breakup with my ex. I went into a phase of dating one after the other for a year. I eventually met my gf and we eventually became exclusive after I decided to quit dating others.

My gf is very traditional and independent. She doesn't wear make up, normal girly things, have girl's night, etc... In facr she was a virgin before she met me and very family oriented. She actually has perfect motherly qualities. Her parents are stable and her idol was her grandmother who was a home maker.

However, I've read so much stories of cheating and see how 90%+ of women are on dating sites. I met a lot of these.

TC, I have the same anxiety.... That my GF is lying to me and playing me for a chump...
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