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Pepys Monster
01/23/18 12:22:35 AM
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Other guys always succeed with the girls I want.
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RebelElite791
01/23/18 12:23:13 AM
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TheGrindery
01/23/18 12:23:41 AM
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Then get ready to be the bitter guy in the lonely zone.
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Naysaspace
01/23/18 12:23:41 AM
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Why not try men

2018 its all about progressiveness and gender fluidity
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Your_Moms_Bra
01/23/18 12:24:24 AM
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Then lower your standards.
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The_Freecs
01/23/18 12:24:50 AM
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Jiek_Fafn
01/23/18 12:26:06 AM
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Jerk yourself off into submission. It's how the incredible hulk calms down.
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Pepys Monster
01/23/18 12:26:20 AM
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TheGrindery posted...
Then get ready to be the bitter guy in the lonely zone.

So these are my only two options?

Naysaspace posted...
Why not try men

2018 its all about progressiveness and gender fluidity

I'm straight.

Your_Moms_Bra posted...
Then lower your standards.

My standards are very reasonable.
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powerman1426
01/23/18 12:26:51 AM
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Maybe get out of the friend zone then, make a move. Seriously, its not that hard. If it doesn't work out, try with someone else. If you don't try you'll never succeed
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Pepys Monster
01/23/18 12:31:39 AM
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powerman1426 posted...
Maybe get out of the friend zone then, make a move. Seriously, its not that hard. If it doesn't work out, try with someone else. If you don't try you'll never succeed

I never succeed when I make a move.
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The_Freecs
01/23/18 12:32:14 AM
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Pepys Monster posted...
powerman1426 posted...
Maybe get out of the friend zone then, make a move. Seriously, its not that hard. If it doesn't work out, try with someone else. If you don't try you'll never succeed

I never succeed when I make a move.


Haha sucks to be you
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Pepys Monster
01/23/18 12:34:46 AM
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The_Freecs posted...
Pepys Monster posted...
powerman1426 posted...
Maybe get out of the friend zone then, make a move. Seriously, its not that hard. If it doesn't work out, try with someone else. If you don't try you'll never succeed

I never succeed when I make a move.


Haha sucks to be you

Well, it's not like you do any better. We're all in the same boat.
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SilkPanties
01/23/18 12:36:08 AM
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You have to become a star!
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KingArthur3D
01/23/18 12:37:25 AM
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Jiek_Fafn posted...
Jerk yourself off into submission. It's how the incredible hulk calms down.


Wrong. Thats how i calm down. The Hulk has a different way..
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powerman1426
01/23/18 12:40:08 AM
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Pepys Monster posted...
powerman1426 posted...
Maybe get out of the friend zone then, make a move. Seriously, its not that hard. If it doesn't work out, try with someone else. If you don't try you'll never succeed

I never succeed when I make a move.

Then try with somebody else, or you're insecure. Some women will find that cute but most will not. Be confident, if she's not interested move on
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UnholyMudcrab
01/23/18 12:43:22 AM
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KingCrabCake
01/23/18 12:43:27 AM
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Just take your dick out and put it on her cheek...she'll either suck it or tell you to fuck off.

Either way you're out of friend zone
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Pepys Monster
01/23/18 12:45:46 AM
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powerman1426 posted...
Pepys Monster posted...
powerman1426 posted...
Maybe get out of the friend zone then, make a move. Seriously, its not that hard. If it doesn't work out, try with someone else. If you don't try you'll never succeed

I never succeed when I make a move.

Then try with somebody else, or you're insecure. Some women will find that cute but most will not. Be confident, if she's not interested move on

If they haven't sent me nudes or been flirty, isn't it a safe bet that they're not interested?
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LJRENEGADE
01/23/18 12:45:52 AM
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Being nice is a positive trait to have but its not attractive on its own. No one's gonna wanna fuck you just because you're a little bit nice. Well actually, I'm sure there's some people that even would. But anyway that might be why you're getting "friendzoned". Maybe you're nice but don't make a move or anything else so they only see you as a friend or acquaintance, which there's nothing wrong with.

Try being more direct, confident, flirty, things like that. But don't be a bitter dickwad if you get rejected either, take it like a man and don't dwell on it.
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LJRENEGADE
01/23/18 12:47:36 AM
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Pepys Monster posted...
If they haven't sent me nudes or been flirty, isn't it a safe bet that they're not interested?

Do you flirt with them first or are you just waiting for them to flirt with you? Be flirty first if you're not already. And don't try to get nudes if the conversation doesn't naturally go that way. Don't be pushy or make her feel like you only want her for sex or nudes or whatever.
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Pepys Monster
01/23/18 12:54:04 AM
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LJRENEGADE posted...
Pepys Monster posted...
If they haven't sent me nudes or been flirty, isn't it a safe bet that they're not interested?

Do you flirt with them first or are you just waiting for them to flirt with you? Be flirty first if you're not already. And don't try to get nudes if the conversation doesn't naturally go that way. Don't be pushy or make her feel like you only want her for sex or nudes or whatever.

I don't usually flirt with them because it doesn't work out. I'm waiting for them to express interest and flirt with me.
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kinetika_
01/23/18 12:54:15 AM
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Are you an 'awkward' person, TC? I'm no playboy, but I never had trouble with women... and I'm a quiet/loner type, too.
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Pepys Monster
01/23/18 12:56:26 AM
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kinetika_ posted...
Are you an 'awkward' person, TC? I'm no playboy, but I never had trouble with women... and I'm a quiet/loner type, too.

Well, personality doesn't matter, only looks/genetics do, so if you've never had trouble with women, it's because of your looks. I used to be successful with women in my early 20s. Now I'm 29 and it's not working out anymore.
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Your_Moms_Bra
01/23/18 12:56:47 AM
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Penile implants are still a thing
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Pepys Monster
01/23/18 12:57:20 AM
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Your_Moms_Bra posted...
Penile implants are still a thing

I have a big D. It doesn't help me because it's seldom appropriate to bring it up.
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Your_Moms_Bra
01/23/18 12:58:12 AM
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Tight pants are still a thing.
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Pepys Monster
01/23/18 1:01:32 AM
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LJRENEGADE posted...
Being nice is a positive trait to have but its not attractive on its own. No one's gonna wanna fuck you just because you're a little bit nice. Well actually, I'm sure there's some people that even would. But anyway that might be why you're getting "friendzoned". Maybe you're nice but don't make a move or anything else so they only see you as a friend or acquaintance, which there's nothing wrong with.

Try being more direct, confident, flirty, things like that. But don't be a bitter dickwad if you get rejected either, take it like a man and don't dwell on it.

I've tried being confident. You know what happens? Girls say yes to a date, and then change their mind. It's not helpful at all.
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Dash_Harber
01/23/18 1:04:07 AM
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I'm a nice guy. I had no trouble finding women when I was younger, and I'm married now. Maybe the problem is that you think that being 'nice' entitles you to a woman.
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powerman1426
01/23/18 1:05:47 AM
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LJRENEGADE posted...
Being nice is a positive trait to have but its not attractive on its own. No one's gonna wanna fuck you just because you're a little bit nice. Well actually, I'm sure there's some people that even would. But anyway that might be why you're getting "friendzoned". Maybe you're nice but don't make a move or anything else so they only see you as a friend or acquaintance, which there's nothing wrong with.

Try being more direct, confident, flirty, things like that. But don't be a bitter dickwad if you get rejected either, take it like a man and don't dwell on it.

LJRENEGADE posted...
Pepys Monster posted...
If they haven't sent me nudes or been flirty, isn't it a safe bet that they're not interested?

Do you flirt with them first or are you just waiting for them to flirt with you? Be flirty first if you're not already. And don't try to get nudes if the conversation doesn't naturally go that way. Don't be pushy or make her feel like you only want her for sex or nudes or whatever.

Good stuff here, no don't expect nudes or flirtation. If they flirt with you, great, they're already interested. If not, turn up the charm
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TheGrindery
01/23/18 1:06:57 AM
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Ask Walmart if they have any new personalities in stock.
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Pepys Monster
01/23/18 1:06:59 AM
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Dash_Harber posted...
I'm a nice guy. I had no trouble finding women when I was younger, and I'm married now. Maybe the problem is that you think that being 'nice' entitles you to a woman.

lol, what the hell are you trying to argue? "You don't deserve the same opportunities I've had in life." Great argument there.
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Dash_Harber
01/23/18 1:07:48 AM
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Pepys Monster posted...
Dash_Harber posted...
I'm a nice guy. I had no trouble finding women when I was younger, and I'm married now. Maybe the problem is that you think that being 'nice' entitles you to a woman.

lol, what the hell are you trying to argue? "You don't deserve the same opportunities I've had in life." Great argument there.

No, I'm saying that generally people who say they are a 'nice guy' but are unsuccessful in romance are not actually nice. They are selfish and think that simply extending common courtesy towards a woman means she should fall in love with you.
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Pepys Monster
01/23/18 1:08:38 AM
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TheGrindery posted...
Ask Walmart if they have any new personalities in stock.

My personality is not the problem here. I have a great personality, and that's why women want to be my friend. They just don't think I'm as hot as Chad. That's why they won't date me.
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powerman1426
01/23/18 1:09:46 AM
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Pepys Monster posted...
Dash_Harber posted...
I'm a nice guy. I had no trouble finding women when I was younger, and I'm married now. Maybe the problem is that you think that being 'nice' entitles you to a woman.

lol, what the hell are you trying to argue? "You don't deserve the same opportunities I've had in life." Great argument there.

Well, what do you have to offer her? You don't need money, you don't need a huge dick, and you don't need to be Chad. You can be you and find one, confidence is key
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Pepys Monster
01/23/18 1:09:47 AM
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Dash_Harber posted...
Pepys Monster posted...
Dash_Harber posted...
I'm a nice guy. I had no trouble finding women when I was younger, and I'm married now. Maybe the problem is that you think that being 'nice' entitles you to a woman.

lol, what the hell are you trying to argue? "You don't deserve the same opportunities I've had in life." Great argument there.

No, I'm saying that generally people who say they are a 'nice guy' but are unsuccessful in romance are not actually nice. They are selfish and think that simply extending common courtesy towards a woman means she should fall in love with you.

This is a radfem crackpot theory that has no basis in reality whatsoever.
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Dustin1280
01/23/18 1:10:08 AM
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Pepys Monster posted...
Dash_Harber posted...
I'm a nice guy. I had no trouble finding women when I was younger, and I'm married now. Maybe the problem is that you think that being 'nice' entitles you to a woman.

lol, what the hell are you trying to argue? "You don't deserve the same opportunities I've had in life." Great argument there.

Nah DashHarber is correct...

The problem is you sir... I'm not a hot CHAD nor am I insanely rich. Yet somehow I have a wife and a house.

Must be a you problem.
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Vulgorn
01/23/18 1:10:33 AM
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the problem with ce is all the serial incels

just stop being an incel

damn son
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TheGrindery
01/23/18 1:11:02 AM
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How do I keep forgetting that this is his gimmick?
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Dustin1280
01/23/18 1:11:13 AM
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You will never convince this guy he isn't an incel and his personality is the problem (even though that obvious to NORMAL people).

He will just talk about how he is nice, smart, and a good dancer.
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Dash_Harber
01/23/18 1:11:20 AM
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Pepys Monster posted...
Dash_Harber posted...
Pepys Monster posted...
Dash_Harber posted...
I'm a nice guy. I had no trouble finding women when I was younger, and I'm married now. Maybe the problem is that you think that being 'nice' entitles you to a woman.

lol, what the hell are you trying to argue? "You don't deserve the same opportunities I've had in life." Great argument there.

No, I'm saying that generally people who say they are a 'nice guy' but are unsuccessful in romance are not actually nice. They are selfish and think that simply extending common courtesy towards a woman means she should fall in love with you.

This is a radfem crackpot theory that has no basis in reality whatsoever.

So let me get this straight, when you are nice to women you expect nothing in return?
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powerman1426
01/23/18 1:12:22 AM
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Pepys Monster posted...
I have a great personality, and that's why women want to be my friend

Well step one is covered then, don't be the friend and try to climb up. Start out you want more
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powerman1426
01/23/18 1:13:14 AM
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DuranOfForcena posted...
how many of these beta wheatball topics are you gonna post

I'm guessing a lot, but at least he recognizes he needs help
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Pepys Monster
01/23/18 1:13:20 AM
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Dash_Harber posted...
Pepys Monster posted...
Dash_Harber posted...
Pepys Monster posted...
Dash_Harber posted...
I'm a nice guy. I had no trouble finding women when I was younger, and I'm married now. Maybe the problem is that you think that being 'nice' entitles you to a woman.

lol, what the hell are you trying to argue? "You don't deserve the same opportunities I've had in life." Great argument there.

No, I'm saying that generally people who say they are a 'nice guy' but are unsuccessful in romance are not actually nice. They are selfish and think that simply extending common courtesy towards a woman means she should fall in love with you.

This is a radfem crackpot theory that has no basis in reality whatsoever.

So let me get this straight, when you are nice to women you expect nothing in return?

Yeah, I have a lot of cool and hot female friends, and I don't demand anything from them. It would be nice if just one of them liked me as more than a friend, though.
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Dash_Harber
01/23/18 1:15:10 AM
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Pepys Monster posted...
Dash_Harber posted...
Pepys Monster posted...
Dash_Harber posted...
Pepys Monster posted...
Dash_Harber posted...
I'm a nice guy. I had no trouble finding women when I was younger, and I'm married now. Maybe the problem is that you think that being 'nice' entitles you to a woman.

lol, what the hell are you trying to argue? "You don't deserve the same opportunities I've had in life." Great argument there.

No, I'm saying that generally people who say they are a 'nice guy' but are unsuccessful in romance are not actually nice. They are selfish and think that simply extending common courtesy towards a woman means she should fall in love with you.

This is a radfem crackpot theory that has no basis in reality whatsoever.

So let me get this straight, when you are nice to women you expect nothing in return?

Yeah, I have a lot of cool and hot female friends, and I don't demand anything from them. It would be nice if just one of them liked me as more than a friend, though.

Why should they?
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Pepys Monster
01/23/18 1:15:30 AM
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powerman1426 posted...
Pepys Monster posted...
I have a great personality, and that's why women want to be my friend

Well step one is covered then, don't be the friend and try to climb up. Start out you want more

I guess this is the best thing to do. It sounds like a recipe to get rejected all night and have a bad time, though.
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powerman1426
01/23/18 1:16:10 AM
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Pepys Monster posted...
Dash_Harber posted...
Pepys Monster posted...
Dash_Harber posted...
Pepys Monster posted...
Dash_Harber posted...
I'm a nice guy. I had no trouble finding women when I was younger, and I'm married now. Maybe the problem is that you think that being 'nice' entitles you to a woman.

lol, what the hell are you trying to argue? "You don't deserve the same opportunities I've had in life." Great argument there.

No, I'm saying that generally people who say they are a 'nice guy' but are unsuccessful in romance are not actually nice. They are selfish and think that simply extending common courtesy towards a woman means she should fall in love with you.

This is a radfem crackpot theory that has no basis in reality whatsoever.

So let me get this straight, when you are nice to women you expect nothing in return?

Yeah, I have a lot of cool and hot female friends, and I don't demand anything from them. It would be nice if just one of them liked me as more than a friend, though.

So work it into more smh
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TheGrindery
01/23/18 1:16:26 AM
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Dash_Harber posted...
Pepys Monster posted...
Dash_Harber posted...
Pepys Monster posted...
Dash_Harber posted...
Pepys Monster posted...
Dash_Harber posted...
I'm a nice guy. I had no trouble finding women when I was younger, and I'm married now. Maybe the problem is that you think that being 'nice' entitles you to a woman.

lol, what the hell are you trying to argue? "You don't deserve the same opportunities I've had in life." Great argument there.

No, I'm saying that generally people who say they are a 'nice guy' but are unsuccessful in romance are not actually nice. They are selfish and think that simply extending common courtesy towards a woman means she should fall in love with you.

This is a radfem crackpot theory that has no basis in reality whatsoever.

So let me get this straight, when you are nice to women you expect nothing in return?

Yeah, I have a lot of cool and hot female friends, and I don't demand anything from them. It would be nice if just one of them liked me as more than a friend, though.

Why should they?

Because he really really wants it and movies taught him that the good guy always wins.
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Pepys Monster
01/23/18 1:17:16 AM
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Dash_Harber posted...
Pepys Monster posted...
Dash_Harber posted...
Pepys Monster posted...
Dash_Harber posted...
Pepys Monster posted...
Dash_Harber posted...
I'm a nice guy. I had no trouble finding women when I was younger, and I'm married now. Maybe the problem is that you think that being 'nice' entitles you to a woman.

lol, what the hell are you trying to argue? "You don't deserve the same opportunities I've had in life." Great argument there.

No, I'm saying that generally people who say they are a 'nice guy' but are unsuccessful in romance are not actually nice. They are selfish and think that simply extending common courtesy towards a woman means she should fall in love with you.

This is a radfem crackpot theory that has no basis in reality whatsoever.

So let me get this straight, when you are nice to women you expect nothing in return?

Yeah, I have a lot of cool and hot female friends, and I don't demand anything from them. It would be nice if just one of them liked me as more than a friend, though.

Why should they?

I'm cool as hell. I'm a great dancer, I give great light shows, and I'm an Army veteran who's been to Afghanistan.
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Dash_Harber
01/23/18 1:19:17 AM
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Pepys Monster posted...
I'm cool as hell. I'm a great dancer, I give great light shows, and I'm an Army veteran who's been to Afghanistan.

Maybe those things aren't attractive to your friends. Why don't you try to find women who are interested in those sorts of things?
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