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joestarrr
02/03/18 5:43:30 PM
#1:


There will come a time in your life where you need them, but they'll eventually see you for what you are and run away.

Don't fucking push good, helpful people away and still have the audacity to even believe that it's everyone else that treats you badly.
Because ...no boo boo, you burned those bridges and haven't even tried to make amends, so that's on you.

So sick of dealing with assholes.
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Zodd3224
02/03/18 5:45:17 PM
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So dont deal with assholes...
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armandro
02/03/18 5:45:59 PM
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What about trying to be decent to everyone?
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joestarrr
02/03/18 5:46:44 PM
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Zodd3224 posted...
So dont deal with assholes...


Well then I wouldn't have anything to complain about! Jk.
In all seriousness I have basically no friends so I take what I can get. It sucks, but whatever. At least I'm not a shitty person.
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joestarrr
02/03/18 5:47:46 PM
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armandro posted...
What about trying to be decent to everyone?


In general I treat everyone decent. I think that's usually a better approach, but the point was that people shouldn't destroy relationships with people who care.
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Zodd3224
02/03/18 5:48:09 PM
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joestarrr posted...
Zodd3224 posted...
So dont deal with assholes...


Well then I wouldn't have anything to complain about! Jk.
In all seriousness I have basically no friends so I take what I can get. It sucks, but whatever. At least I'm not a shitty person.


Why dont you have any friends? You seem interesting enough.
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Two_Dee
02/03/18 5:48:15 PM
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Pepys Monster
02/03/18 5:49:46 PM
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joestarrr posted...
Zodd3224 posted...
So dont deal with assholes...


Well then I wouldn't have anything to complain about! Jk.
In all seriousness I have basically no friends so I take what I can get. It sucks, but whatever. At least I'm not a shitty person.

IDGI, I'm weird and I have a lot of friends. I feel like it's easy to make friends.
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LavarNeedsHelp
02/03/18 5:50:02 PM
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Is this another "cegal" meltdown?
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armandro
02/03/18 5:54:02 PM
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joestarrr posted...
armandro posted...
What about trying to be decent to everyone?


In general I treat everyone decent. I think that's usually a better approach, but the point was that people shouldn't destroy relationships with people who care.

How do you know if they care?

sometimes I feel like my friend doesn't really care about me.

I remember one Christmas I got him a gift.
He was pretty wasted at the time and just got something from his room that he bought for himself and just decided to give it to me.

I did like the present but like it was already unwrapped and idk felt like he just thought about that on the spot.

and whenever he is asking me how im doing its just like a way for him to talk about himself
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joestarrr
02/03/18 5:55:13 PM
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Zodd3224 posted...
joestarrr posted...
Zodd3224 posted...
So dont deal with assholes...


Well then I wouldn't have anything to complain about! Jk.
In all seriousness I have basically no friends so I take what I can get. It sucks, but whatever. At least I'm not a shitty person.


Why dont you have any friends? You seem interesting enough.


I'm not really good with people. I've improved over the years, but I still am not good in the making friendships happen department. My fault, but still.

Two_Dee posted...
r u ok


No, never lol

Pepys Monster posted...
joestarrr posted...
Zodd3224 posted...
So dont deal with assholes...


Well then I wouldn't have anything to complain about! Jk.
In all seriousness I have basically no friends so I take what I can get. It sucks, but whatever. At least I'm not a shitty person.

IDGI, I'm weird and I have a lot of friends. I feel like it's easy to make friends.


Maybe? Again, this is probably just my fault for not working on my people skills enough to be at a point to where people want to be friends with me.
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The Admiral
02/03/18 5:55:52 PM
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joestarrr posted...
but they'll eventually see you for what you are and run away.


Sounds like some "nice guy" shit, not like the actions of someone who genuinely cares.
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joestarrr
02/03/18 5:57:37 PM
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armandro posted...
joestarrr posted...
armandro posted...
What about trying to be decent to everyone?


In general I treat everyone decent. I think that's usually a better approach, but the point was that people shouldn't destroy relationships with people who care.

How do you know if they care?

sometimes I feel like my friend doesn't really care about me.

I remember one Christmas I got him a gift.
He was pretty wasted at the time and just got something from his room that he bought for himself and just decided to give it to me.

I did like the present but like it was already unwrapped and idk felt like he just thought about that on the spot.

and whenever he is asking me how im doing its just like a way for him to talk about himself


Yeah that's a serious dick move.
I think reciprocating feelings (in a non-romantic context lol) is important - meaning, someone isn't just messaging you how you feel so they can pivot the topic to themselves.
But generally, things like not leaving people on read, checking on them every once in a while, etc.
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Zodd3224
02/03/18 6:08:35 PM
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I'll be your friend TC
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