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bulletproofvita
02/08/18 12:46:53 AM
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I'm hooked on someone who I love very much. But there is a history between us.
I hurt her in the beginning by choosing someone else. Remained friends with her and tried a relationship for about 6 months but she ended it for feeling that it was too forced.
We have remained friends after that. But I know we still have feeling for one another.
We have been with other people since we broke up which hasn't worked out for either of us.
Long story short lol I'm still in love but we now just text small talk these days.
The other day I confessed my feelings but they were met with "you wouldnt do that to someone you love" from what happened in the beginning. I guess I've never been forgiven and the guilt is so much for me.

I'd like to move on but I can't.... I still dream about her and would do anything but it seems to late. I'm stuck.
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_Near_
02/08/18 12:47:13 AM
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time
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JustMonika
02/08/18 12:47:26 AM
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You can't, not really.
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Kaname_Madoka
02/08/18 12:47:40 AM
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hentai, tequila and time
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DoctorVader
02/08/18 12:48:33 AM
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A hyperbolic time chamber.
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SimpleMan
02/08/18 1:14:39 AM
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Alcohol.
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bigotry
02/08/18 1:16:55 AM
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psych meds
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Axiom
02/08/18 1:18:26 AM
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_Near_ posted...
time

Even then you still randomly dream about them sometimes at least I do. The fact that I'll have dreams about certain EXs is a secret I'll never reveal to the current ones >_>
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DocDelicious
02/08/18 1:27:49 AM
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Axiom posted...
_Near_ posted...
time

Even then you still randomly dream about them sometimes at least I do.

Yep. You never get over them.
It's been more than 10 years and I still have really intense dreams every now and then. Always fucks me up.
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bulletproofvita
02/08/18 1:29:08 AM
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Axiom posted...
_Near_ posted...
time

Even then you still randomly dream about them sometimes at least I do. The fact that I'll have dreams about certain EXs is a secret I'll never reveal to the current ones >_>

I hear that. It's a secret from most people I know... Especially new ones...
It's my burden.
Yes I'm drinking a fair bit lol
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bulletproofvita
02/08/18 1:30:41 AM
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DocDelicious posted...
Axiom posted...
_Near_ posted...
time

Even then you still randomly dream about them sometimes at least I do.

Yep. You never get over them.
It's been more than 10 years and I still have really intense dreams every now and then. Always fucks me up.

I'm afraid of this too.
I believe time is not going to help me.
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HBOSS
02/08/18 2:40:59 AM
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you don't forget because it was piece of your heart... those are never forgotten.

you might feel like there's unfinished business left to take care of. the reason is that you not only lost her, you lost a part of who you may be some day with her. that's the part thats killing you. the lost opportunity for being happy in life even if the possibility was there in a moment. like a few things in life we just left ourselves down because of impulse. that lack of judgement has its price and the heart lets us know every chance it gets.

so maybe some self reflection can help you move on.
why tell her now how you feel?
why the other and not her in the beginning?
why now and not then?
be honest with yourself cause nobody else will.
you do this and more to accept and forgive yourself.

go out, move on, meet, date, and live your life. build new meaningful relationships. do it for yourself cause you deserve better than the state youre in now.
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TheGraniteState
02/08/18 2:41:59 AM
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bulletproofvita
02/08/18 3:32:21 AM
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HBOSS posted...
you don't forget because it was piece of your heart... those are never forgotten.

you might feel like there's unfinished business left to take care of. the reason is that you not only lost her, you lost a part of who you may be some day with her. that's the part thats killing you. the lost opportunity for being happy in life even if the possibility was there in a moment. like a few things in life we just left ourselves down because of impulse. that lack of judgement has its price and the heart lets us know every chance it gets.

so maybe some self reflection can help you move on.
why tell her now how you feel?
why the other and not her in the beginning?
why now and not then?
be honest with yourself cause nobody else will.
you do this and more to accept and forgive yourself.

go out, move on, meet, date, and live your life. build new meaningful relationships. do it for yourself cause you deserve better than the state youre in now.

Thank you.
Such a thoughtful response.
You understood the love I feel.
It's never ending but not returned..
Self reflection is great and all but it doesn't get me anywhere
....i know I stuffed up.
You can't reheal a broken heart.
I want to be inlove again somehow ....
I need to forgive myself somehow.
I'm glad you understand.... I don't feel so alone
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bulletproofvita
02/08/18 3:32:54 AM
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TheGraniteState posted...
Love someone else.

Hmm
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nevershine
02/08/18 3:34:19 AM
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I'm going through the same thing tbqh
Best advice I can give is to get out into the world (even if you don't really want to), and try to reinvent yourself.
Make this an opportunity for positive change in your life.
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QueenCarly
02/08/18 3:35:04 AM
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Johnny_Nutcase
02/08/18 3:37:09 AM
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QueenCarly posted...
Traumatic brain injury


Ahhhhh this is funny right here. 10/10 in a depression topic.
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bulletproofvita
02/08/18 3:38:04 AM
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Johnny_Nutcase posted...
QueenCarly posted...
Traumatic brain injury


Ahhhhh this is funny right here. 10/10 in a depression topic.

It's not depression it's lost love.
You know when it's love....
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bulletproofvita
02/08/18 3:38:30 AM
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nevershine posted...
I'm going through the same thing tbqh
Best advice I can give is to get out into the world (even if you don't really want to), and try to reinvent yourself.
Make this an opportunity for positive change in your life.

Trying
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