Current Events > When a guy who hasn't spoken to you in months think he can just waltz in.

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He texted me just now (after like four months without a word) What you doing?.

Dude, just no. I got a date tomorrow and another on Friday next week. Shove your What you doing? up where you want my D

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well? What were you doing?
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I've fallen for that line far too often :(
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maybe he just wanted to see what you were doing? Probably not attracted to you at all
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SSJGrimReaper posted...

well? What were you doing?

I was listening to Kingdom Hearts music on my bed after a long week at work >_>

Funkydog posted...

I've fallen for that line far too often :(

It is easy to fall but we gotta stay strong girl!
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SSJGrimReaper posted...

well? What were you doing?

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BalanceLost posted...

It is easy to fall but we gotta stay strong girl!

I'm much better now and tell the bitches what to do with them wanting to get laid. Unless I do as well, in which case....!

But mostly I do now tell them to jog on.
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i made a topic about this subject last week about how women have rejected me badly and months later they reappear and think im still attracted to them and got insulted and laughed at. they said about how women can make their choices and how im supposed to respect that and i have no right to be upset.

classic anti-male feminism at work.
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BalanceLost posted...

I was listening to Kingdom Hearts music on my bed after a long week at work >_>

When you walk away
You don't hear me say
What you doing
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SSJGrimReaper posted...

BalanceLost posted...

I was listening to Kingdom Hearts music on my bed after a long week at work >_>

When you walk away
You don't hear me say
What you doing

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What is the appropriate behavior then? An acknowledgement of the silence, and then an invitation to catch up? (ie, "How've you been? Whatcha doing?" vs "Whatcha doing?")

It seems like you're upset that he's been quiet, but then when he's not quiet you're still upset. Make up your mind, woman.
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solosnake posted...

maybe he just wanted to see what you were doing? Probably not attracted to you at all

When a gay guy suddenly contacts you after a long period of silence its because he wants something.

Funkydog posted...

I'm much better now and tell the bitches what to do with them wanting to get laid. Unless I do as well, in which case....!

But mostly I do now tell them to jog on.

Nothing wrong with embracing something you truly want, but good that you tell them off when appropriate.

Awesome posted...

i made a topic about this subject last week about how women have rejected me badly and months later they reappear and think im still attracted to them and got insulted and laughed at. they said about how women can make their choices and how im supposed to respect that and i have no right to be upset.

classic anti-male feminism at work.

Well that is silly. Youre entitled to your opinions on the matter.

Muffinz0rz posted...

SSJGrimReaper posted...When you walk away
You don't hear me say
What you doing

jeffhardyb0yz posted...

We need a story first. There's different contexts as to why people don't talk to each other for a while. You two could have broken up. He could have ghosted you. He might have moved etc

He pretty much ghosted me when we had a fling.

philsov posted...

What is the appropriate behavior then? An acknowledgement of the silence, and then an invitation to catch up? (ie, "How've you been? Whatcha doing?" vs "Whatcha doing?")

It seems like you're upset that he's been quiet, but then when he's not quiet you're still upset. Make up your mind.

That would have been a lot more appropriate considering the actual context.

And I had actually forgotten he exists so his text dragged up stuff I would prefer to have kept forgotten <_<
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