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goofdude 04/23/18 3:01:43 AM #1:	ok back story... I'm in a relationship with a married women- one of my exes from 15 years ago and we found each other again. save the judgement please. Her husband cheated on her so she was petty and cheated on him. not with me though. she supposedly stopped messing with this other guy when we got back into contact. after a few months of us talking, its obvious we have feelings for each other. we're at the point now that she calls herself my girlfriend. she works two jobs. well lately, it seems like she is still fucking with or is fucking with dude again. All of a sudden, her 3rd shift work schedule changed. working later on some nights that she had short shifts. found out the other day that dude borrows her car while she is at both jobs (I knew about when she was at her day job). Tonight I asked for a pic before i went to sleep. She said "nope. I'm not playing that" after asking what she meant, she said the prove it game. apparently her husband asks for pics to get her to prove where shes at. I had absolutely no reason to doubt that she's at work... Until she said that. Now, we've talked about my worry that something was going on over the past few days, and shes done nothing but reassure me that i had nothing to worry about. Her saying that tonight has me worried though there is no way i can check it out because her car will be at his house either way. and she works in a subway inside a factory so i cant go to her work. my first instinct is to believe her when she tells me things, especially since i know my anxiety amplifies my negative thought, but she has me doubting that now. What should i do CE? <cite>goofdude posted [p:900141166] in Night CE, ... [t:76543378]...</cite> <quote>ok back story... I'm in a relationship with a married women- one of my exes from 15 years ago and we found each other again. save the judgement please. Her husband cheated on her so she was petty and cheated on him. not with me though. she supposedly stopped messing with this other guy when we got back into contact. after a few months of us talking, its obvious we have feelings for each other. we're at the point now that she calls herself my girlfriend. she works two jobs. well lately, it seems like she is still fucking with or is fucking with dude again. All of a sudden, her 3rd shift work schedule changed. working later on some nights that she had short shifts. found out the other day that dude borrows her car while she is at both jobs (I knew about when she was at her day job). Tonight I asked for a pic before i went to sleep. She said "nope. I'm not playing that" after asking what she meant, she said the prove it game. apparently her husband asks for pics to get her to prove where shes at. I had absolutely no reason to doubt that she's at work... Until she said that. Now, we've talked about my worry that something was going on over the past few days, and shes done nothing but reassure me that i had nothing to worry about. Her saying that tonight has me worried though there is no way i can check it out because her car will be at his house either way. and she works in a subway inside a factory so i cant go to her work. my first instinct is to believe her when she tells me things, especially since i know my anxiety amplifies my negative thought, but she has me doubting that now. What should i do CE?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
powerman1426 04/23/18 3:04:50 AM #2:	Get the fuck out of there, cut all contact, move on asap --- Troll free https://www.gamefaqs.com/boards/1439-the-help-desk https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/boards/1309-tradesmen-and-diyers http://i.imgtc.com/6wdOONn9kF.gif <cite>powerman1426 posted [p:900141235] in Night CE, ... [t:76543378]...</cite> <quote>Get the fuck out of there, cut all contact, move on asap</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Funbazooka 04/23/18 3:05:42 AM #3:	She sounds worthless. --- I'll defend any man's Funbazooka! <cite>Funbazooka posted [p:900141260] in Night CE, ... [t:76543378]...</cite> <quote>She sounds worthless.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
goofdude 04/23/18 3:08:14 AM #4:	but what if i'm wrong and i fuck up what i know would be a great thing? <cite>goofdude posted [p:900141313] in Night CE, ... [t:76543378]...</cite> <quote>but what if i'm wrong and i fuck up what i know would be a great thing?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Jeff AKA Snoopy 04/23/18 3:08:38 AM #5:	powerman1426 posted... Get the fuck out of there, cut all contact, move on asap --- https://i.imgur.com/3PWjCdY.gifv https://i.imgur.com/GWG5c3r.gif <cite>Jeff AKA Snoopy posted [p:900141324] in Night CE, ... [t:76543378]...</cite> <quote><cite>powerman1426 posted...</cite> <quote>Get the fuck out of there, cut all contact, move on asap</quote></quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
powerman1426 04/23/18 3:08:49 AM #6:	goofdude posted... but what if i'm wrong and i fuck up what i know would be a great thing? Read what you wrote. It's not a good thing at all, move on --- Troll free https://www.gamefaqs.com/boards/1439-the-help-desk https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/boards/1309-tradesmen-and-diyers http://i.imgtc.com/6wdOONn9kF.gif <cite>powerman1426 posted [p:900141326] in Night CE, ... [t:76543378]...</cite> <quote><cite>goofdude posted...</cite> <quote>but what if i'm wrong and i fuck up what i know would be a great thing?</quote> Read what you wrote. It's not a good thing at all, move on</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Old NoiseTank 04/23/18 3:11:06 AM #7:	not looking great, goofdude. --- Grim Reaper: "Your time has come" Xsquader: "sir whats your badge number?" <cite>Old NoiseTank posted [p:900141373] in Night CE, ... [t:76543378]...</cite> <quote>not looking great, goofdude.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Funbazooka 04/23/18 3:11:29 AM #8:	Get some std testing btw --- I'll defend any man's Funbazooka! <cite>Funbazooka posted [p:900141381] in Night CE, ... [t:76543378]...</cite> <quote>Get some std testing btw</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
goofdude 04/23/18 3:14:05 AM #9:	Did i mention that we have a fairly good history together? Funbazooka posted... Get some std testing btw I'm clean <cite>goofdude posted [p:900141440] in Night CE, ... [t:76543378]...</cite> <quote>Did i mention that we have a fairly good history together? <cite>Funbazooka posted...</cite> <quote>Get some std testing btw</quote> I'm clean</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
powerman1426 04/23/18 3:16:39 AM #10:	goofdude posted... had absolutely no reason to doubt that she's at work... Until she said that goofdude posted... she has me doubting You'll never be able to trust her. You run the risk of some other guy looking to harm you over her cheating on him. She is petty and revenge cheats, yet is still married. What exactly is wrong with you that this seems like a good idea? --- Troll free https://www.gamefaqs.com/boards/1439-the-help-desk https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/boards/1309-tradesmen-and-diyers http://i.imgtc.com/6wdOONn9kF.gif <cite>powerman1426 posted [p:900141481] in Night CE, ... [t:76543378]...</cite> <quote><cite>goofdude posted...</cite> <quote>had absolutely no reason to doubt that she's at work... Until she said that</quote> <cite>goofdude posted...</cite> <quote>she has me doubting</quote> You'll never be able to trust her. You run the risk of some other guy looking to harm you over her cheating on him. She is petty and revenge cheats, yet is still married. What exactly is wrong with you that this seems like a good idea?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
goofdude 04/23/18 3:22:45 AM #11:	powerman1426 posted... You'll never be able to trust her. You run the risk of some other guy looking to harm you over her cheating on him. She is petty and revenge cheats, yet is still married. What exactly is wrong with you that this seems like a good idea? Depression and high anxiety, possible bi polar but being close to her and having her in my arms is better than any drug ive ever had. <cite>goofdude posted [p:900141624] in Night CE, ... [t:76543378]...</cite> <quote><cite>powerman1426 posted...</cite> <quote>You'll never be able to trust her. You run the risk of some other guy looking to harm you over her cheating on him. She is petty and revenge cheats, yet is still married. What exactly is wrong with you that this seems like a good idea?</quote> Depression and high anxiety, possible bi polar but being close to her and having her in my arms is better than any drug ive ever had.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Parappa09 04/23/18 3:26:52 AM #12:	you play with fire, youre gonna get burned once a cheater, always a cheater (although not as black and white as the saying makes it to be) you should have seen the warning signs when she was already cheating with her husband. what made you think itd be different with you? --- http://i.imgur.com/us5qLQb.jpg http://beta.last.fm/user/Jay92Jay <cite>Parappa09 posted [p:900141695] in Night CE, ... [t:76543378]...</cite> <quote>you play with fire, youre gonna get burned once a cheater, always a cheater (although not as black and white as the saying makes it to be) you should have seen the warning signs when she was already cheating with her husband. what made you think itd be different with you?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Patchwork 04/23/18 3:33:06 AM #13:	She doesn't seem trustworthy at all. --- The mind is its own place, and in itself Can make a heav'n of hell, a hell of heav'n. <cite>Patchwork posted [p:900141818] in Night CE, ... [t:76543378]...</cite> <quote>She doesn't seem trustworthy at all.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
goofdude 04/23/18 3:35:42 AM #14:	I'm not even positive she is messing around on me. and as you said, not as black and white as the saying. she's only with her husband at this point for her kids sake. and her husband now is the guy she had just broke up with when we first met. our first relationship ended because we were young and got overwhelmed after moving out on our own. no cheating or anything. she went home to mom, i left the state for a decade and when i came back is when we starting talking again. <cite>goofdude posted [p:900141870] in Night CE, ... [t:76543378]...</cite> <quote>I'm not even positive she is messing around on me. and as you said, not as black and white as the saying. she's only with her husband at this point for her kids sake. and her husband now is the guy she had just broke up with when we first met. our first relationship ended because we were young and got overwhelmed after moving out on our own. no cheating or anything. she went home to mom, i left the state for a decade and when i came back is when we starting talking again.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
powerman1426 04/23/18 3:38:07 AM #15:	goofdude posted... powerman1426 posted... You'll never be able to trust her. You run the risk of some other guy looking to harm you over her cheating on him. She is petty and revenge cheats, yet is still married. What exactly is wrong with you that this seems like a good idea? Depression and high anxiety, possible bi polar but being close to her and having her in my arms is better than any drug ive ever had. Ah, my best advice is still get away from her. I doubt the additional issues she will cause will help your situation. Don't latch on to every girl, there are others. Find a different one without all the baggage and like I said, Move On. Seriously, this is not a road worth traveling Edit: goofdude posted... she's only with her husband at this point for her kids sake No dude, no. He'll be in the middle of your life as well. Wtf, seriously --- Troll free https://www.gamefaqs.com/boards/1439-the-help-desk https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/boards/1309-tradesmen-and-diyers http://i.imgtc.com/6wdOONn9kF.gif <cite>powerman1426 posted [p:900141911] in Night CE, ... [t:76543378]...</cite> <quote><cite>goofdude posted...</cite> <quote><cite>powerman1426 posted...</cite> <quote>You'll never be able to trust her. You run the risk of some other guy looking to harm you over her cheating on him. She is petty and revenge cheats, yet is still married. What exactly is wrong with you that this seems like a good idea?</quote> Depression and high anxiety, possible bi polar but being close to her and having her in my arms is better than any drug ive ever had.</quote> Ah, my best advice is still get away from her. I doubt the additional issues she will cause will help your situation. Don't latch on to every girl, there are others. Find a different one without all the baggage and like I said, Move On. Seriously, this is not a road worth traveling Edit: <cite>goofdude posted...</cite> <quote>she's only with her husband at this point for her kids sake</quote> No dude, no. He'll be in the middle of your life as well. Wtf, seriously</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
im not 13 04/23/18 3:38:18 AM #16:	goofdude posted... I'm in a relationship with a married women That's all I needed to read --- http://media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m510t9eNw71r2yd8o.jpg <cite>im not 13 posted [p:900141915] in Night CE, ... [t:76543378]...</cite> <quote><cite>goofdude posted...</cite> <quote>I'm in a relationship with a married women</quote> That's all I needed to read</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
goofdude 04/23/18 3:40:44 AM #17:	im not 13 posted... goofdude posted... I'm in a relationship with a married women That's all I needed to read I realize that thats an easily judged statement without knowing the situation. <cite>goofdude posted [p:900141966] in Night CE, ... [t:76543378]...</cite> <quote><cite>im not 13 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>goofdude posted...</cite> <quote>I'm in a relationship with a married women</quote> That's all I needed to read</quote> I realize that thats an easily judged statement without knowing the situation.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
im not 13 04/23/18 4:04:44 AM #18:	She's unstable. She's juggling 3 men and you are expecting her to change for you? Let it go man goofdude posted... she's only with her husband at this point for her kids sake Dude seriously...c'mon You are getting played hardcore. If she cared as much as she said she would divorce and not give a reason for you to worry about her being unfaithful. She's a confused woman and you will only get hurt in the process. Sorry. --- http://media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m510t9eNw71r2yd8o.jpg <cite>im not 13 posted [p:900142426] in Night CE, ... [t:76543378]...</cite> <quote>She's unstable. She's juggling 3 men and you are expecting her to change for you? Let it go man <cite>goofdude posted...</cite> <quote>she's only with her husband at this point for her kids sake</quote> Dude seriously...c'mon You are getting played hardcore. If she cared as much as she said she would divorce and not give a reason for you to worry about her being unfaithful. She's a confused woman and you will only get hurt in the process. Sorry.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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