Current Events > How do you know your partner isn't cheating?

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This girl I know on Instagram constantly posted pics with her husband or saying how much she loves her husband, for years. Now she wrote on her page that he was sleeping with this girl while she was in the hospital, and that now she's single. They were apparently together for 3 years.

So it seems that now matter how deep your love for someone seems, they can easily cheat on you. Those of you in relationships, how do you know your partner isn't cheating?
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You don't, you cheat on her before she can cheat on you. Order is restored.
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That's not how I expected that post to go
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its a gamble, you force yourself to die alone or risk getting your heart broken to find love and happiness.
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I guess you can never be 100%, but you just know. There are signs
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You can never be 100% sure, but I have the utmost trust in my wife and she has the same trust in me.

At one point she even told me that if I didn't want her hanging out with a particular guy friend (that I KNOW is into her) that she would stop. Though honestly I am not concerned about him. She isn't even comfortable hanging out with him unless she is with a group of friends in the first place because he lays it on thick.

If I DID see signs of such behavior I wouldn't ignore them however.
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Dustin1280 posted...

You can never be 100% sure, but I have the utmost trust in my wife and she has the same trust in me.

At one point she even told me that if I didn't want her hanging out with a particular guy friend (that I KNOW is into her) that she would stop. Though honestly I am not concerned about him. She isn't even comfortable hanging out with him unless she is with a group of friends in the first place because he lays it on thick.

If I DID see signs of such behavior I wouldn't ignore them however.

But they do text and such...that still isn't worrisome?

Like this girl was into me at one point but then she mentioned that she sleeps around a lot, so I couldn't imagine her being too faithful.
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@Cpt_Pineapple
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You just gotta have faith
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You have to have trust with your partner. If there is a lingering doubt in your mind at all times, the relationship is not going to last. You have to find a woman that you feel you can trust all the time.
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i have a gps tracker on my girls car and she has strict instructions to text me every 10 minutes otherwise i assume shes cheating and burn all her shit in the middle of the street
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you dont know

you maintain awareness of their changing needs, meet them as best you can, grow together, and never lose your self identity or base your happiness solely on the other person
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lock them in your basement with your amiibo collection
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You don't know. Personally I dont cheat like date other girls and have affairs, but I do see a few escorts a year. The thing about escorts is you setup the appointment through a few texts and delete the text chain immediately.

I go at my lunch break at work. Or use an hour personal time and leave work early. It's literally impossible for my wife to find out.

I have always seen escorts relatively regularly, its expensive but I find it just really satisfying and adventurous and its not something ill ever give up. I use protection, i never kiss, its completely safe, no emotions involved just great to bang a hot chick you just met and leave and never see her again. I don't feel bad about it at all *shrugs*.

Anyway if its done with professionals literally impossible to find out. If its done with friends acquaintances and mistresses then its a ticking time bomb.
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Do they have functioning genitals? They're capable of cheating. The truth is there's no way to know for sure. At best you could have maybe 99% certainty.
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Vol2tex posted...

This girl I know on Instagram constantly posted pics with her husband or saying how much she loves her husband, for years.

People put up a front on social media
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You never truly 100% know

just have to do the honor system on this
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