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Vol2tex
06/14/18 6:58:05 PM
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This model I worked with seemed like she was trying to get me to come over for sex:

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Based upon that, and she also in this same conversation suddenly kept sending me sexual nude pics and linking to her Twitter with more sexual images, as well as her page with videos of her fingering herself and using sexual toys.
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MawiIe-Mega
06/14/18 6:58:55 PM
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pics
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ReelBigMurlocs
06/14/18 6:59:09 PM
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"I need sex"
"You mean like holding hands?"
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Omega Hunter
06/14/18 7:00:03 PM
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Many times. I will only cheat on my gf if the chick is hotter very few chicks are hotter then my gf.
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winged_weltall
06/14/18 7:03:55 PM
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I was being sexually harassed by a female co-worker on a regular basis for about 2 months. I didn't have sex with her, so yes, I've turned sex down many times.
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southcoast09
06/14/18 7:05:02 PM
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Yes. I can think of one instance which involved a girl who had just broken up with a friend. I still kick myself over that one. Ive also rejected drunk girls because I dont drink and dont want some horrible label
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Darkrobotisback
06/14/18 7:06:49 PM
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She sounds like one of those "bots" that link you to webcam "shows", and force you to make an account so they can steal your $$$
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Vol2tex
06/14/18 7:10:25 PM
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Darkrobotisback posted...
She sounds like one of those "bots" that link you to webcam "shows", and force you to make an account so they can steal your $$$


It was very weird, because she acted nothing like this the first time we interacted.
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Vol2tex
06/15/18 12:19:03 PM
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Flockaveli
06/15/18 12:21:31 PM
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Yeah lots of times. Not really my thing if were not dating or on the verge of it.
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MacadamianNut3
06/15/18 12:22:10 PM
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Yeah a few times

Drunk college girls are a hard pass for obvious reasons, then a few girls I weren't physically attracted to, and one because I was in a pretty dark place for a few months and that was the last thing on my mind
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catboy0_0
06/15/18 12:22:58 PM
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maybe
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BruceWayneJr
06/15/18 12:24:20 PM
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Yeah, my ex got sloppy drunk and was throwing herself at me. It wasn't very attractive and I think I was more disappointed that she didn't have any alcohol for me.
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Solar_Crimson
06/15/18 12:24:33 PM
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Yes, but to be fair, she was a prostitute making an unsolicited advance.
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Lost_All_Senses
06/15/18 12:29:44 PM
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When I was a teen I turned down numerous sex offers. Before sex it was because I was shy & nervous. After it was simply cause the chicks personality turned me off. I always had the problem of not being able to have sex with someone I had no respect for >_>. I just am not a very sexual person. I get urges but on a daily basis I don't sexualize many women. Im one of those corny "would rather explore your mind than/then your body" type dudes.
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HypnoCoosh
06/15/18 12:32:08 PM
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A few times partying and not being prepared.

I didn't go into battle without my armor.
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KogaSteelfang
06/15/18 12:57:07 PM
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I've never been presented with an opportunity to have it, so no.
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catboy0_0
06/15/18 1:04:22 PM
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KogaSteelfang posted...
I've never been presented with an opportunity to have it, so no.

it still stings
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SpinKirby
06/15/18 1:05:44 PM
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KogaSteelfang posted...
I've never been presented with an opportunity to have it, so no.


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Unknown5uspect
06/15/18 1:07:49 PM
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Short answer: yes
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fire_bolt
06/15/18 1:10:26 PM
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A few times for a number of reasons. I'm picky about my partners
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Lost_All_Senses
06/15/18 1:14:03 PM
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fire_bolt posted...
A few times for a number of reasons. I'm picky about my partners


It's good to be picky but Id be lying if I said I wouldn't be less picky if I could do it all over again.
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vocedelmorte
06/15/18 1:14:21 PM
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I did and last time it was my former boss, who was an older lady >.>
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Lost_All_Senses
06/15/18 1:15:26 PM
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vocedelmorte posted...
I did and last time it was my former boss, who was an older lady >.>


Storytime
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vocedelmorte
06/15/18 1:17:34 PM
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Lost_All_Senses posted...
vocedelmorte posted...
I did and last time it was my former boss, who was an older lady >.>


Storytime

Oh its nothing special, we just kinda became friends, going to her building gym together etc. Thrn eventually she would proceed flirting, making jokes and so on. But i know she was interested in younger guys cause then later another guy from my work actually haf sex with her lol i guess he was more desperate.
Anyway, i don't work there anymore, but thats the story
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Lost_All_Senses
06/15/18 1:18:12 PM
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vocedelmorte posted...
Lost_All_Senses posted...
vocedelmorte posted...
I did and last time it was my former boss, who was an older lady >.>


Storytime

Oh its nothing special, we just kinda became friends, going to her building gym together etc. Thrn eventually she would process flirting, making jokes and so on. But i know she was interested in younger guys cause then later another guy from my work actually haf sex with her lol i guess he was more desperate.
Anyway, i don't work there anymore, but thats the story


Why do you say desperate? What was wrong with her?
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Jiggy101011
06/15/18 1:24:14 PM
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Yes but mainly because they were drunk advances from friends and I didnt want to go down that rabbit hole.
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WhatHappened
06/15/18 1:25:51 PM
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catboy0_0
06/15/18 1:26:59 PM
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I feel like the girl I was with was sending signals, but I just wasn't up to it several times. I dunno what's wrong with me.
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vocedelmorte
06/15/18 1:30:33 PM
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Lost_All_Senses posted...
vocedelmorte posted...
Lost_All_Senses posted...
vocedelmorte posted...
I did and last time it was my former boss, who was an older lady >.>


Storytime

Oh its nothing special, we just kinda became friends, going to her building gym together etc. Thrn eventually she would process flirting, making jokes and so on. But i know she was interested in younger guys cause then later another guy from my work actually haf sex with her lol i guess he was more desperate.
Anyway, i don't work there anymore, but thats the story


Why do you say desperate? What was wrong with her?

Well, aside the fact that she was in her 40s while i was like in my early 20s while working there, nothing much else lmao
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Lost_All_Senses
06/15/18 1:32:21 PM
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vocedelmorte posted...
Lost_All_Senses posted...
vocedelmorte posted...
Lost_All_Senses posted...
vocedelmorte posted...
I did and last time it was my former boss, who was an older lady >.>


Storytime

Oh its nothing special, we just kinda became friends, going to her building gym together etc. Thrn eventually she would process flirting, making jokes and so on. But i know she was interested in younger guys cause then later another guy from my work actually haf sex with her lol i guess he was more desperate.
Anyway, i don't work there anymore, but thats the story


Why do you say desperate? What was wrong with her?

Well, aside the fact that she was in her 40s while i was like in my early 20s while working there, nothing much else lmao


So maybe he was just more adventurous than you and it wasn't because he was desperate >_>.
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Esrac
06/15/18 1:32:55 PM
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Yes. A few times.

Once when a girl I knew in high school had recontacted me a couple years after. She was trying to get me to go out with her and her friends to a bar for her birthday. At first she was subtle, but when I kept declining, she did admit it was because she wanted to have sex with me that night. I still declined because I had a girlfriend.

Then a second time, a female friend who I had joined for a threesome once with her boyfriend and I were talking. At some point she suggested I come over while her boyfriend was off at work. Said we could watch some porn together. Sex was pretty heavily implied. I remember being on my way there, when I decided against it because I still had a girlfriend and she had her boyfriend. Seemed like it would be a mess waiting to happen. She didn't talk to me much after that.

And a third time after that girlfriend I had and I broke up. She was dating a new guy and she was over at my place with a mutual friend of ours. She got really drunk and started coming onto me really hard. I put her to bed and sent that mutual friend home. I didn't sleep with her because she was way too drunk and I didn't think she would be too pleased with having cheated on her boyfriend when she sobered up. She did end up cheating on that new boyfriend of hers with the mutual friend I had sent home at a later date, so maybe it was a foregone conclusion.
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MrPeppers
06/15/18 1:33:06 PM
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Yes. Its like being in a relationship puts a target on your back sometimes.
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bobtuse
06/15/18 1:33:09 PM
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Yes. I had this terrible experience with this girl from OKCupid. Once I realized she was crazy, I started trying to implement an exit strategy. She didn't take kindly to this and started doing all kinds of insane shit including demanding that I bang her.
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Lost_All_Senses
06/15/18 1:34:52 PM
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Esrac posted...
Yes. A few times.

Once when a girl I knew in high school had recontacted me a couple years after. She was trying to get me to go out with her and her friends to a bar for her birthday. At first she was subtle, but when I kept declining, she did admit it was because she wanted to have sex with me that night. I still declined because I had a girlfriend.

Then a second time, a female friend who I had joined for a threesome once with her boyfriend and I were talking. At some point she suggested I come over while her boyfriend was off at work. Said we could watch some porn together. Sex was pretty heavily implied. I remember being on my way there, when I decided against it because I still had a girlfriend and she had her boyfriend. Seemed like it would be a mess waiting to happen. She didn't talk to me much after that.

And a third time after that girlfriend I had and I broke up. She was dating a new guy and she was over at my place with a mutual friend of ours. She got really drunk and started coming onto me really hard. I put her to bed and sent that mutual friend home. I didn't sleep with her because she was way too drunk and I didn't think she would be too pleased with having cheated on her boyfriend when she sobered up. She did end up cheating on that new boyfriend of hers with the mutual friend I had sent home at a later date, so maybe it was a foregone conclusion.


I women invites you over to watch porn and you think it's about sex? Talk about reaching.


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SpinKirby
06/15/18 1:38:36 PM
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Lost_All_Senses posted...
vocedelmorte posted...
Lost_All_Senses posted...
vocedelmorte posted...
Lost_All_Senses posted...
vocedelmorte posted...
I did and last time it was my former boss, who was an older lady >.>


Storytime

Oh its nothing special, we just kinda became friends, going to her building gym together etc. Thrn eventually she would process flirting, making jokes and so on. But i know she was interested in younger guys cause then later another guy from my work actually haf sex with her lol i guess he was more desperate.
Anyway, i don't work there anymore, but thats the story


Why do you say desperate? What was wrong with her?

Well, aside the fact that she was in her 40s while i was like in my early 20s while working there, nothing much else lmao


So maybe he was just more adventurous than you and it wasn't because he was desperate >_>.


Stop projecting so hard.
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Lost_All_Senses
06/15/18 1:42:24 PM
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SpinKirby posted...
Lost_All_Senses posted...
vocedelmorte posted...
Lost_All_Senses posted...
vocedelmorte posted...
Lost_All_Senses posted...
vocedelmorte posted...
I did and last time it was my former boss, who was an older lady >.>


Storytime

Oh its nothing special, we just kinda became friends, going to her building gym together etc. Thrn eventually she would process flirting, making jokes and so on. But i know she was interested in younger guys cause then later another guy from my work actually haf sex with her lol i guess he was more desperate.
Anyway, i don't work there anymore, but thats the story


Why do you say desperate? What was wrong with her?

Well, aside the fact that she was in her 40s while i was like in my early 20s while working there, nothing much else lmao


So maybe he was just more adventurous than you and it wasn't because he was desperate >_>.


Stop projecting so hard.


I don't get it. I just like arguing the side that's not around to debate
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Esrac
06/15/18 4:06:32 PM
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Lost_All_Senses posted...
Esrac posted...
Yes. A few times.

Once when a girl I knew in high school had recontacted me a couple years after. She was trying to get me to go out with her and her friends to a bar for her birthday. At first she was subtle, but when I kept declining, she did admit it was because she wanted to have sex with me that night. I still declined because I had a girlfriend.

Then a second time, a female friend who I had joined for a threesome once with her boyfriend and I were talking. At some point she suggested I come over while her boyfriend was off at work. Said we could watch some porn together. Sex was pretty heavily implied. I remember being on my way there, when I decided against it because I still had a girlfriend and she had her boyfriend. Seemed like it would be a mess waiting to happen. She didn't talk to me much after that.

And a third time after that girlfriend I had and I broke up. She was dating a new guy and she was over at my place with a mutual friend of ours. She got really drunk and started coming onto me really hard. I put her to bed and sent that mutual friend home. I didn't sleep with her because she was way too drunk and I didn't think she would be too pleased with having cheated on her boyfriend when she sobered up. She did end up cheating on that new boyfriend of hers with the mutual friend I had sent home at a later date, so maybe it was a foregone conclusion.


I women invites you over to watch porn and you think it's about sex? Talk about reaching.



I mean, when it's a woman who has had my cock in her mouth before, it isn't a far flung conclusion.
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Vol2tex
06/16/18 8:53:47 PM
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gguirao
06/18/18 5:56:35 PM
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No one's ever offered me sex.
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Kitt
06/18/18 6:01:58 PM
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Outside of not feeling like it with your s/o, yeah. I had a friend who was into me. The feelings weren't mutual.
And I turned down people who was attracted to me a bunch of other times too, but that was the only time someone I wasn't dating outright asked me if I wanted to fuck.
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Zodd3224
06/18/18 6:15:37 PM
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Yes, a couple of instances were agonizing.
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CyricZ
06/18/18 6:26:24 PM
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Three times.

First, in high school, with someone I really wasn't attracted to coming onto me at a school dance.

Second, in college. I was in a long-distance relationship, went to my cousin's wedding, and one of their spouse's cousins hit on me something serious.

Third, about seven years ago, when a friend of a friend had just got a messy divorce a week before and propositioned me because she didn't want to be alone.
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Vol2tex
06/20/18 12:49:56 AM
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gguirao posted...
No one's ever offered me sex.


Oh.
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booboy
06/21/18 1:36:25 PM
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Yes, a few times. I turned them down for a couple of reasons (friends of girlfriend, another was pregnant/single/homeless/about to give birth), etc...
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_BlueMonk
06/21/18 1:39:11 PM
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when i was in korea, a prostitute tried offering me her uh, company.
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Lost_All_Senses
06/21/18 1:39:41 PM
#47:


Esrac posted...
Lost_All_Senses posted...
Esrac posted...
Yes. A few times.

Once when a girl I knew in high school had recontacted me a couple years after. She was trying to get me to go out with her and her friends to a bar for her birthday. At first she was subtle, but when I kept declining, she did admit it was because she wanted to have sex with me that night. I still declined because I had a girlfriend.

Then a second time, a female friend who I had joined for a threesome once with her boyfriend and I were talking. At some point she suggested I come over while her boyfriend was off at work. Said we could watch some porn together. Sex was pretty heavily implied. I remember being on my way there, when I decided against it because I still had a girlfriend and she had her boyfriend. Seemed like it would be a mess waiting to happen. She didn't talk to me much after that.

And a third time after that girlfriend I had and I broke up. She was dating a new guy and she was over at my place with a mutual friend of ours. She got really drunk and started coming onto me really hard. I put her to bed and sent that mutual friend home. I didn't sleep with her because she was way too drunk and I didn't think she would be too pleased with having cheated on her boyfriend when she sobered up. She did end up cheating on that new boyfriend of hers with the mutual friend I had sent home at a later date, so maybe it was a foregone conclusion.


I women invites you over to watch porn and you think it's about sex? Talk about reaching.



I mean, when it's a woman who has had my cock in her mouth before, it isn't a far flung conclusion.


I was being sarcastic lol. A chick would have to be playing some fucked up head games to not be implying sex in that situation.
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teepan95
06/21/18 1:41:44 PM
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gguirao posted...
No one's ever offered me sex.

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boxington
06/21/18 1:44:37 PM
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a few times.

with the exception of one or two, it was by girls who wanted to be in a relationship, and I didn't want that.
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Blue_Dream87
06/21/18 1:46:03 PM
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Couple times, once with my ex on our first date (we were pretty messed up and I was worried about taking advantage of her)
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