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Asherlee10 posted...

LittleRoyal posted...

Asherlee10 posted...

LittleRoyal posted...

I just never noticed and never could have expected it.
Seems the guys didnt change and are still incredibly insensitive about those issues

Why would you say something like this when it is 'the guys' that were getting harassed and misled?

I didnt mean the guys in this situation, but overall guys on CE.

For example one of the first posts is someone saying its a long story but a good one about this stuff.

What are you even talking about?

He's just sexist as fuck. Or a rape apologist. Just leave it.

The main old lady I know on this site is on the Pokmon boards, fouverela or however you spell it. She's cool, helped me get like half my pokemon in X.
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The evidence are personal items she has shared with us by accident. When you keep a lie up for as long as she did, you start making mistakes. The info can't be shared because you can find her address, phone number and family members very easily.
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Pawn that isnt funny it all, no Im not. Maybe read through the topic if you guys are confused but I would never say crimes like that are okay in any way
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LittleRoyal posted...

Pawn that isnt funny it all, no Im not. Maybe read through the topic if you guys are confused but I would never say crimes like that are okay in any way

I wasn't trying to be funny at all.
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In fact Ive several times talked about how awful it is in society when you can literally be catcalled or groped and nothing is done about it, and when my then-bf tried to rape me and I talked about it here, guys here said I was a bad person for not telling him I didnt want to date anymore and that it was my fault for going out with someone I didnt want to have sex with (do you guys seriously expect to have sex in the first date?)

And Ive made topics talking about how wrong that stuff is, in no way do I feel bad for people who commit those crimes or act like its okay when they happen
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Never talked to her directly, at least not that I can recall. Bummer, seemed nice, but people aren't always what they seem.
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TheCyborgNinja posted...

It's a long story. But it's a good one.

Asherlee since you were so confused this is what I was talking about.

Even when it happened right here to people they actually like, because when stuff happened to me they just thought it was funny, they still have fun and talk about it like some joke
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I was next on mipond's list apparently x.x
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The stuff that happened to me I talked about

LittleRoyal posted...

In fact Ive several times talked about how awful it is in society when you can literally be catcalled or groped and nothing is done about it, and when my then-bf tried to rape me and I talked about it here, guys here said I was a bad person for not telling him I didnt want to date anymore and that it was my fault for going out with someone I didnt want to have sex with (do you guys seriously expect to have sex in the first date?)

And Ive made topics talking about how wrong that stuff is, in no way do I feel bad for people who commit those crimes or act like its okay when they happen

CE doesnt care, thinks its funny, thinks I deserve it Etc.

They also say women should be happy when we are catcalled or groped, because they work for attention we should be thankful for unwanted attention. Theyre horrible to us in those ways and dont care.

Then this ends up Happening.

This disgusting sad stuff. And they all just joke around and have fun about t even though it made the people they talk to every day, and they supposedly like, incredibly uncomfortable and probably scared and hurt in the similar ways that most girls are forced to feel

Happens to their friends and they just dont care still.
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MegaTech posted...

The evidence are personal items she has shared with us by accident. When you keep a lie up for as long as she did, you start making mistakes. The info can't be shared because you can find her address, phone number and family members very easily.

I dont want the info!! Im just sad she was with me and talked to me about it and acted like she thought it was so bad how girls constantly get catcalled and groped and she was so oh my side whenna bf tried to assault me and talked to me about it, then it turns out she was doing similar things to other people! It just makes me really sad for the guys and really hurt that shed do that even if she wasnt supposedly my friend, no person should do that sort of thing
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LittleRoyal posted...

The stuff that happened to me I talked about

LittleRoyal posted...

In fact Ive several times talked about how awful it is in society when you can literally be catcalled or groped and nothing is done about it, and when my then-bf tried to rape me and I talked about it here, guys here said I was a bad person for not telling him I didnt want to date anymore and that it was my fault for going out with someone I didnt want to have sex with (do you guys seriously expect to have sex in the first date?)

And Ive made topics talking about how wrong that stuff is, in no way do I feel bad for people who commit those crimes or act like its okay when they happen

CE doesnt care, thinks its funny, thinks I deserve it Etc.

They also say women should be happy when we are catcalled or groped, because they work for attention we should be thankful for unwanted attention. Theyre horrible to us in those ways and dont care.

Then this ends up Happening.

This disgusting sad stuff. And they all just joke around and have fun about t even though it made the people they talk to every day, and they supposedly like, incredibly uncomfortable and probably scared and hurt in the similar ways that most girls are forced to feel

Happens to their friends and they just dont care still.

You understand that's the vocal minority, yeah? You're using blanket statements to describe a forum browsed by a hell of a lot more people than just who posts.
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Shut the fuck up TC. Nobody actually likes you
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LittleRoyal posted...

The stuff that happened to me I talked about

LittleRoyal posted...

In fact Ive several times talked about how awful it is in society when you can literally be catcalled or groped and nothing is done about it, and when my then-bf tried to rape me and I talked about it here, guys here said I was a bad person for not telling him I didnt want to date anymore and that it was my fault for going out with someone I didnt want to have sex with (do you guys seriously expect to have sex in the first date?)

And Ive made topics talking about how wrong that stuff is, in no way do I feel bad for people who commit those crimes or act like its okay when they happen

CE doesnt care, thinks its funny, thinks I deserve it Etc.

They also say women should be happy when we are catcalled or groped, because they work for attention we should be thankful for unwanted attention. Theyre horrible to us in those ways and dont care.

Then this ends up Happening.

This disgusting sad stuff. And they all just joke around and have fun about t even though it made the people they talk to every day, and they supposedly like, incredibly uncomfortable and probably scared and hurt in the similar ways that most girls are forced to feel

Happens to their friends and they just dont care still.

You sure are turning this into a shitshow.
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No I wasnt!!
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Zodd thst isnt even true, I was never dismissive about this sort of thing especially not to the victims not on this board or any others!
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LittleRoyal posted...

No I wasnt!!

LittleRoyal posted...

I just never noticed and never could have expected it.
Seems the guys didnt change and are still incredibly insensitive about those issues

I really dont give a shit what you say. You know damn well what youre doing when you post something like that.
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DezDroppedFreak posted...

LittleRoyal posted...

No I wasnt!!

LittleRoyal posted...

I just never noticed and never could have expected it.
Seems the guys didnt change and are still incredibly insensitive about those issues

I really dont give a shit what you say. You know damn well what youre doing when you post something like that.

I apologized profusely for that phrasing 50 posts back already
I wasnt walking about the victims there
but the guys as overall CE Guys thst Zodd says are only some but idk about that.

Not the ones who were affected. I wouldnt talk like that to people who went through something like this
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But you did.

And you phrased it in that manner. Thats very purposeful. Thats no honest mistake.

No apology really takes that away.

Either learn to articulate your points in a manner they cant be misconstrued or shut the fuck up.

Also look at the first 50 posts. You were dismissive of EVERYTHING about the situation. Then you want to conveniently say that post, which falls in line with the rest, wasnt being dismissive?

Thats bullshit.
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Its not purposeful, Ive aldeady said multiple times it was a mistake to have articulated that way.
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So TC when are you gonna shut the fuck up and go back to POTD

LittleRoyal posted...

Its not purposeful, Ive aldeady said multiple times it was a mistake to have articulated that way.

Also look at the first 50 posts. You were dismissive of EVERYTHING about the situation. Then you want to conveniently say that post, which falls in line with the rest, wasnt being dismissive?

Thats bullshit.

Just because someone was nice to you doesnt mean they werent doing shady shit.
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The first 50 posts were before I understood what the issue was!! I thought, at first, that people were just annoyed that she was older than she said she was
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I didnt know whats she was doing st first and yes what she did was wrong and awful and I want no more associataikn with s person who does thst sort of thing,
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LittleRoyal posted...

Zodd thst isnt even true, I was never dismissive about this sort of thing especially not to the victims not on this board or any others!

You have a warped view of men in general. You seem to think women are all perpetual victims of groping and catcalling, as you put it. When I mentioned my situation you didnt even respond to it. You just kept going on about how awful men are.

This is the last Im saying of this tho, I'm all set with getting into this on another board. I dont really care tbh, you're free to think how you like.
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I wish someone would catcall me...
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LittleRoyal posted...

The first 50 posts were before I understood what the issue was!! I thought, at first, that people were just annoyed that she was older than she said she was

Then maybe you shouldnt comment on situations you know nothing about.
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So uh

What's wrong with being 65?
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Abyssea posted...

I wish someone would catcall me...

*whistles*
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Ive said multiple times that its few men doing it to many women and I never said we are constantly having it done to us I said most women will have it done

Because there are guys who do it when you are walking down a street, which all girls do, Ive been touched by guys while walking to my classes. Which almost all women do.

It isnt that 24/7 it happens that that is COULD happen anywhere and since nobody cares bout it, guys dont get in trouble and the guys who do it continue doing it.

Im not expirienced with your story and situation. I know nothing about that sort of stuff other than people attempting and failing a similar thing to me, but it was very different in execution.

If you cane to me and talked to me about it, I would try to help best I could. But when youre just sharing your story I cant say much about it because I wont pretend I know or get it. I dont get what youre trying to do by posting about that then telling me not to talk about anything more?
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DevsBro posted...

So uh

What's wrong with being 65?

Lying about it.
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DevsBro posted...

So uh

What's wrong with being 65?

That's not really the issue here, maybe read the topic.
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DevsBro posted...

So uh

What's wrong with being 65?

Thats what I thought but then they explained it to me on page 2 and it wasnt about her age
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DezDroppedFreak posted...

LittleRoyal posted...

The first 50 posts were before I understood what the issue was!! I thought, at first, that people were just annoyed that she was older than she said she was

Then maybe you shouldnt comment on situations you know nothing about.

Learning about the situation was why I made the topic so when my first answers talked about her age, it seemed a lot like that was the issue.
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But when youre just sharing your story I cant say much about it because I wont pretend I know or get it.

Yes but youll come on here and shitpost about things you know nothing about

Kind of inconsistent
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LittleRoyal posted...

DezDroppedFreak posted...

LittleRoyal posted...

The first 50 posts were before I understood what the issue was!! I thought, at first, that people were just annoyed that she was older than she said she was

Then maybe you shouldnt comment on situations you know nothing about.

Learning about the situation was why I made the topic so when my first answers talked about her age, it seemed a lot like that was the issue.

Literally one of the first replies was she was cat fishing users.

Fuck outta here with that nonsense
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Asherlee10 posted...

Zodd3224 posted...

You have a warped view of men in general. You seem to think women are all perpetual victims of groping and catcalling, as you put it.

This.

She comes off as very sexist more often than not.

LittleRoyal posted...

Ive said multiple times that its few men doing it to many women and I never said we are constantly having it done to us I said most women will have it done

Because there are guys who do it when you are walking down a street, which all girls do, Ive been touched by guys while walking to my classes. Which almost all women do.

It isnt that 24/7 it happens that that is COULD happen anywhere and since nobody cares bout it, guys dont get in trouble and the guys who do it continue doing it.

I never said its all men or even most men.
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DezDroppedFreak posted...

LittleRoyal posted...

DezDroppedFreak posted...

LittleRoyal posted...

The first 50 posts were before I understood what the issue was!! I thought, at first, that people were just annoyed that she was older than she said she was

Then maybe you shouldnt comment on situations you know nothing about.

Learning about the situation was why I made the topic so when my first answers talked about her age, it seemed a lot like that was the issue.

Literally one of the first replies was she was cat fishing users.

Fuck outta here with that nonsense

Okay? CE uses that for everything they even said I catfishes people and Id never do online dating. Thats didnt mean anything to me until they said her age. Thats when I understood something so thats what I talked about then they explained the situation and I changed my tone.
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LittleRoyal posted...

Ive said multiple times that its few men doing it to many women and I never said we are constantly having it done to us I said most women will have it done

Because there are guys who do it when you are walking down a street, which all girls do, Ive been touched by guys while walking to my classes. Which almost all women do.

It isnt that 24/7 it happens that that is COULD happen anywhere and since nobody cares bout it, guys dont get in trouble and the guys who do it continue doing it.

Im not expirienced with your story and situation. I know nothing about that sort of stuff other than people attempting and failing a similar thing to me, but it was very different in execution.

If you cane to me and talked to me about it, I would try to help best I could. But when youre just sharing your story I cant say much about it because I wont pretend I know or get it. I dont get what youre trying to do by posting about that then telling me not to talk about anything more?

I cant even count how many times you have brought this issue up on GFAQs. Tbh its getting old. You've said your piece about being catcalled and groped. At this point keep it to your therapist, you arent getting anymore sympathy here. But if you want people to empathize more, you have to show empathy yourself, which you didnt do in this case. You expect a lot of empathy but I never see you give any.
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You were told, in a broad sweep, because as megatech mentioned to go into specifics would be doxxing levels and thats wrong, what one of the situations was, and you denied it.

You were told early on. You refused to believe it. Because she was nice to you.

Stop commenting on things you know nothing about and topics wont turn into shitfests like this.
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Im not trying to garner sympathy by it Im trying to say yeah it happens and its wrong

I dont talk about bad things that happened to me in attempts to get pity

And this specific stuff would be pointless only talking to a therapist
Because it does nothing to spread the word that it happens and is a danger
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Asherlee10 posted...

LittleRoyal posted...

Asherlee10 posted...

Zodd3224 posted...

You have a warped view of men in general. You seem to think women are all perpetual victims of groping and catcalling, as you put it.

This.

She comes off as very sexist more often than not.

LittleRoyal posted...

Ive said multiple times that its few men doing it to many women and I never said we are constantly having it done to us I said most women will have it done

Because there are guys who do it when you are walking down a street, which all girls do, Ive been touched by guys while walking to my classes. Which almost all women do.

It isnt that 24/7 it happens that that is COULD happen anywhere and since nobody cares bout it, guys dont get in trouble and the guys who do it continue doing it.

I never said its all men or even most men.

Okay, but there are many other examples of you being sexist and dismissive. Either way you are inconsistent. You seem to only reference a 'reasonable' opinion or statement when you are called out.

Im not inconsistent, and you guys clearly arent even understanding
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DezDroppedFreak posted...

You were told, in a broad sweep, because as megatech mentioned to go into specifics would be doxxing levels and thats wrong, what one of the situations was, and you denied it.

You were told early on. You refused to believe it. Because she was nice to you.

Stop commenting on things you know nothing about and topics wont turn into shitfests like this.

Yes megatech told me that
And I thought it was more about the age thing
Because Ive heard about ceguys doing weird things to find a posters name and stuff. I didnt realize what it was at all, until I was told and then I stopped acting like she was innocent
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Also

When you were TOLD getting into specifics wouldnt be right to do in a public forum, you accused EVERYONE involved of digging up stuff about her in a negative sense, which is factually inaccurate.

So

Shut
The
Fuck
Up

You were told on the first page. Theres no excuse. You tried to deflect and flip it on them, the ones she was harassing
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