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Russman
06/29/18 1:28:08 PM
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Older men too. Since I was 16 or so Id be getting propositioned all the time. I have sort of the pretty boy look with mid length hair and I am in decent shape. One dude asked me if I wore make up. I was flattered the first few times but now Im just wondering why? Why me? Why dont girls hit on me? Ive only been asked out once by a girl.
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Genocet_10-325
06/29/18 1:28:54 PM
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Because men are expected to hit on women.
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Zikten
06/29/18 1:30:03 PM
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i'm straight and only a guy ever offered me sex.
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thronedfire2
06/29/18 1:31:07 PM
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me too

I was walking down a street in Providence by myself one night and guys at some gay club were whistling at me
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Russman
06/29/18 1:31:29 PM
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Lordgold666 posted...
BWLurker posted...
Abyssea posted...
Because you look like a bottom.

Im offended. I want to be a top if anything.
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SpinKirby
06/29/18 1:31:56 PM
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Russman posted...
Lordgold666 posted...
BWLurker posted...
Abyssea posted...
Because you look like a bottom.

Im offended. I want to be a top if anything.


Dress like it?
That's pretty easy after a Google search.
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Abyssea
06/29/18 1:32:27 PM
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ShinyFinder
06/29/18 1:33:27 PM
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One time an old guy struck up a casual conversation with me at a thrift store. At the end of it he asked what kind of underwear I wore lol
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ThatMuttGuy
06/29/18 1:33:53 PM
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Zikten posted...
i'm straight and only a guy ever offered me sex.

Why would you turn him down?
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Russman
06/29/18 1:35:13 PM
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ShinyFinder posted...
One time an old guy struck up a casual conversation with me at a thrift store. At the end of it he asked what kind of underwear I wore lol

I remember one dude straight up asked me how I looked nude. I told him I was 17 and he backed off.

Abyssea posted...
pics

Im an old man now. Im past my prime.
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Zikten
06/29/18 1:36:08 PM
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i'm not gay. it was actually a friend. we were in highschool and I was spending the night at his house with others, to play World of Darkness (a competing rpg to DnD) and later everyone was sleeping but me and him were still up and he started saying he was horny and asked if I would be open to oral from him. he was in a weird mood. I already knew he was gay at the time. I was actually the one he first came out to. he admitted it to me before he told his family
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CanCanSam
06/29/18 1:36:50 PM
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How about your pull your pants down and show me that beautiful penis.
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ThatMuttGuy
06/29/18 1:38:29 PM
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Zikten posted...
i'm not gay. it was actually a friend. we were in highschool and I was spending the night at his house with others, to play World of Darkness (a competing rpg to DnD) and later everyone was sleeping but me and him were still up and he started saying he was horny and asked if I would be open to oral from him. he was in a weird mood. I already knew he was gay at the time. I was actually the one he first came out to. he admitted it to me before he told his family

It's not gay to receive oral from another guy.
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Russman
06/29/18 1:38:54 PM
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Zikten posted...
i'm not gay. it was actually a friend. we were in highschool and I was spending the night at his house with others, to play World of Darkness (a competing rpg to DnD) and later everyone was sleeping but me and him were still up and he started saying he was horny and asked if I would be open to oral from him. he was in a weird mood. I already knew he was gay at the time. I was actually the one he first came out to. he admitted it to me before he told his family

Yeah its weird if you are friends with them. It kind of messes things up.
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SpinKirby
06/29/18 1:40:04 PM
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ThatMuttGuy posted...
Zikten posted...
i'm not gay. it was actually a friend. we were in highschool and I was spending the night at his house with others, to play World of Darkness (a competing rpg to DnD) and later everyone was sleeping but me and him were still up and he started saying he was horny and asked if I would be open to oral from him. he was in a weird mood. I already knew he was gay at the time. I was actually the one he first came out to. he admitted it to me before he told his family

It's not gay to receive oral from another guy.


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BWLurker
06/29/18 1:41:51 PM
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Lmao, TC got butthurt by that quoted statement
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Zikten
06/29/18 1:42:11 PM
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ThatMuttGuy posted...
It's not gay to receive oral from another guy.

that's kindof how the Roman felt. the bottom was gay, but not the top. the tops considered it to be normal and treated the bottoms like girls.
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KINDERFELD
06/29/18 1:43:23 PM
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Russman posted...
Older men too. Since I was 16 or so Id be getting propositioned all the time. I have sort of the pretty boy look with mid length hair and I am in decent shape. One dude asked me if I wore make up. I was flattered the first few times but now Im just wondering why? Why me? Why dont girls hit on me? Ive only been asked out once by a girl.


I get hit on like crazy by gay dudes and even I am not as narcissistic as to make a topic about it.

I think its all happening in your head and you strangely seek attention from other men.
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Russman
06/29/18 1:43:47 PM
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Abyssea posted...
BWLurker posted...
Lmao, TC got butthurt by that quoted statement


the truth is the truth. :v I'm disputing it!

If that is the truth then I am upset. I dont want to be a bottom
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knutjob
06/29/18 1:43:51 PM
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This year it's been about equal between being hit on by guys and girls. Things I have learnt are that guys seem to take rejection much better than girls but if a guy hits on you, they definitely want sex whereas a girl might be just hitting on you for the fun of hitting on you.
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Russman
06/29/18 1:45:21 PM
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KINDERFELD posted...
Russman posted...
Older men too. Since I was 16 or so Id be getting propositioned all the time. I have sort of the pretty boy look with mid length hair and I am in decent shape. One dude asked me if I wore make up. I was flattered the first few times but now Im just wondering why? Why me? Why dont girls hit on me? Ive only been asked out once by a girl.


I get hit on like crazy by gay dudes and even I am not as narcissistic as to make a topic about it.

I think its all happening in your head and you strangely seek attention from other men.

Get out of here. Thats not whats happening. Im straight. I always have been and I always will be.

Keep that pop psych to yourself
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KINDERFELD
06/29/18 1:56:21 PM
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Russman posted...
KINDERFELD posted...
Russman posted...
Older men too. Since I was 16 or so Id be getting propositioned all the time. I have sort of the pretty boy look with mid length hair and I am in decent shape. One dude asked me if I wore make up. I was flattered the first few times but now Im just wondering why? Why me? Why dont girls hit on me? Ive only been asked out once by a girl.


I get hit on like crazy by gay dudes and even I am not as narcissistic as to make a topic about it.

I think its all happening in your head and you strangely seek attention from other men.

Get out of here. Thats not whats happening. Im straight. I always have been and I always will be.

Keep that pop psych to yourself


I'm just saying your need for a topic to discuss this says a lot about what's on your mind.

Do you feel validated when gay men hit on you?
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Abyssea
06/29/18 1:56:32 PM
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Russman posted...
Abyssea posted...
BWLurker posted...
Lmao, TC got butthurt by that quoted statement


the truth is the truth. :v I'm disputing it!

If that is the truth then I am upset. I dont want to be a bottom


you could grow a beard :o
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Russman
06/29/18 1:58:12 PM
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KINDERFELD posted...
Russman posted...
KINDERFELD posted...
Russman posted...
Older men too. Since I was 16 or so Id be getting propositioned all the time. I have sort of the pretty boy look with mid length hair and I am in decent shape. One dude asked me if I wore make up. I was flattered the first few times but now Im just wondering why? Why me? Why dont girls hit on me? Ive only been asked out once by a girl.


I get hit on like crazy by gay dudes and even I am not as narcissistic as to make a topic about it.

I think its all happening in your head and you strangely seek attention from other men.

Get out of here. Thats not whats happening. Im straight. I always have been and I always will be.

Keep that pop psych to yourself


I'm just saying your need for a topic to discuss this says a lot about what's on your mind.

Do you feel validated when gay men hit on you?

I do feel validated. Its nice to be approved of. That doesnt mean that I have repressed feelings.
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Lost_All_Senses
06/29/18 1:58:48 PM
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Guys are so scared of #Metoo they are just sexually harrassing dudes now instead.
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KINDERFELD
06/29/18 2:00:46 PM
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Russman posted...
KINDERFELD posted...
Russman posted...
KINDERFELD posted...
Russman posted...
Older men too. Since I was 16 or so Id be getting propositioned all the time. I have sort of the pretty boy look with mid length hair and I am in decent shape. One dude asked me if I wore make up. I was flattered the first few times but now Im just wondering why? Why me? Why dont girls hit on me? Ive only been asked out once by a girl.


I get hit on like crazy by gay dudes and even I am not as narcissistic as to make a topic about it.

I think its all happening in your head and you strangely seek attention from other men.

Get out of here. Thats not whats happening. Im straight. I always have been and I always will be.

Keep that pop psych to yourself


I'm just saying your need for a topic to discuss this says a lot about what's on your mind.

Do you feel validated when gay men hit on you?

I do feel validated. Its nice to be approved of. That doesnt mean that I have repressed feelings.


Never said that you had repressed feelings.
But why would you automatically jump to that or feel the need to clarify this?

Maybe you're seeking attention you did not get from your father as a child.

But no need to remind folks that you're not gay.
I never accused you of being that way.
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Abyssea
06/29/18 2:01:26 PM
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KINDERFELD posted...
Russman posted...
KINDERFELD posted...
Russman posted...
KINDERFELD posted...
Russman posted...
Older men too. Since I was 16 or so Id be getting propositioned all the time. I have sort of the pretty boy look with mid length hair and I am in decent shape. One dude asked me if I wore make up. I was flattered the first few times but now Im just wondering why? Why me? Why dont girls hit on me? Ive only been asked out once by a girl.


I get hit on like crazy by gay dudes and even I am not as narcissistic as to make a topic about it.

I think its all happening in your head and you strangely seek attention from other men.

Get out of here. Thats not whats happening. Im straight. I always have been and I always will be.

Keep that pop psych to yourself


I'm just saying your need for a topic to discuss this says a lot about what's on your mind.

Do you feel validated when gay men hit on you?

I do feel validated. Its nice to be approved of. That doesnt mean that I have repressed feelings.


Never said that you had repressed feelings.
But why would you automatically jump to that or feel the need to clarify this?

Maybe you're seeking attention you did not get from your father as a child.

But no need to remind folks that you're not gay.
I never accused you of being that way.


can you two just kiss already? geez
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DarthGravid
06/29/18 2:02:02 PM
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It used to happen to me, but then I got old and a bit chubby. I'm tall, medium length light brown hair, blue/silver eyes. I was very fit when I was younger, and well-dressed.

I saw women check me out frequently, but men were more likely to be forward about it.
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Russman
06/29/18 2:02:37 PM
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KINDERFELD posted...
Russman posted...
KINDERFELD posted...
Russman posted...
KINDERFELD posted...
Russman posted...
Older men too. Since I was 16 or so Id be getting propositioned all the time. I have sort of the pretty boy look with mid length hair and I am in decent shape. One dude asked me if I wore make up. I was flattered the first few times but now Im just wondering why? Why me? Why dont girls hit on me? Ive only been asked out once by a girl.


I get hit on like crazy by gay dudes and even I am not as narcissistic as to make a topic about it.

I think its all happening in your head and you strangely seek attention from other men.

Get out of here. Thats not whats happening. Im straight. I always have been and I always will be.

Keep that pop psych to yourself


I'm just saying your need for a topic to discuss this says a lot about what's on your mind.

Do you feel validated when gay men hit on you?

I do feel validated. Its nice to be approved of. That doesnt mean that I have repressed feelings.


Never said that you had repressed feelings.
But why would you automatically jump to that or feel the need to clarify this?

Maybe you're seeking attention you did not get from your father as a child.

But no need to remind folks that you're not gay.
I never accused you of being that way.

That was clearly what you were implying. Im not insane. I didnt misread this. Of course Im not gay, not that there is anything wrong with that, I just know Im straight.
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SpinKirby
06/29/18 2:03:48 PM
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Why did the quote pyramid get moderated?
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Russman
06/29/18 2:04:53 PM
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SpinKirby posted...
Why did the quote pyramid get moderated?

It was offensive. I didnt mark it though.
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Abyssea
06/29/18 2:04:54 PM
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SpinKirby posted...
Why did the quote pyramid get moderated?


because the mods are homophobic I guess.
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SpinKirby
06/29/18 2:06:48 PM
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I didn't know being considered a "bottom" was anymore offensive then being considered a "top".

eh w/e
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Russman
06/29/18 2:07:00 PM
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Abyssea posted...
SpinKirby posted...
Why did the quote pyramid get moderated?


because the mods are homophobic I guess.

Theres a difference between homophobia and forcing your sexuality on someone.
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Abyssea
06/29/18 2:07:58 PM
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SpinKirby posted...
I didn't know being considered a "bottom" was anymore offensive then being considered a "top".

eh w/e


yea, I don't get it. I'm gay and can't even talk about our sex positions. this is against my civil rights.
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Abyssea
06/29/18 2:10:02 PM
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Russman posted...
Abyssea posted...
SpinKirby posted...
Why did the quote pyramid get moderated?


because the mods are homophobic I guess.

Theres a difference between homophobia and forcing your sexuality on someone.


I was just answering your question. I'm not saying you have to be a bottom or a top Russman. You might even be vers, and I accept you regardless. :o I just mean that this was probably the reason those old gay men were hitting on you.
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Russman
06/29/18 2:11:59 PM
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Abyssea posted...
Russman posted...
Abyssea posted...
SpinKirby posted...
Why did the quote pyramid get moderated?


because the mods are homophobic I guess.

Theres a difference between homophobia and forcing your sexuality on someone.


I was just answering your question. I'm not saying you have to be a bottom or a top Russman. You might even be vers, and I accept you regardless. :o I just mean that this was probably the reason those old gay men were hitting on you.

But I am neither. I am straight. How would these men assume that I was gay? What is it about me?
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SpinKirby
06/29/18 2:13:07 PM
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Russman posted...
How would these men assume that I was gay? What is it about me?


SpinKirby posted...
Dress like it?


How you look...how you dress.

We're just talking in circles now.
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Abyssea
06/29/18 2:14:28 PM
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Russman posted...
Abyssea posted...
Russman posted...
Abyssea posted...
SpinKirby posted...
Why did the quote pyramid get moderated?


because the mods are homophobic I guess.

Theres a difference between homophobia and forcing your sexuality on someone.


I was just answering your question. I'm not saying you have to be a bottom or a top Russman. You might even be vers, and I accept you regardless. :o I just mean that this was probably the reason those old gay men were hitting on you.

But I am neither. I am straight. How would these men assume that I was gay? What is it about me?


because you look pretty and have longish hair. You also must have a pretty face if guys are asking if you wear makeup. :v in the gay community, all those traits are associated with bottoms. Not to say bottoms are always like that, of course. Just a fair share of them.

Please don't mod me for speaking the truth! I know what I'm talking about D: stop it mods!
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Russman
06/29/18 2:16:19 PM
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SpinKirby posted...
Russman posted...
How would these men assume that I was gay? What is it about me?


SpinKirby posted...
Dress like it?


How you look...how you dress.

We're just talking in circles now.

I dress normally. Ive also changed styles a few times but nothing changes.
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Russman
06/29/18 2:17:42 PM
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Abyssea posted...
Russman posted...
Abyssea posted...
Russman posted...
Abyssea posted...
SpinKirby posted...
Why did the quote pyramid get moderated?


because the mods are homophobic I guess.

Theres a difference between homophobia and forcing your sexuality on someone.


I was just answering your question. I'm not saying you have to be a bottom or a top Russman. You might even be vers, and I accept you regardless. :o I just mean that this was probably the reason those old gay men were hitting on you.

But I am neither. I am straight. How would these men assume that I was gay? What is it about me?


because you look pretty and have longish hair. You also must have a pretty face if guys are asking if you wear makeup. :v in the gay community, all those traits are associated with bottoms. Not to say bottoms are always like that, of course. Just a fair share of them.

Please don't mod me for speaking the truth! I know what I'm talking about D: stop it mods!

Well those traits shouldnt be exclusive to the LGBT community. I like how I look. Its a part of who I am.
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SpinKirby
06/29/18 2:17:58 PM
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Russman posted...
SpinKirby posted...
Russman posted...
How would these men assume that I was gay? What is it about me?


SpinKirby posted...
Dress like it?


How you look...how you dress.

We're just talking in circles now.

I dress normally. Ive also changed styles a few times but nothing changes.


Nobody said you didn't dress normally, but you're obviously not being specific.

Russman posted...
I have sort of the pretty boy look with mid length hair

Russman posted...
Well those traits shouldnt be exclusive to the LGBT community. I like how I look. Its a part of who I am.


That's a whole different issue though.
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Abyssea
06/29/18 2:20:36 PM
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Russman posted...
Well those traits shouldnt be exclusive to the LGBT community. I like how I look. Its a part of who I am.


yea, but there isn't much you can do about it. :v just a cultural thing. personally, i'd take it as a compliment.
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SpinKirby
06/29/18 2:21:51 PM
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The world doesn't revolve around you.

You can't just want people to stop doing something, just because it's the slightest inconvenience to your life. For example, I get occasionally hit on by girls, and even though I'm straight, it peeves me because I'm not interested in being approached. It's not like it's against the law to approach/law to talk someone.
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Sayoria
06/29/18 2:22:11 PM
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Old men have no shame, it's crazy.

In Walmart, my mother wanted to print pictures from her phone, so I came along with her. When talking to a clerk, a guy came up and was asking for help with something. Old man. Eventually after a little small talk, he turned to me, then to my mother, and said "you have a really beautiful daughter" with a kind of strange.... smile.

I was at a gay bar once and an old man saw me waiting for the bartender to order a lemonade. He beckoned him over for me and I thanked him. He started with the "So, where are you from?" line and I told him. I talked for a few minutes, it got awkward, and I told him I had to get back with my friends.

Then at another Walmart, the deli guy kept looking at me and I kept trying not to make eye contact. I was with my mother at this time too. When we left, she was like "That guy liked you, he wouldn't stop looking" ... and I was like "Yeah, that was creepy..."
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Russman
06/29/18 2:25:08 PM
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SpinKirby posted...
The world doesn't revolve around you.

You can't just want people to stop doing something, just because it's the slightest inconvenience to your life. For example, I get occasionally hit on by girls, and even though I'm straight, it peeves me because I'm not interested in being approached. It's not like it's against the law to approach/law to talk someone.

I never said it does. I was just commenting on my romantic life.
Abyssea posted...
Russman posted...
Well those traits shouldnt be exclusive to the LGBT community. I like how I look. Its a part of who I am.


yea, but there isn't much you can do about it. :v just a cultural thing. personally, i'd take it as a compliment.

I sometimes do.
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Abyssea
06/29/18 2:25:13 PM
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Sayoria posted...
Old men have no shame, it's crazy.

In Walmart, my mother wanted to print pictures from her phone, so I came along with her. When talking to a clerk, a guy came up and was asking for help with something. Old man. Eventually after a little small talk, he turned to me, then to my mother, and said "you have a really beautiful daughter" with a kind of strange.... smile.

I was at a gay bar once and an old man saw me waiting for the bartender to order a lemonade. He beckoned him over for me and I thanked him. He started with the "So, where are you from?" line and I told him. I talked for a few minutes, it got awkward, and I told him I had to get back with my friends.

Then at another Walmart, the deli guy kept looking at me and I kept trying not to make eye contact. I was with my mother at this time too. When we left, she was like "That guy liked you, he wouldn't stop looking" ... and I was like "Yeah, that was creepy..."


you should have tried to get their money say. that's what I would have done. :o
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SpinKirby
06/29/18 2:27:02 PM
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Russman posted...
I never said it does. I was just commenting on my romantic life.


Your commentary implies your logic, and that's what I'm commenting on.
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Russman
06/29/18 2:28:06 PM
#55:


SpinKirby posted...
Russman posted...
I never said it does. I was just commenting on my romantic life.


Your commentary implies your logic, and that's what I'm commenting on.

Well thats nice. Is it too much to ask for what you want nowadays?
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SpinKirby
06/29/18 2:30:12 PM
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Russman posted...
SpinKirby posted...
Russman posted...
I never said it does. I was just commenting on my romantic life.


Your commentary implies your logic, and that's what I'm commenting on.

Well thats nice. Is it too much to ask for what you want nowadays?


You're free to ask for anything in life, assuming your country has free speech.
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