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Vamp_Aubrey 07/02/18 7:21:23 PM #1: |
important background info: i am of jewish and black origin
my dilemma is as followed an old friend invited me to his wedding and i was planning on going but then he posted the wedding venue and there are tons of confederate flags and also references to "dixie" as a Black man i understand that when you start talking about Dixie, the next topic will be about how the south will rise again and then the "yeehaws" start coming out also, last time I saw his father (who hates minorities and carries confederate flags in his home), he told me I was one of the "good ones" now I don't want to disrespect my boy by not attending his wedding but this sounds like a dangerous situation for me to be in I looked through the invite list and there is 1 other minority and he is an African American named Keshawn i am thinking of messaging Keshawn this picture from the google page and saying "do u see this shit" ![]() --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Axiom 07/02/18 7:25:10 PM #3: |
Vamp_Aubrey posted...
also, last time I saw his father (who hates minorities and carries confederate flags in his home), he told me I was one of the "good ones" Welp there goes the benefit of the doubt ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Vamp_Aubrey 07/02/18 7:31:59 PM #4: |
i was going to use this as an excuse to go back to my old town and visit friends
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Vamp_Aubrey 07/02/18 9:17:03 PM #5: |
bump
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mattnd2007 07/02/18 9:30:15 PM #6: |
Probably wouldn't go if I was in your shoes
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Vamp_Aubrey 07/03/18 9:31:38 AM #7: |
i think I'm going to decline
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Romulox28 07/03/18 9:35:16 AM #8: |
what was the situation that led you to become friends with leo dicaprio's character from django unchained
personally i would not go, if his family had these beliefs thats one thing but if they cant stop doing this shit even for 4 hours for a wedding then you know its especially fucked up, you're in for a night of a bunch of drunk people calling you boy and probably drunkenly asking you questions about the black race --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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KILBOTz 07/03/18 9:35:46 AM #9: |
I wouldn't go but I would think about whether or not to be honest with him. If he was a legit good friend I would tell him I can't go because of the confederacy bullshit. If you're not super tight I would just say I can't go and send a cheap gift.
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Vamp_Aubrey 07/03/18 9:53:24 AM #10: |
Romulox28 posted...
what was the situation that led you to become friends with leo dicaprio's character from django unchained i went to high school with him and afaik he himself isn't racist and I've never seen him wave confederare flags or do any of that shit, but his family is very racist im not "super" tight with him but that's because after college, i moved away without telling anybody and haven't visited any of my friends since then i still keep in touch with them and i was going to use this as an excuse to visit everyone but now I'm just going to tell him I'm traveling for work that weekend or something --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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El Mexicano Texano 07/03/18 10:02:50 AM #11: |
You're being selfish by not attending your friends wedding. He invited you because he likes and respects you by the looks of it. It's a wedding, do you think your boy would want his wedding ruined over you being black? All eyes should be at the bride and the groom not you. Do you think the whole room will go silent when you walk in and that the priest/pastor/judge is going to call you out for being black and stop the wedding? Has your boy done anything to you that would make you think that this is a bad situation for you to go to? It's a wedding not a confederate party. Everyone is going for the wedding they probably won't even care about your presence. Go to the wedding, have fun, visit old friends, once they get married then you can leave. The party and everything after the wedding isn't important. Think as yourself as a fly on the wall looking down on them and not them with fly swatters looking down at you.
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Peter_Griffin33 07/03/18 10:33:33 AM #12: |
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You're being selfish by not attending your friends wedding. He invited you because he likes and respects you by the looks of it. It's a wedding, do you think your boy would want his wedding ruined over you being black? All eyes should be at the bride and the groom not you. Do you think the whole room will go silent when you walk in and that the priest/pastor/judge is going to call you out for being black and stop the wedding? Has your boy done anything to you that would make you think that this is a bad situation for you to go to? It's a wedding not a confederate party. Everyone is going for the wedding they probably won't even care about your presence. Go to the wedding, have fun, visit old friends, once they get married then you can leave. The party and everything after the wedding isn't important. Think as yourself as a fly on the wall looking down on them and not them with fly swatters looking down at you. You sound white --- Steam Group: http://steamcommunity.com/groups/ReallyBadGaming Twitch: http://www.twitch.tv/chucky2srevenge ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Vamp_Aubrey 07/03/18 10:45:20 AM #14: |
16-BITTER posted...
Vamp_Aubrey posted...i was going to use this as an excuse to go back to my old town and visit friends i didn't live there 20-some years ago and the wedding venue is in the next town over where the KKK lives --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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EpicMickeyDrew 07/03/18 11:00:25 AM #15: |
Vamp_Aubrey posted...
last time I saw his father (who hates minorities and carries confederate flags in his home), he told me I was one of the "good ones" So he likes you, what's the problem --- Just how, pray tell, does your dick "take life"? How could a dick take a life? - XciteMe ... Copied to Clipboard!
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halomonkey1_3_5 07/03/18 11:02:46 AM #16: |
Don't worry you're safe since you're "one of the good ones"
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SpinKirby 07/03/18 4:27:24 PM #19: |
If I survived 4 years at Auburn, you can survive 4 hours at a wedding.
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BWLurker 07/03/18 4:28:41 PM #20: |
"One of the good ones", lmao
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SpinKirby 07/03/18 4:31:01 PM #22: |
Asherlee10 posted...
SpinKirby posted...If I survived 4 years at Auburn, you can survive 4 hours at a wedding. Depends on how good the friend is. --- MHW Supplemental Discord: https://discord.gg/ChHjtYQ https://imgur.com/QL6WJAl https://imgur.com/lGlcDyU ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Weezy_Tha_Don 07/03/18 4:37:21 PM #23: |
TC is Lenny Kravitz or Drake
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Hexenherz 07/03/18 4:49:36 PM #24: |
I wouldn't even be friends with someone like that tbh, you are a more patient/understanding person than me.
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Vamp_Aubrey 07/03/18 4:50:57 PM #25: |
i was friends with him before i knew his family was racist
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Hexenherz 07/03/18 4:51:34 PM #26: |
Vamp_Aubrey posted...
i was friends with him before i knew his family was racist I don't have a problem dropping people. --- ESO: @Ultima_Vyse RS3: UltimaSuende . 99 WC/99 FISH/ 85/99 Cooking ... Copied to Clipboard!
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I Like Toast 07/03/18 4:53:49 PM #27: |
Vamp_Aubrey posted...
but now I'm just going to tell him I'm traveling for work that weekend or something Lame. --- If you do things right, people won't be sure you've done anything at all ... Copied to Clipboard!
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SSJ2GrimReaper 07/03/18 5:01:11 PM #28: |
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El Mexicano Texano 07/03/18 8:11:28 PM #29: |
Peter_Griffin33 posted...
El Mexicano Texano posted...You're being selfish by not attending your friends wedding. He invited you because he likes and respects you by the looks of it. It's a wedding, do you think your boy would want his wedding ruined over you being black? All eyes should be at the bride and the groom not you. Do you think the whole room will go silent when you walk in and that the priest/pastor/judge is going to call you out for being black and stop the wedding? Has your boy done anything to you that would make you think that this is a bad situation for you to go to? It's a wedding not a confederate party. Everyone is going for the wedding they probably won't even care about your presence. Go to the wedding, have fun, visit old friends, once they get married then you can leave. The party and everything after the wedding isn't important. Think as yourself as a fly on the wall looking down on them and not them with fly swatters looking down at you. I'm not. Funny how he skipped over my post. --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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SmidgeIsntBack 07/03/18 8:12:33 PM #30: |
El Mexicano Texano posted...
I'm not. Funny how he skipped over my post. He wasn't the only one. --- Audio Theater: For discussion of podcasts, radio, audiobooks, and the like https://www.gamefaqs.com/boards/1364- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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TheAnthraxBunny 07/03/18 8:21:43 PM #31: |
you'll win this dilemma
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Vamp_Aubrey 07/04/18 11:07:38 AM #32: |
i talked to another friend about it and the other friend decided that he wasn't gonna go either so now i feel less bad
i haven't talked to this guy in 2-3 years anyway so its no biggie if i never talk to him again --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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