Poll of the Day > I occasionally consider breaking up wirh my girlfrirnd.

(+) Yeah! (+)

Shes great to me. Ill never find someone who is as nice to me as she is when were together.

But... her mother treats her like Cinderella. Its pretty bad between the name calling and the ridiculous chores and errands. A month ago she moved in with me and pays 3/8 of the monthly expenses (I make more so decided a split it this way was fair and it still saves me money) but that is just staying over 3-4 nights a week because shes too scared to tell her mom shes moving out (and abling her to get away from her mom was basically why I asked her to move in). And shes scared her mom wouldnt let her see the family dogs afterwards.

She needs to please everyone. Random aquaintances. She freaked out she might have to join a church choir because her moms friend asked her to.

Its obnoxious. But, Im moving away in a year anyway. I can ride it out and enjoy my time with her, which is awesome. Or end it now. I know I should be supportive, but its getting harder to care when she wont do anything to help herself. Shes been in therapy for 10 years for this and even took her mom, but really if 10 years of therapy isnt helping then Im not sure what will.