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Master Kazuya 07/28/18 9:52:50 AM #1: |
I said that we can't just be friends anymore and that I want something more, I asked her why she was trying to be so close when I'm clearly not trying to be, and so on. She was like, I know it'd be fun. I'm like, then fuck it, let's go for it. She kept saying, now's not the time, things are complicated (even though it's apparently not complicated for other guys) etc just basically excuses.
The entire thing can be summarized with me being like "why not [do anything further]?" and she's like "I don't know". Eventually I just stopped because I'm like, well I can't convince you to feel a way you don't feel so whatever. At the end, I was like "well, it was a fun friendship at least" and she's like "you're the worst". I'm like, how. She's like, you're breaking my heart. I'm like, what you think this is easy for me? After she left, she sent me a message saying she was trying not to feel hurt but she did, and she apologized for it not working out (in multiple ways), and that if I ever could handle a friendship she'd be around, and that she'd be willing to have whatever she could get. I responded back being like, hey it's all good, just a part of life, two people don't always get what they want from each other, etc. It hurt me too but it hurts way less than to constantly want and wonder about something more. --- itt my post is the best ... Copied to Clipboard!
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NeonOctopus 07/28/18 9:53:49 AM #2: |
How were her boobs tho
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Patty_Fleur 07/28/18 9:54:12 AM #3: |
Master Kazuya posted...
I said that we can't just be friends anymore and that I want something more, I asked her why she was trying to be so close when I'm clearly not trying to be, and so on. The entire thing can be summarized with me being like "why not [do anything further]?" and she's like "I don't know". What? --- Three can keep a secret, if two of them are dead. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Chicken 07/28/18 9:55:10 AM #4: |
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Master Kazuya 07/28/18 9:59:36 AM #5: |
Patty_Fleur posted...
What? I had tried to ask this girl out a while ago and made a move, she basically rejected me. Then I tried to pull away (in life), and she kept on initiating contact with me. I tried to be friends but she was being like extra flirty and stuff and it got to me again. So this time I cut it off completely. During our convo, I was basically like, everything makes sense between us except for one thing and it sucks because it's the most important thing, and shes like, well why not focus on all the stuff that's good and keep it that way, and I'm like, I already have plenty of friends, I don't need more friends. She agreed that it'd be fun and that we'd make sense and stuff, so I'm like "then why not" and she's like "idk". --- itt my post is the best ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Kazuma_Yagami 07/28/18 10:02:33 AM #6: |
Hate to say this, but she thinks youre physically not attractive enough. Girls can be really shallow
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Master Kazuya 07/28/18 10:04:08 AM #7: |
Kazuma_Yagami posted...
Hate to say this, but she thinks youre physically not attractive enough. Girls can be really shallow Yeah I mean could be. It's weird though cause when we were hanging out, she'd be like, touchy and stuff, and even during sports, she'd like, press her hips into mine and try to tickle and wrestle and stuff. Idk, definitely more physical than any of my guy friends lol. --- itt my post is the best ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Patty_Fleur 07/28/18 10:05:05 AM #8: |
Post pics of her.
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pres_madagascar 07/28/18 10:05:48 AM #9: |
Sorry so loot your girl man
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gamestunner 07/28/18 10:06:55 AM #10: |
Then I was like, then she was like, but I was like, how she was like, then i was like, but then she was like, and afterall I was like, but in the end she was like nah.
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Authentic_fan 07/28/18 10:08:22 AM #11: |
Chicken posted...
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Master Kazuya 07/28/18 10:08:44 AM #12: |
gamestunner posted...
Then I was like, then she was like, but I was like, how she was like, then i was like, but then she was like, and afterall I was like, but in the end she was like nah. lol basically --- itt my post is the best ... Copied to Clipboard!
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smoke_break 07/28/18 10:10:33 AM #13: |
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Ultima Dragon 07/28/18 10:13:36 AM #14: |
Eh, I've known girls like that before. I think a lot just feed off the attention, they do the bare minimum to keep you around as long as they can. Feed you false hope and all that. But then you gotta be like, if she was really into me there would be no excuses.
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Metro2 07/28/18 10:14:19 AM #15: |
So you basically cut off a friendship because you didn't get what you thought you were entitled to.
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Patty_Fleur 07/28/18 10:15:53 AM #16: |
Metro2 posted...
So you basically cut off a friendship because you didn't get what you thought you were entitled to. Sounds like it. He just wants sex. He doesn't really care for her. --- Three can keep a secret, if two of them are dead. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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NeonOctopus 07/28/18 10:23:59 AM #17: |
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Awesome 07/28/18 10:25:44 AM #18: |
Patty_Fleur posted...
Metro2 posted...So you basically cut off a friendship because you didn't get what you thought you were entitled to. two feminists right here. she doesnt have to be sexual with him and he doesnt have to be friends with her, either one doesnt owe the other one anything. if he doesnt get what he wants he can walk away, thats the way life works. --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Master Kazuya 07/28/18 11:06:07 AM #19: |
Metro2 posted...
So you basically cut off a friendship because you didn't get what you thought you were entitled to. Better to be alone than friend zoned Also, Awesome wrecked you --- itt my post is the best ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Teddytalks 07/28/18 11:13:37 AM #20: |
Master Kazuya posted...
Metro2 posted...So you basically cut off a friendship because you didn't get what you thought you were entitled to. He just stated what was already known. It doesn't change their assessment of your character. A girl can be flirty with you and not want sex and still be around, as that can be just how they joke and play. Just say you don't like the flirting and rather keep thing completely platonic. But, you liked it, and wish sex would come out of it. You probably didn't even value her friendship or her personality. That's bad dude. How do you expect to get a women when you "rather be alone then friendzoned"? How was that even a valid option in your head? ... Copied to Clipboard!
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MFBKBass5 07/28/18 11:20:50 AM #22: |
I dated a girl like that. After a few months of her being wishy washy...we started dating. We dated for like 8 months before she broke up with me. But we kept hanging out and acting like a couple. Then we got back together for another few months. Then she broke up with me again. But we kept hanging out and spending the night together for literally another year and a half.
It was a constant battle of confusion and depression. Id steer clear of this woman. Its not worth it in the end. If shes not sure right now, she wont be sure even if yall started dating. Trust me on this brah. Those types of girls are the absolute worst. --- !!!!!!!!! https://imgur.com/DzJSPWA ... Copied to Clipboard!
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NeonOctopus 07/28/18 11:26:38 AM #23: |
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Uncle_Drew 07/28/18 11:29:05 AM #24: |
MFBKBass5 posted...
I dated a girl like that. After a few months of her being wishy washy...we started dating. We dated for like 8 months before she broke up with me. But we kept hanging out and acting like a couple. Then we got back together for another few months. Then she broke up with me again. But we kept hanging out and spending the night together for literally another year and a half. This, the confusion is the worst part. But if you guys have fun around each other, idk why you wouldnt stay friends. You can never have too many friends. If things ever progress further, ok cool. If not no big deal, you still have someone you enjoy being around --- R.I.P. Cavs Uncle Drew 2011-2017 ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Manocheese 07/28/18 11:35:06 AM #25: |
Patty_Fleur posted...
Post pics of her. NeonOctopus posted... NeonOctopus posted...NeonOctopus posted...How were her boobs tho --- ()_() Hardcore - We'll probably be modded for this... (o.o) http://manocheese.googlepages.com/manocheesery ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Lunar_Savage 07/28/18 11:35:18 AM #26: |
Yeah, you're better off. The fact she continues that behavior after your exchanges shows she doesn't give a damn about you. She's just after her own kicks.
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Master Kazuya 07/28/18 11:46:39 AM #27: |
Teddytalks posted...
But, you liked it, and wish sex would come out of it. You probably didn't even value her friendship or her personality. That's bad dude. How do you expect to get a women when you "rather be alone then friendzoned"? How was that even a valid option in your head? I valued her friendship and personality too much. That's why I don't want to just be friends. It's okay to not be friends with everyone. I'm ready for something more. I have enough friends. --- itt my post is the best ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Banjo2553 07/28/18 11:50:07 AM #28: |
Master Kazuya posted...
Teddytalks posted...But, you liked it, and wish sex would come out of it. You probably didn't even value her friendship or her personality. That's bad dude. How do you expect to get a women when you "rather be alone then friendzoned"? How was that even a valid option in your head? This is true. Having feelings for someone and it never being reciprocated is made even worse when said person teases you all the time and gives you false hope. Even if you like hanging out with them it's best to cut them out of your life. --- Game collection: http://www.backloggery.com/bakonbitz Gaming channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCwVQm69J7bGScbv3_50C0dA ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Master Kazuya 07/28/18 12:50:30 PM #29: |
MFBKBass5 posted...
It was a constant battle of confusion and depression. Id steer clear of this woman. Its not worth it in the end. Yeah, part of me realized that when I tried the first time. I was like, wait a sec, if I have to try and convince this girl we'd work out, I'd just be insecure the whole relationship because the foundation is built off my convincing and not her committing. --- itt my post is the best ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Master Kazuya 07/29/18 1:00:15 AM #30: |
Last bump
I appreciate the experience and support guyz, thanks --- itt my post is the best ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Mr_Hakubi 07/29/18 1:10:57 AM #31: |
Looks like tha kitchen is still open for business.
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Master Kazuya 07/29/18 1:23:00 AM #32: |
Mr_Hakubi posted...
kitchen is still open for business. wat --- itt my post is the best ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Rad_Chad 07/29/18 1:25:38 AM #33: |
i get you bro. it is nice to be wanted and stuff, from her POV, but you did the right thing. nothing is worse than cockblocking yourself
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