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Doom_Art 08/27/18 11:20:00 AM #1: |
Well? - Results (32 votes)
Yes
28.13% (9 votes)
9
No
28.13% (9 votes)
9
Maybe so
43.75% (14 votes)
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Turtlebread 08/27/18 11:21:20 AM #2: |
the girl usually offers to pay half
i had a date on saturday where i paid for the whole thing though --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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SSJCAT 08/27/18 11:23:33 AM #3: |
depends on if youre going out with a girl or a WOMAN.
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EvalAngell 08/27/18 11:24:13 AM #4: |
depends on how the date is going IMO.
If you guys are really hitting it off, then yes guy would be smart to pick up the tab. if the date is meh or just terrible and there's no chemistry, you bail after the drinks/apps. --- It's what's best for business. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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voldothegr8 08/27/18 11:24:22 AM #5: |
Is your aim to get lucky? Then you best be paying.
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TheDarkCircle 08/27/18 11:25:20 AM #6: |
I generally pay. I don't mind, I feel like a daddy when I do. Also especially if I'm the one asking a girl out then yeah I pay.
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SnapesOnAPlane 08/27/18 11:25:21 AM #7: |
Imo, if its the first date whoever asked can pay but dont push it. Otherwise and after that either split or rotate
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K181 08/27/18 11:25:27 AM #8: |
The person who asked the other party out should pay for the date.
When it comes to online matchmaking, that's a bit trickier, but I'd say the dude should pay as well just because I know that the ratio of men to women on those things are way out of whack and you should just be happy to get a date on that with an actual woman, so pay up. --- Irregardless, for all intensive purposes, I could care less. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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theAteam 08/27/18 11:28:17 AM #9: |
I'm a traditionalist in this sense but I'm also of the belief you shouldn't be taking someone out to somewhere expensive on the first date.
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Carlbertomfg 08/27/18 11:28:24 AM #10: |
Takes all I got just to afford to pay attention.
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SnapesOnAPlane 08/27/18 11:30:16 AM #11: |
theAteam posted...
I'm a traditionalist in this sense but I'm also of the belief you shouldn't be taking someone out to somewhere expensive on the first date. Also true. Im a big fan of like bowling and a drink ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Doom_Art 08/27/18 11:34:07 AM #12: |
theAteam posted...
I'm a traditionalist in this sense but I'm also of the belief you shouldn't be taking someone out to somewhere expensive on the first date. Usually coffee is my go to That or CPR classes --- Not removing this until Mega Man 64 is released on the Wii Virtual Console. Started on: 12/1/2009 https://imgur.com/mPvcy ... Copied to Clipboard!
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pauIie 08/27/18 11:36:17 AM #13: |
inviter should plan on paying for the date
invitee should plan on covering their half if needed --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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theAteam 08/27/18 11:41:14 AM #14: |
Doom_Art posted...
theAteam posted...I'm a traditionalist in this sense but I'm also of the belief you shouldn't be taking someone out to somewhere expensive on the first date. I've been told by multiple women that coffee isn't putting enough effort in. I'm no longer dating those women. CPR class is an interesting one, though. Worst case you both leave with a new good skill. --- Buffalo Bills 2018-19 Season Prediction: 5-11 Change my mind ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Kazuma_Yagami 08/27/18 11:50:20 AM #15: |
pauIie posted...
inviter should plan on paying for the date --- This space is here only so it looks like I have a sig so my post are more noticeable. My posts look naked without a sig. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Twin3Turbo 08/27/18 2:47:10 PM #16: |
theAteam posted...
I've been told by multiple women that coffee isn't putting enough effort in. Hmm, never heard anyone say that honestly but if they feel that way, I'd say you're doing yourself a favor by no longer dating them. I mean, that's kinda entitled ain't it? --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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im not 13 08/27/18 2:51:26 PM #17: |
I pay
But I expect the whole "fighting for the check" scene to play out --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Forlorn_Ass 08/27/18 2:55:19 PM #18: |
I always pay as a power move.
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FluttershyPony 08/27/18 2:58:38 PM #19: |
Chad does not pay for his shit.
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theAteam 08/27/18 5:46:19 PM #20: |
Twin3Turbo posted...
theAteam posted...I've been told by multiple women that coffee isn't putting enough effort in. It's par for the course on Tinder/Bumble. they know they have a lot of options and can demand more than they would IRL. --- Buffalo Bills 2018-19 Season Prediction: 5-11 Change my mind ... Copied to Clipboard!
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rikasa 08/27/18 5:59:13 PM #21: |
For a lot of guys I went out with, going on a date was a favor. I was being nice by giving them a chance. I'm not gonna spend $50 on top of that. I can stay home and be just as happy and wait for the next date.
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Hexenherz 08/27/18 6:00:23 PM #22: |
The guy should be prepared to pay on the first date unless the girl makes it abundantly clear in advance that the bill's going to be split. That in and of itself might be some kind of a test but honestly you're better off without a woman who feels it necessary to "test" you through something as dumb as that.
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coinstarcad 08/27/18 6:01:04 PM #23: |
Yeah. Like a gas station, pay first and then pump.
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theAteam 08/27/18 6:01:39 PM #24: |
rikasa posted...
For a lot of guys I went out with, going on a date was a favor. I was being nice by giving them a chance. I'm not gonna spend $50 on top of that. I can stay home and be just as happy and wait for the next date. Why even date in the first place? --- Buffalo Bills 2018-19 Season Prediction: 5-11 Change my mind ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Hexenherz 08/27/18 6:10:11 PM #25: |
theAteam posted...
rikasa posted...For a lot of guys I went out with, going on a date was a favor. I was being nice by giving them a chance. I'm not gonna spend $50 on top of that. I can stay home and be just as happy and wait for the next date. It's rikasa she can get any man she wants. --- FFXIV: Herzog Erislieb (Cactaur) | ESO: @Ultima_Vyse RS3: UltimaSuende . 99 WC/99 FISH/ 96/99 Cooking ... Copied to Clipboard!
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catboy0_0 08/27/18 6:11:44 PM #26: |
if she gave you a good time and was a good date, you should offer to pay.
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Hexenherz 08/27/18 6:13:02 PM #27: |
catboy0_0 posted...
if she gave you a good time and was a good date, you should offer to pay. if not then you excuse yourself to go to the restroom m i rite --- FFXIV: Herzog Erislieb (Cactaur) | ESO: @Ultima_Vyse RS3: UltimaSuende . 99 WC/99 FISH/ 96/99 Cooking ... Copied to Clipboard!
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OwlRammer 08/27/18 6:14:05 PM #28: |
pauIie posted...
inviter should plan on paying for the date im going with this --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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catboy0_0 08/27/18 6:21:06 PM #29: |
Hexenherz posted...
catboy0_0 posted...if she gave you a good time and was a good date, you should offer to pay. lmao yes. if she ignores you and is on her phone the whole time she wouldn't even notice --- I obviously like you at least a little to even talk to you -cornman one day I hope to post a message so great it ends up in someones sig -Two_Dee ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Twin3Turbo 08/27/18 7:27:40 PM #30: |
catboy0_0 posted...
if she gave you a good time and was a good date, you should offer to pay. I don't get it. Why does it only apply to the guy? What if he gave her a good time and she felt it was a good date? Should she pay then? --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Hexenherz 08/27/18 7:29:35 PM #31: |
Twin3Turbo posted...
catboy0_0 posted...if she gave you a good time and was a good date, you should offer to pay. Then she can pay on the second date, if she wants. --- FFXIV: Herzog Erislieb (Cactaur) | ESO: @Ultima_Vyse RS3: UltimaSuende . 99 WC/99 FISH/ 96/99 Cooking ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Twin3Turbo 08/27/18 7:30:54 PM #32: |
Hexenherz posted...
Twin3Turbo posted...catboy0_0 posted...if she gave you a good time and was a good date, you should offer to pay. Why not the first? And why only if she wants? Why is she entitled to not having to financially commit but the guy is? --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Dragonblade01 08/27/18 7:36:38 PM #33: |
I don't think there should be norms for this, honestly. It should be that the two people in question figure it out for themselves.
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Hexenherz 08/27/18 7:39:48 PM #34: |
Twin3Turbo posted...
Hexenherz posted...Twin3Turbo posted...catboy0_0 posted...if she gave you a good time and was a good date, you should offer to pay. Because I'm a traditional type of person in this respect and I wholly support both parties in a relationship cooperating and contributing equally but I still think the guy should pay for meals. I'm not opposed if the girl really insists but traditionally that's not how it's supposed to go. I don't think that's how it *needs* to go, of course every couple is going to approach it differently. But that's what's comfortable to assume and depend on because that's what society has known for so many centuries. --- FFXIV: Herzog Erislieb (Cactaur) | ESO: @Ultima_Vyse RS3: UltimaSuende . 99 WC/99 FISH/ 96/99 Cooking ... Copied to Clipboard!
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DarkTransient 08/27/18 7:42:04 PM #35: |
pauIie posted...
inviter should plan on paying for the date Not a bad way to look at it tbh. Reasonable expectation, but be prepared if it doesn't work out that way. --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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masticatingman 08/27/18 7:43:42 PM #36: |
Usually. Ive been on a date before where I got the meal and the girl paid for some expensive drinks after. That was nice.
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EndOfDiscOne 08/27/18 7:44:12 PM #37: |
Even most feminist women think the guy should pay
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Dragonblade01 08/27/18 7:45:39 PM #38: |
Hexenherz posted...
But that's what's comfortable to assume and depend on because that's what society has known for so many centuries. To be fair, dating as we understand it today is very, very recent. Nowhere near centuries old. Courting as a whole is a few hundred years old though, but that definitely didn't involve the guy paying for dinner. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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pojr 08/27/18 7:46:00 PM #39: |
Depends
I always insist on paying. Meaning I will proactively take out my wallet and pay. If I see the woman pull out her purse, I will say "I got it" Is she insists on paying, then we will pay for ourselves. No need to make her uncomfortable. --- pojr I summon it. You spell it. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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DrizztLink 08/27/18 7:46:49 PM #40: |
I don't really get this argument, because one thing I got from my father was the "no fuck you I'm buying" mentality with EVERYONE.
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VTBM 08/27/18 7:46:59 PM #41: |
Split it.
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Hexenherz 08/27/18 7:47:27 PM #42: |
Dragonblade01 posted...
Hexenherz posted...But that's what's comfortable to assume and depend on because that's what society has known for so many centuries. That is a good point, but I was looking at it from the point of view that "the man should be the provider" - in that respect. Even though... I think in general that's a pretty outdated viewpoint isn't it :\ --- FFXIV: Herzog Erislieb (Cactaur) | ESO: @Ultima_Vyse RS3: UltimaSuende . 99 WC/99 FISH/ 96/99 Cooking ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Metro2 08/27/18 7:48:13 PM #43: |
That's sexist.
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BignutzisBack 08/27/18 7:49:02 PM #44: |
Doom_Art posted...
I don't think I ever paid for both on a first date smh --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Unsugarized_Foo 08/27/18 7:49:04 PM #45: |
Yes, and if she doesn't want me to then...I don't and find some one else
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lydiaquayle 08/27/18 7:49:19 PM #46: |
IMO, the person who invites, should the one who pays.
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Coolppl Owns 08/27/18 7:52:05 PM #47: |
rikasa posted...
For a lot of guys I went out with, going on a date was a favor. I was being nice by giving them a chance. I'm not gonna spend $50 on top of that. I can stay home and be just as happy and wait for the next date. this is a troll right --- _.-=/Got Coolppl?\=-._ =-._\Got Coolppl?/_.-= ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Dragonblade01 08/27/18 7:54:10 PM #48: |
Hexenherz posted...
Dragonblade01 posted...Hexenherz posted...But that's what's comfortable to assume and depend on because that's what society has known for so many centuries. Well, what's interesting is that courtship and dating were somewhat progressive institutions. After all, before that, women and marriage were mostly just used as bartering chips. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Hexenherz 08/27/18 7:58:29 PM #49: |
Dragonblade01 posted...
Hexenherz posted...Dragonblade01 posted...Hexenherz posted...But that's what's comfortable to assume and depend on because that's what society has known for so many centuries. Right, but the woman was still traditionally the "homemaker" and the man the "breadwinner". I know those in themselves are rather obsolete views but I still think some of it carries over to the modern day (such as in the man paying for dinner, or at least insisting on paying for dinner on the first date). --- FFXIV: Herzog Erislieb (Cactaur) | ESO: @Ultima_Vyse RS3: UltimaSuende . 99 WC/99 FISH/ 96/99 Cooking ... Copied to Clipboard!
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catboy0_0 08/27/18 8:15:56 PM #50: |
Twin3Turbo posted...
Hexenherz posted...Twin3Turbo posted...catboy0_0 posted...if she gave you a good time and was a good date, you should offer to pay. if she offers to split, she can and she's probably a keeper --- I obviously like you at least a little to even talk to you -cornman one day I hope to post a message so great it ends up in someones sig -Two_Dee ... Copied to Clipboard!
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