Current Events > Ideas on how to propose?

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_Goggalor_ posted...

Squall28 posted...

Why are you in such a hurry? You really should get a job. Not trying to be mean, but as an adult you should make supporting yourself a priority.

I'm not hurting for money as it is. All my bills get paid and I'm able to do fun stuff as well.

Who is paying your bills? If it's not you, you shouldn't be happy about it.
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Squall28 posted...

_Goggalor_ posted...

Squall28 posted...

Why are you in such a hurry? You really should get a job. Not trying to be mean, but as an adult you should make supporting yourself a priority.

I'm not hurting for money as it is. All my bills get paid and I'm able to do fun stuff as well.

Who is paying your bills? If it's not you, you shouldn't be happy about it.

I really don't care either way.
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No offense but if you're asking for help from strangers on CE, your marriage probably isn't going to last in the long run lol.
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Aight boom so you fuck with me right?
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ForestLogic posted...

No offense but if you're asking for help from strangers on CE, your marriage probably isn't going to last in the long run lol.

Help? Nah. Suggestions/ideas? Who cares?
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I just proposed to my girlfriend about a month ago and have some decent ideas but I'm pretty sure TC has me on ignore for correcting his spelling once upon a time, so oh well.
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_Goggalor_ posted...

Squall28 posted...

_Goggalor_ posted...

Squall28 posted...

Why are you in such a hurry? You really should get a job. Not trying to be mean, but as an adult you should make supporting yourself a priority.

I'm not hurting for money as it is. All my bills get paid and I'm able to do fun stuff as well.

Who is paying your bills? If it's not you, you shouldn't be happy about it.

I really don't care either way.

Wow.

Sure wish I could feel that way. If I'm not self supportive I feel like a sack of shit. Hell I got laid off and instead of riding the ei gravy train I went to work for a guy I knew I'd hate working for and it's worse than expected. But it was still better for my dignity and pride. And wallet.

I can't even fathom how you'd plan to get married when ya ain't even familiar with supporting yourself and paying your own way.

Real talk - A 45 year old minimum wage Walmart employee deserves infinitely more respect than someone who doesn't earn their own way.

It's great you're not miserable but you got a long fucking ways to go man. It's easy to feel ok when ya don't have to drag yer ass outta bed and go bust ass 5 days a week.

Shit I'd be a lot happier collecting ei and being broke than I am now. But I'd also be stagnating and have no clue if I'm able to function in the real world or not.

Life is easy as fuck when ya ain't gotta work. Shit the easiest most relaxing time of my life was when I was in the psych ward.

If you don't know what working and paying your own way is all about or how you'd handle it you literally don't know fuck all about yourself. And if you literally don't know fuck all about yourself getting engaged is not a good plan.
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marthsheretoo posted...

I just proposed to my girlfriend about a month ago and have some decent ideas but I'm pretty sure TC has me on ignore for correcting his spelling once upon a time, so oh well.

Nah, I took you off. Not that petty.
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CanuckCowboy posted...

_Goggalor_ posted...

Squall28 posted...

_Goggalor_ posted...

Squall28 posted...

Why are you in such a hurry? You really should get a job. Not trying to be mean, but as an adult you should make supporting yourself a priority.

I'm not hurting for money as it is. All my bills get paid and I'm able to do fun stuff as well.

Who is paying your bills? If it's not you, you shouldn't be happy about it.

I really don't care either way.

Wow.

Sure wish I could feel that way. If I'm not self supportive I feel like a sack of shit. Hell I got laid off and instead of riding the ei gravy train I went to work for a guy I knew I'd hate working for and it's worse than expected. But it was still better for my dignity and pride. And wallet.

I can't even fathom how you'd plan to get married when ya ain't even familiar with supporting yourself and paying your own way.

Real talk - A 45 year old minimum wage Walmart employee deserves infinitely more respect than someone who doesn't earn their own way.

It's great you're not miserable but you got a long fucking ways to go man. It's easy to feel ok when ya don't have to drag yer ass outta bed and go bust ass 5 days a week.

Shit I'd be a lot happier collecting ei and being broke than I am now. But I'd also be stagnating and have no clue if I'm able to function in the real world or not.

Life is easy as fuck when ya ain't gotta work. Shit the easiest most relaxing time of my life was when I was in the psych ward.

If you don't know what working and paying your own way is all about or how you'd handle it you literally don't know fuck all about yourself. And if you literally don't know fuck all about yourself getting engaged is not a good plan.

Useless pride is just that; useless.
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_Goggalor_ posted...

ForestLogic posted...

No offense but if you're asking for help from strangers on CE, your marriage probably isn't going to last in the long run lol.

Help? Nah. Suggestions/ideas? Who cares?

Because you know the intimate details of your relationship better than anyone here. if you can't think of a meaningful way to propose to her and want suggestions from CEmen, then that's a pretty bad sign for your future marriage lol.
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ForestLogic posted...

_Goggalor_ posted...

ForestLogic posted...

No offense but if you're asking for help from strangers on CE, your marriage probably isn't going to last in the long run lol.

Help? Nah. Suggestions/ideas? Who cares?

Because you know the intimate details of your relationship better than anyone here. if you can't think of a meaningful way to propose to her and want suggestions from CEmen, then that's a pretty bad sign for your future marriage lol.

I can think of plenty. Seems you missed the point of the topic and merely wish to troll.
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_Goggalor_ posted...

CanuckCowboy posted...

_Goggalor_ posted...

Squall28 posted...

_Goggalor_ posted...

Squall28 posted...

Why are you in such a hurry? You really should get a job. Not trying to be mean, but as an adult you should make supporting yourself a priority.

I'm not hurting for money as it is. All my bills get paid and I'm able to do fun stuff as well.

Who is paying your bills? If it's not you, you shouldn't be happy about it.

I really don't care either way.

Wow.

Sure wish I could feel that way. If I'm not self supportive I feel like a sack of shit. Hell I got laid off and instead of riding the ei gravy train I went to work for a guy I knew I'd hate working for and it's worse than expected. But it was still better for my dignity and pride. And wallet.

I can't even fathom how you'd plan to get married when ya ain't even familiar with supporting yourself and paying your own way.

Real talk - A 45 year old minimum wage Walmart employee deserves infinitely more respect than someone who doesn't earn their own way.

It's great you're not miserable but you got a long fucking ways to go man. It's easy to feel ok when ya don't have to drag yer ass outta bed and go bust ass 5 days a week.

Shit I'd be a lot happier collecting ei and being broke than I am now. But I'd also be stagnating and have no clue if I'm able to function in the real world or not.

Life is easy as fuck when ya ain't gotta work. Shit the easiest most relaxing time of my life was when I was in the psych ward.

If you don't know what working and paying your own way is all about or how you'd handle it you literally don't know fuck all about yourself. And if you literally don't know fuck all about yourself getting engaged is not a good plan.

Useless pride is just that; useless.

Dude.

You dont even know if you're capable of handling a real job but you've convinced yourself you're in a good place cause you got fuck all to deal with.

It ain't foolish pride to know yourself. And no one who's riding on easy street knows fuck all about their coping abilities or themselves.

Be pretty neat when you're free ride ends and ya gotta work and can't handle it huh? That'll do wonders for the relationship when you come home and take it out on her or constantly get fired.
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CanuckCowboy posted...

_Goggalor_ posted...

CanuckCowboy posted...

_Goggalor_ posted...

Squall28 posted...

_Goggalor_ posted...

Squall28 posted...

Why are you in such a hurry? You really should get a job. Not trying to be mean, but as an adult you should make supporting yourself a priority.

I'm not hurting for money as it is. All my bills get paid and I'm able to do fun stuff as well.

Who is paying your bills? If it's not you, you shouldn't be happy about it.

I really don't care either way.

Wow.

Sure wish I could feel that way. If I'm not self supportive I feel like a sack of shit. Hell I got laid off and instead of riding the ei gravy train I went to work for a guy I knew I'd hate working for and it's worse than expected. But it was still better for my dignity and pride. And wallet.

I can't even fathom how you'd plan to get married when ya ain't even familiar with supporting yourself and paying your own way.

Real talk - A 45 year old minimum wage Walmart employee deserves infinitely more respect than someone who doesn't earn their own way.

It's great you're not miserable but you got a long fucking ways to go man. It's easy to feel ok when ya don't have to drag yer ass outta bed and go bust ass 5 days a week.

Shit I'd be a lot happier collecting ei and being broke than I am now. But I'd also be stagnating and have no clue if I'm able to function in the real world or not.

Life is easy as fuck when ya ain't gotta work. Shit the easiest most relaxing time of my life was when I was in the psych ward.

If you don't know what working and paying your own way is all about or how you'd handle it you literally don't know fuck all about yourself. And if you literally don't know fuck all about yourself getting engaged is not a good plan.

Useless pride is just that; useless.

Dude.

You dont even know if you're capable of handling a real job but you've convinced yourself you're in a good place cause you got fuck all to deal with.

It ain't foolish pride to know yourself. And no one who's riding on easy street knows fuck all about their coping abilities or themselves.

Be pretty neat when you're free ride ends and ya gotta work and can't handle it huh? That'll do wonders for the relationship when you come home and take it out on her or constantly get fired.

You're making a lot of assumptions about me based on not a lot of information. Keep projecting though if it helps you deal with your own shitty life.
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Muffinz0rz posted...

shockthemonkey posted...

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lol jfc

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ForestLogic posted...

_Goggalor_ posted...

ForestLogic posted...

No offense but if you're asking for help from strangers on CE, your marriage probably isn't going to last in the long run lol.

Help? Nah. Suggestions/ideas? Who cares?

Because you know the intimate details of your relationship better than anyone here. if you can't think of a meaningful way to propose to her and want suggestions from CEmen, then that's a pretty bad sign for your future marriage lol.

Imagine thinking this is relevant.

He wanted to see if anyone had a good idea he liked. It's literally not a problem at all but if it was it'd be way the fuck down the list regardless.

Also who really paid off that ring?
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Here's an idea. Don't. Stay single. Avoid getting screwed in divorce
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CanuckCowboy posted...

ForestLogic posted...

_Goggalor_ posted...

ForestLogic posted...

No offense but if you're asking for help from strangers on CE, your marriage probably isn't going to last in the long run lol.

Help? Nah. Suggestions/ideas? Who cares?

Because you know the intimate details of your relationship better than anyone here. if you can't think of a meaningful way to propose to her and want suggestions from CEmen, then that's a pretty bad sign for your future marriage lol.

Imagine thinking this is relevant.

He wanted to see if anyone had a good idea he liked. It's literally not a problem at all but if it was it'd be way the fuck down the list regardless.

Also who really paid off that ring?

My dad. Having a nice, supportive family is pretty awesome.
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Well dang I hit that Goggalor nerve again.

Funny how you can get along with me till I feel compelled to tell you a little truth.

You have no clue if you can deal with the pressure of simply supporting yourself like literally every other average Joe but you wanna get married. That's fucking dumb. I'm not even being a dick I'm telling you shit you need to hear.

You can't cope with criticism on gfaqs and you think starting a life with someone makes sense like you can deal when ya got the stress and time sink of a fulltime job.

Like we're probly one troll post from me away from you trying to meet up to fight again.

Grt a fucking job. Keep the job. Do it for a year. See how that goes and affects your relationship before you even think of proposing.

I'm not trolling I'm saying shit you need to hear.
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how did this thread escalate so badly lol

CanuckCowboy posted...

Well dang I hit that Goggalor nerve again.

Funny how you can get along with me till I feel compelled to tell you a little truth.

You have no clue if you can deal with the pressure of simply supporting yourself like literally every other average Joe but you wanna get married. That's fucking dumb. I'm not even being a dick I'm telling you shit you need to hear.

You can't cope with criticism on gfaqs and you think starting a life with someone makes sense like you can deal when ya got the stress and time sink of a fulltime job.

Like we're probly one troll post from me away from you trying to meet up to fight again.

Grt a fucking job. Keep the job. Do it for a year. See how that goes and affects your relationship before you even think of proposing.

I'm not trolling I'm saying shit you need to hear.

Who said anything about a full-time job? You're not me lol. She's fine with part time while I pursue my goals. Nice to have a supportive GF who isn't obsessed with money.
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kayoticdreamz posted...

how did this thread escalate so badly lol

People decided to be dicks and troll.
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Have you decided on a budget for the engagement? Imo that's important. I budgeted $500 not counting the ring and used most of it. It helps to figure out what you can and can't do
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marthsheretoo posted...

Have you decided on a budget for the engagement? Imo that's important. I budgeted $500 not counting the ring and used most of it. It helps to figure out what you can and can't do

Not yet, but we're going with a small ceremony in favor of saving money for other things.
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@Turbam posted...

_Goggalor_ posted...

Paid off the ring today, waiting until I get a job

:V

I bet I could whoop goggalors ass in real life.

_Goggalor_ posted...

CanuckCowboy posted...

Well dang I hit that Goggalor nerve again.

Funny how you can get along with me till I feel compelled to tell you a little truth.

You have no clue if you can deal with the pressure of simply supporting yourself like literally every other average Joe but you wanna get married. That's fucking dumb. I'm not even being a dick I'm telling you shit you need to hear.

You can't cope with criticism on gfaqs and you think starting a life with someone makes sense like you can deal when ya got the stress and time sink of a fulltime job.

Like we're probly one troll post from me away from you trying to meet up to fight again.

Grt a fucking job. Keep the job. Do it for a year. See how that goes and affects your relationship before you even think of proposing.

I'm not trolling I'm saying shit you need to hear.

Who said anything about a full-time job? You're not me lol. She's fine with part time while I pursue my goals. Nice to have a supportive GF who isn't obsessed with money.

Again you have no idea if you can even cope with normal adult life. You don't support yourself you don't know shit about yourself.

And you can't claim to have paid a thing off if you don't fund your own bills. You're deluding yourself and that dknt work long. Especially not in the real world where people support themselves.

Last post in this topic - you're in a good place for a change. Use that to actually improve. See a counsellor while you're able to appreciate the advice and learn. You're gonna hear shit ya don't like but you can know it's from someone trying to help and not write it off as trolling.

Otherwise you're just gonna end up in the most disgusting fucking apartment I've ever seen and getting sick cause you can't be fucked to clean and putting your girl through a world of fucking shit. If not actually getting physical.

I know you're moms a bitch and a shitty person. Still takes a pretty messed up guy to beat the fuck out of any woman let alone their mother.
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_Goggalor_ posted...

marthsheretoo posted...

Have you decided on a budget for the engagement? Imo that's important. I budgeted $500 not counting the ring and used most of it. It helps to figure out what you can and can't do

Not yet, but we're going with a small ceremony in favor of saving money for other things.

Decide that first. Don't consult her - you want it to be a surprise.
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_Goggalor_ posted...

The TC decided to be a dick and troll

FTFY. Canuck is giving you some honest advice and youre just acting like a bratty child because its not what you want to hear. Fuck outta here with that nonsense.
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Put it in a cake. When she finds it say "sorry, thst was for my other girlfriend"

_Goggalor_ posted...

CanuckCowboy posted...

_Goggalor_ posted...

Squall28 posted...

_Goggalor_ posted...

Squall28 posted...

Why are you in such a hurry? You really should get a job. Not trying to be mean, but as an adult you should make supporting yourself a priority.

I'm not hurting for money as it is. All my bills get paid and I'm able to do fun stuff as well.

Who is paying your bills? If it's not you, you shouldn't be happy about it.

I really don't care either way.

Wow.

Sure wish I could feel that way. If I'm not self supportive I feel like a sack of shit. Hell I got laid off and instead of riding the ei gravy train I went to work for a guy I knew I'd hate working for and it's worse than expected. But it was still better for my dignity and pride. And wallet.

I can't even fathom how you'd plan to get married when ya ain't even familiar with supporting yourself and paying your own way.

Real talk - A 45 year old minimum wage Walmart employee deserves infinitely more respect than someone who doesn't earn their own way.

It's great you're not miserable but you got a long fucking ways to go man. It's easy to feel ok when ya don't have to drag yer ass outta bed and go bust ass 5 days a week.

Shit I'd be a lot happier collecting ei and being broke than I am now. But I'd also be stagnating and have no clue if I'm able to function in the real world or not.

Life is easy as fuck when ya ain't gotta work. Shit the easiest most relaxing time of my life was when I was in the psych ward.

If you don't know what working and paying your own way is all about or how you'd handle it you literally don't know fuck all about yourself. And if you literally don't know fuck all about yourself getting engaged is not a good plan.

Useless pride is just that; useless.

It's not useless pride. It's self-reliance. What if your dad and girl gives up on you? What's going to happen? Having a job won't be so useless than would it?
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Put the ring on a carrot stick in a large ring box with "don't get fat" written on a slip of paper you put on the lid.
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CanuckCowboy posted...

ForestLogic posted...

_Goggalor_ posted...

ForestLogic posted...

No offense but if you're asking for help from strangers on CE, your marriage probably isn't going to last in the long run lol.

Help? Nah. Suggestions/ideas? Who cares?

Because you know the intimate details of your relationship better than anyone here. if you can't think of a meaningful way to propose to her and want suggestions from CEmen, then that's a pretty bad sign for your future marriage lol.

Imagine thinking this is relevant.

Imagine thinking it fucking isn't.

Wedding proposals are supposed to be personal, intimate acts of romance. People generally base them off of something special or significant in their relationship like a place or an event thats special to them both.

If you go to your best friend or sibling or something looking for advice, yeah that's one thing. But going to a group of awkward, borderline sociopaths (like you for example) to get ideas is the equivalent of running into a rural Chinese village and asking for advice on a Spanish exam.
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So your mom hates you, your fiance works part time at best, your dad pays all your bills, and you don't work, instead choosing to write the worst novels in the history of man.
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0AbsoluteZero0 posted...

_Goggalor_ posted...

The TC decided to be a dick and troll

FTFY. Canuck is giving you some honest advice and youre just acting like a bratty child because its not what you want to hear. Fuck outta here with that nonsense.

Thank you.
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