Current Events > I just got slapped by one of my exes tonight

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tl;dr i ghosted her after this huge fight over some stupid shit. Anyways, I reached out after 2 years and apologized. I asked to meet up over coffee and she agrees, only to immediately slap me as soon as she saw. She said that's what she's been wanting to say after all this time and walked out. I bullshit you not. This bitch is crazy.
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Girls take being ghosted really seriously.
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I mean... I have my fair share of exes I'd slap after seeing them for the first time in 2 years.
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You have to get slapped by all your exes before you are mature enough to get married to your one true love.

Sounds like a fair next tbh
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It's the next morning and I'm still pissed about this shit. I was publicly shamed, humiliated, and angry. I'm sure she felt that way when she was ghosted as well but there is NO excuse for physical harm between humans outside of self defense. I've matured in the two years and realize that calling her up and yelling at her/being angry blah blah blah would just make things worse so I'm just going to ghost her again if she ever reaches out.
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Lulz, she sounds great. She's wanted to slap you for 2 years, then after doing so she just walks off? Wtf.
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Yeah, you're clearly not in the wrong here. Maybe should have left well enough alone, but you were doing the mature thing and trying to make amends.

Imagine being her and holding onto all that resentment for literally two years instead of just moving on with your life.
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Devimon posted...

Sounds like a fair next tbh

There is NO excuse for physical harm between human beings outside of self defense. Did you physically abuse/were you physically abused by a spouse or something?
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Skywalkah posted...

It's the next morning and I'm still pissed about this shit. I was publicly shamed, humiliated, and angry. I'm sure she felt that way when she was ghosted as well but there is NO excuse for physical harm between humans outside of self defense. I've matured in the two years and realize that calling her up and yelling at her/being angry blah blah blah would just make things worse so I'm just going to ghost her again if she ever reaches out.

i'm already proud of you for that bolded comment.
if only the rest of the world would follow it like us (minus the ones who already do).
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Sounds like something that would happen in a movie and never actually irl
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She shouldve just ghosted you back
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Pics
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For the record, she has NEVER hit me in the 2.5 years we dated. Hell, never even yelled at me. Things were going great until that stupid fight. I got scared and we broke up and ghosted her. We didn't talk for almost 2 years. I can see why she's upset, never getting a chance to speak her mind but wow. She's officially crazy to me now to feel this way after 2 years though.
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I ain't afraid of no ghost
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Turns out TC's ex had a friend secretly record the whole thing:

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You should have dropped her
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can you explain what qhost her even mean. then, i will tell you what exactly on her mind.

lol
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lol women start physically abusing people and everyone is cool with it

this is literally domestic violence
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Thats on you for trying to reconnect with her
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Dude, if you dated for 2.5 years and ghosted her after one fight for two years, you're kind of a shitty person. You might not deserve to get slapped, but you probably wrecked that girl mentally by being an immature POS.
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Slapped where?

SageHarpuiaHX posted...

Slapped where?

In the face with a large trout because life is like IRC.

codey posted...

Dude, if you dated for 2.5 years and ghosted her after one fight for two years, you're kind of a shitty person. You might not deserve to get slapped, but you probably wrecked that girl mentally by being an immature POS.

this x ten millions.

if you dated that qirl for so lonq and everythinq were qoinq qreat that lonq period, that means both of you were in qood relationship and she likes it. she expected you to come back to her after that fiqht very soon, but you disappeared without informinq her, she obviously was thinkinq about you a lot and you just made her waited for you and hurted her even more. even a normal qirl would slap a quy like that.

codey posted...

Dude, if you dated for 2.5 years and ghosted her after one fight for two years, you're kind of a shitty person. You might not deserve to get slapped, but you probably wrecked that girl mentally by being an immature POS.

I agree with this. Ending a 2.5 year relationship by GHOSTING her is incredibly fucked up.
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codey posted...

Dude, if you dated for 2.5 years and ghosted her after one fight for two years, you're kind of a shitty person. You might not deserve to get slapped, but you probably wrecked that girl mentally by being an immature POS.

visualboy2003 posted...

codey posted...
this x ten millions.

if you dated that qirl for so lonq and everythinq were qoinq qreat that lonq period, that means both of you were in qood relationship and she likes it. she expected you to come back to her after that fiqht very soon, but you disappeared without informinq her, she obviously was thinkinq about you a lot and you just made her waited for you and hurted her even more. even a normal qirl would slap a quy like that.

Allanon23 posted...

I agree with this. Ending a 2.5 year relationship by GHOSTING her is incredibly f***ed up.

Of course it is. If only I had known that 2.5 years ago when I was not in touch with my feelings or how to communicate under pressure. Nowhere in this topic have I ever bragged about my behavior. It was fearful(afraid to confront the issue we argued about) and selfish behavior for sure.
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The mature thing to do would be to call the police and charge her with assault
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GbanyaGanja43 posted...

The mature thing to do would be to call the police and charge her with assault

what, judging from this topic i thought the mature thing to do was to victim blame yourself after you get assaulted....
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By saying "this bitch is crazy" in the opening post, you're minimizing the effects of ghosting her like you did. Yeah, you grew and matured since then, but what you did could have very well stunted her emotional growth, which, judging by how she reacted when you decided to get in touch with her and reopen the emotional wound YOU caused in the first place, is probably the case here.
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To be fair she probably assumed you were trying to get back together with her after being a jerk to her by ghosting her.
Her slap was a "leave me the fuck alone".
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Skywalkah posted...

Of course it is. If only I had known that 2.5 years ago when I was not in touch with my feelings or how to communicate under pressure. Nowhere in this topic have I ever bragged about my behavior. It was fearful(afraid to confront the issue we argued about) and selfish behavior for sure.

No, but you called her a crazy bitch.

Her response was actually very reasonable
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he called her that was because he never thouqht she would react like that. he expected her to be still normal with him, which would not be the case for a normal qirl since she liked him and he freakinq qhosted her.

also, why would you be fearful to talk to her about that fiqhtinq issue since normally after a few days you two would be in an easier mode unlike that anqry mode in that fiqht.....um, not makinq much sense here.

but you are now able to admit that you were selfish toward her by tryinq to make her feel bad to wait for you is a nice siqn of matured up a bit.