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Hairy-man
12/04/18 11:00:12 AM
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Sometimes its fun, and sometimes its depressing. I just feel fuckin empty right now. In more ways than one heuhue
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Flockaveli
12/04/18 11:01:44 AM
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Yeah.
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Romulox28
12/04/18 11:04:08 AM
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i dont think people are really equipped mentally to handle casual sex, even though we all think we want it
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DarkChozoGhost
12/04/18 11:08:37 AM
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When it's with someone I actually do care about, yeah.
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Ryuko_Chan
12/04/18 11:13:51 AM
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how would I know
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Fam_Fam
12/04/18 11:16:58 AM
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yes, because i don't have any
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Hairy-man
12/04/18 11:19:03 AM
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Romulox28 posted...
i dont think people are really equipped mentally to handle casual sex, even though we all think we want it


Seems to be true. Sometimes its ok. Then sometimes it sucks ass

DarkChozoGhost posted...
When it's with someone I actually do care about, yeah.


Yep I feel that.

Ryuko_Chan posted...
how would I know


You will know

Fam_Fam posted...
yes, because i don't have any


You will have some. And then youll realize it feels just as good as not having any at all
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Ryuko_Chan
12/04/18 11:21:31 AM
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lame brag topic

if it really did suck you wouldnt do it
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hollow_shrine
12/04/18 11:21:59 AM
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Romulox28 posted...
i dont think people are really equipped mentally to handle casual sex, even though we all think we want it

I kind of agree. I think this is partially contributing to the fact that current generation adults are having less sex, despite arguably having more venues than ever. Sex without intimacy isn't fulfilling for a lot of people. It's not worth the trouble or inconvenience.

That said, there are people who are just fine with it, or who compartmentalize their romantic lives from their sexual lives. I don't know of many married gay male couples, but those I do know regularly sleep around or engage is some kind of group sex, with the caveat that they're completely honest about it. So it's like their romantic and sexual lives run parallel to one another. It's fine that the sex is meaningless, because the meaning is derived elsewhere.

But that kind of relationship doesn't just happen, to comes about through a lot hard conversations and heartache. And while it works for some people, it cannot work for everyone.
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Hairy-man
12/04/18 11:24:36 AM
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Ryuko_Chan posted...
lame brag topic

if it really did suck you wouldnt do it


Not true at all. You feel in the mood, so you do it. Then you get depressed after. Then you get in the mood again. Its a circle.

Not hard logic there boy
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Ryuko_Chan
12/04/18 11:26:13 AM
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Hairy-man posted...
Ryuko_Chan posted...
lame brag topic

if it really did suck you wouldnt do it


Not true at all. You feel in the mood, so you do it. Then you get depressed after. Then you get in the mood again. Its a circle.

Not hard logic there boy

were talking about sex, not mdma addiction or serial killer cycles. if it really did suck youd learn after the second time
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Hairy-man
12/04/18 11:29:27 AM
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Ryuko_Chan posted...
Hairy-man posted...
Ryuko_Chan posted...
lame brag topic

if it really did suck you wouldnt do it


Not true at all. You feel in the mood, so you do it. Then you get depressed after. Then you get in the mood again. Its a circle.

Not hard logic there boy

were talking about sex, not mdma addiction or serial killer cycles. if it really did suck youd learn after the second time


Ever heard of a sex addiction? Clearly you have no experience with the subject. Its ok that you dont, but you cant spout lame brag topic just because you dont know what it feels like. These are actual issues
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EliteC
12/04/18 11:31:22 AM
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Ryuko_Chan posted...
lame brag topic

if it really did suck you wouldnt do it


Y U mad tho
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hollow_shrine
12/04/18 11:31:31 AM
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Ryuko_Chan posted...
Hairy-man posted...
Ryuko_Chan posted...
lame brag topic

if it really did suck you wouldnt do it


Not true at all. You feel in the mood, so you do it. Then you get depressed after. Then you get in the mood again. Its a circle.

Not hard logic there boy

were talking about sex, not mdma addiction or serial killer cycles. if it really did suck youd learn after the second time

It's not that it sucks; it's that you feel empty afterwards. And the person next to you is at best an inconvenience because now you need to convince them to leave so you can get back to your life. Or maybe you like them, but they have no interest in staying and clearly have no interest in you as person.

It's like, why did you even bother will all the internet messages and flirting or whatever? What did you get?

I would like to point out that sex addiction is something very different. There's a chemical and psychological element to that that makes it earn that 'addiction' title. I assume the topic is asking about some of the negative emotions that follow casual hookups, that we know likely won't turn into something more substantial.
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Hairy-man
12/04/18 11:31:59 AM
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hollow_shrine posted...
Romulox28 posted...
i dont think people are really equipped mentally to handle casual sex, even though we all think we want it

I kind of agree. I think this is partially contributing to the fact that current generation adults are having less sex, despite arguably having more venues than ever. Sex without intimacy isn't fulfilling for a lot of people. It's not worth the trouble or inconvenience.

That said, there are people who are just fine with it, or who compartmentalize their romantic lives from their sexual lives. I don't know of many married gay male couples, but those I do know regularly sleep around or engage is some kind of group sex, with the caveat that they're completely honest about it. So it's like their romantic and sexual lives run parallel to one another. It's fine that the sex is meaningless, because the meaning is derived elsewhere.

But that kind of relationship doesn't just happen, to comes about through a lot hard conversations and heartache. And while it works for some people, it cannot work for everyone.


Yeah I can see that. Its better if you have the romance atleast in an open relationship. But when it comes to being single, its difficult
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EndOfDiscOne
12/04/18 11:32:25 AM
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I don't know, back when I was having one night stands there WAS a level of affection. I cared about those girls and connected with them that one night, then afterwards had no intention of seeing many of them again. Alcohol certainly helped fuel those emotions. I never got depressed afterwards.
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Ryuko_Chan
12/04/18 11:32:35 AM
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Im depressed because I have too much money.

But no, I wont give up my money.
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Hairy-man
12/04/18 11:34:50 AM
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Ryuko_Chan posted...
Im depressed because I have too much money.

But no, I wont give up my money.


So now youre going to give ridiculous comparisons? Again, if you dont get it, thats fine. But now youre just bein silly
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Ryuko_Chan
12/04/18 11:37:33 AM
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EliteC posted...
Ryuko_Chan posted...
lame brag topic

if it really did suck you wouldnt do it


Y U mad tho

mad because bad
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Ryuko_Chan
12/04/18 11:38:40 AM
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hollow_shrine posted...
Ryuko_Chan posted...
Hairy-man posted...
Ryuko_Chan posted...
lame brag topic

if it really did suck you wouldnt do it


Not true at all. You feel in the mood, so you do it. Then you get depressed after. Then you get in the mood again. Its a circle.

Not hard logic there boy

were talking about sex, not mdma addiction or serial killer cycles. if it really did suck youd learn after the second time

It's not that it sucks; it's that you feel empty afterwards. And the person next to you is at best an inconvenience because now you need to convince them to leave so you can get back to your life. Or maybe you like them, but they have no interest in staying and clearly have no interest in you as person.

It's like, why did you even bother will all the internet messages and flirting or whatever? What did you get?

I would like to point out that sex addiction is something very different. There's a chemical and psychological element to that that makes it earn that 'addiction' title. I assume the topic is asking about some of the negative emotions that follow casual hookups, that we know likely won't turn into something more substantial.

then dont have casual sex
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Hairy-man
12/04/18 12:42:51 PM
#21:


Anyway
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DoGCyN
12/04/18 12:43:47 PM
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Sometimes.
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slmcknett
12/04/18 12:44:13 PM
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Flockaveli posted...
Yeah.

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Jiek_Fafn
12/04/18 12:45:50 PM
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I used to use casual sex to essential self medicate depression. The act itself actually made me feel good for a bit. It was less sex with some random girl and more masturbation using someone's vagina.
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Jagr_68
12/04/18 12:46:27 PM
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treewojima
12/04/18 12:56:38 PM
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yeah
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Ryuko_Chan
12/04/18 1:31:03 PM
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Hairy-man posted...
Ryuko_Chan posted...
Im depressed because I have too much money.

But no, I wont give up my money.


So now youre going to give ridiculous comparisons? Again, if you dont get it, thats fine. But now youre just bein silly

its not a ridiculous comparison when youre complaining about getting to do something positive but continuing to do it
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The Beginning
12/04/18 1:32:07 PM
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You know what's worse? Sex with someone you've fallen out of love with/lie to yourself that you love.
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MonkeySee
12/04/18 2:20:27 PM
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Sex in general is depressing. That's why I live the celibate life.
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Dyinglegacy
12/04/18 2:22:16 PM
#30:


Hairy-man posted...
Ryuko_Chan posted...
lame brag topic

if it really did suck you wouldnt do it


Not true at all. You feel in the mood, so you do it. Then you get depressed after. Then you get in the mood again. Its a circle.

Not hard logic there boy


I do things things constantly that I don't like doing. It's part of the human condition.

Humans are illogical and irrational, at times.
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rikasa
12/04/18 2:26:37 PM
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Sex in general is a pretty boring hobby. Spending your time on bad sex is a waste and maybe a sign that you have an addiction or need something else to focus on. You could instead have multiple hobbies or interests and cut down on the time you spend courting strangers.

Well, if you're just saying your hormones won't let you do anything else then lol, sorry I guess
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vocedelmorte
12/04/18 2:28:17 PM
#32:


Not really. Maybe you shouldn't seek meaning in sex
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OpShaft
12/04/18 2:28:18 PM
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I guess.

But sex is never meaningless to me. Even randos fulfill a purpose.
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Carlbertomfg
12/04/18 2:29:18 PM
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Is meaningless sex the kinda sex you have where both parties understand that there will be no climax?
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MakoReizei
12/04/18 2:30:40 PM
#35:


Hairy-man posted...
Ryuko_Chan posted...
lame brag topic

if it really did suck you wouldnt do it


Not true at all. You feel in the mood, so you do it. Then you get depressed after. Then you get in the mood again. Its a circle.

Not hard logic there boy

sounds more like masturbating. At least with sex you're not alone.
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Romulox28
12/04/18 3:00:44 PM
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hollow_shrine posted...
Romulox28 posted...
i dont think people are really equipped mentally to handle casual sex, even though we all think we want it

That said, there are people who are just fine with it, or who compartmentalize their romantic lives from their sexual lives. I don't know of many married gay male couples, but those I do know regularly sleep around or engage is some kind of group sex, with the caveat that they're completely honest about it. So it's like their romantic and sexual lives run parallel to one another. It's fine that the sex is meaningless, because the meaning is derived elsewhere.

idk about the dynamics in homosexual relationships. but overall i think there is this weird mental gymnastics we go through when it comes to sex. we believe it is intimate and a powerful act of love, yet simultaneously also believe it's just some casual thing you can do with people to get off.

the problem is that i think a lot of people either dont really believe one of those two or they have trouble switching between the two, because at the end of the day this is biology and you really cant fuck with that
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Hairy-man
12/04/18 4:34:39 PM
#37:


Ryuko_Chan posted...
Hairy-man posted...
Ryuko_Chan posted...
Im depressed because I have too much money.

But no, I wont give up my money.


So now youre going to give ridiculous comparisons? Again, if you dont get it, thats fine. But now youre just bein silly

its not a ridiculous comparison when youre complaining about getting to do something positive but continuing to do it


Sure.

Carlbertomfg posted...
Is meaningless sex the kinda sex you have where both parties understand that there will be no climax?


This makes sense. But probably would be nearly as shitty as climaxing
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